One of the old mod/owners just suddenly came back and closed the sub and kicked all of our mods. I was one of the acting Lead Moderators. They sabotaged it basically. I am hoping to get control and bring it back. Thanks.
no they didnt pay me, I was an acting lead mod though. My stance was to focus on exposing hate and not focusing on just incels. Because not all incels were hateful. The sub was becoming toxic to be honest.
You spent a great deal of time cleaning up a niche forum on the internet, deleting thousands of posts you felt weren’t up to the standards of the forum, yes? And you did this job all without any financial compensation? Very interesting.
Ya i did. I am a reasonable person. I wanted to help expose hateful stuff. But Inceltears focused so much on people who identified as incel. It was overdue that the sub got nuked to be honest. I worked with what i had.
What does this even mean? Most of it was just screenshots of the worst anonymous incels, and even then it was often fake, satire or copypastas.
Just like many other similar subreddits (/r/insanepeoplefacebook, /r/facepalm, etc.) it's just a circlejerk of seeth- and laughfuel against your puppeteered enemies and coping that you're at least "one of the good guys."
If it had any effect on the reasonability of people it was probably a negative one.
Even if its satire or something its still content. Honestly i dont know what you are mad about. This rebranding is a good thing. Dont you want to laugh at hateful shit and expose people for being jerks?
I don't care what makes you feel good, just don't pretend you're holding some kind of high ground or that you're doing people a service. "Helping to expose hatefull stuff", jeez.
Dont you want to laugh at hateful shit and expose people for being jerks?
Eh, gets boring really fast and while I'm always in for some drama, there's little exposing happening when the evil of the world are people like iHateWomen69 - account created 3hrs ago.
I did once see a clear picture of a guy being exposed for incelposting, but that was a doxxing troll attaching a pic of Masterlawlz to an incel copypasta. And then BrazilianSigma refused to take it down because it was a popular post. Yeah, great subreddit. (alphaussie ended up deleting it after a few hours)
Yeah, that was infuriating. I personally reported that several hours before it was taken down so I know that they made an intentional decision to keep it up.
Man, I went full simp mode for that nerd! Reported it, messaged BrSi (kept posting while ignoring me), made different comments in the topic (of course the "this is an incel false flag" narrative got the most traction), and then found another IT mod online, who by coincidence responded to that old drama thread (alt-acc).
Then a week later I got banned from /r/drama for posting in a linked thread. 🥶 Guess I learned what the simp life is like.
"Hmm, someone pointed out that this post is edited and is basically doxxing, now I could just delete the post and do my job (which pays $0.00). Just kidding, that's gay and stupid, I'll just keep it up because muh internet points."
Man, everytime I hear about BrazilianSigma, he sounds even worse than incels. Now he's become one of my favorite lolcows even more.
So whats the issue i dont get it? We arent allowed to do this or something? I dont consider myself a hero i just like looking at the dumb shit people post online.
Nah, I was just seething at that run-of-the-mill we're exposing hate tag line. And at your deflecting. Feel free to do whatever you want, I was only interested in how an IT mod saw things. Didn't learn shit. 😤
I was always against the blanket incel hate. And I banned many people who bullied any people identifying incels. so i dont know what point you are still trying to make. Calling me names and shit with your internet bully friends. Pretty childish.
You ran a sub against incels and some troll posted a guy who wasn't even an incel and I reported it and made numerous comments and you assholes kept it up just for the lolz. No, you are not allowed to do that. Seriously you've got a personality disorder or something if you don't realize how fucked-up that was.
Not even joking, I can't tell what the difference between the official incels and your kind of incel is. The behavior is that similar.
Dont you want to laugh at hateful shit and expose people for being jerks?
Either be a jerk, or be a fucking white knight crusader who's actually trying to make a positive change in the world.
Laughing at mentally ill people is not a nice thing. Don't pretend your sub is good just because it's laughing at "bad" mentally ill people, you're causing radicalisation and worse you're derailing any possible efforts to address the incel problem in a more productive manner.
Mentally illness isnt an excuse to be an asshole. I have mental issues. I dont see your point. We arent whiteknights. Its a soundboard the new sub has no association with Inceltears other than we brought over hand picked mods that believe in equality for everyone and like calling out shitheads.
Let's pick something you're not so obsessed with. Drug addicts. They're generally shitty people, and while their mental illness is not an excuse, it's certainly a contributing factor, and just mocking junkies probably won't help them get better.
I have mental issues. I dont see your point.
So would mocking you make you less of a jerk?
We arent whiteknights.
As long as you're really clear about that. I just think that maybe some of your board members tell themselves that they're actually doing a good thing by somehow "fighting" the incel menace (guess what, you're just fanning the flames).
Its a soundboard the new sub has no association with Inceltears other than we brought over hand picked mods that believe in equality for everyone and like calling out shitheads.
So you are 'white knights' who think you're doing something good, not just shit-stirring.
This is so embarrassing. If you just said "incels are retarded and it's funny to laugh at them" that'd be fine but pretending like you're doing important work "exposing hate" is one of the faggiest reasons you could give. Get a real job.
