Is breastfeeding a thirteen-year-old child abuse, or is it fine because the child could just say no if they didn't want it? netmums debate.

80  2017-06-29 by snallygaster

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"I don't get why you think SS should be involved? Because she said "talk to the hand cause the face isnt listening"? I know loads of people who say that in RL."

Imagine having the density of lead

Agreed, I don't think it's a matter of discussion if the SS should be involved in this case.

They SS had a chance of preventing this and all cases like this a looong time ago, but alas...

SS

immediately read that as straight shota, lol. given the nature of the thread, it totally fits.

I read it as Schutzstaffel.
Also makes sense.

basically except for fathers instead of jews

Secret service for me

Scout sniper

Slim Shady

Sexy sister

Social Security, as in the Department of Health and Social Security, as in the Half Man Half Biscuit album, Back in the DHSS.

it's link-tastic, pop-pickers!

Has anyone even seen a "breastfeed a grown kid" mom where the child wasn't a boy?

Well fuck me, they really do exist

This is basically the beginning of half the straight shota porn. The other half being bath time.

A connoisseur I see

I lived the life once. Now I'm retired.

I also know loads of people who say that, here in the year 2000 where I access Reddit from my dial up modem while drinking Zima

Biologically speaking, offspring should be nursed until puberty.

you best be joking

lol you dont know science

stop rustling my jim jams

yeah, obviously you nurse right up until the 21st

I know some people who are still at it in their 30s.

You can legally wean them off with a bottle at that age.

yeah, obviously you nurse right up until the 21st

Why stop there? Mix a little bourbon in with mommies milk and it's the perfect 21st birthday shot.

yummy yummy

who says mummies don't have cummies

there is simply no science to back up the idea that humans should be breast fed until puberty. none. Just because you led with biologically doesn't mean you're not a dumb retard pulling shit from his ass.

Why are you so triggered by FACTS? Read a fucking book.

biologically speaking paper and ink is not meant to convey thoughts.

spicy

I'd kinda like to be nursed by that Omarosa chick from The Apprentice.

I think it depends on whether or not she's a milf.

What a half assed rhyme, kys

Is this real life or some weird-ass japanese manga anime weebo shit?

It's real and it's boob nazi shit.

Only insane individuals use " supermom" net forums for advice.

If you want to see some boob nazis, you should go look up La Leche League. They take a good idea and then go hardcore with it in a way that would make the Scientologists blush.

I am actually dealing with the Boob Nazis as we speak. It's been absolute hell. I'm tired, I cry, the baby cries, my tits HURT from constant feeds and I've got two 'lactation consultants' chucklefucks and midwives feeding me BS about how I need to tough it out to give the little baby goober the best start in life. It fucking sucks, dude.

They honestly gave me literature about how breastfed babies have a higher IQ, that the bond between me and the newborn won't be as strong if I do forumla etc etc. It's boob propoganda. Like my BS metre is tingling off the scale on their claims of the benefits.

Oh, I believe you 100% because I've seen it before. New mom is a wreck from lack of sleep, new parent anxiety, and (not to mention) the stress of having just given birth. Kid won't latch because he doesn't know wtf. Meanwhile some harpie from LLL is standing over them, saying that junior will never get into an Ivy League school and will probably be autistic BECAUSE YOU JUST DON'T CARE ENOUGH TO BE A GOOD PARENT AND WHY DID YOU EVEN HAVE THAT BABY YOU CALLOUS BITCH?!???!??

It puts the fear of God into you. It's like some Catholic tier guilt that you're setting your kid up for failure if you don't breastfeed.

Wow, fuck them. btw, the most recent scientific evidence has shown that the cognitive benefit that breastfed children were shown to have in previous studies disappears completely by the time that children are preschool-age.

That propaganda is complete bullshit.

To be fair the formula companies in the 50's went full on nuclear with anti-breastfeeding propaganda the results of which still linger to this day. It's important to educate people on the substantial benefits of breast feeding, which include not dumping thousands of dollars into formula company pockets.

And those cognitive studies aren't as debunked as you think. Breastfed children do perform better throughout life, well past preschool. The only question is if it's breastfeeding that causes it or other factors (parent education, income, etc), since those factors are also correlated with higher rates of breastfeeding. It's impossible to say definitively either way.

That makes me feel loads better, actually. My husband on his quest to make me less of a emotional wreck found a study that indicated that some of the health benefits of breastfeeding were socioeconomic more than anything. Middle class women are the ones who have the resources and time to devote to breastfeeding as opposed to the working joe mom who has to formula feed and go back to work. And naturally a middle class family will have healthier babies because they have money for better medical care and upbringing. Idk how that study applies when you live in NHS free healthcare land Britistan (as those pol boys say) but yeah. Thanks. I do feel better not buying into this boob is best shenanigan.

