A feminist made a thread on /r/TrueOffMyChest suggesting that men can get abused in a relationship, in the same way that a woman can be:

https://np.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/dnsj09/to_my_male_friends/

Some excerpts from the thread:

She has NO RIGHT to hit you under ANY CIRCUMSTANCE! It doesn’t matter if you were “looking at other girls” or whatever bullshit excuse.

And

There are women who lie about domestic violence and sexual assault. You have every right to defend yourself from such life-ruining slander. I hate that the feminist movement skips over this one. It’s uncomfortable to think about, and it doesn’t happen as much as people make it out to be. But it DOES happen, and to the victims of that, your experiences are valid.

And

We are all about equality for women, which should mean recognizing the equality in a woman’s ability to be an abuser. They are not exempt from this. You can be victims too.

In response to this, OP was harassed by /r/OffMyChest mods (unknown which ones in particular), and ended up apologizing for their stance and deleting their account.

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/dnsj09/to_my_male_friends/f5g7nhs/

Much confusion and anger in the comments as to what the fuck is going on, including many people realizing they've been banned from /r/offmychest without even knowing why.

And for a little bonus, here's a similar /r/OffMyChest thread, nuked to oblivion:

https://np.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/dnv5rl/men_can_be_assaulted_too/