Dear anarchism: Acted like biggest faggot possible, still not getting laid. In RL all the communists I hang with who are female are two women and like ten dudes. Both say they are married... um... tried explaining concept of free love and how much I love anarchism... but uh - they keep rejecting me and one said she gay despite I know she makes out with this dude all the time in her poetry group at high school. What do I do?
Toxic masculinity is a public health issue. You are a victim, don't beat yourself up. It's not your fault. It honestly sounds like you're not happy in your male body and I'm so sorry for that but just know there are therapies that can help you.
Oh, ok. Chopping off my dick so I can get women. That should help, thanks!!
People twisting shit like this bothers me. Norovirus in your burritos and zika is a public health issue. Toxic masculinity is a social issue and trying to put it on the same level as the opiate crisis helps no one.
They're for sure getting laid more than incels like the dude above. Don't know why people are acting like it doesn't happen - their tactics may be repulsive but they do often work.
Less sad than being a megavirgin who has no friends and no source of satisfaction in their life than spending time on /r/anarchism and /r/TheBluePill whining about TRP out of envy.
You spend all day on /r/drama so I'm pretty sure no chick wants you being yourself. Except /u/irbytremor she might give you a pity hand job if you denigrate TRP some more and pledge yourself to SRS.
"I guess I'm technically an incel but I don't get too upset about it. You shouldn't let it define you and obsess over it like the people in r/incel. They're what happens if you let you being an incel become your identity.
I think for me it's largely because I'm not particularly attractive and I haven't got my sexuality fully figured out yet. I'm also pretty awkward and have a really small social circle.
I think he took them down. He was talking about how they needed to get in shape to "bash the fash" and pisted pucs of himself as an example, and got roasted on r/drama.
I remember going to a bar with some of my Anarchist friends, and the guy recommends that I watch Mr. Robot. Well apparently someone gets stalked in that show so "as a rape survivor" his girlfriend really didn't like that and proceeded to chastise him infront of all of us. It was humiliating and so awkward you could choke.
She was a bitch to me later on so I don't feel bad posting about it.
Once they've reeled them in TRP starts up the "women are children, women are worthless and evil" bullshit and their members remain permavirgins. The only ones who aren't are at least middle-aged and already married; their wives have been taught to be somewhere between adults and children.
I'm pretty sure the only baby is the guy who cries about TRP because it's the only semi-interesting thing to rage against in their life. The most pathetic thing is you probably use TRP as a topic in casual conversation, not realising how much of a anti-social dickhead it makes you seem in real life.
Actually, looking at that comment history, you definitely don't go out enough to have casual conversation apart from asking your mum for tendies.
You're clearly not up to date with the freshest tastiest memes? I mean, I would have expected a basement nerd who rages about TRP to know the latest virgin insults, but I guess you weren't bullied enough at school to be like this organically.
That's sad because expanding effort in internet arguments are the only form of exercise you ever receive so I'm sorry for not motivating you enough. Now how will you ever move out of your grandma's basement and vote UKIP?
You spend 90% of your time throwing online trantrums about British Muslims. I'm quite glad you have a negative opinion about me.
So you're generalising.
Did you know that 52% of British Muslims believe that homosexuality should be punished? Not that marriage should not be recognised, but that homosexuality should be punished, a very extreme view. You know better than to generalise Muslims. If you want to villify the right wing here then you must do the same with Muslims (you'd be wrong to do either but we both know you won't generalise and condemn Muslims as you do right wingers). Will you be logically consistent?
If you stalked my comment history, you'd have noticed I haven't ever been on TRP.
Funny though, that a racist fuck cares about sexism? Do you pick and choose what you're progressive about? You want the mooslims making you sandwiches, not your mother?
I misread the comment to be that you were against 'British Museums.' It was baffling. Because British museums are wonderful, and I'm glad that you don't oppose them.
You're clearly not up to date with the freshest tastiest memes? I mean, I would have expected a basement nerd who rages about TRP to know the latest virgin insults, but I guess you weren't bullied enough at school to be like this organically.
Sooooooo....the fact that you are up to date implies....?
well, i had one once that wasn't. pretty comical guy, married a former student (college student that is) and it went predictably south. defo not neckbeard though.
From their threads it looks like they're seeing "be confident and assertive" and taking it to an extreme, doing the whole "fuck yeah I'm so alpha, did you see me assert dominance over that beta when I showed him how real men perform activity x?" thing. I've met some of these guys in real life, it's bizarre and confuses people.
