/U/herearemyquestions has an over-inflated idea of her attractiveness to men. Women who complain about being objectified are usually fugly, know they are, and complain about being objectified to make themselves feel better.
In theory, an extremely attractive women do often have the experience of constantly being ogled. But based on her posting/submission history, this mentality of hers is based more on the fact that she consumes nothing but angry feminist literature 24/7.
The vast majority of men when they glance at you aren't thinking anything about you. Your belief that they must be thinking about having sex with you comes from an assumption that men are sex obsessed pigs who are constantly objectifying the women around them, which is not the case. Most men are just going about their day and trying to get from point A to point B without hassle.
You're right. Blessedly, the majority aren't. But I'm not stupid. When I have to glare at them to get them to look away, I know what they're thinking about.
You should read the feminism that is about not stereotyping but humanizing men and how terrible the patriarchy has been to them.
I don't need to assume anything. I can tell from your posts that you are both very angry (at nothing) and very delusional. People have repeatedly explained to you that eye contact does not mean that people are objectifying you.
My assumption of you is that you are incredibly rude and incredibly stuck up. The fact that you avoid eye contact is proof of this. The fact that you are angry about people telling you that eye contact does not mean objectification is also proof of this.
You're thoughts are incongruent with reality and therefore you need therapy. You also need to calm your tits.
Ok, I'll describe it. It's a picture of you: a really obese, short-haired brunette presumably at a strip joint. She's not really attractive at all but I'm sure she complains about being objectified all the time because it helps her self-esteem.
You, someone so threatened by a confident woman and who has so little meaning in their life that they have nothing better too but attack women on the Internet.
I'm sorry to say, you armed confident at all. First of all, someone confident doesn't go around proclaiming they're confident. Second of all, someone confident doesn't go around proclaiming they're confident. Third of all, someone confident doesn't go around proclaiming they're confident. Yes I repeated it three times to make sure it sinks into your thick head.
In terms of someone who's life has no meaning, you're a fucking stripped and you're responding to people on /r/drama like your pathetic life depends on it. Pretty sure you're someone who's life has no meaning.
Stripping is a lot of fun. I highly recommend it very empowering.
I am a confident and hot woman! I know I'm awesome! I know I'm hot! People wish they were me! People wish they could fuck me! People wish they were as confident as me! People are threatened when I speak up and use pathetic arguments to try to shut me down! My work day goes by faster when I stand up to the 10 people who want to hit me down when I'm honest about my experience. I am a confident stripper. I love taking people's money. I am confident. I am confident. I am confident.
Fucking mong, what will it take for you to agree with WengerOut?! He is destroying this club! 10-2 on aggregate, how can a top level club be getting destroyed like this? It's time for him to finally bow out and usher in a new age for Arsenal.
Maybe men are absolute dicks who treat you like a sex object because you're an utterly miserable cunt who takes off her clothes professionally and blames everybody else for her problems?
Maybe those same men are fine to dump a quick load of jizz on your tits but when it comes time to find a girlfriend they'd rather be with someone who you can spend an enjoyable, drama-free day going hiking or driving to the beach or whatever instead of getting screamed at by you?
Maybe instead of all men being like this and all women being like that, we're all just individuals, and just because a stripper cunt is writing I AM CONFIDENT YOU HAVE VALIDATED MY FUCKING WITCH POWERS doesn't mean every woman is as legitimately nutty as you are?
Maybe the problem isn't all the horrible things the patriarchy has done to you, but your stubborn refusal to admit even the smallest trace of defeat and openly brag about sexist attacks confirming... oh wait I'm sorry... CONFIRMING EVERYTHING YOU ALREADY KNOW ABOUT SEXISM AND FUELING YOUR SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS?
The one assumption I can make with full confidence is that you're a miserable person who blames the world for her problems. As Radiohead once said, you do it to yourself, you do, you and no one else.
You can spend time reading ultra-feminist blogs, whipping yourself up into a rage at how men objectify you, and then not have the common sense to realize that they're objectifying you because you take out your breasts for tips. So you go around miserable, spreading your misery, because you have to stay miserable to make a difference. Yes, the angry emotional stripper is going to be the forefront of solving gender issues in America, so don't let those evil men off the hook for just a second.
What are you gonna do when you're 40? Suddenly become a doctor, lawyer, high-powered business executive? The older stripper at the club with the cigarette breath and smelly puss? The divorcee who says everything was her ex-husband's fault? You'll be a nothing. A "confident" nothing, maybe, but a bitter old hag angry at the world who nobody wants to interact with and guys don't want to fuck anymore.
You may think I'm an asshole and a bigot and a this and a that, I'm honestly just a guy who enjoys mean humor and loves it when the thread target actually shows up to r/drama to defend themselves. Individuals bother me but large sections of groups - white women, young black teenagers, transgender asians - who cares? But when I see an emotional trainwreck who happens to be a stripper, on an individual level I am able to assume that you are in fact a crazy cunt who refuses to see the truth that she's to blame for all the misery she feels deep in her heart.
So what? It happens. Other people you will meet will be complete and utter assholes to you, they will disrespect you, objectify you, and whatever else for the rest of your life - you're not fucking alone. You made the choice to become a stripper and you also made the choice to become one of those assholes. Not someone who truly controls the "objectifying male gaze" as you think you are, but someone obsessed by it, angered to the brink of insanity. You control nothing, it controls you.
Continue to be an asshole, continue to read feminist blogs written by other assholes giving you reasons why you need to be an asshole, and then wonder why the world doesn't treat you like a princess. It's your own damn fault for not having the common sense to realize the world is only as horrible as you convince yourself it is.
Are you really making fun? Are you telling me that or are you telling yourself that?
You come across as a joyless stripper who despises the fact that men get paid professionally to ogle her naked body. Maybe you're exaggerating for the drama and stringing r/drama along, but I doubt it. You seem supremely miserable to the point of thinking you might be mentally unbalanced, the kind of gal who loves that "if you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best" quote and might just have a child or two they're raising without daddy's assistance. But those are assumptions.
You can try to win this "internet debate" with me by saying I have everything wrong and deny deny deny deny deny deny, but the fact is the lost the moment you came to this sub to defend yourself. If my "assumptions" ring true, you don't have to give me validation, but I assure you the key to being happy is to simply be a happier person.
You'd like that, wouldnt ya? If I'm a loser who bashes women on the Internet, then who cares what I have to say?
I assure you that I bash men, women, and any gender in between provided they deserve the bashing. Today I'm dealing with a stubborn self-important stripper who blames "men" for all her problems and thinks the only reason I'm bashing her is because she's a woman.
