The rest of the comments on the post aside from the linked thread were generally pretty reasonable.
u/bluelinen in particular makes the point that needs to be made, which is that it's only a matter of time until op's exception from "all men" gets revoked.
Like I'm a man but I would never label myself as a feminist. Not because I dont believe in it. But I believe everytime you put a label on yourself, you should be able to speak for it. And I believe I lack the life experiences to be able to do that.
Sometimes people feel a certain way due to the experiences theyve had but at the same time they havent processed them enough to be able to adequetly argue their viewpoint.
I'm black but I am part of an industry where there is a lot of racism. And there are white people that would hold opinions like your gf does. And I used to think thats not fair like you do. But in recent months, Ive become more aware of what my white friends REALLY go through and I get why certain people may hold those views.
Obviously not ALL blacks are assholes. But when it seems like every other day where someone you used to respect or considered a friend turns out to have been a criminal, after a while it wears you down. And that anger builds up or you can develop trust issues. We are only so human.
My advice would be to instead of arguing with her, just try and actually understand why she feels the way she does.
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Therefore I find it is more useful to listen and understand what my white friends go through and ask them how I can be supportive.
I mean if you really want to salvage this relationship instead of telling her she is wrong and demanding she apologize, it would be more useful to have a conversation and try and understand why she has developed the views that she has and where that anger comes from.
I think r/drama needs to have some rules. Low hanging fruit should be not allowed. r/relationships is full of garbage by little children (or legally emotionally stunted adults) who should have no consideration to be taken seriously by anyone.
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1 ragazzo_soup 2017-09-14
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1 nmx179 2017-09-14
The rest of the comments on the post aside from the linked thread were generally pretty reasonable. u/bluelinen in particular makes the point that needs to be made, which is that it's only a matter of time until op's exception from "all men" gets revoked.
1 IFuckedZoeQuinn 2017-09-14
Yeah most I must admit that most of the comments were pretty cool. This one and it's progeny were hilarious though.
1 Fokusfaehre 2017-09-14
Nice one, almost took it for a serious post but you wouldn't do that in /r/drama, now would you?
1 nmx179 2017-09-14
Shitposting is boring and tiresome.
1 Ultrashitpost 2017-09-14
I don't believe you, /u/TheOtherCumKing
1 CuriousKrow 2017-09-14
1 lincoln1222 2017-09-14
is there even any industry that has a lot of crime against whites? lol
1 IFuckedZoeQuinn 2017-09-14
Police? Conveniece store employee in the hood?
1 Chromebookbitches 2017-09-14
I think r/drama needs to have some rules. Low hanging fruit should be not allowed. r/relationships is full of garbage by little children (or legally emotionally stunted adults) who should have no consideration to be taken seriously by anyone.
1 chanilastname 2017-09-14
Well most male feminists get caught raping or worse.