The Fempire's crocodile tears

0  2012-12-23 by [deleted]

Nov 22 14:10:45 <arcana> I am genuinely afraid of being pitchforked out of the Fempire for arguing with greenduch, Tesseraction.

Nov 22 14:11:03 <arcana> Maybe you find this funny and stuff, but I am actually sad over this.

Nov 22 14:12:22 <arcana> I spend a week watching her girlfriend for her while she's [redacted], and I've been out with them repeatedly in addition to that, and like, I'm being treated like a stranger.

Nov 22 14:13:00 <arcana> Maybe You Folks Could just ban me from everything and tell me to get lost.

Nov 22 14:13:09 <arcana> I kwnow you don't like me much yourself, so win/win?

Nov 22 14:14:35 <Tesseraction> I want to make one thing clear, I do not dislike you in any way, and certainly have no intention to allow you to be banned from any Fempire community areas

Nov 22 14:14:50 <Tesseraction> but at the same time, I'm not going to play into an argument between yourself and greenduch

We have Tesseraction, the Fempire's self-proclaimed "IRC guy", dismissing a concern of former Fempire member, arcana on IRC/eternityblooming on reddit. That's me, by the way. I was trying to seek mediation between greenduch, Laurelai, and myself so we could come to terms with some issues we'd been having with one another, to reconcile as it were. I had implored ArchangelleStrudelle to do so too, but an accident in not editing Laurelai's name out of a single line of text caused him to develop selective hearing, and as such, let the shit go on.

I reached out repeatedly to greenduch and Laurelai themselves, and to third parties so that we could settle our issues one another and remain on amiable terms. I thought Laurelai and I were cool for a bit, but she kinda pulled some bullshit on me on the /r/Civcraft server and effectively prompted me to demand she stop acting like a sperglord. I also called her ugly, now that I think about it a little bit more, but tl;dr.

This is how the Fempire handles disputes with it's members. Silence. No empathy. Feigned empathy at best, but it's nothing more than crocodile tears. This was going on for several weeks and it was wearing my patience thin and led me to create the /u/pinkduch moniker to lash out at those who I had fallen out of favor with.

This is but a brief synopsis. I will post more logs if this one is well received. As an epilogue of sorts: I'm not really doing so great at the moment. I'm kinda feeling raw, so if a moderator finds this distasteful, feel free to remove, just please no personal attacks against me.

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