Just cringing at an internet janitor who unironically did it for free to "expose hate." Any aggressive tone should be seen as a father figure telling his failson to get his shit together.
Son your mother has been crying at home all day about her little boy not having a real job. She got her hopes up when she heard you got a janitorial position but that turned out to be cleaning some incel forum on reddit which I found out pays $00,000 a year. We love you just please find some way to support yourself your mother and I will not be here forever.
Son you can't keep living off our retirement funds and welfare forever. Listen I've talked to shift manager at the local McDonald's and she says she has a part time position position cleaning up Big Mac shits off the bathroom floors. It's honest work you can live as a semi-independent man.
Ya i did. I am a reasonable person. I wanted to help expose hateful stuff. But Inceltears focused so much on people who identified as incel.
Every joke has a victim. You can't have humor without victimising people (if you disagree, please feel free to tell me any single joke without a victim, even puns have victims - everyone within earshot). Jokes are funny because they are mean at some level (either fake-mean or actually mean).
You can't be fake-mean to people who don't like. You just end up bullying, dehumanising, and generally being a jerk.
I'm OK with this in some cases. But was it in any way unexpected that your sub became a hateful cesspit?
It sounds to me like you are making excuses to be an asshole and not be criticized for it. Why cant i call out a jerk for being a jerk and laugh at that? People are shitty they deserve to be in the spotlight. And IncelTears was never "my sub" i just happened to be a mod that took over and tried to change things. I dont get what you want from me?
Why cant i call out a jerk for being a jerk and laugh at that?
I'm not talking about what you can or can't do. I'm not even really talking about what's right or wrong. I'm trying to figure out what your goal is, and how your actions will help achieve that goal.
/r/IncelExit/ is probably something that's more useful.
The fundamental problem is, it's not really ever going to be accepted by feminists. You simply can't tell guys how to approach women without pissing off feminists.
Sexual aggression (being a little rapey) and sexual assertion (being good at getting laid) and being an ineffectual nice guy / incel is a continuum. The line is where you think behaviour is "OK". But since the line is kinda arbitrary (someone is always going to feel that a guy being "assertive" is actually harassing) then you will either rely on men being mind-readers (which takes experience) or you have to be OK with a few women being harassed.
Actually, fuckit, we know what the details will show.
Either you weren't really being good (you started acting like TRP people brag about acting, but maybe a bit less of a jackass - you might have called it "flirting" not "negging") or you were lucky (she desperately wanted to jump on your cock despite your best efforts to stop her - see https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelExit/comments/fyr43r/i_married_an_incel_ama/)
You probably have some unrelated qualities (tall? not hideous?). Or were just really lucky (incels don't realise that while being short might make 10x less women interested, if you're trying 2x as hard for 5x as long you'll eventually do ok.
Why not just be genuinely good person? Has worked for me.
I'm not just gonna scream "cuck" at you like an incel. But I don't think that "just being a genuinely good person" is really a massive selling point in the dating market. In fact, I don't think women or men actually give a shit about whether someone is a good person until maybe 6 months into a relationship.
I thought the same too, but to be honest, one of the mods there also mods /r/trufemcels. It was never about incels, it was about how they hated men. So obviously something was up from the get-go.
"Becoming toxic." That's awful easy to say now that your subreddit is gone. I, and others, have been saying that for years, but zero effort on the part of IncelTears was made to correct this. It's a cold comfort for you to only just now be like "Gee, maybe we were a little rough."
My suggestion for your new sub: r/IncelTearsWithoutHate. If you're serious about how ass your subreddit was.
I already created a new one./r/IdiotTears to focus on the hateful bigoted behavior instead of a group or people. And I didnt have full control over the nuked sub i was simply and acting mod. I did what i could as i said. I banned countless people who were hateful even towards incels. I didnt like the fact it was focused on them ever.
Okay, but if you're acting mod, how is it that you're so powerless? I mean, a sticky post or something laying out the standards, anything would've been nice. If I was acting mod, I wouldn't just mod what bad apples I could find, I would make a statement so that people were clear on where the subreddit stood, and that anyone who wanted a sub for bashing the mentally ill should leave immediately. Because that's what IncelTears became, and that's what IncelTears remained. The prevailing opinion over there? They didn't give a damn about the lonely. They wanted a bad guy to laugh at. And that's what needed to be addressed.
Is it true what they say about BrazilianSigma? How modship made him too powerful for his own good, and he was a primary driver of the subreddit's failings?
R/IncelsWithoutHate it hasn't been banned because the mods there are very strict about what incels can post. They aren't allowed to blame women for their virginity in anyway or form, so that makes them safe from reddit admins.
Plus it has been around before the time r/braincels got quareentined if I remember correctly
I posted r/IncelTearsWithoutHate though. I'm calling for IncelTears, but without all of the hate that IncelTears was famous for and sought out for by people who like to laugh at sad and lonely people.
