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You say that you asked some about their home lives and why they feel the way they do. Could you tell us a bit about what home life these guys had, and their apparent reasons for feeling the way they do? (387)

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What are the few wild things you saw? (136)

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How did they take it when you admitted to being a woman? (178)

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Have you never been to a women's space online? Like pretty much every large gendered space features plenty of this and women's subreddits are no exception.There are even femcels and their own equivalent of MGTOW. (6)

I agree that both genders are capable of this behavior and behave and feel these ways. However, men are the ones doing it enough and with enough power to create the terms for themselves that we all know. Women aren't lining up to hate-frick or otherwise unconscious men or coworkers. Women are not the majority of people setting people on fire in public. Men by majority have the Groomercords, the known terms and spaces, and the power and urge to turn their thoughts into physical violence that costs more women their lives than the reverse demographic. I do not believe for a second that the two are equal in their readiness to travel down the absolute hatred pipeline. Women by and large are taught societally to harm/reframe/control themselves to protect or dictate others' feelings/community and men are taught to harm/reframe/control others to protect or contro their own feelings and individual community, whatever "community" might be to both of them.So I think everyone has trauma, but women h... (2)

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This is valid. I agree actually; some men will act like buttholes for those reasons. And after rereading my original comment, I think I came off a little too strongly on the "men can't be irrationally sexist" opinion. However, the comment I replied to by the op said that incels who were specifically abused by women were at fault for not processing the trauma correctly. There is some truth to that statement; the fact that they're women is largely irrelevant compared to the fact that they're buttholes, but either way it's not their fault that the human mind is often flawed when it comes to processing trauma, making them associate that abuse with other women. It is absolutely the fault of the women and not of the men being abused, and to think otherwise is victim blaming (1)

I was abused in my own home as a child (by a male) and I agree entirely that it is on the survivor to heal. Who else will heal for them but themselves? I healed because it was my duty to. You can recognize it isn't your fault, and still understand it is your responsibility now. We have to evolve or repeat. It isn't my fault men hurt me. It is 110% THEIR fault for harming me. But, the difference between me & these incels is that… I recognize my abuser could've, by chance, been a woman, or I could been born male, had I been dealt a different hand… but it would still be my responsibility to heal. Again, who else's could it be?I also had to realize that it wasn't MEN who hurt me. It was that the people who hurt me were male. I was caging myself in a prison. I made every man a potential enemy. It was harming me more to believe 50% of people were abusive (or wanted to be abusive), than it would harm me to just fricking heal and accept that my abusers could've been male, female, black, whit... (2)

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I'm sorry but "choosing the bear" is not comparable to saying it's okay to r*pe kids. Glad you haven't been in enough incel spaces to hear that though. (9)

That's true, but I don't believe that happens naturally through someone being a bloke. I think it's a bit of a vicious cycle, obviously maintained by a patriarchal society, where extreme misogynists have disallowed young people from being able to express their hurt healthily like women can. When a woman is hurt and says I hate men, normal women can say That's okay, I understand. Let's have time for us to help you. They can work through the emotion of it. But due to these incel extremist types, if I or many normal men hear "I'm hurt and I hate women" it's too dangerous to just let them feel it and care for them through the resentments.. who knows if they're one of them nutters already or not? However, the hyper misogynist incels will take them in and actually build upon the hate instead of helping work through it. They normalise violence and murderous hate instead. It's almost funny, but not really, how if those who are so angry that men can't express those feelings just pissed off w... (10)

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I'm really tired but I can't sleep, how is that even possible

Because sometimes you'll have to contact tech support. And they'll refer to you by your stated name. And you'll have to sign off your emails with your stated name. And in my case those emails are sent from a gmail account that proudly shows my real, actual name.

I'm just happy that I had the restraint to avoid naming myself Nate Higgers or the like.

The name I signed up with came from this meme which randomly popped in my mind when registering

https://old.reddit.com/r/rpghorrorstories/comments/1h5c1lv/why_is_everything_woke/

https://old.reddit.com/r/TrenchCrusade/comments/1hhduh9/what_hot_takes_about_trench_crusade_do_you_have/

https://old.reddit.com/r/TrenchCrusade/comments/1czskbd/the_game_is_barely_out_wtf_do_these_people_dont/

https://old.reddit.com/r/Gamingcirclejerk/comments/1cu7fwy/trench_crusade_the_new_front_of_the_culture_war/

https://old.reddit.com/r/TrenchCrusade/comments/1d180jg/an_extensive_review_of_the_problems_of/

https://old.reddit.com/r/TrenchCrusade/comments/1h57gyi/trench_crusade_comment_sections_reviving_a_3000/

