very minor drama but I found it amusing

the body of his first post:

Met a girl on okcupid back in December. She's smart, funny, way out of my league, reddits, games...basically perfect. Except she said she doesn't want a boyfriend. Yet she spends a lot of time with me and we always have a great time. She logs in to her profile regularly so she probably is actively dating.

She also hardly texts me. She has read receipts turned on and she reads my texts and then just doesn't reply or replies the next day but she's great in person.

One time I slept over, she gave me a toothbrush but then told me to take it with me? Is it too much to just leave it there? I sleep over once a week.

I talk to her about wanting more and she shoots me down but then she does things that make me think there is a possibility for something more serious. I'm okay with a nsa situation but this feels like more to me...it is frustrating.

Any tips on locking this one down or should I settle for what she gives me? Or is this a wash?

Women especially help me figure her motives out.

the body of the second post

Everyone told me to get out before I got hurt but of course I did the opposite and stalked this subreddit looking for any sign of her. Sure enough, she posted her profile in a game post, and the link was purple. Bingo. I read her whole post history and I think she mentioned me a couple times but not in a good way. Complaining about who I can only assume is me. It's really true that she doesn't have the same kind of feelings for me, you guys were right. I didn't know it was possible to be so affectionate with someone while not giving a shit about them.

She posts here all the time so I'm sure she will see this and figure it out. Realize how much this sucks.

comments where people call him a stalker