Also that sub was probably another incel sub, incels have been making lots of different subs ever since the first one and mother one was threatened with being banned. Plus I doubt IncelTears will get another revival Brazilian Sigma a popular User on IT just got banned from reddit. A large portion of IT users were misandrists, and will probably feel oppresed that their freedom of hating men is being suppressed by reddit
That faggot banned me and my throwaway for telling him to get a job. Tell me, was he as obsessive about moderating the sub as he was about posting to it? Also, was he financially compensated for all of his hard work? I mean, reddit must have given him something for working so hard on their behalf.
I genuinely don’t understand why people volcel? Don’t you want to share your life with another person? Don’t you want to have sex? I feel like at the base of all motivations and efforts is making my gf happy. If we breakup I want to be positioned to find someone else. Do you reject the entire incel SMV ideology completely. I was sometimes honestly astonished at some of the principles all Inceltears users agree upon. It’s way more foreign to most normal people than the stuff incels generally agree upon
Because you dont know me or what ive been through? I have had several long term relationships. My step daughter died. Became a raging suicidal drunk. I have depression and dont like being around people. I just stay in my apartment and shut people out. I tried dating again but just dont care enough anymore dealing with my shit alone. As for sex there is always porn but that gets boring. Yes i miss being with someone i love and loves me back but honestly I would be a terrible boyfriend right now. I did have a couple FWBs but it got weird and I decided I wanted to just be fucking alone.
There you go thats my life story. Have fun with it.
That’s rough man, sorry about that. I edited my comment with more questions but you don’t have to answer them. You already mentioned that you focused on the most hateful of incels but do you have thoughts on the incel ideaaology in terms of hypergamy and women being choosier than men?
I think men and women can both be just as brutal. I have seen it from both sides. I added to my previous comment regarding your edits. And I came to realize a long time ago people who are incel or identify as such are not all bad shitty sexist people. So there are things I dont agree with that inceltears stood for...like the blanket focus on them and the subs name.
Endless snark and smugposting when they have mod privileges and a community to back them up, double standards when it comes to enforcing mod rules or even their own convictions.
Once all this goes away or they find themselves outside their echo chamber and they suddenly see themselves on the other side of the downvoting, endless snark and trolling brigade, they post their life story which of course is a series of tragic events that makes others feel sorry about them.
I genuinely hope things get better for you but I have literally seen this scenario play out so many times that I couldn't help but notice. Good luck with your new community
My step daughter died. Became a raging suicidal drunk. I have depression and dont like being around people. I just stay in my apartment and shut people out.
I get it. I really do. But one thing I've never done when on a suicidal bender is dox some random guy and call him an incel because I thought it would be funny. And if I did do that, I would feel really bad about it and own up to it. You pretending like this event never happened or wasn't a big deal makes it very difficult for me to have any sympathy for you.
Thank you for sharing. No one cares about your dead stepdaughter (imagine raising someone elses daughter btw, ultimate cuckoldry), but it's nice to get some insight into what makes jannies the way that they are
Doing that and then deleting his account was a stupid move. Sub creators have done things like it in the past and the admins have stepped in to reinstate the mod team. He should have just made it private and left it at that in order to shut it down.
The amount of money BrazilianSigma makes daily: $0.00
Yearly salary: $0.00
I'm sure he'll bounce back on a new anti-incel subreddit where he'll blame Fight Club or Doom Eternal for the demise of his favorite subreddit. Maybe even find a bombing in the news and say "See, Final Fantasy VII causes terrorism."
Wait, does he really blame FF7 for terrorism? Does he realize that Shinra is actually a corrupt government, and Cloud is literally antifa?
I thought IT soyboys would support FF7, but then again, it does have Tifa, and soyboys don't like any game where the main love interest isn't a gigantic landwhale with an unbearable personality.
Uhh, no. That was in reference to a post he made about some bombing in Brazil, with a title that said something along the lines of "This is what happened when Fight Club was released in Brazil." All the commentors sperged about how they hated that movie. The Wikipedia link also mentioned the attacker played Duke Nukem 3D and Quake, so I knew something was up.
I saw it cross-posted to /r/neckbeard, by some IT douche, so I tagged BrazilianSigma in that thread to ask him if he really believes that any violent media truly causes violence in real life. That was months ago, I'm still waiting for a response.
I wouldn't put it past them to hate on FF7 for stupid reasons, it has everything that makes it progressive, but it's Japanese, and Japanese anything is bad according to anti-incels, so they're gonna say "MuH ToXiC MaScUlInItY" and find other reasons to hate on the game.
Fun Fact: I even heard the users saying that one day Polyamory will be mainstream...no it ain't dude, no it ain't. Look, I may be single right now, and I know it's cool to have a girlfriend and all, but if all my options were girls with 9 different BFs or some STD-magnet, I think I'll start living a coomer lifestyle.
Oh, I saw that thread, the OP was getting downvoted, even being dunked on by incels. That was super embarrassing.
Fun Fact: I even heard the users saying that one day Polyamory will be mainstream
HAHAHAHAHA of course they're supportive of polyamory, aka cuckolding with extra steps. You should visit /r/polyamory, these dorks are so convinced that they're gonna be mainstream.
