r/drama: Irresponsible adolescent-minded, emotionally stunted woman doesn't want to pay child support for the son she birthed. Instead of telling her to woman up, as they would to a male, /r/relationships is giving advice on how to get out of supporting the flesh and blood she abandoned.

Irresponsible adolescent-minded, emotionally stunted woman doesn't want to pay child support for the son she birthed. Instead of telling her to woman up, as they would to a male, /r/relationships is giving advice on how to get out of supporting the flesh and blood she abandoned.

78 2017-07-23 by [deleted]

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1 DistortedLines 2017-07-23

never leave again

1 RelationDramaMama 2017-07-23

http://archive.is/RKh3Q

1 RelationDramaMama 2017-07-23

/u/Flora801, you may want to think about tell your husband you have responsibilities, and part of those are taking care of YOUR son. Stop making excuses and grow the fuck up. Or are you an adolescent trapped in a 27-year-old body?

1 Nerdlinger 2017-07-23

I see someone is following the sidebar's direction.

1 IAintThatGuy 2017-07-23

I'd call troll but mostly because the same debate caused some much drama on /r/legaladvice.

1 CucksLoveTrump 2017-07-23

It's was from the dude's perspective though as I remember.

1 IAintThatGuy 2017-07-23

Yes, I'm feeling a troll who wants to show that by giving the female POV he'll get white knights.

1 Jazzeki 2017-07-23

though that would be kind of stupid because the woman did get tons of white knights despite it not even being her post in legaladvice.

the amount of people who were suddenly all for finacial abortions was fucking hillarious... and ofcourse as late as today they are back at bashing MRA's. it's beautiful.

1 Hielthebern 2017-07-23

7 months seems pretty fucking quick to be in this situation.

I'd say troll with no concept of parenthood.

1 KennethPowersMFCEO 2017-07-23

He keeps telling me "let's do something about it"

You mean like "Take care of her?" 😨

1 RelationDramaMama 2017-07-23

/u/Flora801 care to explain why you haven't put your husband in his place and told him that you have a responsibility to your son?

1 OniTan 2017-07-23

/u/Flora801 why don't you visit your fucking kid?

1 seaguy69 2017-07-23

Lol I really like this sub.

1 orgyofdolphins 2017-07-23

u/Asimoffffff reading your post history has been a treat and I admire your commitment to drama.

1 Asimoffffff 2017-07-23

Not sure if I understand you.

1 botchlings 2017-07-23

So she has a kid that she doesn't want but her new husband wants her to possibly have another kid in the future? I'm sure she will make a wonderful mother...

Beyond that, it may be an unpopular opinion but I really do believe in the concept of a "financial abortion" in situations like these where one parent absolutely wants the kid and the other doesn't.

1 kermit_was_right 2017-07-23

Not wanting to have a kid at 19 doesn't mean that she would be a terrible mother when she is ready to have children.

1 Harbinger147 2017-07-23

Doesn't mean you should not pay into child support, you did the deed knowing what it can lead to, if you get pregnant cuz of that then you should pay for it as well

1 kermit_was_right 2017-07-23

The mother isn't trying to weasel out of child support. She's looking for advice on breaking it to her husband that the situation is permanent. He's the dumbass that wants her to "do something" about it.

1 Arkanta 2017-07-23

THANK YOU.

How is everybody here misreading the thread and entirely missing the mother’s point?

She even says that she won’t use her child as a bargaining ship because she doesn’t want to hurt him. She also said that she is paying the amount that was decided.

Wtf drama?

1 kermit_was_right 2017-07-23

I know. The dumb fucks forced me to seriouspost. Someone owes me some serious bussy for this.

1 OniTan 2017-07-23

Cause 19 year olds totes aren't legal adults.

1 kermit_was_right 2017-07-23

You can be an adult and not be ready to have children, the two aren't mutually exclusive.

1 SocialJusticeYamcha 2017-07-23

Like 1 person is. The rest are calling her out

1 ieatpussy69 2017-07-23

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1 OniTan 2017-07-23

What if Seinfeld still on TV?

1 double-happiness 2017-07-23

woman supposedly paying child support

http://i.imgur.com/rWPv7EH.jpg

1 cleverseneca 2017-07-23

You're trying to hard /u/RelationDramaMama . Literally nothing to see here, this is the most undramatic / r/relationships thread I've ever been in. You could have closed your eyes and clicked a random thread and found more drama. Keep Yourself Safe.