These links are subpar. Op's thread includes the comment from ex on OP's "vacation to find herself" and then immediate breakup. She could never let go of the herion addict even when dating others.
Correction:
1) He is not her ex. Their divorce isn’t final until March.
2) She wasn’t dating others..she was married to others. As in two other marriages.
No idea if her first marriage ended after only a year due to her still being in contact with her current fiancé, but according to her husband (divorce isn’t final yet) he’s the reason for their 3 year marriage to end.
Also..can you legally be engaged to someone while still married? I know it’s done, but is it legal?
Not that it seems to matter in this case.
Some woman posted about how her "niceguy creep roommate" is evicting her because she won't date him.
Guy shows up in the comments and reveals they had been in a relationship off and on for years and and had agreed to "try to make it work" before moving back in with him.
Not only that, but she was knocked up from another guy during this, and had agreed to clean the house and he'd cover her half of the rent.
There was a girl that spread a rumor about another girl, for some fucking reason, that she had an STD and was possibly pregnant. They acted like best friends throughout all of that shit.
I think that is when I realized women are fucking crazy.
Telling one side of a story to paint yourself favorably and rationalizing a situation to absolve yourself from wrongdoing has been common for who knows how long.
That's funny, I served and tended bar for like 6 years when I was in undergrad and, while I normally use y'all, I would occasionally use "you guys". Had exactly one table of a few middle aged women get offended so I had to backtrack and explain that I meant it to be gender neutral like "dude". I stuck with good ol y'all from then on. The place I worked for much of that time was a pub type atmosphere anyway in a tourist town anyway so not upscale.
I mean, it kinda is a patch for the English language. Most other languages have a dedicated second personal plural pronoun. We have "you" as both second person singular and plural. We used to use "thou" as singular and "you" as plural but now we have "you" as singular and "y'all" as plural.
If you're using a couple of posts on reddit and some anecdotes involving unstable people, then it's fair to say that all men are rapists/pedos/violent/whathaveyou using the same metrics.
It's literally where the whole "nice guy" thing comes from. "Nice guys" hear their crushes complaining about how all dudes are shit and think to themselves "but i'm a nice guy, who don't you get with me" for years.
Until eventually they realize that the problem isn't with every other dude, but with the girl.
I'm hesitating saying anything at all, but for what it's worth:
1) I know Reddit's reading comprehension level is lacking at times, but I said "toxic relationships" not toxic people, or abusive. If my ex wants to make this about him and throw up his own story he can have that. I could post screenshots, voicemails, etc so Reddit can get off on more drama but internet karma was not the intent of my original post. Furthermore, I have no ill will against him. I was sharing my happiness with r/happiness not expecting it to make it to the front page. Turning this into a circus of he said/she said is not worth my peace, but if he wants to take the reins from here and get some sweet internet points...they're all his.
2) For those of you that will inevitably reply with super fucked up messages and death threats (which I'm already getting...), don't let this shit be what you get your energy from. Life has a lot more to offer than this and if hiding behind a screen to make jokes about someone you don't (or do) know is something that makes you happy then maybe you need to take a look at that.
1.) don't tease /r/drama with more drama if you can't/wont deliver. you may not have expected to make the front page but here we are, and posting here is only going to exacerbate the fun, what do you hope to accomplish by posting here??
2.) boo hoo, people are saying mean things to you on the internet?? ohh the horror, no one else has ever dealt with this before! maybe a dope head shouldn't be giving life advice on where to get your energy from, hmmm
LOL you don't have any ill will toward the man you cucked and cheated on while married after finding your solace in some other addict's dick while he paid your bills?
Nobody cares about any of that. We are just waiting for the inevitable drama surrounding your divorcing the new hubbie when he decides he loves a different white lady again. Good luck in life.
Shut the fuck up you horse faced bitch. Society outwardly and openly rejects junky trash like you and with good reason; you're not to be trusted. It's a good thing you have each other because to the rest of the world you're not even people. Do humanity a favor and OD.
The users here that aren't dipshits won't send death threats. So you can stop with that fucking pity party bullshit. The people who are sending death threats will be people who want to make this out to be sexism.
You were planning on shacking up with some guy while still married, then you didn't even have the fortitude to tell your husband face to face that you were leaving.
You and the junkie are meant for eachother. You're codependant.
No doubt. I'm old as fuck. 32 years from birth, and probably less than 32 years from death, should my maternal line's habit of premature cardiac death take me.