A lot of women are children, and a lot of problems men have with them directly involve their childish behaviour and it's a good thing to speak about it.
Also
A lot of men are children, and a lot of problems women have with them directly involve their childish behaviour and it's a good thing to speak about it.
Tell women that men are kids, tell men that women are kids and we all will end up with something positive in the end. Just don't do it vice versa, that will only produce angry people.
It's like a cult. Scientology also starts with some basic and proven self help, helping people with communication issues, etc. Same with TRP. Intro TRP is basically advice from grandma - look good, eat well, exercise, focus on your career, don't let women walk all over you, etc. And yeah, that shit really does work.
And after building some credibility, out comes the Xenu shit.
What TRP does that works is just being sexually aggressive. You gotta grab women by the pussy (metaphorically speaking, of course - you don't want to actually get charged). If they don't like it (and they're not complete retards) they'll tell you to fuck off, if they like it then you get laid.
Yeah I have to admit that when you read TRP as a normal person, you come to the conclusion that it's pretty much a rape manual, and they pretty much rely on Stockholm Syndrome to turn it into "relationships".
Yeah, I'll admit that some of their advice is a bit toxic, and I've no doubt that some of the people there are so autistic they'll take it a bit too literally.
Like, just look at "All Women Are Like That" (AWALT). Is that code for "Don't be a white knight - just because you're smitten with a woman doesn't mean you should put her on a pedestal - try to be aware of her flaws". Or does it mean "all women, absolutely all of them, are like that".
That's what I like with their principles : if you're not completely sucked in, you can read it as warnings. But once you're in the cult, you read those as divine laws for which there is no exception.
I'm also an anarcho-communist who recognizes the need to smash patriarchy, and I'd do away with the very concept of "gender" if I could.
Be the change you want to see in the world, /u/fa_ancom, start fucking people assigned male by the patriarchy. As you can see there's quite a lot of you in the sub, even, so you only need to organize regular meetups for the purpose of discussing anarchism and exchanging bodily fluids.
I'm also an anarcho-communist who recognizes the need to smash patriarchy, and I'd do away with the very concept of "gender" if I could.
So why doesn't he just get fucked by gay guys if he doesn't care about gender? Men have high sex drives and aren't as picky, he'd be getting railed in the ass constantly.
LOL this is some funny shit because anarchism is completely predicated on interpersonal relationships, unlike other leftist politics where you cooperate based on class conciousness or whatever.
Honestly, there are far too many incels in this country, to the point where it's starting to have a serious impact on social cohesion.
And no, I doubt that men just started sucking. This is mostly hypergamy in action. Obama and Bush destroyed the economy, so most men have shit jobs now, and most women don't want to fuck men with shit jobs.
The women have at least as much blame for not readjusting their expectations to fit with reality, as men do here. Because the men didn't get rid of their own jobs, but women definitely do need to own their own unrealistic expectations. Expecting to find a man who makes 40+k in a nation where the modal income is 25k is just not realistic in any way, shape or form.
I... I just want to help them. For humanity's sake.
These people, for whatever reason, simply don't have the knowledge or means to be fully functional human beings. They literally cannot do things humans have been doing for tens of thousands of years. What results is complete waste of human potential and it hurts my soul.
They literally cannot do things humans have been doing for tens of thousands of years.
You're making an assumption here that most men 10k years ago got laid. The truth is, most men died before getting the chance. Men's roles in society (things like hunting and defense) got a lot of them killed. This resulted in a gender imbalance sufficient that the remainder could get laid. If you somehow killed off like 20% of men today (and particularly if you selected the weakest/dumbest ones) there'd be no more "incels" and no reason for the sexual strategy of TRP either.
BTW, I realize that it was also quite common for women to die in childbirth, and that this returned some, but not all, balance to the gender ratio by around 30 years old.
Another factor contributing to male frustration is birth control and government subsidy of children. Now, before you get your cackles erect, I'm not suggest either of those things should be taken away. I am simply responding to your post, in which you suggest that something about men today is different from men of the past, and that this alone (or substantially) accounts for their failure. The truth is, without birth control or child support, women would be highly motivated to secure the dedicated help of a man before letting him fuck her. The mechanism that natural selection devised for that purpose is called, "love." This resulted in nearly assortative mating.
