There's only one cure for relationship problems in Redditland. Break up with him.

all those people telling her to brake up because he got a brojob

Wow intolerant much ?

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A few days ago I came home from work to find my boyfriend receiving a blowjob from his best friend. They’ve been friends with each other for 12 years. I was absolutely devastated. My boyfriend broke into tears and apologized to me many times.

My boyfriend told me that he wasn’t gay and this was the only time. He said his friend came out to him and wanted to give him a blow job because he was moving to Europe permanently. He explained to me that he was never going to see his friend again, and the least he could do was let him suck his penis.

I couldn't fucking believe my boyfriend. I get that he’s known him four times longer than I’ve known him, but that doesn’t give him a chance to cheat on me. I don’t get his logic, if his friend was a woman, and he decided to pull this shit on me I would break up with him in an instant. Somehow, in my head him cheating on me with a man makes it less impactful than if it was with a woman.

Ugh. I don’t know what to do. I know my boyfriend is genuinely sorry about what he’s done. He’s been trying to regain my trust for the last couple of days. He’s given me access to his phone, computer and social media accounts. He’s been communicating a lot with me, and the recent sex we’ve had has been the best I’ve ever experienced.

tl;dr: My boyfriend’s best friend is moving to Europe, they’ll never see each other again. He asked my boyfriend if he could give him oral as a final goodbye. My boyfriend accepted this and I caught them in the act. I’m pissed at my boyfriend but I still love him dearly. I have no idea what to do.

I am a lolcow with a single udder. Milk me. Mooo.