My ex-girlfriend threw a vodka bottle at me. That is, she walked into the room, said "here's your fucking liquor" and threw the bottle at my head. This was after she had spent several hours in the bathtub holding bottles of pills and threatening suicide.
But of course, the problem here was that I was drinking everyday, and I'm why she tried to kill herself. I wasn't even getting drunk. It still enrages me just how much fucked up shit she did but would blame it on some inane, harmless behavior of mine. I never screamed or shouted or got violent or belligerent. But one wrong step and BOOM. Vodka bottle at my head or getting my things smashed or getting assaulted. Literally never raised a hand to either. Mainly because I knew how it'd look to the cops. I have actual scars from her.
I cannot fucking stand people like this. I don't care what kind of person you are or what you believe in, if you're so dense as to blame your shortcomings on others and then HATE them for it, you're mental. You need a psychologist. Reading stuff like this makes me angry because it reminds me of my ex. So happy to be out of that abusive relationship.
to be fair if you are absolutely disgusted with the idea of men even looking at you and all you want to do is hang around with girls nonstop you are probably gay
yeah basically. most TERFs have some sort of weird internal mental disaster going on. she would probably calm down several notches if she just admitted to being gay.
I don't think that's necessarily true. I'm a gay dude and when I was single and went to gay bars with friends I found come ons from other guys really uncomfortable a lot of the time even though I'm definitely attracted to guys. I think certain personalities just find that kind of attention upsetting/ frustrating if it's not from someone they're comfortable with.
Obviously I'm not her so I'm not going to assume anything, but it might just be the bitterness and anger. If she could get over that and find peace then she may actually want to start banging men. But who knows.
Yeah but radfems are like super-retarded and feminists just mildly retarded. It's the difference between being kinda slow and lacking all mental abilities.
Eventually all women get to the state where I, an ugly woman, have always existed - invisible to men, devoid of value to society, by necessity independent and self-sustaining because nobody will help or support you. At age 40 attractive women have it way worse than me as their looks fade - I instead have had my whole life to get accustomed to it and if anything I give fewer fucks than when I was in my teens and 20s. After moving to the Middle East I experienced, at age 49, overweight, more sexual harassment than I ever have simply for being a woman alone and it sucks. If that's what pretty girls have had to deal with their whole life then no thanks.
Fucking rollercoaster of a paragraph. On top I'm like bitch, a lot of women in their 40s are still hot, especially if they're aiming for their own age range. Fuck, I just heard a story about STDs being rampant in retirement communities a which mentioned an 81 year old chick who was banging a guy in his 50s. OP is delusional and thinks everyone is as pathetic as her. And then for some reason a middle aged fat woman decided to move to the absolute worst place in the world for a woman to live?
I, for one, am SHOCKED that living in the Middle East didn't make her feel more secure and confident as a woman.
At what point do you have to confront that if nothing makes you happy, maybe like, there might be some personal issue you have to deal with. No catcalls makes you sad because it means you are invisible and society and doesn't value you, but catcalls suck because evil sexual harassment?
Like, there is no situation where you would be happy - this is not society needing to change anymore because there's literally no change society could make to make you happy.
I could see myself using it but in a positive way. I get the concept and I absolutely love it. Male gaze feels good and I am not obliged to engage with the gazing makes.
I also watched one where the first girl was starting to touch the other's clit, and the camera was between them and they were a meter away from each ther, the only touch between them was the first one's habd in the other's clit. It jooked awkward
Eventually all women get to the state where I, an ugly woman, have always existed - invisible to men, devoid of value to society, by necessity independent and self-sustaining because nobody will help or support you. At age 40 attractive women have it way worse than me as their looks fade - I instead have had my whole life to get accustomed to it and if anything I give fewer fucks than when I was in my teens and 20s. After moving to the Middle East I experienced, at age 49, overweight, more sexual harassment than I ever have simply for being a woman alone and it sucks. If that's what pretty girls have had to deal with their whole life then no thanks.
Jesus Christ. People are mistaking these women for livestock over there.
That statement is so telling of her self hatred. It is not normal to devalue yourself that way. I look in the mirror and see a cute girl who could stand to lose five-ish pounds but is way more into watching tv and drinking than going to the gym and living clean. I also see a hard working woman and blah blah blah - I see me, not some weird assumption about how I am afraid some people might see me. It's sad that she can't see past her fears and insecurities even when looking in the mirror by herself. But it's fucked up that she blames Men for that, and that she thinks it's a symptom of being a woman.