A "unicorn" is a beautiful (of course!), single polyamorous woman willing to be sexually and romantically involved equallywith both members of a couple in a closed relationship. The unicorn is expected to be with both of them, and will not be allowed to have any other partners.
This is one of the most sought-after arrangements when a couple new to polyamory looks to open their relationship. Couples usually discover such a woman is almost impossible to find. This Web site explains why.
I think I can answer: Most bisexual women aren't polyamorous, it's not hard to figure out. My girlfriend is bisexual, and we still don't have hawt threesomes with a bajillion chicks each night. I can't believe they're reinforcing that tired stereotype.
Well, that monetary compensation is not very impressive. But I'm sure the benefits make up for it, right? I assume reddit dot com provides them with a great 401k!
Being unhealthily obsessed with someone, lolcow or otherwise. Came from someone named a-log, who was super obsessed with Chris Chan to the point he would get angry easily, even wishing death on him.
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5 boyoyoyoyong 2020-04-10
Did they finally realize they were just an incel cope sub
5 Angrygrape1337Reborn 2020-04-10
You give them too much credit.
2 Furweeb 2020-04-10
A male-feminist and a white knight cope sub
4 WreckingYourHome 2020-04-10
The drama is here.
4 TheSomaCruz 2020-04-10
/u/BrazilianSigma needs to get a job already, my McDonald's fries aren't gonna cook themselves, now are they?
5 BruhMoment149 2020-04-10
Holy shit his whole account is gone. Dude lived for that sub
3 Sp0k3 2020-04-10
All that hard work, never paid and never to be seen again. 😥
2 TheSomaCruz 2020-04-10
F
1 Dysiak 2020-04-10
Look at thier comments. Holy shit.
Only one comment shows up. The rest of the karma was from fucking IncelTears.
2 Rosey9898 2020-04-10
u/SoloTheFord How much did they pay you to mod that sub? 🤔
5 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
no they didnt pay me, I was an acting lead mod though. My stance was to focus on exposing hate and not focusing on just incels. Because not all incels were hateful. The sub was becoming toxic to be honest.
8 throwawayaccount_34 2020-04-10
Wait so let me get this straight:
You spent a great deal of time cleaning up a niche forum on the internet, deleting thousands of posts you felt weren’t up to the standards of the forum, yes? And you did this job all without any financial compensation? Very interesting.
7 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
Ya i did. I am a reasonable person. I wanted to help expose hateful stuff. But Inceltears focused so much on people who identified as incel. It was overdue that the sub got nuked to be honest. I worked with what i had.
9 WreckingYourHome 2020-04-10
What does this even mean? Most of it was just screenshots of the worst anonymous incels, and even then it was often fake, satire or copypastas.
Just like many other similar subreddits (/r/insanepeoplefacebook, /r/facepalm, etc.) it's just a circlejerk of seeth- and laughfuel against your puppeteered enemies and coping that you're at least "one of the good guys."
If it had any effect on the reasonability of people it was probably a negative one.
3 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
Even if its satire or something its still content. Honestly i dont know what you are mad about. This rebranding is a good thing. Dont you want to laugh at hateful shit and expose people for being jerks?
6 Angrygrape1337Reborn 2020-04-10
Satire is not legitimate content, you just admitted you fell for weak bait.
Congratulations.
3 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
Thats your opinion. Go make a subreddit and make it a rule to ban satire.
6 katzen_kratzen 2020-04-10
why would somebody want to create a subreddit and then moderate it for $0.00?
2 Angrygrape1337Reborn 2020-04-10
I wish I had the time to mod a sub, but real life exists, so...
3 WreckingYourHome 2020-04-10
I don't care what makes you feel good, just don't pretend you're holding some kind of high ground or that you're doing people a service. "Helping to expose hatefull stuff", jeez.
Eh, gets boring really fast and while I'm always in for some drama, there's little exposing happening when the evil of the world are people like iHateWomen69 - account created 3hrs ago.
I did once see a clear picture of a guy being exposed for incelposting, but that was a doxxing troll attaching a pic of Masterlawlz to an incel copypasta. And then BrazilianSigma refused to take it down because it was a popular post. Yeah, great subreddit. (alphaussie ended up deleting it after a few hours)
2 Redactor0 2020-04-10
Yeah, that was infuriating. I personally reported that several hours before it was taken down so I know that they made an intentional decision to keep it up.
3 WreckingYourHome 2020-04-10
Man, I went full simp mode for that nerd! Reported it, messaged BrSi (kept posting while ignoring me), made different comments in the topic (of course the "this is an incel false flag" narrative got the most traction), and then found another IT mod online, who by coincidence responded to that old drama thread (alt-acc).
Then a week later I got banned from /r/drama for posting in a linked thread. 🥶 Guess I learned what the simp life is like.