https://old.reddit.com/r/HorusGalaxy/comments/1i0zpie/is_trench_crusade_good/

https://old.reddit.com/r/Grimdank/comments/1gizdcv/more_trench_crusade_to_distract_from_the_drama/

https://old.reddit.com/r/TrenchCrusade/comments/1gfg65m/another_huge_l_for_the_trench_crusade_haters/

https://old.reddit.com/r/Grimdank/comments/1gqqb01/embrace_the_derp_brothers/

https://old.reddit.com/r/Gamingcirclejerk/comments/1ct7lwi/were_we_misled_it_never_ends_trench_crusade/

https://edition.cnn.com/2025/01/22/us/antioch-high-school-shooting-nashville

Powell, believing that he no longer faced execution due to double jeopardy, then wrote an abusive letter to the prosecutor and admitted that he attempted to r*pe Stacie and boasted about his crimes in detail, among several other taunting or threatening letters he sent to the victims' family. The letter to the prosecutor read, in part: "Since I have already been indicted on first degree murder and the Va. Supreme Court said that I can't be charged with capital murder again, I figured I would tell you the rest of what happened on Jan. 29, 1999 to show you how stupid all of y'all . . . are". He detailed how he told Stacie she could "do it the easy way or the hard way" and how she continued to resist him. He then stabbed her and stomped on her neck until she stopped breathing. "I guess I forgot to mention these events when I was being questioned. Ha Ha! ... Do you just hate yourself for being so stupid and for frickin' up and saving me?"

In fact, the principle of double jeopardy did not apply, since although his capital murder verdict had been vacated, he had not been acquitted of the criminal charge and was still eligible to be retried for first degree murder. Using the letter that Powell wrote, prosecutors indicted Powell again for the attempted r*pe and murder of Stacie Reed. Powell was once again convicted and was sentenced to death.

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Until they take them out and they have flaps hanging around lol (42)

I agree that they look bad without the earring in but I have 1 inch gauges and the way they look without anything hasn't affected me at all I only take them out at the shower so it's not really an issue (3)

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I've dated 2 girls with them and they both had an odor. You have to take them out and clean them daily and most don't. At least in my anecdotal experience. So, I don't like them and definitely don't feel they add any points looks wise. (100)

My ears are stretched to 1 inch and I literally never had that issue. I just take them out everytime I shower clean them and put them back in. Literally takes 2 mins (-7)

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I'm mid 20s and I think they look like shit too. Not a boomer take by any means. (10)

Lmfao it is most definitely a boomer take. (-6)

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As someone with stretched ears (3/4 of an inch, so not huge but not tiny), the smell is entirely dependent on hygiene. I pull out my jewelry every day, clean my jewelry by hand, clean myself in the shower, and use an oil on my ears before putting my jewelry back in. By the time I'm pulling out my jewelry the next day, I never smell anythingSomeone who just wears their jewelry without removing and washing it daily will end up with that smell (anything worn continuously without washing and removing it will smell). It's like anything else that could end up smelly on a person, it's entirely dependent on their hygiene and how often they actually clean that areaEdited to add: i do respect people's opinion about not liking them in general on people, i just get annoyed when people just assume everyone with stretched ears must smell bad lol (69)

Exactly, I've worn them on and off since about 2013 but it all depends on the person, their hygiene habits, and to some extent the size. I've only gone up to 00g but times when I didn't clean my ears for 1-2 days I'd notice it would start to have a slight dead skin smell to them. Granted, not a heavy one but slight, which tells me if I didn't have the natural cleaning habits I did I would've definitely stunk.The craziest part of all this is how people act like we should just take them out and never wear them again t since the majority of the population don't like them. Albeit everyone can have their opinion but it's crazy how much people hate them and hate us for not agreeing with them LOL (1)

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I'm saying I've had them for 14 years and have never had an issue. I also know people who have had them for longer and also have had no issue.It's like saying you're more likely to drown in your bathroom than your living room. (2)

I live in tornado alley and have never even seen a tornado, that doesn't mean they aren't more likely here than pretty much every where else on the planet.Would you agree that a hobby of cliff jumping is more likely to lead to a broken bone than stamp collecting? Does that mean everyone who cliff jumps has a broken bone?Also, a person is WAY more likely to drown in their bathroom than living room. Approximately 90 children drown in their own bathtubs annually just in the US, 0 drown in showers. Does that mean that bathtubs are incredibly dangerous? No, of course not…but tell that to the 90 people who have a child drown every year. (-1)

