Note: All pictures in this post are SFW, in the sense that I avoided explicit drawings; the text is still obviously NSFW. For a book like this, that's like recommending Lord of the Rings while skipping any time the Hobbits are mentioned. So know you're not getting even 10% of what the book is. I just want to make you curious.

Fucking Trans Women

I highly recommend this little book by author Mira Bellwether, recommended in PhilosophyTube's latest video. Even if you don't fuck trans women for whatever circumstancial reason (for me, it's never happened and I'm in a monogamous relationship), it's a really nice and short book to learn more about non-normative sexuality in a fun way. It's actually the issue #0 of a fanzine, but it has like 80 pages of drawings with text on top of them. It has been answering questions I hadn't even formulated, and it's all done with a radically practical intention. It doesn't drag on discussing the usage of the word "fuck" or if it's okay to call certain genitalia "penises" or if they should be called something else; it does acknowledge those discussions, but the goal is something else (SFW):

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It truly has a beautiful "made with glue stick and a photocopy machine" look that I love, and the info is solid. Some topics it discusses:

Basic facts about penises and their nerve stimuly (for those bIoLogICalY obsessed)

How to relate sexually with a flaccid penis, and why they're great too

Tucking

How to better communicate with your partner

Peculiarities of the author being a woman that produces jizz, and how to deal with that (and off the side, why she's tired of talking about it)

But the best part of it, IMO, is that it so graciously balances all the stuff it needed to balance to make this kind of book. It is kind of a cookbook, as the author calls it, but it also has humor, advice, and very thoughtful and wholesome ruminations of the subjects it discusses. I doubted if I should make that bullet-list of talking points because it risks making a bad impression. The book is an act of meditation in fragments. The topics open the door to think about sex in general in a different light, specially if you have a normative body and the experience just hadn't be a regular part of how you think sex.

Plus, the section headers look like if someone took a snap of a Contrapoints video:

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If you'd like to have it on paper, I think this link is for that:

https://www.amazon.com/Fucking-Trans-Women-FTW-1/dp/1492128937

Although if you're dirt poor or if you live in the other side of the world, you can get it like I did, from a certain russian library that definitely does not have Terminator Genesis on it's stock (don't know if it'd be illegal to link it to you? Anyway, PM me...) But it'd be really, really awesome if you can support the author, she made an excelent book, and I don't think ten dollars is asking so much, is it?

Anyway, here are some more excerpts. I tried really hard to make them SFW (as in, no explicit drawings), so we're probably getting the least spicy parts. Also the more sex-normative parts. So if you want more, you know what to do.

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