Okay, so we dated almost four years ago, when I was 14 and he was 17 (creepy in and of itself, I know). I'm now 18 and he's 21.

Basically, he dated me for three months, took my virginity, then never called me again. We didn't talk for like three years, then we saw each other at an anime convention I went to like a year ago and started talking again. I still harbor resentment for what he did, but it was in the past and I'm now in a relationship (our three year is on July 11th), so I opted to basically just forget what happened and move on (after screaming at him for it, of course). So, basically, there is NO. WAY. IN. HELL. I'm EVER going to get romantically involved with him EVER again.

So, we started talking again and everything started out fine. But then like three months after we started talking, he started getting kind of clingy and flirty. I thought nothing of it (since guys flirt with me all the time) and laughed it off while still making it clear that I'm not interested. That seemed to work until like two months ago, when he got EXTREMELY clingy. He started professing his love to me increasingly, it started with once a week and then ended up several times a day. He started getting extremely clingy, uncomfortably so, he even started getting a bit grabby. He was constantly telling me I'm sexy and he loves my chest and blah blah blah. I talked to him about it several times and he didn't stop. I started to stop hanging out with him when we were alone because it was getting uncomfortable, and that seemed to work. But when he spanked my ass in front of his friends, I said I'm just done.

I told him he's to either treat me as a platonic friend or stop talking to me. He bitched about it, then chose to talk to me platonically. Now he's pulling the "I don't know what I did wrong" shit, and I'm just done. I'm not talking to him anymore.