Hey everyone So I just joined this group at school. They have to help their community in some ways. Our goals are quiet big but the girls that are there have a ton of drama. I'll explain it in a min. Anyways, they don't get along or anything, they can't work together. I joined and went to the meeting a few days ago and it is crazy! I mean it. One the members, the day after the meeting (she didn't make it to the meeting), she told me to leave asap because of all the drama. I told her no and that I was here to help. Then all of the sudden she says, "well you know we're black people right? We hold grudges" I mean my jaw dropped. Like seriously? Where did that even come from?

But anyways, today, they were like we're having a meeting after school and they literally said this like 3 mins before my ride appeared. I couldn't make it to that meeting. And actually, it wasn't even a meeting. The leader just stupidly posted in the group chat that she wants to meet up at a place. Then two other girls say okay but something happens and I thought they wanted me. They said no and then the leader said yes, she wanted see me I told her I can't because my ride would be there soon. Then all of the sudden, she goes off on m and says that I wanted to have a meeting and I couldn't even make it to this one. I mean, I was not aware about it until last minute Is that really my fault?

Okay back to the grudge thing. Let's say girl 1 texted in the group chat saying that spreading rumors is not allowed. I never did that. All that happened today at lunch was that I explained what happened with girl 2 (the one who said the grudge thing). Girl 3 (the one who said I "spread" rumors) told girl 2 what happened. That's when girl 1 said that. Then they start going off on me and everything. I even apologized for saying that what she said was racist. I think she thought that I said she was racist. But I'm not sure. Anyways, that happened today. I need to clear this up by tomorrow. We have something happening Saturday (pretty sure something is happening) But I just want some opinions on this and thoughts. Advice is what I need tho. If you guys give me some advice, that be great. I really don't want to break the bridge i have with them. I want to do this for me. I want to be a leader and be able to work with a team that is hard to work with. I'm not doing it to help them but I am doing it to improve my skills. advice, tips, thoughts, anything else thanks