There is no universe in which this was appropriate. You completely undermined your wife to her boss and hit her demoted. (And don’t bother pretending this wasn’t a demotion. She has been thrown off her career path by this)
What the fuck were you thinking?!
YTA I've never been so angry reading a post here. You are so much the asshole that she'd be the asshole if she doesn't divorce your ass after this.
YTA.
WHAT IN THE ACTUAL FUCK.
Pack your bags. Right now. Don’t put your wife through the trouble of finding out what happened and throwing you out on your ass. Release this woman from dealing with your paternalistic shit any longer.
You are a horrible person and need to cut your losses and walk away.
YTA
I can’t type more bc I’ll rip you to shreds, I’m so livid. I hope this is fake if not I hope she divorces you, I’ll send her money for the lawyer myself
God damn. Once in a while a troll rises above the usual shit slinging and creates bait so pure it truly crosses in to high art. If seethe could be harnessed in to electricity this post could power a small city on its own.
You guys. I just can’t with this guy. I’m so enraged. My uterus would like to punch its way out of my body and go murder this man just to make a point.
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Unuseful. Read: too tired for sex and cleaning up after him. That's all the importance OP sees in his wife. Her job was an impediment to his blowjobs and hot dinners.
Imagine unironically thinking a wife is useful for anything else, if even that.
Oh good gracious. There is no fixing this. You are the WORST AH. You have ruined her chances of success in the company, and most likely shot her self confidence. She feels like she FAILED. And in a way, you did cause her to fail. and I hope for her sake she does find out so she can know how terrible you have acted. I would 10000% divorce you. Sincerely how dare you. You ruined her chances because she isn't "useful" around the house. I hope you take a long time to consider how useful you are to her and the house.
YTA the biggest gaping asshole. You have single handedly destroyed your wife’s career at that company and I hope she finds out so she can divorce your pathetic misogynistic ass. You had NO right to go behind her back to her boss (who btw is also a major asshole because he should have told you to bugger off and hung up the phone when you called). If I was your wife, I would kick your sorry ass out, divorcing you and making sure EVERYONE knew why and file a massive compliant to HR against her boss for discussing her work with you and not her.
I hope your wife can recover from your stupid meddling in her career and finds someone who will actually support her when she is going through a stressful time at work, not undermine her completely. Again YTA.
literally an endless number of these comments, this dude's bait post is legendary
Wow, you are a gigantic misogynistic AH. It's hard enough for women to break into the corporate world and stay in high-level position, and you just completely undermined her because she's useless in the home now? You don't respect your wife at all. You're treating her like a child and like this job is her hobby or something "oh gee honey, you can do this but as soon as your performance at home goes down you need to stop with this silly fantasy you have".
You completely crossed a boundary by going behind her back and going to her boss. The boss is also TA for letting this happen. Jeez, this is disgusting and oozes the notion that "us women don't know how to take care of ourselves we need our big strong husbands to do all the tough work for us." I hope your wife finds out and divorces your ass.
these foids are all taking the bait so fucking hard lmfao
You made a paternalistic decision to insert yourself into your wife's career, conspire with her boss to fundamentally change her job, mix her home and work environments, destroy the privacy of her home life, fail to actually talk to her about your concerns, and now you're with holding information about your involvement. She should never trust you again.
Edit: She should freak out. This is terrifying behavior from you.
So here's the situation - my wife is in a high level corporate position at her job. What she does is extremely stressful and I don't blame it for taking a toll on her. Recently though, she's been having a really rough time with work and is clearly stressed out about it. She's visibly upset much of the time, but she doesn't seem to want to discuss the specifics with me. She's even become forgetful and somewhat unuseful around the house recently - she seems to always be thinking about work.
She wouldn't talk to me directly about it and I knew I had to do something, so I found her boss's phone number and reached out. I simply told him that she has been listless and despondent recently, and that I worried about her performance at work as well as what it's done to our home life. Basically her boss corroborated everything I was saying, and it seemed clear he felt the same way about her behavior. After some time talking, we both came to the conclusion that a reassignment was necessary - not really a demotion, but the decision was made for her to be reassigned to a less high stakes, less stressful position. We didn't state it verbally, but I think we both had an understanding that this was in her best interest and our conversation wouldn't need to be brought up to her.
After the news came down to her she became hysterically upset - she thought she was being demoted essentially and she didn't understand why. The thing is it really isn't a demotion, there's no pay-cut involved, just an executive decision that was made for her own benefit. I'm really not comfortable telling her that I was involved with this because I suspect she'll freak out at me, but I do feel what I did was correct, and I believe her boss was reasonable enough to understand that also.
TL;DR: Wife was reassigned at her job after I had a conversation with her boss, she feels she was demoted but that's not really the case.
You don’t break down my similes you fucker. I’m better than you in every way imaginable anyway. The tone you use in your comments is pathetic. It must be quite a touching moment of respite when you reach 100 percent method acting and if just for a moment, truly feel like you’ve accomplished anything of importance in your life. Before reality hits you like a wave of emotions and you realize you’ll never amount to anything more than defending nazis on the internet. I feel sorry for you. By the way OP said he wanted to eat my shit so...
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15 CarneBasado 2020-05-20
Based. A man who did what he had to do. The dishes don’t clean themselves.
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9 Going2BreakFree 2020-05-20
Fag
14 LetsGetSQ_uirre_Ly 2020-05-20
this is probably the best troll post i’ve seen in years, and that sadly is not much of an accomplishment
11 ponypopper 2020-05-20
this was such a good troll post, so much seething
2 oasisgidget 2020-05-20
The powerplay would be the post as the wife in a few days and then collect all the donations for your "lawyer."