That makes a lot of sense. And even if there is a cognitive benefit that isn't actually caused by an underlying variable like socioeconomic class, that benefit is going to be tiny compared to the benefits that come from good parenting. It seems like many of the people who are rabid about breastfeeding and other low-level forms of parenting like co-sleeping attach to them because they're easy (for them) ways to feel like good (and superior) parents while neglecting the things that matter the most in raising a child into a healthy adult: being a good example of a stable, self-sufficient adult, modeling a healthy relationship, fostering a love of learning, striking the right balance between authority and permissiveness, etc. It's the epitome of missing the forest for the trees. If a child is raised by good parents, it's not going to matter if they were formula-fed or breastfed, even if they do happen to score a couple points lower on some abstract memory test.

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The child could stop if he wished to. It's not abuse because he is still getting milk from it.

Wew lass

The child could stop if he wished to. It's not abuse because he is still getting pleasure from it.

literally non-ironically pedo logic.

"But what if the child consents tho?"

eh whatever, if toddler's and tiara's is legal then you'll make a hard case for banning breastfeeding until 13. Hell, if it's legal to market catchmeoutsidedumpingmyfetusinadumpster girl then it seems anything outside of gross pedophilia is legal when it comes to kids.

Isn't this the place that gave us the tendies memes?

It is?

I know it was one of the internet power mom forums

Oh, according to KYM it was mumsnet. This is probably a spinoff born out of some sort of drama, mumsnet is notoriously awful

More accurately /rk9/ tried to troll mumsnet. However they got founf out when one of the users thought the moms were kinda hot and linked the thread. The result was some of the most pathetic attempts at flirting the world has ever seen, as well as the pepepoopoo memes (the first attempt to reclaim pepe from the normies, which failed)

And yes, the fact that i know this is pathetic and i should prolly kms

Mumsnet memes are top drawer - "AIBU with my DS and DD's penis beaker?"

Are people really stupid enough to even have to debate this? Why is this a thing?

There's a subculture of extreme attachment parenting/breastfeeding advocacy that believes that children should be breastfed for as long as possible or until they explicitly want to stop (hmmmm wonder how much freedom they have in that choice when their mothers are obsessed with breastfeeding and want it to happen for as long as possible). A good deal of them also seem to be pedophiles/fetishists who get gratification from it, as can be seen by the sensual posts made on boob nazis' blogs that read like erotica (but don't dare call them out on it), the infamous Katherine Marion, and this chick: https://anony.link/http://www.thedenverchannel.com/news/u-s-world/tallahassee-woman-leigh-felton-made-sexually-explicit-videos-while-breastfeeding-reports

But because breastfeeding is actually a basic human function for (young) children and the activism around breastfeeding, which actually does have legitimate points, these crazies are allowed to do what they do completely protected from scrutiny, unless CPS gets involved for different reasons (usually this behavior is paired with other abusive and creepy shit).

Don't these moms also make fetish porn on youtube? This is child abuse, its not even debatable child abuse.

Yeah. If you look at the comments on those videos, it's like 80% fetishists mixed in with fellow boob nazis and random people who stumbled on the videos and are repulsed. It's nasty stuff, but as soon as someone claims it's fetish shit they all swarm in and go on the defensive with 'it's natural hunter gatherers do it YOU're the one who's sexualizing it it's my right as a woman you misogynist are you afraid of boobs' etc., plus normal breastfeeding advocates and progressives seem to protect them too, so good luck calling it for what it is.

"boob nazi"....I hate the internet...why would breastfeeding advocates support that though? Breastfeeding is a natural process, but once a baby forms teeth its universally accepted that its time to move on to solids and stop the milk, and how do they even begin to claim serialization when they monetize a private moment? Sure, breastfeeding in public is different, if a baby is hungry there is no need to please society by ignoring your babies need. What I don't accept is monetization and fake educational videos similar to spiderman/elsa bullshit, made to exploit a fetish market.

why would breastfeeding advocates support that though?

I think the logic goes:

'breastfeeding is natural and good for children, therefore it is good for a child to breastfeed' without really considering anything else.

once a baby forms teeth its universally accepted that its time to move on to solids and stop the milk

Ohhhh boy, it definitely isn't universally accepted.

how do they even begin to claim serialization when they monetize a private moment?

Who knows.

What I don't accept is monetization and fake educational videos similar to spiderman/elsa bullshit, made to exploit a fetish market.

That stuff is nasty. Luckily at least one channel's been demonetized.

Elsa breastfeeds Spiderman!

Flip the script and you got something I need to watch

which actually does have legitimate points

Sorry, but I've yet to see a legitimate point coming from a breast feeding activist. Most of the activism revolves around breastfeeding in public, which should be legal but not encouraged. It's not that hard to find a private place to breastfeed...