1 ClementineChime 2020-04-10
I remember that day like it was yesterday. Still warms my heart knowing how loyal the MasterLawlz Defense Force is. 🤗💕
We truly do Stan a 🤴
2 Angrygrape1337Reborn 2020-04-10
"Hmm, someone pointed out that this post is edited and is basically doxxing, now I could just delete the post and do my job (which pays $0.00). Just kidding, that's gay and stupid, I'll just keep it up because muh internet points."
Man, everytime I hear about BrazilianSigma, he sounds even worse than incels. Now he's become one of my favorite lolcows even more.
1 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
So whats the issue i dont get it? We arent allowed to do this or something? I dont consider myself a hero i just like looking at the dumb shit people post online.
2 WreckingYourHome 2020-04-10
Nah, I was just seething at that run-of-the-mill we're exposing hate tag line. And at your deflecting. Feel free to do whatever you want, I was only interested in how an IT mod saw things. Didn't learn shit. 😤
1 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
I was always against the blanket incel hate. And I banned many people who bullied any people identifying incels. so i dont know what point you are still trying to make. Calling me names and shit with your internet bully friends. Pretty childish.
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1 Redactor0 2020-04-10
You ran a sub against incels and some troll posted a guy who wasn't even an incel and I reported it and made numerous comments and you assholes kept it up just for the lolz. No, you are not allowed to do that. Seriously you've got a personality disorder or something if you don't realize how fucked-up that was.
Not even joking, I can't tell what the difference between the official incels and your kind of incel is. The behavior is that similar.
1 I_Shah 2020-04-10
I have a massive urge to see this
3 thowaway_throwaway 2020-04-10
Either be a jerk, or be a fucking white knight crusader who's actually trying to make a positive change in the world.
Laughing at mentally ill people is not a nice thing. Don't pretend your sub is good just because it's laughing at "bad" mentally ill people, you're causing radicalisation and worse you're derailing any possible efforts to address the incel problem in a more productive manner.
0 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
Mentally illness isnt an excuse to be an asshole. I have mental issues. I dont see your point. We arent whiteknights. Its a soundboard the new sub has no association with Inceltears other than we brought over hand picked mods that believe in equality for everyone and like calling out shitheads.
2 thowaway_throwaway 2020-04-10
Did I say it's an excuse?
Let's pick something you're not so obsessed with. Drug addicts. They're generally shitty people, and while their mental illness is not an excuse, it's certainly a contributing factor, and just mocking junkies probably won't help them get better.
So would mocking you make you less of a jerk?
As long as you're really clear about that. I just think that maybe some of your board members tell themselves that they're actually doing a good thing by somehow "fighting" the incel menace (guess what, you're just fanning the flames).
So you are 'white knights' who think you're doing something good, not just shit-stirring.
2 againstsinglemothers 2020-04-10
E no
2 Furweeb 2020-04-10
I miss the times when IT would screenshot rapeseed posts from r braincels
2 forseti911 2020-04-10
This is so embarrassing. If you just said "incels are retarded and it's funny to laugh at them" that'd be fine but pretending like you're doing important work "exposing hate" is one of the faggiest reasons you could give. Get a real job.
0 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
You sound mad bro.
2 forseti911 2020-04-10
Just cringing at an internet janitor who unironically did it for free to "expose hate." Any aggressive tone should be seen as a father figure telling his failson to get his shit together.
0 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
its people like you that we will feature. You'll be famous.
1 forseti911 2020-04-10
Son your mother has been crying at home all day about her little boy not having a real job. She got her hopes up when she heard you got a janitorial position but that turned out to be cleaning some incel forum on reddit which I found out pays $00,000 a year. We love you just please find some way to support yourself your mother and I will not be here forever.
0 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
I have money and dont need to work. You are just a sad lonely guy projecting.
1 forseti911 2020-04-10
Son you can't keep living off our retirement funds and welfare forever. Listen I've talked to shift manager at the local McDonald's and she says she has a part time position position cleaning up Big Mac shits off the bathroom floors. It's honest work you can live as a semi-independent man.
0 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
Lol what a guy.
1 JonTron_isnt_a_nazi 2020-04-10
Shut up Janitor
0 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
ooooo Gotcha! You got me there dawg. Really showed em. So cool.
1 thowaway_throwaway 2020-04-10
Every joke has a victim. You can't have humor without victimising people (if you disagree, please feel free to tell me any single joke without a victim, even puns have victims - everyone within earshot). Jokes are funny because they are mean at some level (either fake-mean or actually mean).
You can't be fake-mean to people who don't like. You just end up bullying, dehumanising, and generally being a jerk.
I'm OK with this in some cases. But was it in any way unexpected that your sub became a hateful cesspit?
1 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
It sounds to me like you are making excuses to be an asshole and not be criticized for it. Why cant i call out a jerk for being a jerk and laugh at that? People are shitty they deserve to be in the spotlight. And IncelTears was never "my sub" i just happened to be a mod that took over and tried to change things. I dont get what you want from me?
1 thowaway_throwaway 2020-04-10
I'm not talking about what you can or can't do. I'm not even really talking about what's right or wrong. I'm trying to figure out what your goal is, and how your actions will help achieve that goal.