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Sorry, how the fuck is man thinking you are sexy a problem?
A problem would be if they thought less of you because of that
A problem would be if they respected you less because of that
A problem would be if they called you nasty shit on the street
But looking at you? yeah they are probably thinking that you are hot ( if you really are that I have my doubts )
but so?
Seriously read the SEP page on objectification, you keep using that word thinking that it means treating someone as an object, but it means treating someone only as an object. Those are two different things or you would be objectifying half of the world.
How do you know they're staring? What if they're looking blankly off into the distance while deep in thought? What if they're near-sighted and don't know you're in their line-of-sight? I'm detecting a lot of troubling privilege in your responses. You never even ask these people if they identify as blind before you decide they're looking at you! That is seriously problematic.
This isn't about me, I'm just pointing out the troubling ableism inherent in your assumptions about others. It's clear that you're attempting to justify your own compulsion to hate-stare by blaming your victims. You say it's "self-defense," but what you really mean is "they deserve it." This is typical of abusers when speaking about their victims.
Phrases like "big words" are only used by people with class privilege who believe that the underclass are incapable of possessing an advanced vocabulary.
A stripper that complains about men looking at her. Honestly you sound very ugly, I've seen ugly strippers perhaps you're just quite ugly and use hate as a coping mechanism?
I got stared at way before I was a stripper and decided to capitalize on something that was going to happen anyway. It's awesome to charge people for my time and attention.
"I don't want to be objectified! I'm a stripper!" If you don't realize how hypocritically stupid you sound, then you are the poster child for the stereotypical ditz.
I don't think you know what triggered means. If you look through your responses in this thread as well as the one in /r/sex, you'll see that you're the triggered one. But nice try there, sweetheart. I thought you weren't very bright, that response proved it.
I made no judgement of them, their choices, or their circumstances. I referred to them only to dispute this idea of yours that "Men have paid me for my attentions" translates to "I'm such a hot piece that I short circuit men's brains when I'm around them."
Because in your mind, the fact that some dude paid you means you're so hot that literally every man who looks in your general direction is thinking about sex.
This is like a trope from the 1980s. I've seen political cartoons that show what's going on in a man's brain versus what's going on in a woman's brain. The man's brain was just filled with images of sex. The woman's brain was filled with images of clothes, purses, jewelry.
Third wave feminists really pushed for the abolishment of these female stereotypes. Men had no such movement to push for a similar goal, so this idea that men only think about sex persists. You're mentality is literally regressive.
I said in general. I never said all men. I LOVE men who can take a glance to orient each of us in space, and then look the fuck away. It's called manners.
People who claim there is no point to Internet debates are afraid of the power of discourse. It is always good to stand up to oppression. Thank you for your work winner of wins!!!
FYI: You're not being victimized. We're having a discourse. You seem to be accustomed to winning debates against barely literate 14 year old channers.
Me and basically everyone in the US. The government keeps crashing the economy for it's own financial gain so cost of living here is ridiculous. Almost everyone is in debt of some kind.
I'm now dying to see what she looks like. She's evidently one of these intersectional feminists who dabbled in sex work as a form of empowerment, posts in /r/polyamory, etc. She's probably one of the more attractive women in her social circle, but barely turns heads outside of that community. Remember the nintendo employee who got fired for engaging in prostitution on the side? Not bad-looking. But certainly not someone who instantly causes me to think about sex when I pass her by.
It's not about being ogled, it's about the type of women who complain about being ogled. Like you said, she and women like her, consume feminist literature 24/7. Now look at those women, they're not usually the most physically or intellectually attractive women around. Again, it's now about being ogled but about the act of complaining about being ogled.
Heh, an angry stripper, no wonder who view all men as pigs.
Please step away from the stripper life and into the normal world. While your at it, do cover up. Walking around in that short skirt and that tank top that shows your breast is going to garner the attention you say you despise.
ProTip: Most(all) heterosexual women get off on being objectified if its a man they find attractive doing it.
This whole objectification whining is just fucking stupid. Men and women do the same fucking thing to each other, every fucking day.
Yea some creepy guy focusing on that is creepy and shows his lack of self awareness but when her version of "guy makes my panties wet" does it, shes going to be flattered at the very least.
Sometimes people like to be objectified as a kink. Everyone likes knowing someone they are attracted to is also attractive to them. The difference is consent.
wow incredible. Im always amazed by the amount of free time lolcows like you have to shitpost for us. Not only is it funny, it makes me feel a LOT better about myself. At least I dont spend copious amounts of my time responding to meanies online :(
youre worse off than I thought. Whats hypocritical hmmm? I didnt call you mean or reply more than twice. For me to be a hypocrite I would need to either call u a meanie first before I make fun of you or spend COPIOUS amounts of time on reddit arguments before calling you a loser
Sometimes people like to be objectified as a kink. Everyone likes knowing someone they are attracted to is also attractive to them. The difference is consent.
All sex is a kink when you think about it, and you don't get to consent to being attractive to someone. Life doesn't work that way.
fat phobic?? are you implying that disliking obese people that are objectively human failures, in health and most likely in procreation, is a bad thing???????
I get where you're coming from. I commute to downtown Seattle and it involves a ferry ride and a walk downtown. I literally wear a giant parka and tuck my long hair inside and actively avoid eye contact because I'm just so fucking sick of being stared at like a piece of meat. God forbid I don't wear the parka (I have a nice figure and wear leggings even though I wear cardigans over my ass) or let my hair loose. Even in the parka I get stared at. If I accidentally make eye contact with a guy I will catch him looking back again mutiple times or even initiating contact with a smile which if I smile back leads to talking.
I've been followed on the street (my walk on both ends at the terminal and downtown to work), yelled at, proposed marriage to, and had "nice" conversations in between that carry the same intent.
I'm sorry...I'm really not trying to be mean, I'm really not. Just please. I wanna go about my day like normal and stop being reminded I'm a walking sex object simply because I made eye contact with you.
I'd say at least in my workplace they are respectful (I'm a female programmer) but word has gotten back to me about how various members of other teams have made lewd comments about my body and hair and spoken sexually of me nonstop.
Generally a s a young woman, if a man is looking at me, I know he is almost always thinking about sex. It's why I avoid eye contact in public. It's exhausting being objectified all the time.
Geez, that either is self-confidence, or projection. Not a healthy thing either way.
Seems like the right time to summon /u/absentglare, white knight to all feminists (even though he doesn't understand modern-day feminism) and savior of the fugly strippers.