Sharks can procreate by parthogenesis (rare, but it happens). There are also cases of parts of clone humans that need to be surgically removed from women's ovaries. I'm giving it 60 years before we figure out asexual reproduction and we can cull all the men once and for all.
Oh most certainly it didn't. Those things are more likely to cause psychologic symptoms in the woman -
handful of reports worldwide of women with ovarian teratomas who have developed personality changes, paranoid thoughts, confusion, agitation, seizures or memory loss.
that is actually pretty terrifying. Almost like invasion of body snatchers, but more like invasion of the 'naturally grown clones'?
From what I read I think the symptoms in the woman were from her immune system attacking her own brain because it noticed there was a brain where there shouldn't be and decided to declare a War On Brain.
I fear the idea of it having an independent consciousness because I'm "agnostic" about the nature of consciousness... I'm fascinated by it but there doesn't seem to be any solid explanation. So the idea of a partial brain existing where it shouldn't makes me very curious. It does seem after further reading very unlikely that the brain parts the girl in the article grew would be capable of generating consciousness, but for me it raises the question of if it could happen that a similar case could generate a combination of brain parts capable of cognition. I can't fathom what consciousness without senses would be. But maybe it's possible the secondary brain could actually connect to some sensory inputs? It's a weird train of thought and the limits of my knowledge make it difficult where to draw the line of what is possible. But it's very interesting.
This sounds like depression or some mental health issue.
You actually hate that which is most basic and natural: physical attraction.
It's akin to saying; i was fat, so I won't eat, now I'm anorexic.
first comment, strangely sensible
The way men look at us is truly violating. What they want to do to us is violating. And there are very few restrictions to keep them from doing it. The biggest joke in our society is that beautiful women are valued.
To sum it up, I look in the mirror and see a pretty, glorified incubator. The more men look at me, the more I feel my body is not my own, that I am not my own master.
/u/EStarwind I'm not trying to be rude, but it seriously seems like you have mental issues. This is essentially self-hatred, if I were you I'd contact a professional immediately.
The way men look at us is truly violating. What they want to do to us is violating. And there are very few restrictions to keep them from doing it. The biggest joke in our society is that beautiful women are valued.
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n/a pigeondoubletake 2017-03-31
o7
n/a bobbybonnadouchey 2017-03-31
You could replaces all the verbs in the thread with the word rape and the context would still be the same.
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-31
The context would be the same but it would be a more entertaining read.
n/a niggerpenis 2017-03-31
Holy shit these people are pathetic.
n/a atakeonhooper 2017-03-31
you're right, /u/niggerpenis
what kind of sad person would write something like that on the internet, /u/niggerpenis?
n/a Wacnews_the_White 2017-03-31
KekKok.n/a deadleg22 2017-03-31
Guess /u/biggerpenis was taken.
n/a heartfullofhatred 2017-03-31
Probably the type of person whose life is dedicated to being a contrarian on r/drama
n/a hugefuckingfaggot2 2017-03-31
username chex out xD
n/a Leakylocks 2017-03-31
She should just try talking to them. Her personality would shrivel the dick and sex drive of any man within a 100ft radius.
n/a ThatOtherPromise 2017-03-31
Yeah no, that is 100% mental illness
n/a Delicateplace 2017-03-31
Seriously, does she think women are never the problem in a relationship?
n/a zwiebelhans 2017-03-31
This attitude is everywhere. Absolutely in every facet of human relationships. Not everyone has it. But it's a problem everywhere.
n/a Farfany 2017-03-31
My ex-girlfriend threw a vodka bottle at me. That is, she walked into the room, said "here's your fucking liquor" and threw the bottle at my head. This was after she had spent several hours in the bathtub holding bottles of pills and threatening suicide.
But of course, the problem here was that I was drinking everyday, and I'm why she tried to kill herself. I wasn't even getting drunk. It still enrages me just how much fucked up shit she did but would blame it on some inane, harmless behavior of mine. I never screamed or shouted or got violent or belligerent. But one wrong step and BOOM. Vodka bottle at my head or getting my things smashed or getting assaulted. Literally never raised a hand to either. Mainly because I knew how it'd look to the cops. I have actual scars from her.