1 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
its a fucking stupid subreddit a soundboard like any other subreddit. Jesus.
1 thowaway_throwaway 2020-04-10
/r/IncelExit/ is probably something that's more useful.
The fundamental problem is, it's not really ever going to be accepted by feminists. You simply can't tell guys how to approach women without pissing off feminists.
Sexual aggression (being a little rapey) and sexual assertion (being good at getting laid) and being an ineffectual nice guy / incel is a continuum. The line is where you think behaviour is "OK". But since the line is kinda arbitrary (someone is always going to feel that a guy being "assertive" is actually harassing) then you will either rely on men being mind-readers (which takes experience) or you have to be OK with a few women being harassed.
1 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
Why not just be genuinely good person? Has worked for me.
1 thowaway_throwaway 2020-04-10
Oh do go into details then.
1 thowaway_throwaway 2020-04-10
Actually, fuckit, we know what the details will show.
Either you weren't really being good (you started acting like TRP people brag about acting, but maybe a bit less of a jackass - you might have called it "flirting" not "negging") or you were lucky (she desperately wanted to jump on your cock despite your best efforts to stop her - see https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelExit/comments/fyr43r/i_married_an_incel_ama/)
You probably have some unrelated qualities (tall? not hideous?). Or were just really lucky (incels don't realise that while being short might make 10x less women interested, if you're trying 2x as hard for 5x as long you'll eventually do ok.
1 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
what are you even talking about.
1 thowaway_throwaway 2020-04-10
You said:
I'm not just gonna scream "cuck" at you like an incel. But I don't think that "just being a genuinely good person" is really a massive selling point in the dating market. In fact, I don't think women or men actually give a shit about whether someone is a good person until maybe 6 months into a relationship.
3 Jannieseatdoodoo 2020-04-10
It's been garbage since it became popular lmao
4 Furweeb 2020-04-10
It became garbage when it became popular with body positivity feminists, and literal cuckolds.
4 Angrygrape1337Reborn 2020-04-10
Actual quote from their users, complete with upvotes and replies basically agreeing with them.
3 Angrygrape1337Reborn 2020-04-10
I thought the same too, but to be honest, one of the mods there also mods /r/trufemcels. It was never about incels, it was about how they hated men. So obviously something was up from the get-go.
5 Jannieseatdoodoo 2020-04-10
😲😲😲
4 Furweeb 2020-04-10
Aka cuckolds and feminists
2 againstsinglemothers 2020-04-10
🤢
3 Furweeb 2020-04-10
Yes retard, IncelTears was a feminist satellite forum
3 Angrygrape1337Reborn 2020-04-10
It was femcel cope the entire time.
3 constantinople_2053 2020-04-10
Now, let's talk about that. For example: why?
2 ShinJoe 2020-04-10
So you're basically the George Zimmerman of reddit?
2 FrothySolutions 2020-04-10
"Becoming toxic." That's awful easy to say now that your subreddit is gone. I, and others, have been saying that for years, but zero effort on the part of IncelTears was made to correct this. It's a cold comfort for you to only just now be like "Gee, maybe we were a little rough."
My suggestion for your new sub: r/IncelTearsWithoutHate. If you're serious about how ass your subreddit was.
3 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
I already created a new one./r/IdiotTears to focus on the hateful bigoted behavior instead of a group or people. And I didnt have full control over the nuked sub i was simply and acting mod. I did what i could as i said. I banned countless people who were hateful even towards incels. I didnt like the fact it was focused on them ever.
4 Redactor0 2020-04-10
Good luck with that, but any subreddit like that seems doomed to become either a left-wing circlejerk or a right-wing circlejerk.
3 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
arent almost all subreddit circlejerks? I dont get what you are trying to prove. And why would you even care so much?
3 Redactor0 2020-04-10
Wow I take 15 seconds to give you some advice and you have to be so rude. 🙄🙄🙄
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2 Rosey9898 2020-04-10
Good luck, jannie. And may Deux be with you. 😘
2 FrothySolutions 2020-04-10
Okay, but if you're acting mod, how is it that you're so powerless? I mean, a sticky post or something laying out the standards, anything would've been nice. If I was acting mod, I wouldn't just mod what bad apples I could find, I would make a statement so that people were clear on where the subreddit stood, and that anyone who wanted a sub for bashing the mentally ill should leave immediately. Because that's what IncelTears became, and that's what IncelTears remained. The prevailing opinion over there? They didn't give a damn about the lonely. They wanted a bad guy to laugh at. And that's what needed to be addressed.
2 Furweeb 2020-04-10
So you commit your jannie services during work or are you a neet
1 forseti911 2020-04-10
He's literally jobless living off his parents funds.
1 FrothySolutions 2020-04-10
Is it true what they say about BrazilianSigma? How modship made him too powerful for his own good, and he was a primary driver of the subreddit's failings?
2 Furweeb 2020-04-10
That sub is a copy of Incels without hate of course whiteknights can never come up with original content lmao
2 FrothySolutions 2020-04-10
Wait, it's been banned. How can you see it? I didn't know it was a thing.