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n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
/U/herearemyquestions has an over-inflated idea of her attractiveness to men. Women who complain about being objectified are usually fugly, know they are, and complain about being objectified to make themselves feel better.
n/a Ultrashitpost 2017-03-07
you didn't ping right
Do it like this: /u/herearemyquestions
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
I see what you did there 👍
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-07
In theory, an extremely attractive women do often have the experience of constantly being ogled. But based on her posting/submission history, this mentality of hers is based more on the fact that she consumes nothing but angry feminist literature 24/7.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Lol tell that to all the men who have paid me for my attention.
n/a LookingAtGrows 2017-03-07
The vast majority of men when they glance at you aren't thinking anything about you. Your belief that they must be thinking about having sex with you comes from an assumption that men are sex obsessed pigs who are constantly objectifying the women around them, which is not the case. Most men are just going about their day and trying to get from point A to point B without hassle.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
You're right. Blessedly, the majority aren't. But I'm not stupid. When I have to glare at them to get them to look away, I know what they're thinking about.
You should read the feminism that is about not stereotyping but humanizing men and how terrible the patriarchy has been to them.
n/a serialflamingo 2017-03-07
Any recommendations?
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
She's taking a while to respond. Chances are she doesn't have any and is googling literature to recommend.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I'm at work and y'all are downvoting me so much I keep getting the "you're doing that too much" when I try to comment
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
Right...we believe you!
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Stripping, both live and Internet
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
And you don't want to be objectified? You are either trolling or incredibly stupid.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I want to be paid for my time. I'm profiting off of my inevitable objectification.
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
You need therapy.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
You need to stop assuming you know what everyone else's life experiences are.
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
I don't need to assume anything. I can tell from your posts that you are both very angry (at nothing) and very delusional. People have repeatedly explained to you that eye contact does not mean that people are objectifying you.
My assumption of you is that you are incredibly rude and incredibly stuck up. The fact that you avoid eye contact is proof of this. The fact that you are angry about people telling you that eye contact does not mean objectification is also proof of this.
You're thoughts are incongruent with reality and therefore you need therapy. You also need to calm your tits.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Creepy staring is not just eye contact.
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
You're reading into it way more than you should, psycho. People don't want to creepily stare at this
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I'm not clicking on these damn links.
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
Ok, I'll describe it. It's a picture of you: a really obese, short-haired brunette presumably at a strip joint. She's not really attractive at all but I'm sure she complains about being objectified all the time because it helps her self-esteem.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
You, someone so threatened by a confident woman and who has so little meaning in their life that they have nothing better too but attack women on the Internet.
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
I'm sorry to say, you armed confident at all. First of all, someone confident doesn't go around proclaiming they're confident. Second of all, someone confident doesn't go around proclaiming they're confident. Third of all, someone confident doesn't go around proclaiming they're confident. Yes I repeated it three times to make sure it sinks into your thick head.
In terms of someone who's life has no meaning, you're a fucking stripped and you're responding to people on /r/drama like your pathetic life depends on it. Pretty sure you're someone who's life has no meaning.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Stripping is a lot of fun. I highly recommend it very empowering.
I am a confident and hot woman! I know I'm awesome! I know I'm hot! People wish they were me! People wish they could fuck me! People wish they were as confident as me! People are threatened when I speak up and use pathetic arguments to try to shut me down! My work day goes by faster when I stand up to the 10 people who want to hit me down when I'm honest about my experience. I am a confident stripper. I love taking people's money. I am confident. I am confident. I am confident.
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
If that isn't fantasy writing, I don't know what is. But I'll let you live in your fantasy. It doesn't seem to be harmful to others, just yourself.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I am confident.
I am confident.
I am confident.
I am confident.
Shooting down trolls one by one makes me EVEN MORE CONFIDENT
FEEED ME TROLLS
YOUR DOUBT AND SEXIST ATTACKS CONFIRMS EVERYTHING I ALREADY KNOW ABOUT SEXISM AND FUELS MY SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS
FEED ME
I LOVE DOWNVOTES
I LOVE ATTACKS
BEING WITCH HUNTED VALIDATES MY FUCKING WITCH POWERS
I AM CONFIDENT
I AM CONFIDENT
I AM CONFIDENT AND I FUCKING LOVE IT
DRAAAMMMAAAAA
n/a John_Ketch 2017-03-07
wtf
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-07
Oh god, I have to go take care of my adult responsibilities now. This is like being called in to work on Christmas morning!
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I'm making fun of you all.
n/a John_Ketch 2017-03-07
Na, pretty sure it's happening the other direction, cow.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
No you all are verbally abusing and harassing me. I'm making hilarious jokes at y'all's expense.
n/a John_Ketch 2017-03-07
Our jokes are funny, take that back.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
No honey. I'm funny.
n/a John_Ketch 2017-03-07
Okay. I'm just going to need your opinion on something to make sure you are a good person.
WengerOut or not?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I don't know it that is.
n/a John_Ketch 2017-03-07
Just choose one. WengerIn? or WengerOut?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Yeah no
n/a John_Ketch 2017-03-07
Fucking mong, what will it take for you to agree with WengerOut?! He is destroying this club! 10-2 on aggregate, how can a top level club be getting destroyed like this? It's time for him to finally bow out and usher in a new age for Arsenal.
n/a OkaySeriouslyBro 2017-03-07
Maybe men are absolute dicks who treat you like a sex object because you're an utterly miserable cunt who takes off her clothes professionally and blames everybody else for her problems?
Maybe those same men are fine to dump a quick load of jizz on your tits but when it comes time to find a girlfriend they'd rather be with someone who you can spend an enjoyable, drama-free day going hiking or driving to the beach or whatever instead of getting screamed at by you?
Maybe instead of all men being like this and all women being like that, we're all just individuals, and just because a stripper cunt is writing I AM CONFIDENT YOU HAVE VALIDATED MY FUCKING WITCH POWERS doesn't mean every woman is as legitimately nutty as you are?
Maybe the problem isn't all the horrible things the patriarchy has done to you, but your stubborn refusal to admit even the smallest trace of defeat and openly brag about sexist attacks confirming... oh wait I'm sorry... CONFIRMING EVERYTHING YOU ALREADY KNOW ABOUT SEXISM AND FUELING YOUR SELF RIGHTEOUSNESS?
Probably not though, I'm probably just a bigot.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I'm glad you at least know you're a bigot. So many assumptions about me.
n/a OkaySeriouslyBro 2017-03-07
The one assumption I can make with full confidence is that you're a miserable person who blames the world for her problems. As Radiohead once said, you do it to yourself, you do, you and no one else.