I cannot fucking stand people like this. I don't care what kind of person you are or what you believe in, if you're so dense as to blame your shortcomings on others and then HATE them for it, you're mental. You need a psychologist. Reading stuff like this makes me angry because it reminds me of my ex. So happy to be out of that abusive relationship.
n/a ur_mom_IoI 2017-03-31
i hate attitudes
n/a heartfullofhatred 2017-03-31
The problem is women? Is that what you're saying? Do you think it would be a good idea to just go with men from now on?
n/a astraydoge 2017-03-31
No the problem is the 'i am not the problem ever' attitude
n/a heartfullofhatred 2017-03-31
Too late im already sucking cocks :)
n/a Awayfone 2017-03-31
She gets her relationship views from r/relationship. (Obviously no personal experience )
n/a Michaelphelpsisquick 2017-03-31
George took the trash out at 6:30 instead of five tonight. Wow fuck him you can do better
n/a Condi_Rice 2017-03-31
If your man smells like applesauce, get yourself a new man
n/a 80BAIT08 2017-03-31
Radfem is a mental illness.
n/a Selesong 2017-03-31
/u/10SOCK I'm not quite sure that's how it works.
n/a bleepis 2017-03-31
to be fair if you are absolutely disgusted with the idea of men even looking at you and all you want to do is hang around with girls nonstop you are probably gay
n/a LadyVetinari 2017-03-31
Yeah pretty sure OP is actually gay. Or suffering from a mental illness. But sounds like most likely just closeted from her post
n/a Wacnews_the_White 2017-03-31
If by gay you mean bisexual TERF, then yes.
n/a Delicateplace 2017-03-31
Clearly only bi because she doesn't want to say she's gay. If you want to fuck men then you want them to be attracted to you: Fact.
n/a bleepis 2017-03-31
yeah basically. most TERFs have some sort of weird internal mental disaster going on. she would probably calm down several notches if she just admitted to being gay.
n/a Delicateplace 2017-03-31
Did you delete this? I can't figure out which of my comments you replied to
n/a bleepis 2017-03-31
nope. wacky
n/a Delicateplace 2017-03-31
Wtf dude where are we even commenting right now
n/a subpoutine 2017-03-31
Not in prison you don't.
n/a buartha 2017-03-31
I don't think that's necessarily true. I'm a gay dude and when I was single and went to gay bars with friends I found come ons from other guys really uncomfortable a lot of the time even though I'm definitely attracted to guys. I think certain personalities just find that kind of attention upsetting/ frustrating if it's not from someone they're comfortable with.
n/a Selesong 2017-03-31
Obviously I'm not her so I'm not going to assume anything, but it might just be the bitterness and anger. If she could get over that and find peace then she may actually want to start banging men. But who knows.
n/a cottonkandykiller 2017-03-31
Or she might be gay.
n/a bleepis 2017-03-31
bitterness and anger =/= absolute revulsion and disgust. i'm guessing she's probably gay and in denial about it for whatever reason and also crazy
n/a HATES_LEFTIST_FUCKS 2017-03-31
This isn't fair. This is like making fun of down syndrome babies.
n/a buttsecksyermum 2017-03-31
Difference is the down-syndrome babies get laid more.
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-31
Down-syndrome babies don't choose to be retarded on purpose, but radfems do.
n/a buttsecksyermum 2017-03-31
ALL feminists do
n/a hotblondeboob 2017-03-31
edgy
n/a buttsecksyermum 2017-03-31
Make yourself useful and lick the edgy my anus.
n/a hotblondeboob 2017-03-31
I bet you would like that, faggot
n/a buttsecksyermum 2017-03-31
Goddamn right.
n/a heartfullofhatred 2017-03-31
Yeah but radfems are like super-retarded and feminists just mildly retarded. It's the difference between being kinda slow and lacking all mental abilities.
n/a wisty 2017-03-31
You think life is meant to be fair?
n/a Akilroth234 2017-03-31
you're only saying that because you're black
n/a astraydoge 2017-03-31
I am a leftist. Hi.
n/a heartfullofhatred 2017-03-31
kys
n/a astraydoge 2017-03-31
I am deeply offended
n/a KT-47 2017-03-31
tfw to attractive too fuck XY chromosome cavebeasts
n/a Hitlery_Clinton 2017-03-31
To Too Two Learn them, fartweasel
n/a satanismyhomeboy 2017-03-31
lurk moar newfriend
n/a atakeonhooper 2017-03-31
stop.
n/a tritter211 2017-03-31
GTFO normie
n/a KT-47 2017-03-31
tfw 2wo intelligent tu use correct t0's.
n/a godofdae 2017-03-31
same here :(
n/a ASimpleSauce 2017-03-31
I cut my face so as to avoid the female gaze.