Whelp, if she posts recorded phone conversations and you happen to live in a 2-party-consent state, then you can take her to court!
(Honestly, having to put down previous relationships to justify your current one is pretty trashy in and of itself. Your ex isn’t seeing the red flags she’s making for herself.)
I'll give you $20 for a bj in a couple of years. I have no doubt that you're going to need the money once you find yourself heavily in debt and living in a trailer park with your drug addicted husband.
You cheated on your fucking husband and sent him an EMAIL that you´ll never return. What the fuck is wrong with you?
The best thing is that the other guy is a heroin addict. It´s not like you left your husband to be with a millionaire or a rich guy. You left him for a man who´s going to let his "friends"/dealer fuck you in exchange for heroin.
You wont post voicemails or text or anything related, why even threaten? Any post most likely wont support your side of the story, and if it does, will have zero context to it.
So I'm going to respond and actually be level headed. I see you're getting a lot of sexism in the replies here, and that's not constructive.
There isn't really an issue with dating someone before your divorce is up. I'm currently dating someone who is in the process of a divorce; it takes a long fucking time, and people move on before the government does. That part is fine.
What the issue is, is the supposed cheating, because that's wrong. And even more wrong is it seems like you didn't intend to stay with this guy, and always planned on leaving him. If that's the case, that's a really shitty thing to do. None of us know all the details and a lot of people are making assumptions. But this is what it seems to be right now.
If either one of those things are true, those are terrible things to do to a person. These are the kinds of things that can break a person, and toying with people is cruel. Live your life and be happy, but don't ruin other people's happiness to make that happen. That's all I'm saying.
Lol I had a GF EXACTLY like this. Whole time we dated I could just tell she was still in love with that fucking waste of life drug addict even after he went to jail/rehab for stealing and being a junkie. When I found out he came back she faked pregnancy to keep me around while I assume she cheated on me.
Long story short: we didn’t stay together, they didn’t stay together because the bf became addicted to heroin again, she became straight edge, and it all ended with her calling me from the roof of the building telling me I was the only one she truly loved and she wanted to apologize before jumping (she did not).
So u/LATL21 I’d at least be prepared for the last part to come to fruition within the next year or two.
Are girls like this common? Almost exact same story, I got dumped as soon as her ex got out of rehab (the same day). He ditched her eventually(for drugs), we got back together (I was dumb, I know). He od'd and she told me she could never love someone the way she loved him and we split for good.
She texts me from time to time and I can never find it in me to fully engage with her.
She's a good girl and I wish her the best, but I don't feel like I could be the one to shoulder her burdens after all that happened.
Stand up guy. Seems to have no issues, but no one gave him fucking gold? C'mon Reddit we can do better than that. That shit was up for over 40 minutes you broke fucks!
/u/LATL1 post here so we can give you your fucking gold you animal!
Is anyone on reddit a normal person or are normal people just fucked up in ways we don't see?
I mean I'm a sexual degenerate with my swinging stuff, but I feel pretty fucking normal compared to the usual trans, bipolar, depressed, drug addicted, etc etc crew.
Does anyone have a copy before those douches over at /happy decided to purge the "non circlejering" comments? It seems they deleted like 200 comments just to keep this little whores narrative.
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1 broden 2018-01-03
GIVE ME YOUR UPVOTES AND NOT OP
1 broden 2018-01-03
and so can you
1 Uniquestusername99 2018-01-03
These links are subpar. Op's thread includes the comment from ex on OP's "vacation to find herself" and then immediate breakup. She could never let go of the herion addict even when dating others.
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1 Uniquestusername99 2018-01-03
zozist
1 GARBAGE_MACHINE 2018-01-03
Whoa
1 boyoyoyoyong 2018-01-03
Looks like incels are right again
1 HyundaiElantra 2018-01-03
Incel ideologies plus actually getting laid is chad like behaviour.
1 Leisure_Suit_Lizard 2018-01-03
Correction:
1) He is not her ex. Their divorce isn’t final until March. 2) She wasn’t dating others..she was married to others. As in two other marriages.
No idea if her first marriage ended after only a year due to her still being in contact with her current fiancé, but according to her husband (divorce isn’t final yet) he’s the reason for their 3 year marriage to end.
Also..can you legally be engaged to someone while still married? I know it’s done, but is it legal? Not that it seems to matter in this case.
1 broden 2018-01-03
Heh...turns out she was....
