I knew the town she moved to school from (it's only like an hour away from me and I have family that lives nearby- we have talked about it before), so I texted her and told her I was coming to meet her.
Thats the textbook definition of "Being a creepy fucking stalker". I'm not sure if he is a troll or just severely autistic.
Don't worry about it /u/helpmeplease90182309. Some women just don't understand romance in today's day and age. Pretend to play along, but secretly build a shrine to her. You ever read The Secret? The Universe rewards those who do good. If you do good and really focus on her, the Universe will see that and maybe she'll get lonely and give you a blowjob a couple years down the road.
Remember, you are Ryan Gosling and "The Notebook" is story of your life. Don't let that Cease and Desist letter stop you. Try hanging from a tree branch outside her home. That will win you a date meeting with her.
/u/helpmeplease90182309 what does it take for you to understand that she wants nothing to do with you? Police intervention? Criminal proceedings? She doesn't owe you anything. Its clears that whatever connection you had with her was primarily in your head. She is so unnerved by your obsession with her that she sought legal advice.
I mean, fuck me, what does it take to get across to these kind of guys that they should back off? Apparently basic social cues and now legal intervention still isn't enough.
Feels like his next question for Reddit will be "how to dispose of a dead body".
We got lunch a few times during the first month on campus and I gave her tours of the campus. We hit it off immediately and I knew I was in love instantly.
Sounds like somebody with a mental illness who's just young enough to get full blown symptoms without a diagnosis yet (21 is kind of the sweet spot for that).
Also /u/helpmeplease90182309, please understand she's just a slut, and she wants nothing to do with you. Move on on try /r/incels.
I am breaking r/drama protocol here to be completely honest with you: You are sick. You can not see how you terrorize her. You need to find help mate. If you ever want to find a girl to be with then you need to straighten yourself out before. Get a shrink.
The girl very clearly said she does not want you but you kept pestering her like a lunatic. SHE SAID NO. Everything afterwards is harassment even if you don't realize it is.
Hey guys, I already posted on r/relationships for the relationship side of all this, but I need some advice on the legal side. For context, I am 21 and she is 19.
I will give the short version of the story here. I guess if you need more context, see my other post. I met this girl in January of this year at the start of the second semester at our university when we worked in one of the rec centers together. She was a freshman and I was a Junior. She started college a semester late (she said because of family issues) and said she was nervous about it, so I decided to show her around a bit. We got lunch a few times during the first month on campus and I gave her tours of the campus. We hit it off immediately and I knew I was in love instantly. Well, long story short, I asked her our and she said no. I was heartbroken, but she agreed to still be friends (unfortunately, I don't have evidence of this since the conversation was in person). I tried several times throughout the semester to show her what she meant to me, but she ignored me and all the thought I put into the gifts I gave her. We had a falling out that involved me drunk calling her and her telling me to leave her alone when I tried to explain.
I have spent the last month in absolute depression. I think about her every day. She blocked me on social media, so I can't see her profile, but I haven't texted her since school ended. But it finally got to be too much for me. I decided I would try one more time to show her how much I love her. I knew the town she moved to school from (its only like an hour away from me and I have family that live nearby- we have talked about it before), so I texted her and told her I was coming to meet her. I was going to meet her at X coffee shop and I wanted to talk about everything. Once again, she couldn't even do me the respect of replying. I checked her Instagram that night and saw that she was out partying that very night. There were pictures of her with alcohol (she is UNDERAGE) and her wearing skanky clothes (she told me she hated partying). its like she has become a totally different person. So I did freak out a little. I told her about how much I cared and about how awful it was for her to just ignore me like that. That I was going to come to coffee shop on X day and if she should do me the respect of coming to see me.
She never replied, but I got a piece of mail today. It was a fucking cease and desist letter. She said she would "seek legal avenues" if I didn't stop "harassing" her. What the fuck reddit? I need to know what I can do legally to talk to her and make sure she doesn't understand. I don't want to live a life knowing she hates me. From my research, a Cease and Desist letter isn't legally binding like a restraining order or anything and I am not harassing her since I don't have an intent to intimidate or hurt her, so she can't charge me with anything. Is all that true? Do I need a lawyer to respond to her letter?
She told me she doesn't think about me that way, but promised we could stay friends. This really really hurt. I cried in my apartment and couldn't bring myself to go to class the next day.