I'm looking less for an explanation of why these men are the way they are and more for a prescription.
I know there are a multitude of factors at work here. Society is complicated and human psychology even more so. Culture and incels themselves are examples of how malleable the mind is when subject to various influences.
Their circumstances in life and society have made them who they are, shaped their reasoning, and left them to be those among the bottom of the barrel, bruised and battered psychologically by what the world has given them.
It doesn't have to be this way though. Generations of incels do not have to be born to suffer as those currently stuck on the fringes of society do. Children can be educated and raised to be socially and psychologically sound, aspects of human education remarkably absent in much of today's curriculum.
This doesn't just apply to incels, but to anyone throughout history who has been left behind and in ignorance by society. But today especially, it feels like no one is teaching our children how to live, and what results is a class of people who fail at life.
I like to believe that much of human suffering could be alleviated simply by fostering self-awareness and understanding, and subsequently self-improvement. All of us could be better human beings. Just some more than others.
My favorite comment over there is by /u/Faolinbean, person of unparalleled wokeness, or is it unparalleled sadism?
In response to some poor guys text-wall of heartfelt sadness and futile cries for help that he can't find love even though he follows all their shitty rules:
What you're subtly seeming to suggest here is that sex with another person is some sort of right. Am I wrong?
/u/Faolinbean I really want to hear your comeback here, since it looks to me like the poor bastard is just pining for normal human interaction (not that you'd know a damn thing about that yourself).
I'm not without sympathy, I absolutely empathize with men who are alienated in the way OP describes. But my question remains, what makes an awkward, alienated guy who hasn't had sex yet into an incel?
That's a good point:
Why would anyone voluntarily identify as "incel", let alone someone who's whole existence is based on leftist thought crime circles?
hey /u/fa_ancom lemme give you some feedback here, broheim
It's an unique feeling, to be so worried (and fighting) for the well-being of all,
you aren't fighting for the well-being at all, you're bitching on the internet about things you don't even understand
while I can't establish basic relationships with people.
shocking
Whenever I'm in an internet forum and the topic of sexual/gender liberation comes up, my lack of personal sexual experiences makes me unable to participate in ways other than academic.
this is the part where you shut your piehole and stop commenting about things you are entirely ignorant about
I can't find a group to organize and do something against the status quo because I have no friends at all, I don't know anyone, and I suck at communicating.
maybe try learning a wee little bit about human nature and interaction before you decide to "do something against the status quo" -- especially since you're just going agains the status quo to go against the status quo. self-awareness, do you even speak it?
Why not just say you're voluntarily celibate? Even if it's a lie you'll still probably have more self respect and maybe you'd come off as more interesting to women.
I can't find a group to organize and do something against the status quo because I have no friends at all, I don't know anyone, and I suck at communicating. -/u/fa_ancom
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1 SnapshillBot 2017-07-29
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1 HauntedFurniture 2017-07-29
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1 IAintThatGuy 2017-07-29
Found the one time when /r/incels would actually have better advice than other people.
1 Neon_needles 2017-07-29
Dear anarchism: Acted like biggest faggot possible, still not getting laid. In RL all the communists I hang with who are female are two women and like ten dudes. Both say they are married... um... tried explaining concept of free love and how much I love anarchism... but uh - they keep rejecting me and one said she gay despite I know she makes out with this dude all the time in her poetry group at high school. What do I do?
Oh, ok. Chopping off my dick so I can get women. That should help, thanks!!
1 celocanth13 2017-07-29
People twisting shit like this bothers me. Norovirus in your burritos and zika is a public health issue. Toxic masculinity is a social issue and trying to put it on the same level as the opiate crisis helps no one.
1 heavenlytoaster 2017-07-29
That's not true, it very much helps who ever is percieved to be opposite of the rhetoric, eg trump.
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
Actually visiting /r/TheRedPill would help this dude.
1 JasonJewnova 2017-07-29
I don't think those guys are getting laid either my man.
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
They're for sure getting laid more than incels like the dude above. Don't know why people are acting like it doesn't happen - their tactics may be repulsive but they do often work.
1 JasonJewnova 2017-07-29
Maybe, I mean it's not like it's that hard to get laid.
If someone has to strategize and manipulate chicks into fucking them that's pretty sad tbh.
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
Less sad than being a megavirgin who has no friends and no source of satisfaction in their life than spending time on /r/anarchism and /r/TheBluePill whining about TRP out of envy.