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Yea i figured hahaAnd no i dont plan on getting tattoos on my face or neck. I do have a lot on hands and fingers tho but they are very minimal and i have a lot more noticeable ones on my arms anyways. I do have one behind my ear but i doubt noone will ever care, same with my lower chest, back and body ones. Tbh i think my 1 inch earlobes or my arm tattoos will prob be the deciding factor for a job but i doubt theyll be a problem nowadays. At worst ill just have to not wear my hair up all the time and switch to solid earrings instead of the ones with the hole. But im only 17 now so i guess we'll just see. Im sure things will have change a lot by the time i get a serious job anyway so im not worried at all. I can look very professional and feminine with them anyway as long as i dont have facial piercings and tattoos (1)

I saw that you were 17 and that's why I made the suggestions, lol. I'm going to do the old person thing and I say that I thought the exact same way when I had my cheeks pierced lmfao. Those had to go when I got a job. Where I am at now, doesn't care at all but it took several jobs during my career to get to this point. I make six figures because of those early jobs after getting my degree, they were stepping stones to where I am now. And unfortunately, it seems like the lower the pay the more oppressive the rules about dress code are. The only time I was ever reprimanded for dress code was when I was making $12/hour and it was my boss's fault I didn't have any nice clothes (long story lol.) So I advise caution. It's a horrible feeling to be rejected for being who you are. Choose your career carefully so you can find your people. The folks in this sub would have you believe it's rare... I promise you it's not but it's also not the default either. (1)

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I was driving past the local college the other day and got a flat tire

(During the process of changing my tire 8 other ppl pulled into the same gas station, also with flat tires - I suspect some local student planted a spike strip)

I'm procrastinating on getting a new tire

I attempted to access my backup car but the battery is dead

I jumped it with my primary car but it keeps dying so I have to jump it every time I go somewhere

I have a battery jumper in the trunk of my backup car which would make the process much easier but I can't get into the trunk because my key doesn't work on it anymore (the key filed itself down over time with use I think)

I also have a backup battery jumper but it is also broken ()

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I remember the first time I heard this 20 years ago and it still makes me sad

https://boards.4chan.org/tv/thread/208713765#p208713765

Some dangerous nooooticing going on here , I hope our favourite jannies @kallocain-addict are keeping a tight leash on the potential hate speech!

Whenever I go out in public I am approached at least once or twice by a guy hitting on me or just complimenting me. Every single time it's a black or Latinx guy. The only times I have ever been cold approached in public by a white guy, it's been an older one, like 45+.

Curious... What requisites does rs_x believe could be the cause for this phenomenon?

I feel like it has less to do with ethnicity and more to do with class. White-collar guys don't usually approach random women on the street, that's a blue-collar guy's game.

Contradicting /u/blondbutginger 's lived experience here...

Yeah you have a point. It's not usually middle/upper class black men hitting on me, it's bums.

Here's our resident cute twink's contribution:

it's cultural, latinx culture for example is generally much more s*x positive meanwhile contemporary mainstream white culture doesn't reward that kind of behavior (on the contrary, you are more likely to be chastised or even punished for it)

You yt prudes are just too neurotic and inhibited!! Punishing any sort of free sexual expression!! The browns and blacks sensibly revel in their lower inhibit --- ACK

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Y'all can't behave.

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I don't know if anyone was familiar with this story but it just popped up in my feed and it's Fing hysterical lol! Haven't seen sneed like this in a while.

First link:

https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=786287523062137

1. "why didn't her wife impregnate her... oh wait..." "I don't get it..."

2. "all those celeb friends and one wasn't willing to skeet in her?"

3. "and y'all wonder why they chose a white donor... y'all are hateful as F"

4. "why is Judy missing a nail..."

Second link:

https://instagram.com/balleralert/p/Crv-6niS3BC/

1. "why not ask some male strags to procreate with you to keep stragdom going?"

2. No idea what this girl is saying but it seems funny

3. "disease-ridden whyte men want to pollute the world with abomination mixed babies to wipe out the indigenous black pipo!"

Third link:

https://www.lipstickalley.com/threads/da-brat-reveals-she-wife-judy-chose-a-white-donor-because-the-only-black-donor-%E2%80%9Clooked-like-jiminy-cricket%E2%80%9D.5247130/

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Easily fixed by raising the minimum salary significantly and adding a yearly cost for maintaining the H1B, making it materially more expensive to hire from overseas than domestically.

I’ve been very clear that the program is broken and needs major reform.

— Elon Musk (@elonmusk) December 29, 2024

Iv'e been vrey claer that the program is broken and needs mjaor reform.

what happened to going to war oevr tihs issue?

There's robots and shit bro. It's fricking 2025!!! There's literally AI bro! Frick! We are so fricked!