My job is still too steady, though :(
n/a SmurfPrivilege 2017-03-31
Yikes. These are some broken people. I genuinely hope they are all seeking some kind of help.
n/a Hitlery_Clinton 2017-03-31
Like maybe a fitness trainer or makeup artist. Someone to help fix the fug problem
n/a PIVwhore 2017-03-31
is /r/RadicalFeminism/ a TERF sub, or is it just a coincidence that /u/EStarwind posts in /r/GenderCritical ?
n/a chanilastname 2017-03-31
Pretty sure radfem includes terfs.
n/a EvanHarper 2017-03-31
fucken /r/drama people blatantly voting / commenting on a 3 month old thread, smgdh
n/a buttsecksyermum 2017-03-31
It's impossible to contain this much retardery
n/a DistortedLines 2017-03-31
autism is a defining feature of the community
n/a bleepis 2017-03-31
radfems make me want to get a sex change
n/a Tell_them_to_shrug 2017-03-31
I have so many questions.
n/a CarnistHappyCamp 2017-03-31
she's lucky, half of Islamland she couldn't even go through by herself.
n/a Delicateplace 2017-03-31
Fucking rollercoaster of a paragraph. On top I'm like bitch, a lot of women in their 40s are still hot, especially if they're aiming for their own age range. Fuck, I just heard a story about STDs being rampant in retirement communities a which mentioned an 81 year old chick who was banging a guy in his 50s. OP is delusional and thinks everyone is as pathetic as her. And then for some reason a middle aged fat woman decided to move to the absolute worst place in the world for a woman to live?
I, for one, am SHOCKED that living in the Middle East didn't make her feel more secure and confident as a woman.
n/a giroth 2017-03-31
This kind of Islamophobia is completely unacceptable on Reddit.
n/a Condi_Rice 2017-03-31
At what point do you have to confront that if nothing makes you happy, maybe like, there might be some personal issue you have to deal with. No catcalls makes you sad because it means you are invisible and society and doesn't value you, but catcalls suck because evil sexual harassment?
Like, there is no situation where you would be happy - this is not society needing to change anymore because there's literally no change society could make to make you happy.
n/a GodsSoldierAscendant 2017-03-31
Anyone remember who wrote this? They've deleted it now
n/a TheScruffleShuffle 2017-03-31
its in the archive
n/a Works_of_memercy 2017-03-31
/u/dharmabird67, you should transition to male and see how all that completely changes, with Patriarchy always there to console and support you.
n/a wwyzzerdd 2017-03-31
Round up /r/incels and /r/radfem, place in rocket, launch at sun.
n/a 39flws 2017-03-31
Round up /r/incels and /r/radfem, place in middle school gym, play The Killers.
n/a CarnistHappyCamp 2017-03-31
Mr Brightside or Somebody Told Me?
I mean, both could get the job done via ear bleeding I guess.
n/a theherps 2017-03-31
Just put them on an island together and record the Shipshewana for our amusement
n/a Raitapaita 2017-03-31
I would watch that.
n/a amityville 2017-03-31
Can we get rid of r/redpill also?
n/a Sai22 2017-03-31
/u/dharmabird67 Why did you move to the middle east??
n/a Nomadlads 2017-03-31
The West is too oppressive.
n/a ItsSugar 2017-03-31
Maybe thought those were the cow worshipers.
n/a dharmabird67 2017-03-31
Why do most expats move to the ME? $$$$$
n/a cuteman 2017-03-31
Sheik sex slave independent contractor?
n/a GodsSoldierAscendant 2017-03-31
/u/dharmabird67 why you deleted your comment?
n/a Harradar 2017-03-31
There's probably a woman out there somewhere who uses the term 'male gaze' but who isn't a raging man-hater, but we've yet to make contact with her.
n/a Delicateplace 2017-03-31
I could see myself using it but in a positive way. I get the concept and I absolutely love it. Male gaze feels good and I am not obliged to engage with the gazing makes.
n/a pm_me_ur_cats_toes 2017-03-31
I use it and I don't hate men. I mostly use it to complain about "lesbian" porn made for dudes rather than me tho.