1 JasonJewnova 2017-07-29
Uhh I can actually meet chicks just being myself, but yeah I'm totally envious of the dweebs that spend all day trashing women on /r/TheRedPill
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
You spend all day on /r/drama so I'm pretty sure no chick wants you being yourself. Except /u/irbytremor she might give you a pity hand job if you denigrate TRP some more and pledge yourself to SRS.
1 JasonJewnova 2017-07-29
Lmao
1 uhohohno221 2017-07-29
Irby probably has the hottest, angriest sex tbh
1 LadyVetinari 2017-07-29
WRONG <3 /u/jasonjewnova
1 JasonJewnova 2017-07-29
Ty for defending my honor darling 😗
1 LadyVetinari 2017-07-29
Np boo 😙
1 MegaSeedsInYourBum 2017-07-29
This argument is like an autistic kid saying the guy with downs is more retarded.
Don't stop.
1 JasonJewnova 2017-07-29
:(
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
:(
1 quinotauri 2017-07-29
Factually correct?
1 MegaSeedsInYourBum 2017-07-29
Seriously?
If you're both retarded it doesn't really matter who is more retarded.
1 quinotauri 2017-07-29
"Can't interact socially" retarded is equivtard to "shits self and needs a caretaker" retarded. Gotcha there chief.
1 ComedicSans 2017-07-29
People with Down Syndrome tend to be well-loved.
1 JasonJewnova 2017-07-29
Not all of us
1 ComedicSans 2017-07-29
But that is because you have autism, too. Autism trumps loveability.
1 JasonJewnova 2017-07-29
I doubt it, I wasn't vaccinated.
1 holy_black_on_a_popo 2017-07-29
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
no. No way in hell.
1 JasonJewnova 2017-07-29
/u/swoleprole
I have, you're a faggot.
1 Kysbu 2017-07-29
Ive seen pics of /u/swoleprole
He somehow combined the dadbod and lanklet physique.
1 JasonJewnova 2017-07-29
post em
1 Kysbu 2017-07-29
I think he took them down. He was talking about how they needed to get in shape to "bash the fash" and pisted pucs of himself as an example, and got roasted on r/drama.
I cant find them anymore
1 Miguk_Saram 2017-07-29
You're jumping to conclusions. In /r/Anarchism it's more likely that he's just 12 years old.
1 ComedicSans 2017-07-29
/u/JasonJewnova is only homophobic in the same way that the gun-toting neighbour in American Beauty.
1 aonome 2017-07-29
Uh-oh
At least that's not as bad as recommending TRP but this guy isn't going to get laid going to a community that tells him to be a creepy male feminist
1 JasonJewnova 2017-07-29
So you're saying being a grovelling spineless mangina isn't the key to attracting women?
Weird.
1 ieatpussy69 2017-07-29
I remember going to a bar with some of my Anarchist friends, and the guy recommends that I watch Mr. Robot. Well apparently someone gets stalked in that show so "as a rape survivor" his girlfriend really didn't like that and proceeded to chastise him infront of all of us. It was humiliating and so awkward you could choke.
She was a bitch to me later on so I don't feel bad posting about it.
1 JasonJewnova 2017-07-29
Damn, did you at least talk some sense into that soy-boy afterwards?
1 shitINtheCANDYdish 2017-07-29
"Damaged goods." And the math behind honor killings.
1 IAintThatGuy 2017-07-29
Some of the things TRP recommends might get someone on the path to getting laid (mostly not making excuses, improving yourself...).
1 aonome 2017-07-29
Once they've reeled them in TRP starts up the "women are children, women are worthless and evil" bullshit and their members remain permavirgins. The only ones who aren't are at least middle-aged and already married; their wives have been taught to be somewhere between adults and children.
1 IAintThatGuy 2017-07-29
Dunno. Cuckslib would tell them to learn to suck dick, cut their balls off, and how to feel happy with it.
1 80BAIT08 2017-07-29
Well as long as you don't mind the women who sleep with you pegging you.
1 IAintThatGuy 2017-07-29
Does it count as pegging if they have a real penis?
1 80BAIT08 2017-07-29
You've been banned from Coxcon.
1 quinotauri 2017-07-29
And invited to Coloncox
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
I'm around 90% sure the members of TRP are getting laid more often than you.