You can spend time reading ultra-feminist blogs, whipping yourself up into a rage at how men objectify you, and then not have the common sense to realize that they're objectifying you because you take out your breasts for tips. So you go around miserable, spreading your misery, because you have to stay miserable to make a difference. Yes, the angry emotional stripper is going to be the forefront of solving gender issues in America, so don't let those evil men off the hook for just a second.
What are you gonna do when you're 40? Suddenly become a doctor, lawyer, high-powered business executive? The older stripper at the club with the cigarette breath and smelly puss? The divorcee who says everything was her ex-husband's fault? You'll be a nothing. A "confident" nothing, maybe, but a bitter old hag angry at the world who nobody wants to interact with and guys don't want to fuck anymore.
You may think I'm an asshole and a bigot and a this and a that, I'm honestly just a guy who enjoys mean humor and loves it when the thread target actually shows up to r/drama to defend themselves. Individuals bother me but large sections of groups - white women, young black teenagers, transgender asians - who cares? But when I see an emotional trainwreck who happens to be a stripper, on an individual level I am able to assume that you are in fact a crazy cunt who refuses to see the truth that she's to blame for all the misery she feels deep in her heart.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I was objectified long before I ever stripped. I wasn't born a stripper.
n/a OkaySeriouslyBro 2017-03-07
So what? It happens. Other people you will meet will be complete and utter assholes to you, they will disrespect you, objectify you, and whatever else for the rest of your life - you're not fucking alone. You made the choice to become a stripper and you also made the choice to become one of those assholes. Not someone who truly controls the "objectifying male gaze" as you think you are, but someone obsessed by it, angered to the brink of insanity. You control nothing, it controls you.
Continue to be an asshole, continue to read feminist blogs written by other assholes giving you reasons why you need to be an asshole, and then wonder why the world doesn't treat you like a princess. It's your own damn fault for not having the common sense to realize the world is only as horrible as you convince yourself it is.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Why do you think I'm obsessed? I made one comment.
n/a OkaySeriouslyBro 2017-03-07
You made this comment.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
To make fun of the previous comment.
n/a OkaySeriouslyBro 2017-03-07
Are you really making fun? Are you telling me that or are you telling yourself that?
You come across as a joyless stripper who despises the fact that men get paid professionally to ogle her naked body. Maybe you're exaggerating for the drama and stringing r/drama along, but I doubt it. You seem supremely miserable to the point of thinking you might be mentally unbalanced, the kind of gal who loves that "if you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best" quote and might just have a child or two they're raising without daddy's assistance. But those are assumptions.
You can try to win this "internet debate" with me by saying I have everything wrong and deny deny deny deny deny deny, but the fact is the lost the moment you came to this sub to defend yourself. If my "assumptions" ring true, you don't have to give me validation, but I assure you the key to being happy is to simply be a happier person.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
You seem like the type of person who blames them self for everything in order to gain a sense of control.
And then bashes women on the Internet in order to gain a sense of control.
n/a OkaySeriouslyBro 2017-03-07
You'd like that, wouldnt ya? If I'm a loser who bashes women on the Internet, then who cares what I have to say?
I assure you that I bash men, women, and any gender in between provided they deserve the bashing. Today I'm dealing with a stubborn self-important stripper who blames "men" for all her problems and thinks the only reason I'm bashing her is because she's a woman.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Is this a "not all men" thing for you?
n/a dexceit 2017-03-07
Stripper and armchair psychologist? Hot.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I mean all strippers basically have to be since men regularly come in just to talk
n/a acctforbrowsing 2017-03-07
Well then you should have no problem with a little eye contact, it's part of the confidence thing. E Z problems solved, good job folks.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
No I want to be paid
n/a acctforbrowsing 2017-03-07
Seems reasonable.
n/a Albino_Namekian 2017-03-07
Pic doesn't work famalam.
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-07
Hey now, you don't speak for all of us. She has a lovely smile.
n/a Albino_Namekian 2017-03-07
Says the mind reading stripper. This whole thread got started because of you femsplaining what guys think.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
This thread is a with hunt of a confident woman.
n/a Michelanvalo 2017-03-07
Anyone with real confidence doesn't have to proclaim it.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Lo lol I bet you sound envious
n/a Michelanvalo 2017-03-07
me_irl
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-07
You leave Hillary Clinton out of this.
n/a SithisTheDreadFather 2017-03-07
Tell me about your dad, if you don't mind.
n/a John_Ketch 2017-03-07
Post pics?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Ha
n/a John_Ketch 2017-03-07
I'll pay you
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
You'll have to find my other account ;)
n/a John_Ketch 2017-03-07
The fuck is this, give me a clue at least, I ain't going on no wild goose chase for your account.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
And get brigaded on my work account? Fuck off
n/a John_Ketch 2017-03-07
At least you'd be finally drilled properly, you whalecunt.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Mmm whale cunt. You just gave me an idea for my vore erotica
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-07
I'll honestly chip in $20. Linking spaghetti to pics is pretty much my drama fetish.
n/a throwaway03022017 2017-03-07
I bet you're the kinda chick who gives a half assed shitty dance and doesn't even let the dude grab your ass
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I give amazing dances but I do all the touching. I like the control
n/a throwaway03022017 2017-03-07
If you're in NYC I'll buy a dance and be the judge myself lmk what club
n/a Hammer_of_truthiness 2017-03-07
Ask the mods for approved submitter status, they'll usually grant it.
Also a friendly reminder to the rest of the users in this chain, its very important that we maintain a friendly and welcoming environment for our guests, especially when we invite them into the sub by pinging. Make sure to hammer those uprons
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Friendly and welcoming. Ha! That ship has sailed
n/a Wacnews_the_White 2017-03-07
Upvoted.
n/a John_Ketch 2017-03-07
He was being sarcastic
n/a Hammer_of_truthiness 2017-03-07
I was being entirely sincere, don't downvote lolcows you cretin.
n/a John_Ketch 2017-03-07
Too late motherfucker, this lolcow ain't no bitch to be scared of upvotes. We can drill her hard
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Damn straight! Say what you want! Vote how you will! You can't shut me up!
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
If he's being sarcastic, it's creepy as fuck.
n/a John_Ketch 2017-03-07
Nice and serial killer like. Son of Sam baby
n/a headasplodes 2017-03-07
Maybe you just smell bad
n/a ThatOtherPromise 2017-03-07
Sorry, how the fuck is man thinking you are sexy a problem?