Truly, this is the most heinous of all oppression.
n/a astraydoge 2017-03-31
I am a dude and still lesbian pirn with l9ng nails makes me cringe so hard
n/a pm_me_ur_cats_toes 2017-03-31
Like why would you do that? Honestly.
n/a astraydoge 2017-03-31
I also watched one where the first girl was starting to touch the other's clit, and the camera was between them and they were a meter away from each ther, the only touch between them was the first one's habd in the other's clit. It jooked awkward
n/a CirqueDuFuder 2017-03-31
Jesus Christ. People are mistaking these women for livestock over there.
n/a jubbergun 2017-03-31
Given that it's /r/RadicalFeminism that's probably an honest mistake.
n/a Akilroth234 2017-03-31
basically what women are tbh
n/a Delicateplace 2017-03-31
That statement is so telling of her self hatred. It is not normal to devalue yourself that way. I look in the mirror and see a cute girl who could stand to lose five-ish pounds but is way more into watching tv and drinking than going to the gym and living clean. I also see a hard working woman and blah blah blah - I see me, not some weird assumption about how I am afraid some people might see me. It's sad that she can't see past her fears and insecurities even when looking in the mirror by herself. But it's fucked up that she blames Men for that, and that she thinks it's a symptom of being a woman.
n/a Akilroth234 2017-03-31
no, you are a glorified incubator
n/a LadyVetinari 2017-03-31
And you are a glorified ovipositor.
Sharks can procreate by parthogenesis (rare, but it happens). There are also cases of parts of clone humans that need to be surgically removed from women's ovaries. I'm giving it 60 years before we figure out asexual reproduction and we can cull all the men once and for all.
n/a gilmore606 2017-03-31
i'm not very glorified tbh
n/a Delicateplace 2017-03-31
WHAT THE FUCK.
I am terrified by the thought of that brain potentially having consciousness.
n/a LadyVetinari 2017-03-31
Oh most certainly it didn't. Those things are more likely to cause psychologic symptoms in the woman -
that is actually pretty terrifying. Almost like invasion of body snatchers, but more like invasion of the 'naturally grown clones'?
n/a Delicateplace 2017-03-31
From what I read I think the symptoms in the woman were from her immune system attacking her own brain because it noticed there was a brain where there shouldn't be and decided to declare a War On Brain.
I fear the idea of it having an independent consciousness because I'm "agnostic" about the nature of consciousness... I'm fascinated by it but there doesn't seem to be any solid explanation. So the idea of a partial brain existing where it shouldn't makes me very curious. It does seem after further reading very unlikely that the brain parts the girl in the article grew would be capable of generating consciousness, but for me it raises the question of if it could happen that a similar case could generate a combination of brain parts capable of cognition. I can't fathom what consciousness without senses would be. But maybe it's possible the secondary brain could actually connect to some sensory inputs? It's a weird train of thought and the limits of my knowledge make it difficult where to draw the line of what is possible. But it's very interesting.
n/a Chin_Up_Chick 2017-03-31
Conveniently went unanswered.
n/a CarnistHappyCamp 2017-03-31
this juxtaposition takes the cake:
first comment, strangely sensible
second comment screeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeetch
n/a Skreamie 2017-03-31
I love how the very top comment points out that she probably has a mental illness.
n/a GodsSoldierAscendant 2017-03-31
It's up by 12 points now but it was actually slightly below the other comment chain before I posted this.
n/a theherps 2017-03-31
/u/EStarwind, thanks for reminding us that (((women))) were a mistake
#IWantThatRibBack
n/a captainpriapism 2017-03-31
why are they even worrying
if a man starts showing them attention they can just say that theyre a radical feminist
n/a DistortedLines 2017-03-31
/u/EStarwind I'm not trying to be rude, but it seriously seems like you have mental issues. This is essentially self-hatred, if I were you I'd contact a professional immediately.
n/a astraydoge 2017-03-31
/u/EStarwind, you sure you aren't a misogynistic edgelord tho?
n/a OnSnowWhiteWings 2017-03-31
It's like an meeting of incels, but instead of pathetic and pitiful, it's empowering and progressive.
n/a KekGratiaRex 2017-03-31
No one that's actually attractive says this.
n/a chanilastname 2017-03-31
Surely the comment about eye raping the pineapples is a joke. Right?
n/a Raitapaita 2017-03-31
That's 4 months old thread but the pineapple comment is new. So yeah, a joke probably brought to us by r/Drama.
n/a Mexagon 2017-03-31
r/theradfempill
n/a Chavril 2017-03-31
imagine being simultaneously as privileged and pathetic as /u/EStarwind