1 aonome 2017-07-29
And here is our resident TRP manbaby
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
I'm pretty sure the only baby is the guy who cries about TRP because it's the only semi-interesting thing to rage against in their life. The most pathetic thing is you probably use TRP as a topic in casual conversation, not realising how much of a anti-social dickhead it makes you seem in real life.
Actually, looking at that comment history, you definitely don't go out enough to have casual conversation apart from asking your mum for tendies.
1 aonome 2017-07-29
This is why Poe's law is a thing
Are you just trying to make drama or are you actually a TRP neckbeard?
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
Nathan Poe, a Christian neckbeard, probably had sex more times than you. It's pretty easy to beat zero.
1 aonome 2017-07-29
Why do extremists like you always seem to think you must either be TRP or TBP? Have you considered that perhaps both are fucking retarded?
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
When you write shit like
Don't be surprised people mistake you for a drooling autist who should be euthanised
1 aonome 2017-07-29
The mention of TRP in a negative light triggered you so you clearly are a manbaby.
Wow stop being ableist pls
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
Tell me, does your mothers tendies taste as good as your father's regurgitated cum, you absolute autist?
1 aonome 2017-07-29
What's your obsession with tendies? Are you a cuckcel? Of course you are
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
You're clearly not up to date with the freshest tastiest memes? I mean, I would have expected a basement nerd who rages about TRP to know the latest virgin insults, but I guess you weren't bullied enough at school to be like this organically.
1 aonome 2017-07-29
Your replies are far higher effort than mine so you are clearly triggered
Stay cucked pillcel
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
That's sad because expanding effort in internet arguments are the only form of exercise you ever receive so I'm sorry for not motivating you enough. Now how will you ever move out of your grandma's basement and vote UKIP?
1 aonome 2017-07-29
I thought I was a TBPer? Why would I vote UKIP?
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
I don't really give a shit, I don't bother probing the mentality of council flat chavs.
1 aonome 2017-07-29
You're a very sad and strange person
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
You spend 90% of your time throwing online trantrums about British Muslims. I'm quite glad you have a negative opinion about me.
1 aonome 2017-07-29
It's weird that you got that from that comment. The point was to argue against generalising, not for it.
When you stalk someone's comment history because they insulted your weird sexist cult you know you're a loser
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
If you stalked my comment history, you'd have noticed I haven't ever been on TRP.
Funny though, that a racist fuck cares about sexism? Do you pick and choose what you're progressive about? You want the mooslims making you sandwiches, not your mother?
1 aonome 2017-07-29
What are you even on about? Relax fam
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
just shut up
1 aonome 2017-07-29
Best /r/drama meltdown for a while, cheers
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
Yeah, you entertained all of us, thanks.
1 Amelia303 2017-07-29
I misread the comment to be that you were against 'British Museums.' It was baffling. Because British museums are wonderful, and I'm glad that you don't oppose them.
1 better_bot 2017-07-29
Sooooooo....the fact that you are up to date implies....?
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
don't overanalyze it
1 OldOrder 2017-07-29
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1 CarnistHappyCamp 2017-07-29
sorry, had to correct thee. in another life I spent too much time agendaposting on Christian Forums to let that one go
1 John_Ketch 2017-07-29
All history teachers are neckbeards so you can let that bit go.
1 CarnistHappyCamp 2017-07-29
well, i had one once that wasn't. pretty comical guy, married a former student (college student that is) and it went predictably south. defo not neckbeard though.
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1 nomad1c 2017-07-29
why is it so hard to believe they're getting laid? i doubt they're all lying
1 aonome 2017-07-29
From their threads it looks like they're seeing "be confident and assertive" and taking it to an extreme, doing the whole "fuck yeah I'm so alpha, did you see me assert dominance over that beta when I showed him how real men perform activity x?" thing. I've met some of these guys in real life, it's bizarre and confuses people.
1 JasonJewnova 2017-07-29
That must be utterly bizarre, my sympathies.
1 ManhattanTransFur 2017-07-29
Gender roles rule.
1 Kekistanian9000 2017-07-29
A lot of women are children, and a lot of problems men have with them directly involve their childish behaviour and it's a good thing to speak about it.
Also
A lot of men are children, and a lot of problems women have with them directly involve their childish behaviour and it's a good thing to speak about it.
Tell women that men are kids, tell men that women are kids and we all will end up with something positive in the end. Just don't do it vice versa, that will only produce angry people.
1 Chicup 2017-07-29
One group thinks women are worthless beyond fucking them.