A problem would be if they thought less of you because of that
A problem would be if they respected you less because of that
A problem would be if they called you nasty shit on the street
But looking at you? yeah they are probably thinking that you are hot ( if you really are that I have my doubts )
but so?
Seriously read the SEP page on objectification, you keep using that word thinking that it means treating someone as an object, but it means treating someone only as an object. Those are two different things or you would be objectifying half of the world.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Creepy stares are a fucking problem
n/a ThatOtherPromise 2017-03-07
What are creepy stares?
Like are they making a jerk off movement while licking their lips or what?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Staring. Look it up in the dictionary if you don't understand the word. "Creepy" is redundant. Basically any stranger staring is automatically creepy
n/a thirdegree 2017-03-07
I've met some of my best friends through mutual stranger staring.
n/a jPaolo 2017-03-07
Creepy
n/a nanonan 2017-03-07
Like when you deliberately glare at people?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
It's self-defense. If you're being a fucking creeper staring you absolutely deserve that and more.
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-07
It's funny how you can boil down the arguments made by half the people who are summoned here to "it's different when I/we do it."
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Glaring at someone who is staring is indeed different from staring.
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-07
Glaring is just hateful staring. Not only are you staring, you're supporting and/or engaging in hate when you do it. Why are you supporting hate?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Why are you blaming the victim?
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-07
How am I blaming the person you're hate-staring at with my comment?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I only glare at people if they are staring.
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-07
How do you know they're staring? What if they're looking blankly off into the distance while deep in thought? What if they're near-sighted and don't know you're in their line-of-sight? I'm detecting a lot of troubling privilege in your responses. You never even ask these people if they identify as blind before you decide they're looking at you! That is seriously problematic.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
What are you hoping to get out of this conversation? What is this doing for you?
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-07
This isn't about me, I'm just pointing out the troubling ableism inherent in your assumptions about others. It's clear that you're attempting to justify your own compulsion to hate-stare by blaming your victims. You say it's "self-defense," but what you really mean is "they deserve it." This is typical of abusers when speaking about their victims.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Lol this is cute. Trying to troll as an sjw
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-07
Oh, so now you have a problem with social justice? White Feminism rears its ugly head again.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Lol you've gotten good at this!
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-07
Good? GOOD!?!?!? This kind of subjective moral determination is even worse than your previous displays of privilege!
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
so many big words! good job!
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-07
Phrases like "big words" are only used by people with class privilege who believe that the underclass are incapable of possessing an advanced vocabulary.
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
Wow, still at it? Good job, sexobject!
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n/a xjapxn 2017-03-07
No, you don't.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
You think I should just let them keep looking? Maybe model for them a bit?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Or do I not know what they're thinking about? Maybe they're just running over their to-do list in their heads?
n/a xjapxn 2017-03-07
You are presumably not telepathic. Therefore you do not actually know what they are thinking about.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I'm also experienced enough to make a pretty good guess
n/a xjapxn 2017-03-07
*assumptions based on stereotypes formed through selective memory of negative experiences
FTFY
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n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Yup. It's safer for me to assume a man is dangerous rather than let my guard down. Because being a woman is dangerous in patriarchy.
n/a BannaHamHock 2017-03-07
Being this retarded is dangerous in any society, at any time in human history.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I don't believe that. You have proof on every single society?
Also that doesn't mean that's the way it should be asshole.
n/a Nomadlads 2017-03-07
Wew lass
n/a Forgotten_Son 2017-03-07
As a woman, you're less likely to be harmed than a man. How's that for a patriarchy?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Physically. But I'm more likely to experience sexual violence then men.
n/a hotblondeboob 2017-03-07
Sexual violence is physical violence.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Sometimes. Not always
n/a hotblondeboob 2017-03-07
When is it not?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
It depends on how they're being categorized in the statistics! If we look at just sexual violence, women experience it more.
n/a MyDramaAlt 2017-03-07
Spoiler: You're a narcissist.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Lol just because I know I'm attractive? How could I not know when men won't let me forget?
n/a qaswexextort 2017-03-07
A stripper that complains about men looking at her. Honestly you sound very ugly, I've seen ugly strippers perhaps you're just quite ugly and use hate as a coping mechanism?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I got stared at way before I was a stripper and decided to capitalize on something that was going to happen anyway. It's awesome to charge people for my time and attention.
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-07
Today's To-Do List:
Weird, you might both be right.
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
lol
lolololol I can't breathe help
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-07
Go to the poorest areas near you and check out some of the women who get paid for their attention. Then, reassess.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
How classist of you. And sex worker phobic.
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
"I don't want to be objectified! I'm a stripper!" If you don't realize how hypocritically stupid you sound, then you are the poster child for the stereotypical ditz.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Sounds like you don't understand consent.
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
Nope. I understand that you're just one of those chicks so hell bent on wanting to be objectified that you see it everywhere you go.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
No. You're one of those assholes so comfortable in your privilege that you will deny the reality of other people to protect it.
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
Privilege. Objectification. What other tired feminist meme are you going to throw out there?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Did I trigger you with my big words? Do you need to go to a safe space?
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
I don't think you know what triggered means. If you look through your responses in this thread as well as the one in /r/sex, you'll see that you're the triggered one. But nice try there, sweetheart. I thought you weren't very bright, that response proved it.
n/a Albino_Namekian 2017-03-07
No, you triggered him with your big vagina.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
You must be a young
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-07
I made no judgement of them, their choices, or their circumstances. I referred to them only to dispute this idea of yours that "Men have paid me for my attentions" translates to "I'm such a hot piece that I short circuit men's brains when I'm around them."
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
No. I'm such a hot piece that men will pay me for my attention. That's all I was fucking saying
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-07
Which is an extremely low qualifier for the title of "hot piece". That's all I'm saying.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
It doesn't matter anyway. Almost any young and thin woman will get objectified in public
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-07
You're drifting pretty far from your original claim, there.
So let's put this drama train back on its tracks. Your original comment:
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Yup
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-07
Because in your mind, the fact that some dude paid you means you're so hot that literally every man who looks in your general direction is thinking about sex.
This is like a trope from the 1980s. I've seen political cartoons that show what's going on in a man's brain versus what's going on in a woman's brain. The man's brain was just filled with images of sex. The woman's brain was filled with images of clothes, purses, jewelry.
Third wave feminists really pushed for the abolishment of these female stereotypes. Men had no such movement to push for a similar goal, so this idea that men only think about sex persists. You're mentality is literally regressive.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I said in general. I never said all men. I LOVE men who can take a glance to orient each of us in space, and then look the fuck away. It's called manners.