The activist notion that it's something beautiful, etc... is bullshit. No one wants to see you feed your baby in public. It's one step up from changing a diaper in public, which no one wants to see either.

I'm not sure which is worse... mommy bloggers or breastfeeding activists...

Weirdo politicized misfits are all terrible and Hitler was right to exterminate them.

i like to concede some points to them because it's just not worth getting into arguments/getting dogpiled on for an issue where the stakes are so low tbqhwy

i like to concede some points to them because it's just not worth getting into arguments/getting dogpiled on for an issue where the stakes are so low tbqhwy

Thank God many people don't have this terrible attitude or we'd have a lot less drama to enjoy.

The affidavit says the videos depict "the female…rubbing oil on herself and the child. At one point, the female's vagina and the child's penis appear to be in contact with one another".

I don't like this drama :(

I've heard the macros on mommas milk are great, what kind of gains is he making with mom-tech

It isn't, it has much larger amounts of lactose, a sugar. Plus it isn't as good for older individuals because people become more lactose intolerant over time

An anon who belongs to a mommy group discovered that famous child predator Onision's son had to undergo dental surgery UNDER GENERAL ANESTHESIA because he was still being breastfed well after he'd gotten his baby teeth in. Not sure how it even gets that bad, but it did.

Remember to get your netmums vaccination.

"peverted"

Had to be fucking Snally, shit women go get a boyfriend so you can getva dicking or something, damn. Is this shit your job, where do you find this obscure ass shit πŸ˜“πŸ˜“πŸ˜“πŸ˜“

Hey, I spend no more time on this shit than the average person does on vidya. I stole this from lolcow.farm's new /boob nazi general/, though.

Ah so you have as much an understanding of drama on the internet as I do fetishes and porn on the internet welcome fellow degenerate

we form an elite club

Vidya is an art tho.

Dude "gamers" are dead don't you read the (((news)))?

Where's the article they're talking about? All I was able to find was this.

https://mom.me/entertainment/27667-how-being-cover-time-changed-everything/

It also reminds me of this classic.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dl8bUOOb7Kw

I found a blog discussing the article, but I think it's gone, or at least would take too much effort to find.

Maybe it was taken down when the woman was found to be lying.

If you get pregnant, long would you let your kid suck on your tits for?

I'm a weirdo that likes to project feminine power over children via my ape-like breasts.

Is netmums like bizzaro somehow worse mumsnet?

I initially read it as neetmums and thought it was a joke part of the title.

Dammit snally. I'm having to go through this breastfeeding shit in real life and reading r/drama while my nips get gummed and malformed is my only escape.

Man, that sounds uncomfortable. I hope things get better soon! If you wanna be distracted by another crazy granola parent, the story of Katherine Marion is really entertaining. Very sad because her kid will probably never recover from what she did, but entertaining.

Thank you. Very kind to provide me with examples of what not to do. Avoid fostering an Oedipus complex with your son seems to be number one...

Yeah that can lead to a lot of 'Freudian Slips'. That's when you say one thing when you mean amother.

Oh yay the entire thread here makes me glad that I'm gay and wonder why other me don't try the cock

It's like a hive of insane stay at home mothers screeching about their sad pathetic lives being ruined by common sense. Neat!

tfw no mommy gf to feed me

why the fuck are you cruising netmums

Whilst BFing a 13yo isn't for me, I can fully understand that after too many negative comments you'll have a more stand-off-ish approach. My DD2 is only 9mo (still BF) and I get a fair few comments already from family about when am I going to stop. I imagine as LO gets older...

I love the number of acronyms these people have but I still can't fucking work out what DD2 or LO mean

LO is Little One an DD2 is Dear Daughter? /u/snallygaster ?

I knew the first one

http://www.babycenter.com/community-help-abbreviations

I hate that shit so much I don't even want to click on the links and further my knowledge.

AF? You need some BD honey BTDT CD; CIO, CWIM?

DTD even if it takes a FT DTF DH gurl

JJ KWIM or should I just MMOB

brb killing myself

Allowing women to communicate or make decisions without male supervision was a mistake.

Perhaps Mohammed is the true prophet after all

Praise be unto him brother

Is male breastfeeding (or the closest equivalent that produces warm white(ish) liquid) a 13 yo girl child abuse?

This thing is seriously creepy. Probably the creepiest I have seen from your posts.

I'm all on-tap milk, but 13 years old is fucking disgusting.

My friend Lysa breastfeeds her 10yr old boy. They seem perfectly happy. He is a bit sickly however, he's smaller than most boys his age and gets seizures quite a bit. But he's also royalty! So I think we should leave people like Lysa and her sweet boy Robert alone!

Jesus, literally like lysa from game of thrones