I can be crying while rocking our newborn that has been crying for 2 hours, and he will literally sit on the couch browsing Reddit. He feels no need to help with her, or check on me.
Damn /u/Allofmybadthings. I feel like this is what happens when you marry an incel.
Learned helplessness is behavior typical of a human or non-human animal and occurs where an animal endures repeatedly painful or otherwise aversive stimuli which it is unable to escape or avoid. After such experience, the organism often fails to learn or accept "escape" or "avoidance" in new situations where such behavior would likely be effective. In other words, the organism learned that it is helpless in situations where there is a presence of aversive stimuli and has accepted that it has lost control, and thus gives up trying. Such an organism is said to have acquired learned helplessness. Learned helplessness theory is the view that clinical depression and related mental illnesses may result from such real or perceived absence of control over the outcome of a situation.
He's a shy, introverted guy with very little confidence. I'm very beautiful, wild and outgoing.
I think I found part of the problem here.
/u/Allofmybadthings, you need to lose weight and give better head more often. It's in your best interests to cling to this guy because after giving birth to 3 children, you're not "beautiful" or "wild" or "outgoing" since like decades ago. Unless you have a higher earning loser lined up to foot your bills that is, then squeeze the guy for every last penny you can and bail out.
"Like I said he's a bit of a robot. His solution to all things is to shut down."
"I know it's wrong but I text him from a fake number and sent fake nudes. I thought he'd be his regular bashful self...he's totally into it. He said he's single, loves his freedom, exchanged nudes and is even talking about meeting up with this fake chic."
So in other words he's not interested in you. The dude's not a robot he's just not interested in someone who's pumped out 3 kids and frankly sounds like a complete nag.
I was married for 3 years with my ex husband. Started Cheating on me 6 months after we got married. I didn’t notice at all. He sent me flowers and said touching words to me everyday. He would take me out for dinners, to official parties and clubs.
Until my friend told me he was cheating on me she said she had know for a while but she couldn't tell me because of the love I had for him.
Wanted to be sure I surfed online, came in contact with [email protected], he hacked his mails Facebook text msg instagram I had access to all dating site he is been visiting all his deleted messages were retrieved. Then I realized what a fool I was. I should notice the cheating guy ages ago. And here are the all the signs:
He is spending a significant amount of time with someone else.
He’s gone longer.
He’s extremely angry.
You notice an increase in his work or his time spent away from home.
His appearance has changed.
He’s overly defensive.
He maintains multiple e-mail or social media accounts.
He stops noticing you.
His accusations that you’re jealous and or crazy.
Thank you ([email protected]) for bringing me out of this situation..
No, she's very wild, beautiful, and outgoing. He is lucky to have her and her untreated depression and I'll be goddamned if you and your salient arguments try to tell me otherwise.
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n/a SnapshillBot 2017-06-15
Jews did this
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n/a Ultrashitpost 2017-06-15
Indeed, Snappy
n/a 420CO 2017-06-15
a modern prophet
n/a mehforeverybody 2017-06-15
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n/a Ultrashitpost 2017-06-15
This is why people need Jesus
n/a mehforeverybody 2017-06-15
Jesus? Nah, what the world needs is a new symbol of equality and truth.....
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and r/drama as it's apostles
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n/a Ultrashitpost 2017-06-15
As far as prophets go, snappy has been dead on the money more often than the greatest figures of religion.
n/a mehforeverybody 2017-06-15
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and mayocide will come...
n/a mehforeverybody 2017-06-15
Jesus? Nah, what the world needs is a new symbol of equality and truth.....
SNAPSHILLBOT
and r/drama as it's apostles
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n/a OniTan 2017-06-15
Damn /u/Allofmybadthings. I feel like this is what happens when you marry an incel.
n/a cleverseneca 2017-06-15
This is known as learned helplessness
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Learned helplessness
Learned helplessness is behavior typical of a human or non-human animal and occurs where an animal endures repeatedly painful or otherwise aversive stimuli which it is unable to escape or avoid. After such experience, the organism often fails to learn or accept "escape" or "avoidance" in new situations where such behavior would likely be effective. In other words, the organism learned that it is helpless in situations where there is a presence of aversive stimuli and has accepted that it has lost control, and thus gives up trying. Such an organism is said to have acquired learned helplessness. Learned helplessness theory is the view that clinical depression and related mental illnesses may result from such real or perceived absence of control over the outcome of a situation.
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n/a flipkt 2017-06-15
I think I found part of the problem here.
/u/Allofmybadthings, you need to lose weight and give better head more often. It's in your best interests to cling to this guy because after giving birth to 3 children, you're not "beautiful" or "wild" or "outgoing" since like decades ago. Unless you have a higher earning loser lined up to foot your bills that is, then squeeze the guy for every last penny you can and bail out.
n/a LordBlackmore 2017-06-15
It would not surprise me if she's the boss and he needs to ask her permission to do anything.
n/a neutralvoter 2017-06-15
"Like I said he's a bit of a robot. His solution to all things is to shut down."
"I know it's wrong but I text him from a fake number and sent fake nudes. I thought he'd be his regular bashful self...he's totally into it. He said he's single, loves his freedom, exchanged nudes and is even talking about meeting up with this fake chic."
So in other words he's not interested in you. The dude's not a robot he's just not interested in someone who's pumped out 3 kids and frankly sounds like a complete nag.
n/a Debbiewillie1 2017-06-15
I was married for 3 years with my ex husband. Started Cheating on me 6 months after we got married. I didn’t notice at all. He sent me flowers and said touching words to me everyday. He would take me out for dinners, to official parties and clubs.
Until my friend told me he was cheating on me she said she had know for a while but she couldn't tell me because of the love I had for him.
Wanted to be sure I surfed online, came in contact with [email protected], he hacked his mails Facebook text msg instagram I had access to all dating site he is been visiting all his deleted messages were retrieved. Then I realized what a fool I was. I should notice the cheating guy ages ago. And here are the all the signs:
He is spending a significant amount of time with someone else. He’s gone longer. He’s extremely angry. You notice an increase in his work or his time spent away from home. His appearance has changed. He’s overly defensive. He maintains multiple e-mail or social media accounts. He stops noticing you. His accusations that you’re jealous and or crazy.
Thank you ([email protected]) for bringing me out of this situation..
n/a lvl99SkrubRekker 2017-06-15
Yeah, I am sure that being a single mom of three while her ex gets some strange and hangs with the boys is really going to make her feel better.
A) He already wasnt getting any because apparently he was forced to sleep in another room as to not wake up the baby.
B) she is probably a cow
C) the girl she texted as was random, and he probably just thought some chicl got the wrong number but he was getting nudes so whatever
Guy is the confirmed victim.
n/a TrailerParkBride 2017-06-15
No, she's very wild, beautiful, and outgoing. He is lucky to have her and her untreated depression and I'll be goddamned if you and your salient arguments try to tell me otherwise.