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-07
You're welcome.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
If it makes you feel better!
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-07
When a woman comes to /r/Drama, she is almost always thinking about how to pay the victim card.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I was dragged here. I didn't come here. I was pinged.
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-07
Drama deprived you of agency?!
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Baited. Brigaded. The usual. Why would I miss out on all the fun?
n/a IsADragon 2017-03-07
Baited? Yes, you did come here.
Brigaded? You're at - 8 in /r/sex after posting something stupid and arrogant. Hardly a brigade when a comment like thats gonna be downvoted anyway.
n/a ThatOtherPromise 2017-03-07
This is true though 😅
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
"Women always play the victim card" -man who just victimized a woman
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-07
You just now:
You from your comment history:
FYI: You're not being victimized. We're having a discourse. You seem to be accustomed to winning debates against barely literate 14 year old channers.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Lol this is not a discourse
n/a ThatOtherPromise 2017-03-07
Is for the sake of clarity and truth, though I understand you might hate those things, sperging out and playing the victim surely feels better!
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Hashtag not all men right?
n/a dexceit 2017-03-07
So if im walking through an area with women instead of looking ahead I should just stare at the ground to avoid stare-rape?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Everyone takes in others. Just look away in a timely manner. Be polite and don't stare.
n/a Corporal_Codpiece 2017-03-07
You're a literal whore. No one cares what you want. You're paid to get men off, and shut the fuck up.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
You sound jealous.
n/a Corporal_Codpiece 2017-03-07
You sound impoverished.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Me and basically everyone in the US. The government keeps crashing the economy for it's own financial gain so cost of living here is ridiculous. Almost everyone is in debt of some kind.
n/a Jimmyhowelltn 2017-03-07
I have a sneaking suspicion you are not thing.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Oh well
n/a ThatOtherPromise 2017-03-07
What does that word even fucking mean to you?
Can you stop using it like this?
For fuck sake
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Like when a dude looks at me without any regard for how it might effect me. They act entitled to staring and sometimes more. It's rude.
n/a jimmahdean 2017-03-07
That's because they are entitled to staring. They can look wherever they feel like.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Not without me glaring at them and complaining about it in reddit. Consequences.
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
You're not a very smart chick, are you?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
You got me!
n/a theherps 2017-03-07
>being a stripper means I'm hot
The fact that they need liquor and shit lighting to hide your c-section scars and stretch marks surely has no effect
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
So....you're a prostitute?
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-07
I'm now dying to see what she looks like. She's evidently one of these intersectional feminists who dabbled in sex work as a form of empowerment, posts in /r/polyamory, etc. She's probably one of the more attractive women in her social circle, but barely turns heads outside of that community. Remember the nintendo employee who got fired for engaging in prostitution on the side? Not bad-looking. But certainly not someone who instantly causes me to think about sex when I pass her by.
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
I found her picture.. /u/herearemyquestions is definitely not as attractive as she thinks she is.
n/a GARBAGE_MACHINE 2017-03-07
i disagree pretty hot tbh
n/a Wacnews_the_White 2017-03-07
...paid you? How so?
n/a Albino_Namekian 2017-03-07
Nothing more attractive than a hooker with an axe to grind. And poly too! What are the odds.
n/a I_smell_like_bacon 2017-03-07
Whore.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I can't be insulted by something that isn't an insult. I'm a proud whore
n/a throwaway03022017 2017-03-07
I'll give you $10 to drag my balls through your asscrack
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Try $10,000
n/a UncleSamuel 2017-03-07
What would I get for $10 then?
-UncleSamuel
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Cock rating
n/a UncleSamuel 2017-03-07
So it's just $10 for you to tell me, I could send one for free and you'd rate it anyway.
-UncleSamuel
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
I'll pay for photos. Set up the paypal and prepare your anus.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I charge extra for ass shots
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
I'm actually just looking for a proof of mass.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Your assumptions aren't enough?
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
I am a river to my people.
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-07
Yeah, but unfortunately you're the Ganges.
n/a Wraith_GraveSpell 2017-03-07
Did we just find a new /u/jewdank?
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
It's not about being ogled, it's about the type of women who complain about being ogled. Like you said, she and women like her, consume feminist literature 24/7. Now look at those women, they're not usually the most physically or intellectually attractive women around. Again, it's now about being ogled but about the act of complaining about being ogled.
n/a massenkompatibel 2017-03-07
Hue, /u/Dolphin_Gokkun just copied this verbatim in the other thread. /u/Dolphin_Gokkun is a circlebroker.
What kind of bizarro reality is this?
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-07
I have no idea what's going.
But godammit, get the formatting correct, Dolphin_Gokkun! I was quoting the woman.
n/a yourshittytherapist 2017-03-07
I wish I was that confident...
n/a newcomer_ts 2017-03-07
He didn't even blink once.
n/a Ennui2778 2017-03-07
I personally like it a lot better without eye contact.
n/a Ennui2778 2017-03-07
People who complain about gaslighting should gas
lightthemselves.n/a botacct22 2017-03-07
Those are all just synonyms for not doing what crazy people want
n/a Thhueros 2017-03-07
Disagreeing with me = gaslighting because my opinions are objective reality.
n/a Bonzalez 2017-03-07
She says that one guy isn't representive of all men yet somehow her mental image of all men does.
n/a tHeSiD 2017-03-07
Don't bring logic into this fam
n/a point_shaver 2017-03-07
I bet this will have more comments than upvotes if posted on SRD
n/a atakeonhooper 2017-03-07
hey /u/pretentiousnazi do you get what gaslighting means now or should i keep insulting you?
n/a Pretentious_Nazi 2017-03-07
Insult me daddy
n/a nmx179 2017-03-07
u/herearemyquestions, here are my questions:
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I hate being leered at by men unless they are paying me.
n/a CedV 2017-03-07
Retard alert.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Your ablism breaks my heart
n/a CedV 2017-03-07
Retard alert.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Bigot alert
n/a CedV 2017-03-07
First correct thing you've posted all day, grats on finally being able to put together a valid thought.
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
Let's explore that.
Discuss the term"retard" and then discuss "bigot".
Then discuss "obese" and "hysteria".
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
There's this thing called Google...
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
We need your voice.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Give me a few hours. Need a full screen for that thesis and I'm on mobile
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
You got it, fam. We need diverse fat opinions.
n/a Itstheusual 2017-03-07
Fair point. What's your excuse?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I don't make excuses. I am who I am
n/a WokeAsFuck 2017-03-07
An angry stripper.