One group thinks women are better than them.
Hard call man.
1 kermit_was_right 2017-07-29
It's like a cult. Scientology also starts with some basic and proven self help, helping people with communication issues, etc. Same with TRP. Intro TRP is basically advice from grandma - look good, eat well, exercise, focus on your career, don't let women walk all over you, etc. And yeah, that shit really does work.
And after building some credibility, out comes the Xenu shit.
1 IAintThatGuy 2017-07-29
By the time you've mastered TRP vocabulary you basically can't communicate with normal humans anymore.
1 Denny_Craine 2017-07-29
So you mean the things every reasonable person recommends?
1 IAintThatGuy 2017-07-29
Yes. But some retards will only listen to that advice if it seems like it's part of a bigger scam that promises magical results.
1 wisty 2017-07-29
LoL, no.
What TRP does that works is just being sexually aggressive. You gotta grab women by the pussy (metaphorically speaking, of course - you don't want to actually get charged). If they don't like it (and they're not complete retards) they'll tell you to fuck off, if they like it then you get laid.
1 IAintThatGuy 2017-07-29
Yeah I have to admit that when you read TRP as a normal person, you come to the conclusion that it's pretty much a rape manual, and they pretty much rely on Stockholm Syndrome to turn it into "relationships".
1 wisty 2017-07-29
Kind of like how door to door salesman are pretty much burgers, other than the fact that they're not actually stealing?
1 IAintThatGuy 2017-07-29
In our day and age, everything is rape. But I do believe they advise to keep it legal.
1 wisty 2017-07-29
Yeah, I'll admit that some of their advice is a bit toxic, and I've no doubt that some of the people there are so autistic they'll take it a bit too literally.
Like, just look at "All Women Are Like That" (AWALT). Is that code for "Don't be a white knight - just because you're smitten with a woman doesn't mean you should put her on a pedestal - try to be aware of her flaws". Or does it mean "all women, absolutely all of them, are like that".
1 IAintThatGuy 2017-07-29
That's what I like with their principles : if you're not completely sucked in, you can read it as warnings. But once you're in the cult, you read those as divine laws for which there is no exception.
1 ManhattanTransFur 2017-07-29
/r/MensLib isn't a cure. It is palliative care.
1 froibo 2017-07-29
Am I having a stroke or is this boring copypasta? I swear I've read this before.
1 boyoyoyoyong 2017-07-29
u/fa_ancom the odds of you losers smashing the patriarchy is the same as you smashing some pussy ...zero.
1 mohammed_was_a_pedo 2017-07-29
/u/fa_ancom your main problem is that you're chasing the wrong thing. Smash gender. Get woke to the bussy 😘
1 Works_of_memercy 2017-07-29
Be the change you want to see in the world, /u/fa_ancom, start fucking people assigned male by the patriarchy. As you can see there's quite a lot of you in the sub, even, so you only need to organize regular meetups for the purpose of discussing anarchism and exchanging bodily fluids.
1 LemonScore 2017-07-29
So why doesn't he just get fucked by gay guys if he doesn't care about gender? Men have high sex drives and aren't as picky, he'd be getting railed in the ass constantly.
1 keepittropical 2017-07-29
This is really solid advice /u/fa_ancom
1 niexx 2017-07-29
LOL this is some funny shit because anarchism is completely predicated on interpersonal relationships, unlike other leftist politics where you cooperate based on class conciousness or whatever.
1 ThatDamnedImp 2017-07-29
Honestly, there are far too many incels in this country, to the point where it's starting to have a serious impact on social cohesion.
And no, I doubt that men just started sucking. This is mostly hypergamy in action. Obama and Bush destroyed the economy, so most men have shit jobs now, and most women don't want to fuck men with shit jobs.
The women have at least as much blame for not readjusting their expectations to fit with reality, as men do here. Because the men didn't get rid of their own jobs, but women definitely do need to own their own unrealistic expectations. Expecting to find a man who makes 40+k in a nation where the modal income is 25k is just not realistic in any way, shape or form.
1 Kysbu 2017-07-29
Just embrace the bussy my dude
1 LordJelly 2017-07-29
I... I just want to help them. For humanity's sake.
These people, for whatever reason, simply don't have the knowledge or means to be fully functional human beings. They literally cannot do things humans have been doing for tens of thousands of years. What results is complete waste of human potential and it hurts my soul.