2 Furweeb 2020-04-10
R/IncelsWithoutHate it hasn't been banned because the mods there are very strict about what incels can post. They aren't allowed to blame women for their virginity in anyway or form, so that makes them safe from reddit admins.
Plus it has been around before the time r/braincels got quareentined if I remember correctly
1 FrothySolutions 2020-04-10
I posted r/IncelTearsWithoutHate though. I'm calling for IncelTears, but without all of the hate that IncelTears was famous for and sought out for by people who like to laugh at sad and lonely people.
2 Furweeb 2020-04-10
Also that sub was probably another incel sub, incels have been making lots of different subs ever since the first one and mother one was threatened with being banned. Plus I doubt IncelTears will get another revival Brazilian Sigma a popular User on IT just got banned from reddit. A large portion of IT users were misandrists, and will probably feel oppresed that their freedom of hating men is being suppressed by reddit
1 FrothySolutions 2020-04-10
Banned when? You mean that time a few weeks ago when he was banned because Reddit thought he was a robot? Or a second, more recent time?
2 Furweeb 2020-04-10
A second more recent time he was banned just a few hours ago
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2 Kilo_G_looked_up 2020-04-10
That faggot banned me and my throwaway for telling him to get a job. Tell me, was he as obsessive about moderating the sub as he was about posting to it? Also, was he financially compensated for all of his hard work? I mean, reddit must have given him something for working so hard on their behalf.
1 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
ya cause you are a spiteful jackass. And keep creating accounts to spam a subreddit LOL get a life.
2 Kilo_G_looked_up 2020-04-10
Answer the question nigger
1 habeshamuscle 2020-04-10
Solo, what do your sexual partners think about your job as a moderator? Are they worried you don’t have the income from that position any longer?
1 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
Im a volcel. havent dated in 3 years.
1 habeshamuscle 2020-04-10
I genuinely don’t understand why people volcel? Don’t you want to share your life with another person? Don’t you want to have sex? I feel like at the base of all motivations and efforts is making my gf happy. If we breakup I want to be positioned to find someone else. Do you reject the entire incel SMV ideology completely. I was sometimes honestly astonished at some of the principles all Inceltears users agree upon. It’s way more foreign to most normal people than the stuff incels generally agree upon
2 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
Because you dont know me or what ive been through? I have had several long term relationships. My step daughter died. Became a raging suicidal drunk. I have depression and dont like being around people. I just stay in my apartment and shut people out. I tried dating again but just dont care enough anymore dealing with my shit alone. As for sex there is always porn but that gets boring. Yes i miss being with someone i love and loves me back but honestly I would be a terrible boyfriend right now. I did have a couple FWBs but it got weird and I decided I wanted to just be fucking alone.
There you go thats my life story. Have fun with it.
2 habeshamuscle 2020-04-10
That’s rough man, sorry about that. I edited my comment with more questions but you don’t have to answer them. You already mentioned that you focused on the most hateful of incels but do you have thoughts on the incel ideaaology in terms of hypergamy and women being choosier than men?
2 SoloTheFord 2020-04-10
I think men and women can both be just as brutal. I have seen it from both sides. I added to my previous comment regarding your edits. And I came to realize a long time ago people who are incel or identify as such are not all bad shitty sexist people. So there are things I dont agree with that inceltears stood for...like the blanket focus on them and the subs name.
1 boloklolok 2020-04-10
The cycle of the self-important smugposter:
Endless snark and smugposting when they have mod privileges and a community to back them up, double standards when it comes to enforcing mod rules or even their own convictions.
Once all this goes away or they find themselves outside their echo chamber and they suddenly see themselves on the other side of the downvoting, endless snark and trolling brigade, they post their life story which of course is a series of tragic events that makes others feel sorry about them.
I genuinely hope things get better for you but I have literally seen this scenario play out so many times that I couldn't help but notice. Good luck with your new community
1 Redactor0 2020-04-10
I get it. I really do. But one thing I've never done when on a suicidal bender is dox some random guy and call him an incel because I thought it would be funny. And if I did do that, I would feel really bad about it and own up to it. You pretending like this event never happened or wasn't a big deal makes it very difficult for me to have any sympathy for you.
1 Prince-Klonopin 2020-04-10
Thank you for sharing. No one cares about your dead stepdaughter (imagine raising someone elses daughter btw, ultimate cuckoldry), but it's nice to get some insight into what makes jannies the way that they are
1 loli_esports 2020-04-10
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHALMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
2 SlowFatHusky 2020-04-10
Becoming toxic? That place was a toxic sub of hateful incels for a long time.
1 1StrokeBust 2020-04-10
So is the subreddit gone for good? will you or somebody else bring it back?
2 jwfallinker 2020-04-10
Doing that and then deleting his account was a stupid move. Sub creators have done things like it in the past and the admins have stepped in to reinstate the mod team. He should have just made it private and left it at that in order to shut it down.