I'm not surprised strippers don't like men but it makes you wonder why they bother.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I don't like it when men ogle me without paying me. There's a big fucking difference.
n/a XurGenderDontReal 2017-03-07
I don't like when retarded strippers think they're worth the money they make. Oh well, they usually blow it all on coke & end up poor in the long run.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Y'all are cute if you think you can get photos out of me. Lol
n/a XurGenderDontReal 2017-03-07
Cow confirmed.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
How's that BBW porn treating you? Got a whole collection there?
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
I will pay you to verify your mass. Let's do this.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Bitcoin?
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
PayPal. Let's go. Prop up those rolls.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Not anonymous enough sorry
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
You, me, a camera, a scale, the entire internet, and a crisp new Harriet Tubman. What do you say?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Try 5 Harriet tubman's
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
Yikes.
n/a WokeAsFuck 2017-03-07
You need a nice empowering niqab to tide you over until looking at women is outlawed.
n/a BannaHamHock 2017-03-07
Honestly, who doesn't? Would you marry someone with downs? I have a suspicion that the answer is no.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I can object to ablism without marrying a disabled person.
n/a shazbottled 2017-03-07
So you wouldn't marry a disabled person?
You're also a stripper with serious daddy issues.
How bad is your cognitive dissonance?
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
They don't want anything except ice cream and balloons. Because, you know, they are retarded.
n/a nmx179 2017-03-07
It sounds like you're the one objectifying men for their money instead of seeing and treating them as human beings.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Lol cute
n/a nmx179 2017-03-07
Sorry you can't handle the truth.🌻
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Hell yeah I objectify men. In the club, it's pay up or shut up. My terf.
n/a lifesbrink 2017-03-07
You prob are a TERF
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Definitely not. trans women are women
n/a Washington_vape 2017-03-07
No they aren't lol
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Yes they are. T-girl porn in your adjacent window: confirmed
n/a Washington_vape 2017-03-07
You can't just change a chromosome, sorry hunny :)
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
People are born trans. It's in their fucking chromosomes
n/a Washington_vape 2017-03-07
People are born xx, xy, or xxy. Nothing else. John Hopkins agrees
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Yes a trans person would have those kind of songs.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Trans women are women. Get over it.
n/a Washington_vape 2017-03-07
Typical mentally ill women
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Because "because chromosomes" isn't an argument. You skipped like at least three sex chromosome combos by the way.
n/a Washington_vape 2017-03-07
Okay buddy
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
http://www.transequality.org/issues/resources/frequently-asked-questions-about-transgender-people
n/a Washington_vape 2017-03-07
http://www.cnsnews.com/blog/michael-w-chapman/johns-hopkins-psychiatrist-transgendered-men-dont-become-women-they-become
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
So your argument is "one old white guy said so"?
n/a Washington_vape 2017-03-07
Hmmm
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Another appeal to authority. Do you have an actual argument? maybe some fucking science?
n/a Washington_vape 2017-03-07
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn20032-transsexual-differences-caught-on-brain-scan/
n/a Washington_vape 2017-03-07
https://www.jstor.org/stable/43893423?seq=1#page_scan_tab_contents
n/a nmx179 2017-03-07
Does this mean you schlick to porn of sexist men?
Actually it probably does, yeah.
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
Come on, now, you are doing it wrong.
Terrible women who want to get AWAY from men are TERFs.
Terrible women who want to stick around and ANNOY men are very accepting of the feminine benis.
n/a Chavril 2017-03-07
a bitter stripper,I'm guessing you work mondays and wednesdays
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I only squeeze it in here and there since I got a day job. Pole tricks feel like flying
n/a PhysicsIsMyMistress 2017-03-07
Why do you believe you have a right to not be looked at when you are out in public?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I never said I had a right to not be looked at. I sure as fuck have a right to complain about it.
n/a PhysicsIsMyMistress 2017-03-07
Okay, so why shouldn't people be looking at you? And how are you not an immature baby for complaining about normal human interactions?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
People shouldn't stare because it's rude.
n/a DoctorJehuty 2017-03-07
Heh, an angry stripper, no wonder who view all men as pigs.
Please step away from the stripper life and into the normal world. While your at it, do cover up. Walking around in that short skirt and that tank top that shows your breast is going to garner the attention you say you despise.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
When did I ever say I view all men as pigs? Enough of them are pigs that I can barely exist in public in peace.
n/a DoctorJehuty 2017-03-07
So what you are saying is that all men who look at you in public and not at the workplace want sex?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
No when they look for too long I know what's up.
n/a DoctorJehuty 2017-03-07
Even if they are making casual conversation and not flirting?
How about if they are taken?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Sometime with their fucking SO right next to them
n/a DoctorJehuty 2017-03-07
Or they are either
A: Looking around B: Casual conversation C: Playing the "awkward" game.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Making other people feel awkward on purpose isn't a fucking game it's harassment.
n/a DoctorJehuty 2017-03-07
Or it just happens because neither want to speak up to be rude.
Hell the same thing happens to me on more than one occasion because of my social anxiety.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Your social anxiety makes you stare creepily at people?
n/a DoctorJehuty 2017-03-07
Not in the eyes, I usually avert my eyes. Much rather keep to myself if I can. Unless I'm working.
n/a Wraith_GraveSpell 2017-03-07
Enough of them are pigs so that you can have an income. You're welcome, babe.
n/a qaswexextort 2017-03-07
Like women don't do the exact same shit. I guess that's the difference between men and women, with men enough are pigs, with women it's nearly all.
n/a Ylajali_2002 2017-03-07
pity me, please, for the love of god, pity me.
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
Also gatekeeping. I'm like King Gatekeeper.
n/a Itstheusual 2017-03-07
You don't get to decide that.
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
I... ok, you win this round.
n/a IamKasper 2017-03-07
This is great.
n/a Pistachiothenut 2017-03-07
No, this is Patrick
n/a Chicup 2017-03-07
ProTip: Most(all) heterosexual women get off on being objectified if its a man they find attractive doing it.
This whole objectification whining is just fucking stupid. Men and women do the same fucking thing to each other, every fucking day.
Yea some creepy guy focusing on that is creepy and shows his lack of self awareness but when her version of "guy makes my panties wet" does it, shes going to be flattered at the very least.
/u/herearemyquestions
You are right, you are being objectified, unless you are fat. Then, not so much.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Fat phobic. Not cool.
