I don't understand how this identity politics shit works. If I'm rich and white, but also gay, why does my """"oppressed"""" social circumstance outweigh the other two?
While I'm sure that said user is a " lesbian" š, I do have to mention that some lesbians ( and I'm just saying - the ones I know) can appreciate a well dressed, well groomed man or a physique of a professional without being attracted to him.
Appreciate how? I can't say I'd even notice these traits on a dude unless I'm tryna size up whether he's a hobo rapist or whatever. None of the other lesbians I know have said anything to make me think they would either.
Oh so you mean like, can I tell if someone is obviously good-looking? Yeah, like I can tell if a dude has a symmetrical face or cool hair or whatever if someone asked. I just don't think about it very much. And straight chicks often go for dudes I would think are just dickfuck ugly, so my barometer is pretty clearly off. "Appreciate" implies like... idk, that I'd go out of my way to look at them. Do you go out of your way to stare at strange handsome men you see in passing? Because if so you're probably hearing the siren call of bussy.
I thought it was against SRD rules to go through post history. Do you remember when the mods at least pretended to be fighting the stupidity of their userbase?
/u/error404brain, serious question, what pleasure do you get out of policing queer folx bodies and desires? Do you hate queer folx so much that you will only tolerate their existence if they conform to your rigid, homonormative standards?
Maybe you should do some introspection and figure out why you are such a garbage human being.
You think your experience is vastly different than mine because I've had passing attractions to men but never actually wanted a male partner? You sound high and mighty.
Nah, I sound like an actual lesbian. You sound like a bisexual political lesbian, which is totally fair enough, but let's call a spade a spade. If you're gushing over dudes in /r/ladyboners, you ain't gay.
Oh darling dear, I didn't know you were the poster child for lesbianism. How mistaken I was. I am suddenly not a lesbian, for ahbslldud has decreed it, ahbslldud the wise, and hath set me straight (lol). I shall bow down to you and your purity, for I am not worthy...
Mkay. Like, out of curiosity, why do people like you go on reddit? Do you come for conversation, for news, or for those tasty internet points? I like to come here and let the words flow out, nice and hippy-like. Free flowing and shit. I think it's quite beneficial to just toss out the words, 'cuz even with the cringe, it lets me be desensitized to criticism, and it carries into my regular conversations and interactions with strangers face to face. Like exposure therapy. What can possibly happen? Worst thing is a ban. So many people avoid saying what they want, or focus too much on trying to please others, or keeping up an act, that they don't really get any fun or benefit out of it, out of the wonderful open space that is the internet. Luckily you don't have the right to literally police people's sexuality, because you're so damn bossy and it seems you're just itching to regulate sexuality, like have people take a test or list their history just to allow them to identify as who they are. I just hope you aren't being this bitchy to anyone else out there, especially anyone looking for guidance, like a younger kid or teen. You're not a teacher are you? I'm sympathetic for you too. But I can't rid you of hate nor stop you from gatekeeping.
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1 PM_ME_FREE_FOOD 2017-11-26
I don't understand how this identity politics shit works. If I'm rich and white, but also gay, why does my """"oppressed"""" social circumstance outweigh the other two?
1 error404brain 2017-11-26
Of course, being gay and rich won't save you from the mayocide.
1 Mayo_Macerator 2017-11-26
FOR THE LOVE OF BUSSY, GET THIS KIND HUMAN SOME š BREAD!
THAT'S 69 MAYOS SPLATTERED ON SANDWICHES, 69 STEPS CLOSER TO COMPLETE MAYOCIDE!
At this rate, the white race will be finished in no time! DO YOUR PART, FOLKS!
1 PM_ME_FREE_FOOD 2017-11-26
What if I have a black boyfriend?
1 error404brain 2017-11-26
Then he get gazed for being a race traitor. Why change something that work?
1 BigLordShiggot 2017-11-26
It doesn't. Cis white gays are bad guys now.
1 neveryousay3 2017-11-26
While I'm sure that said user is a " lesbian" š, I do have to mention that some lesbians ( and I'm just saying - the ones I know) can appreciate a well dressed, well groomed man or a physique of a professional without being attracted to him.
1 froibo 2017-11-26
Heh.
1 ProphetRith 2017-11-26
My sisters in the closet and Iām pretty sure she does š¤·āāļø
1 ahbslldud 2017-11-26
appreciate a well dressed, well groomed man or a physique of a professional athlete without being attracted to him
Appreciate how? I can't say I'd even notice these traits on a dude unless I'm tryna size up whether he's a hobo rapist or whatever. None of the other lesbians I know have said anything to make me think they would either.
1 VidiotGamer 2017-11-26
That's very strange.
I would have assumed that most people can look at someone and say, "Well they're very attractive" without being actually sexually attracted to them.
Either lesbians are more fucked up than I thought or you're just weird.
1 menvaren 2017-11-26
A lesbian who posts here is just as fucked up as the rest of us, don't be sexist.
1 VidiotGamer 2017-11-26
Wanting gussy is a mental disease.
1 menvaren 2017-11-26
Fair point.
1 ahbslldud 2017-11-26
This but unironically.