2 _reason_biden_lost_ 2020-05-20
It's a low bar, but this was still well done
14 28th_boi 2020-05-20
Every time.
7 FORESKIN-GANG 2020-05-20
Woke speak just edges out based speak on the scale of retardation
0 5GCausedCorona 2020-05-20
The wojak memes on /mu/ are unbearably autistic
1 Msmit71 2020-05-20
Imagine browsing /mu/ and keeping up with its memes and complaining about autism.
1 5GCausedCorona 2020-05-20
it’s literally one guy who quotes you and uploads a custom soijak
He’s a menace
1 28th_boi 2020-05-20
Based
13 UnrelentingCaptain 2020-05-20
Holy shit this is a good one
YTA for not getting yourself a twink servant smh falling for gussy in 2020 lmao
7 godfathercrime 2020-05-20
YTA for loving the bussy but not respecting the bussy captain.
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13 cybermericorp 2020-05-20
God damn. Once in a while a troll rises above the usual shit slinging and creates bait so pure it truly crosses in to high art. If seethe could be harnessed in to electricity this post could power a small city on its own.
9 fjsukwpkzvxn 2020-05-20
LOOOLL THE COMMMENNNYS
11 godfathercrime 2020-05-20
Lol i can feel the seethe through my screen. and it hit all recently so more duexrama incoming!
12 WuhanForAll 2020-05-20
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Imagine unironically thinking a wife is useful for anything else, if even that.
8 godfathercrime 2020-05-20
Based and islam pilled.
2 SmurfPolitics 2020-05-20
based and how it should be.
I would never marry a woman who wouldnt promise to retire and be a stay at home mom after having her first child
1 godfathercrime 2020-05-20
trust me man i know it. Someone has foids thinking working is more rewarding then raising their kids.
1 _reason_biden_lost_ 2020-05-20
The Jews. Everytime
10 ponypopper 2020-05-20
THEY ARE FOAMING AT THE MOUTH WITH OUTRAGE LMFAOO
6 ponypopper 2020-05-20
literally an endless number of these comments, this dude's bait post is legendary
5 ponypopper 2020-05-20
these foids are all taking the bait so fucking hard lmfao
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9 UmmmSweaty 2020-05-20
I can’t stop reading those comments. I’m in tears.
8 Israel-Did_9-11 2020-05-20
Locked cause yall can't behave, sweaty.
7 thoroughlythrown 2020-05-20
I like to think all the seethe comments written in response were "career women" who'll end up alone with cats and shitty wine by age 35.
7 satoshipepemoto 2020-05-20
Wait 6 months and repost as a concerned wife who did this to her husband
9 WeAreLostSoAreYou 2020-05-20
“Totally understandable sweaty”
8 pushmefurtheraway 2020-05-20
but then muh misogyny in the workplace... NTA he deserved it KWWEEEEEEEEEN 💅🏿
1 LyrMeThatBifrost 2020-05-20
!remindme 6 months
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1 professorshillsphd 2020-05-20
He already did.
6 WeAreLostSoAreYou 2020-05-20
Some of the comments (obviously heavily downvoted by dykes) were based af too:
NTA
Behind every successful woman is a man doing twice the work.
5 WeAreLostSoAreYou 2020-05-20
Fake but hilarious
5 TrubiscuitsAndGravy 2020-05-20
“OMG! YTA! YTA! YTA!
You made a paternalistic decision to insert yourself into your wife's career, conspire with her boss to fundamentally change her job, mix her home and work environments, destroy the privacy of her home life, fail to actually talk to her about your concerns, and now you're with holding information about your involvement. She should never trust you again.
Edit: She should freak out. This is terrifying behavior from you.
ITS TERRIFYING
6 Babinx 2020-05-20
It'd be hilarious if he responded "Yes."
4 Going2BreakFree 2020-05-20
PURE GENIUS
4 HormelCoffee3 2020-05-20
Somebody post the original text
11 GrouseAndDislike 2020-05-20
8 LongPostBot 2020-05-20
I've known more coherent downies.
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6 686t 2020-05-20
Seethe 😂
3 ArtSchoolTrashy 2020-05-20
“I’m gonna do what’s called a pro-gamer bait”
1 Lehk 2020-05-20
He was a Master Baiter
4 WeAreLostSoAreYou 2020-05-20
That was based af. Someone needs to invite that guy here
4 Albatros_D_III 2020-05-20
White Sharia when?
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2 SnapshillBot 2020-05-20
You don’t break down my similes you fucker. I’m better than you in every way imaginable anyway. The tone you use in your comments is pathetic. It must be quite a touching moment of respite when you reach 100 percent method acting and if just for a moment, truly feel like you’ve accomplished anything of importance in your life. Before reality hits you like a wave of emotions and you realize you’ll never amount to anything more than defending nazis on the internet. I feel sorry for you. By the way OP said he wanted to eat my shit so...
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4 GrouseAndDislike 2020-05-20
This fucking bot has been broken for weeks I hate it.
2 FrickOffAHS 2020-05-20
Can someone post what he said? I’m desperate and the OP deleted it
2 LANDODGER_ 2020-05-20
Link? It just got deleted.
1 ThickSantorum 2020-05-20
Just change the url to removeddit.
2 rrrrrreeeeeeeeeeeee 2020-05-20
KING
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1 RusIsrCanShill 2020-05-20
How do we know this is a troll post?
5 FrntierPsychiatrist 2020-05-20
His account is 9 hours old lmao
1 massive_fckwit 2020-05-20
...it just has to be
it's too good to be true