Sometimes people like to be objectified as a kink. Everyone likes knowing someone they are attracted to is also attractive to them. The difference is consent.
n/a Itstheusual 2017-03-07
That's not what phobic means, you illiterate narcissist.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
You're afraid of how attracted you are to bigger people and then abuse them on the Internet. Fat phobic.
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
Bigger than what
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Conventional Models
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
How much bigger are we talking here.
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-07
n/a why_we_need_mayocide 2017-03-07
shut up fatty
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
It's cute that you think this will work. Have you seen my post history?
n/a why_we_need_mayocide 2017-03-07
why would I put myself through that?
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-07
For shits and giggles. It's actually quite entertaining.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Because one time I got baited into a MRA thread and I fought it out to the bloody, bitter end. Very similar to this scenario.
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
With what? A bucket of plankton?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I was hoping this was another sponge bob reference but y'all aren't that funny
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
It is a large sea mammal reference.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I know. Disappointing
n/a ay_what_up 2017-03-07
wow incredible. Im always amazed by the amount of free time lolcows like you have to shitpost for us. Not only is it funny, it makes me feel a LOT better about myself. At least I dont spend copious amounts of my time responding to meanies online :(
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Says one of those meanies online.
Does your own hypocrisy get you off?
n/a ay_what_up 2017-03-07
youre worse off than I thought. Whats hypocritical hmmm? I didnt call you mean or reply more than twice. For me to be a hypocrite I would need to either call u a meanie first before I make fun of you or spend COPIOUS amounts of time on reddit arguments before calling you a loser
but alas, i dont
your retardation is showing
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
This took hardly any time at all. It's been easy all the arguments are so pathetic and the misogyny so obvious and old
n/a Chicup 2017-03-07
No just gross to fuck a fatty.
All sex is a kink when you think about it, and you don't get to consent to being attractive to someone. Life doesn't work that way.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I'm going to call out people for being rude and staring.
n/a Chicup 2017-03-07
Yea but no one outside of a feminist hug box is going to care.
You aren't brave, you are just kinda an asshole. I'm an asshole to but I am self aware enough to admit it.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Y'all cared enough to start a whole god damn thread about it.
n/a Chicup 2017-03-07
We objectified you as a lolcow.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
And proved my every point
n/a Chicup 2017-03-07
Which ones did we prove?
n/a Kuonji 2017-03-07
top men
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Literally all of them
n/a Chicup 2017-03-07
I can't even..
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
But can you odd?
n/a Chicup 2017-03-07
I'm so turned on right now.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Not as turned on as I am
n/a Chicup 2017-03-07
QUIT OBJECTIFYING ME.
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
YOU WISH I WERE OBJECTIFYING YOU
n/a Chicup 2017-03-07
QUIT LOOKING AT ME YOU CREEPER!
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
My new strategy is hissing. Try it
n/a TonyFuckingDanza 2017-03-07
Witch hunts... gaslights... sealions
It's like you loopy broads think you live in a tiny Maine fishing village in the 1840's.
Yeeeeeargh
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
Call me Ishmael...
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
Fat: confirmed 👍🏼
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
I can't be insulted by something that isn't an insult
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
Very fat: confirmed 👍🏼
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
BBW porn open in adjacent browsing window: confirmed
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
Are we both agreeing that that would be disgusting and shameful?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
The hypocrisy is shameful
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
But jerking off to a diabetes fetish is NOT shameful, is that correct?
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
That's a new one! Haven't heard of that fetish.
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
Shameful? y/n
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Not if practiced respectfully
n/a ay_what_up 2017-03-07
fat phobic?? are you implying that disliking obese people that are objectively human failures, in health and most likely in procreation, is a bad thing???????
n/a GoddessError 2017-03-07
I see no gaslighting.
n/a TonyFuckingDanza 2017-03-07
Gas lights give off a lovely glow and add a charming ambience to my nightly manspreading sessions.
n/a GoddessError 2017-03-07
Lol, but seriously, where is the gas lighting in that post? I really can't find it.
n/a lifesbrink 2017-03-07
Just ask the stripper. She can spot it anywhere, anytime! Gas companies hate her for this one weird trick!
n/a ragazzo_soup 2017-03-07
I am objectified, therefore I am.
n/a I_smell_like_bacon 2017-03-07
I fart, therefore I am.
n/a dodgethegap 2017-03-07
If Simone de Beauvoir was Descartes' ho instead of Sarte's
n/a theherps 2017-03-07
/u/herearemyquestions you know that avoiding eye contact is a sign of autism.
And going full sperg on reddit is another one
n/a herearemyquestions 2017-03-07
Thank you for your diagnosis. It really clears my life up!
n/a ProfessedBug 2017-03-07
Don't listen to all these r/Drama losers. Actually agree that making eye contact with random men can be taken as a sign of interest.
n/a Wraith_GraveSpell 2017-03-07
To bad it won't clear up those herpes. Also how much for shots of feet?
n/a Orsonius 2017-03-07
I wonder who these people are irl. I've never met someone so neurotic
n/a Crowsworth 2017-03-07
It's true, I objectified her. I imagined her as an object that was fucking off.
n/a double-happiness 2017-03-07
Hey-lp! This damsel's in distress! http://i.imgur.com/E80aiY2.jpg
n/a YourGayOpinion 2017-03-07
Christ almighty, people, upvote the lolcow
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-07
Yeah, this one's pretty good. Almost mod material. We may have found our replacement for Jewdank.
n/a DoctorJehuty 2017-03-07
Or it just happens because neither want to speak up to be rude.
Hell the same thing happens to me on more than one occasion because of my social anxiety.
n/a DoctorJehuty 2017-03-07
Not in the eyes, I usually avert my eyes. Much rather keep to myself if I can. Unless I'm working.
n/a DannyLee90 2017-03-07
Yes, we get how pretty you think you are.
n/a Pepperglue 2017-03-07
Geez, that either is self-confidence, or projection. Not a healthy thing either way.
n/a lifesbrink 2017-03-07
She admitted she is a stripper
n/a Pepperglue 2017-03-07
So she couldn't separate herself from work and real life. Poor thing.
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-07
She clearly needs to start identifying as a manatee. That will stop all that unsolicited ogling.
n/a P51Mike1980 2017-03-07
Seems like the right time to summon /u/absentglare, white knight to all feminists (even though he doesn't understand modern-day feminism) and savior of the fugly strippers.
n/a UncleSamuel 2017-03-07
/u/herearemyquestions I have a question. Do you get a fem boner when you cockblock a bunch of guys just trying to enjoy themselves?
-UncleSamuel