1 nicethingyoucanthave 2017-07-29
You're making an assumption here that most men 10k years ago got laid. The truth is, most men died before getting the chance. Men's roles in society (things like hunting and defense) got a lot of them killed. This resulted in a gender imbalance sufficient that the remainder could get laid. If you somehow killed off like 20% of men today (and particularly if you selected the weakest/dumbest ones) there'd be no more "incels" and no reason for the sexual strategy of TRP either.
BTW, I realize that it was also quite common for women to die in childbirth, and that this returned some, but not all, balance to the gender ratio by around 30 years old.
Another factor contributing to male frustration is birth control and government subsidy of children. Now, before you get your cackles erect, I'm not suggest either of those things should be taken away. I am simply responding to your post, in which you suggest that something about men today is different from men of the past, and that this alone (or substantially) accounts for their failure. The truth is, without birth control or child support, women would be highly motivated to secure the dedicated help of a man before letting him fuck her. The mechanism that natural selection devised for that purpose is called, "love." This resulted in nearly assortative mating.
1 LordJelly 2017-07-29
I'm looking less for an explanation of why these men are the way they are and more for a prescription.
I know there are a multitude of factors at work here. Society is complicated and human psychology even more so. Culture and incels themselves are examples of how malleable the mind is when subject to various influences.
Their circumstances in life and society have made them who they are, shaped their reasoning, and left them to be those among the bottom of the barrel, bruised and battered psychologically by what the world has given them.
It doesn't have to be this way though. Generations of incels do not have to be born to suffer as those currently stuck on the fringes of society do. Children can be educated and raised to be socially and psychologically sound, aspects of human education remarkably absent in much of today's curriculum.
This doesn't just apply to incels, but to anyone throughout history who has been left behind and in ignorance by society. But today especially, it feels like no one is teaching our children how to live, and what results is a class of people who fail at life.
I like to believe that much of human suffering could be alleviated simply by fostering self-awareness and understanding, and subsequently self-improvement. All of us could be better human beings. Just some more than others.
1 djlewt 2017-07-29
UHH EXCUSE ME BUT IT'S SPELLED XIMSELF OMFG TRIGGERED.
1 DodgeIvan 2017-07-29
Thank fuck these people wont breed
1 TraurigAberWahr 2017-07-29
My favorite comment over there is by /u/Faolinbean, person of unparalleled wokeness, or is it unparalleled sadism?
In response to some poor guys text-wall of heartfelt sadness and futile cries for help that he can't find love even though he follows all their shitty rules:
1 CarnistHappyCamp 2017-07-29
/u/Faolinbean I really want to hear your comeback here, since it looks to me like the poor bastard is just pining for normal human interaction (not that you'd know a damn thing about that yourself).
1 TraurigAberWahr 2017-07-29
I think they explained it in the linked post:
That's a good point:
Why would anyone voluntarily identify as "incel", let alone someone who's whole existence is based on leftist thought crime circles?
1 CarnistHappyCamp 2017-07-29
stupid is as stupid does, i guess
1 TraurigAberWahr 2017-07-29
/u/Redbeardt
it's probably biology, not culture.
1 ShitCommentBelow 2017-07-29
No, it's society that makes me horny.
1 CarnistHappyCamp 2017-07-29
hey /u/fa_ancom lemme give you some feedback here, broheim
you aren't fighting for the well-being at all, you're bitching on the internet about things you don't even understand
shocking
this is the part where you shut your piehole and stop commenting about things you are entirely ignorant about
maybe try learning a wee little bit about human nature and interaction before you decide to "do something against the status quo" -- especially since you're just going agains the status quo to go against the status quo. self-awareness, do you even speak it?
1 Oh_hamburgers_ 2017-07-29
Why not just say you're voluntarily celibate? Even if it's a lie you'll still probably have more self respect and maybe you'd come off as more interesting to women.
1 ComedicSans 2017-07-29
lol
1 aggressiveshitpost 2017-07-29
Help me /r/drama, what medical procedure is the gold standard for Acute Masculine Intoxication?
1 JohnBlind 2017-07-29
Posting bussy
1 DistortedLines 2017-07-29
And you're asking /r/@ for help? lol
1 dirtyspah 2017-07-29
These posts make me feel good about myself
1 Karmaisforsuckers 2017-07-29
Why dont these fucking incels just fuck hookers? Hookers are awesome.