Ahhahahaha
But seriously. As a woman, I think you just need to show her your post. She clearly just doesn't realize what a fagnice guy you are. Also, if she has a pet, try kidnapping it. That way you can be the hero when you show up on her doorstep with it.
45 comments
n/a SnapshillBot 2017-05-31
Your condescending, contradictory bullshit isn't attractive to anyone except your frothing, basement-dwelling, virgin army.
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n/a szatkus 2017-05-31
/r/relationships thread
n/a IvankaTrumpIsMyWaifu 2017-05-31
Gods work son
n/a MG87 2017-05-31
Thats the textbook definition of "Being a creepy fucking stalker". I'm not sure if he is a troll or just severely autistic.
n/a wwyzzerdd 2017-05-31
Someone is not dealing with their hormones in a healthy or appropriate manner.
Probably better make her into a skin suit.
n/a worthlessworthl 2017-05-31
He should have drawn a picture of his crush and posted it to reddit. I hear that's a great way to deal with your hormones.
n/a donaldthelion 2017-05-31
Sounds like a future incel poster
n/a lifesbrink 2017-05-31
I have a feeling he already is one
n/a OiBoiFloyd 2017-05-31
Do these cucks not understand that being friends with girls gives you opportunities to bang their cute friends?
n/a grungebot5000 2017-05-31
of course not. it probably ain't even applicable
n/a a_normal_human 2017-05-31
You mean, it gives them opportunities to collect the hair and discarded socks of her friends to smell, right?
n/a wwyzzerdd 2017-05-31
Sleep Breath jars are where its at.
n/a harrah8083 2017-05-31
Mods who lock comment sections are the biggest fucking pussies on the internet. So lame, limiting the drama and shit.
n/a TheCodexx 2017-05-31
They want the power, but dealing with flame wars is actual work, and someone might have the wrong opinion, and that just can't be allowed.
It's easier to just stop the conversation than to let a discussion happen you might not like.
n/a grungebot5000 2017-05-31
the power
holy shit
n/a throwaway03022017 2017-05-31
Rah rah fight the powah
n/a donaldthelion 2017-05-31
Anyone wanna ping this guy, you might get a new stalker
n/a OnlyRacistOnReddit 2017-05-31
Will I have to show him my bussy?
n/a OkaySeriouslyBro 2017-05-31
That poor girl is gonna get murdered :(
n/a zahlman 2017-05-31
Also delet facebook, right?
n/a wowbagger88 2017-05-31
YOU'RE ALL A BUNCH OF JUDGING JUDYS
Don't worry about it /u/helpmeplease90182309. Some women just don't understand romance in today's day and age. Pretend to play along, but secretly build a shrine to her. You ever read The Secret? The Universe rewards those who do good. If you do good and really focus on her, the Universe will see that and maybe she'll get lonely and give you a blowjob a couple years down the road.
n/a OnlyRacistOnReddit 2017-05-31
I seriously hope that delusional fucker doesn't read this post.
n/a chanilastname 2017-05-31
This girl started school late because of "family issues" and now this douche won't leave her alone. Sad. 😔😔
n/a Straightest_Guy_Ever 2017-05-31
You are absolutely right /u/helpmeplease90182309.
Remember, you are Ryan Gosling and "The Notebook" is story of your life. Don't let that Cease and Desist letter stop you. Try hanging from a tree branch outside her home. That will win you a
datemeeting with her.n/a OnlyRacistOnReddit 2017-05-31
Build her a house! That will convince her!
n/a Time_to_Drink 2017-05-31
/u/helpmeplease90182309 what does it take for you to understand that she wants nothing to do with you? Police intervention? Criminal proceedings? She doesn't owe you anything. Its clears that whatever connection you had with her was primarily in your head. She is so unnerved by your obsession with her that she sought legal advice.
I mean, fuck me, what does it take to get across to these kind of guys that they should back off? Apparently basic social cues and now legal intervention still isn't enough.
n/a throwaway03022017 2017-05-31
Stop being discouraging you relentless faggot
n/a Time_to_Drink 2017-05-31
If I only stop one potential heterosexual mating per day, I consider my day a success.
#relentlessbussy
n/a throwaway03022017 2017-05-31
Well, if it's for bussy, I guess I can accept that
n/a cleverseneca 2017-05-31
The ends justify the means
n/a porygonzguy 2017-05-31
/u/helpmeplease90182309 let's see your bussy
n/a IAintThatGuy 2017-05-31
Feels like his next question for Reddit will be "how to dispose of a dead body".
