Lead singer of indie band Pinegrove outs himself as a sexual being (with fans, who he's LOOKED at (= predatory)). He's even had sex, while famous. r/Indieheads tries to square the circle on sexual powerdynamics.

5  2017-11-21 by [deleted]

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(obligatory all male femrapists comment)

What's the point to being in a band if you don't get to bang groupies

What kind of idiot looks at the headlines, sees a multitude of men being outed as creeps and rapists, and says “I gotta get in on that, lemme go to Facebook?”

i should have more actively acknowledged my position of power as a public figure, and also as a man. i have always tried to approach all of my relationships under the premise of equality, but i see now more clearly that the inherent privilege of my gender and the accumulated privilege of being a recognized performer most certainly impacted this interaction.

At this point, we're pretty much on the cusp of "all PIV sex is rape"