1 ahbslldud 2017-11-26
Oh so you mean like, can I tell if someone is obviously good-looking? Yeah, like I can tell if a dude has a symmetrical face or cool hair or whatever if someone asked. I just don't think about it very much. And straight chicks often go for dudes I would think are just dickfuck ugly, so my barometer is pretty clearly off. "Appreciate" implies like... idk, that I'd go out of my way to look at them. Do you go out of your way to stare at strange handsome men you see in passing? Because if so you're probably hearing the siren call of bussy.
1 Unfunny_Twat 2017-11-26
MY EXPERIENCE == YOUR EXPERIENCE
1 Unfunny_Twat 2017-11-26
Hell, as a guy I certainly appreciate a well dressed, well groomed man. And I love sucking cock too.
1 tot22 2017-11-26
u/starlight_chaser you're less of a lesbian than I am and I was born a dude.
1 SDIHTD 2017-11-26
"You don't fit my narrative, I will deny your existence!"
1 error404brain 2017-11-26
Tbf, I would deny your existence even if you fit my narrative. I only support oppressed people that are on my political side.
1 froibo 2017-11-26
Would be better off. He is smug and dull.
1 Awayfone 2017-11-26
Lots of policing of her identity in there, quite gross
1 menvaren 2017-11-26
I thought it was against SRD rules to go through post history. Do you remember when the mods at least pretended to be fighting the stupidity of their userbase?
1 The_Reason_Trump_Won 2017-11-26
this
/u/TAKEitTOrCIRCLEJERK /u/JebusGobson /u/snallygaster
What gives, you nerds ?
1 error404brain 2017-11-26
I got a three day ban. Good job for ruining the drama for me. How am I supposed to enjoy myself if I can't post on a subreddit?
You are literary worse than Hitler.
1 The_Reason_Trump_Won 2017-11-26
ayyyyyy lmao
1 lunchza 2017-11-26
Tbf these three are some A-grade retards. Throw /u/zachums into the mix and you've got a proper dog show
1 menvaren 2017-11-26
I will not stand idly by while you badmouth /u/snallygaster. She's a blessing to us all.
1 Zachums 2017-11-26
The SRD mods are big dicked chads who hang out with real people on weekends. Expecting us to do mod shit on our free time, get outta here.
1 GoblinVapes 2017-11-26
Im still trying to understand the no "flamewar" rules. Like isn't that the whole point of the sub?
99% sure they just ban you if you start win.
1 nunast 2017-11-26
/u/starlight_chaser fuck that sub, hang with us!
1 Ylajali_2002 2017-11-26
/u/error404brain, serious question, what pleasure do you get out of policing queer folx bodies and desires? Do you hate queer folx so much that you will only tolerate their existence if they conform to your rigid, homonormative standards?
Maybe you should do some introspection and figure out why you are such a garbage human being.
1 error404brain 2017-11-26
I mean, yes, I get pleasure out of controlling queer folks bodies and desire, but that's because I am bi.
1 Ylajali_2002 2017-11-26
sounds gay as fuck tbh eww
1 error404brain 2017-11-26
Nah, not gay. That's even the point of this drama.
1 Ylajali_2002 2017-11-26
checked ur post history and you said this a year ago
what did you mean by that?
1 error404brain 2017-11-26
That I grew out of my taste and I am now doing so on drama rather than SRD?
1 ahbslldud 2017-11-26
/u/starlight_chaser bisexuals are real but they aren't fucking lesbians.
You people are the worst.
1 starlight_chaser 2017-11-26
You think your experience is vastly different than mine because I've had passing attractions to men but never actually wanted a male partner? You sound high and mighty.
1 ahbslldud 2017-11-26
Nah, I sound like an actual lesbian. You sound like a bisexual political lesbian, which is totally fair enough, but let's call a spade a spade. If you're gushing over dudes in /r/ladyboners, you ain't gay.
1 starlight_chaser 2017-11-26
Oh darling dear, I didn't know you were the poster child for lesbianism. How mistaken I was. I am suddenly not a lesbian, for ahbslldud has decreed it, ahbslldud the wise, and hath set me straight (lol). I shall bow down to you and your purity, for I am not worthy...
1 ahbslldud 2017-11-26
lmao this might actually be the worst attempt at being dismissive I've ever seen. You're trying WAY too hard.
You're actually giving me a little bit of sympathetic cringe over here.
1 starlight_chaser 2017-11-26
Mkay. Like, out of curiosity, why do people like you go on reddit? Do you come for conversation, for news, or for those tasty internet points? I like to come here and let the words flow out, nice and hippy-like. Free flowing and shit. I think it's quite beneficial to just toss out the words, 'cuz even with the cringe, it lets me be desensitized to criticism, and it carries into my regular conversations and interactions with strangers face to face. Like exposure therapy. What can possibly happen? Worst thing is a ban. So many people avoid saying what they want, or focus too much on trying to please others, or keeping up an act, that they don't really get any fun or benefit out of it, out of the wonderful open space that is the internet. Luckily you don't have the right to literally police people's sexuality, because you're so damn bossy and it seems you're just itching to regulate sexuality, like have people take a test or list their history just to allow them to identify as who they are. I just hope you aren't being this bitchy to anyone else out there, especially anyone looking for guidance, like a younger kid or teen. You're not a teacher are you? I'm sympathetic for you too. But I can't rid you of hate nor stop you from gatekeeping.
1 ahbslldud 2017-11-26
Wew. Kill yourself pls ty.
1 BigLordShiggot 2017-11-26
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