Sounds like somebody with a mental illness who's just young enough to get full blown symptoms without a diagnosis yet (21 is kind of the sweet spot for that).
Also /u/helpmeplease90182309, please understand she's just a slut, and she wants nothing to do with you. Move on on try /r/incels.
n/a cleverseneca 2017-05-31
Pigs or acid everyone knows that!
n/a IAintThatGuy 2017-05-31
Acid isn't so great. It's more effective in a living slut's face to take her down a notch.
n/a niggerpenis 2017-05-31
Threads like these are what I look forward to during my shit breaks. Thank you OP.
n/a SamWhite 2017-05-31
Holy shit lol. I never realised saying something like that is a legally binding statement.
n/a charlestoncar 2017-05-31
(´・ω・`)
n/a MG87 2017-05-31
Now that was a fucking terrifying story.
n/a hotchocletylesbian 2017-05-31
denko no
n/a savantfool 2017-05-31
/u/elpmeplease90182309
I am breaking r/drama protocol here to be completely honest with you: You are sick. You can not see how you terrorize her. You need to find help mate. If you ever want to find a girl to be with then you need to straighten yourself out before. Get a shrink.
The girl very clearly said she does not want you but you kept pestering her like a lunatic. SHE SAID NO. Everything afterwards is harassment even if you don't realize it is.
n/a FitAndDumb 2017-05-31
Someone make this guy a mod
n/a a_normal_human 2017-05-31
Is he a poo-in-the-loo? He sounds like one.
n/a OnlyRacistOnReddit 2017-05-31
Poor /u/helpmeplease90182309 he probably only needs two more for his skin suit!
n/a MG87 2017-05-31
(´・ω・`)
Except for all the people that showed you the law
n/a no___justno 2017-05-31
Hey guys, I already posted on r/relationships for the relationship side of all this, but I need some advice on the legal side. For context, I am 21 and she is 19.
I will give the short version of the story here. I guess if you need more context, see my other post. I met this girl in January of this year at the start of the second semester at our university when we worked in one of the rec centers together. She was a freshman and I was a Junior. She started college a semester late (she said because of family issues) and said she was nervous about it, so I decided to show her around a bit. We got lunch a few times during the first month on campus and I gave her tours of the campus. We hit it off immediately and I knew I was in love instantly. Well, long story short, I asked her our and she said no. I was heartbroken, but she agreed to still be friends (unfortunately, I don't have evidence of this since the conversation was in person). I tried several times throughout the semester to show her what she meant to me, but she ignored me and all the thought I put into the gifts I gave her. We had a falling out that involved me drunk calling her and her telling me to leave her alone when I tried to explain. I have spent the last month in absolute depression. I think about her every day. She blocked me on social media, so I can't see her profile, but I haven't texted her since school ended. But it finally got to be too much for me. I decided I would try one more time to show her how much I love her. I knew the town she moved to school from (its only like an hour away from me and I have family that live nearby- we have talked about it before), so I texted her and told her I was coming to meet her. I was going to meet her at X coffee shop and I wanted to talk about everything. Once again, she couldn't even do me the respect of replying. I checked her Instagram that night and saw that she was out partying that very night. There were pictures of her with alcohol (she is UNDERAGE) and her wearing skanky clothes (she told me she hated partying). its like she has become a totally different person. So I did freak out a little. I told her about how much I cared and about how awful it was for her to just ignore me like that. That I was going to come to coffee shop on X day and if she should do me the respect of coming to see me.
She never replied, but I got a piece of mail today. It was a fucking cease and desist letter. She said she would "seek legal avenues" if I didn't stop "harassing" her. What the fuck reddit? I need to know what I can do legally to talk to her and make sure she doesn't understand. I don't want to live a life knowing she hates me. From my research, a Cease and Desist letter isn't legally binding like a restraining order or anything and I am not harassing her since I don't have an intent to intimidate or hurt her, so she can't charge me with anything. Is all that true? Do I need a lawyer to respond to her letter?
Thanks for all your help and for reading this.
n/a a_normal_human 2017-05-31
Goddamn, reddit is easy to troll.
I miss GameOfTrolls.
n/a wabbit_1444 2017-05-31
Ahhahahaha
But seriously. As a woman, I think you just need to show her your post. She clearly just doesn't realize what a
fagnice guy you are. Also, if she has a pet, try kidnapping it. That way you can be the hero when you show up on her doorstep with it.