4 TheSomaCruz 2020-04-10
Wow, sounds like a-logging incels sounds pretty stressful, I just hope these guys get paid, they are getting paid for this, right?
9 Angrygrape1337Reborn 2020-04-10
The amount of money BrazilianSigma makes daily: $0.00
Yearly salary: $0.00
I'm sure he'll bounce back on a new anti-incel subreddit where he'll blame Fight Club or Doom Eternal for the demise of his favorite subreddit. Maybe even find a bombing in the news and say "See, Final Fantasy VII causes terrorism."
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4 TheSomaCruz 2020-04-10
Wait, does he really blame FF7 for terrorism? Does he realize that Shinra is actually a corrupt government, and Cloud is literally antifa?
I thought IT soyboys would support FF7, but then again, it does have Tifa, and soyboys don't like any game where the main love interest isn't a gigantic landwhale with an unbearable personality.
3 Angrygrape1337Reborn 2020-04-10
Uhh, no. That was in reference to a post he made about some bombing in Brazil, with a title that said something along the lines of "This is what happened when Fight Club was released in Brazil." All the commentors sperged about how they hated that movie. The Wikipedia link also mentioned the attacker played Duke Nukem 3D and Quake, so I knew something was up.
I saw it cross-posted to /r/neckbeard, by some IT douche, so I tagged BrazilianSigma in that thread to ask him if he really believes that any violent media truly causes violence in real life. That was months ago, I'm still waiting for a response.
I wouldn't put it past them to hate on FF7 for stupid reasons, it has everything that makes it progressive, but it's Japanese, and Japanese anything is bad according to anti-incels, so they're gonna say "MuH ToXiC MaScUlInItY" and find other reasons to hate on the game.
Fun Fact: I even heard the users saying that one day Polyamory will be mainstream...no it ain't dude, no it ain't. Look, I may be single right now, and I know it's cool to have a girlfriend and all, but if all my options were girls with 9 different BFs or some STD-magnet, I think I'll start living a coomer lifestyle.
1 TheSomaCruz 2020-04-10
Oh, I saw that thread, the OP was getting downvoted, even being dunked on by incels. That was super embarrassing.
HAHAHAHAHA of course they're supportive of polyamory, aka cuckolding with extra steps. You should visit /r/polyamory, these dorks are so convinced that they're gonna be mainstream.
1 Angrygrape1337Reborn 2020-04-10
Holy shit you weren't kidding.
Whenever I feel bad for being single, I always watch this video and realize maybe it's better to be single than...this.
Also found this from one of the comments. https://www.unicorns-r-us.com/index.html Need I say more?
2 TheSomaCruz 2020-04-10
I think I can answer: Most bisexual women aren't polyamorous, it's not hard to figure out. My girlfriend is bisexual, and we still don't have hawt threesomes with a bajillion chicks each night. I can't believe they're reinforcing that tired stereotype.
2 constantinople_2053 2020-04-10
Well, that monetary compensation is not very impressive. But I'm sure the benefits make up for it, right? I assume reddit dot com provides them with a great 401k!
5 Angrygrape1337Reborn 2020-04-10
I've got bad news for the jannies.
2 anuddahuna 2020-04-10
Are you implying that these people do it for free?
1 FroppyHoppyMyFloppy 2020-04-10
He definitely doesn’t even have a paying job at all. His posting schedule wouldn’t have allowed it. Maybe this will be good for ligma.
4 Jannieseatdoodoo 2020-04-10
What is a-logging
5 TheSomaCruz 2020-04-10
Being unhealthily obsessed with someone, lolcow or otherwise. Came from someone named a-log, who was super obsessed with Chris Chan to the point he would get angry easily, even wishing death on him.
5 Jannieseatdoodoo 2020-04-10
Based spoonfeeder
1 FroppyHoppyMyFloppy 2020-04-10
anthony logatto
3 Redactor0 2020-04-10
Omg you probably don't even know what weening is. Try to keep up, sweaty. 🙄
4 CanadianAsshole1 2020-04-10
it never even began for ITcels
3 Jannieseatdoodoo 2020-04-10
Why? Did all the male feminists, troids and thots 41% after Bernie dropped out?
3 Furweeb 2020-04-10
Yes, incels lives is incomplete without IT. Soon after the shut down of IT many incels will 41 percent along with them. They have a batman and joker relationship with each other and with one of them the largest group gone they have no reasons to liv3
1 hoseja 2020-04-10
capeshit 🤮
3 Furweeb 2020-04-10
Wow now I can't find new incel communities anymore with the help of soytards, now they will keep their screen shots all to themselves.
4 Kilo_G_looked_up 2020-04-10
I don't know about you, but I've been getting added to a bunch of private incel subs lately.
1 Frickjannies6969 2020-04-10
Help a homie out?
1 Kilo_G_looked_up 2020-04-10
Just checked, they were all banned. Go to r/shadowcels
1 Angrygrape1337Reborn 2020-04-10
They're even woke to the male feminist question.
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1 CameronSins 2020-04-10
king move
1 scott_hunts 2020-04-10
lmao