....addicted to love B-)
1 Uniquestusername99 2018-01-03
You got it MANBEAST
1 Coffeegoodbye 2018-01-03
LMAO
1 OniTan 2018-01-03
/u/LATL21 was the pussy good tho?
1 IAintThatGuy 2018-01-03
1 pizzashill 2018-01-03
Is there like an epidemic of women posting about "toxic relationships" and "niceguy creeps" and just outright lying about them?
That bad roommate post was hilarious and made me wonder, now we have this one.
1 Anthropist_ 2018-01-03
twice in one day is just weird, yeah
1 OniTan 2018-01-03
Bad roommate post?
1 pizzashill 2018-01-03
Some woman posted about how her "niceguy creep roommate" is evicting her because she won't date him.
Guy shows up in the comments and reveals they had been in a relationship off and on for years and and had agreed to "try to make it work" before moving back in with him.
Not only that, but she was knocked up from another guy during this, and had agreed to clean the house and he'd cover her half of the rent.
So her entire story was bullshit.
1 OniTan 2018-01-03
Never fuk wit a bit who knocked up wit someone else's kid.
1 WarSanchez 2018-01-03
If the baby is black, don't take her back.
1 rainfal 2018-01-03
Some people have pregnancy fetish tho.
1 OniTan 2018-01-03
But he wasn't even fuckin dat puss.
1 Uniquestusername99 2018-01-03
Tbh both people in that were craze
1 TrollundrtehMountain 2018-01-03
Source please??
1 shallowm 2018-01-03
/r/drama thread about it
1 shallowm 2018-01-03
/r/drama thread about it
1 Uniquestusername99 2018-01-03
Reputation bullying is a frequent outlet for female aggression. It will always be the case that some wamen rag on sone men. It's just weather.
1 icyhat 2018-01-03
There was a girl that spread a rumor about another girl, for some fucking reason, that she had an STD and was possibly pregnant. They acted like best friends throughout all of that shit.
I think that is when I realized women are fucking crazy.
1 TheEyeballQueen 2018-01-03
Highschool chicks are next-level napalm levels of crazy.
1 shanewater 2018-01-03
It's why I don't understand why pedophiles exist, literally anyone under the age of 21 is a fucking psychopath.
1 giroth 2018-01-03
The hotness of sex equals the square of the crazy
1 icyhat 2018-01-03
I just stuck with the hoodrats. Get my dick wet and bounce.
1 leredditbugman 2018-01-03
People I like are good, people I don’t like are bad.
Attractive heroin addict? Love is love.
Unattractive regular guy? Creepy neckbeard.
1 Uniquestusername99 2018-01-03
Why have you got this attitude? I agree with random poster from real thread. She's prob manic happy and has some mental illness. Idk whatever.
1 leredditbugman 2018-01-03
I’m not larping a whole backstory for them, people use shitty rationale to continue down the path they want to.
1 Uniquestusername99 2018-01-03
It's remarkably unsophisticated, but ok.
1 leredditbugman 2018-01-03
Not everybody is a top brainlet, especially people who continuously involve themselves with heroin addicts.
1 Uniquestusername99 2018-01-03
I meant your attitude, but whatevet. If you want them to sit a simple box in your mind, go ahead.
1 leredditbugman 2018-01-03
Oh my attitude is unsophisticated, we should all fall in love with life’s losers so we’re seen as progressive.
1 Uniquestusername99 2018-01-03
I mean you can't see the detail. Idc who you love.
1 die_rattin 2018-01-03
If you're surprised that a couple women lied, I have some bad news for you...
1 snallygaster 2018-01-03
Telling one side of a story to paint yourself favorably and rationalizing a situation to absolve yourself from wrongdoing has been common for who knows how long.
1 Krewmenz 2018-01-03
God knows how long
1 darth_stroyer 2018-01-03
I almost forget some people believe in that stupid fairytail. How about you grow up before you talk with the adults sweetie.
1 deere442 2018-01-03
a little Freudian slip there, ya fuckin poof?
1 darth_stroyer 2018-01-03
you better find an actual fairy because that's the only way your tiny dick can be moderately enjoyable.
1 Pat-Man15 2018-01-03
ow the edge
1 shallowm 2018-01-03
Fucking kuffar don't know that it's Allah, not God.
1 I_DRINK_TO_FORGET 2018-01-03
Every failed relationship is toxic. Every guy who they didn't reciprocate feelings for is a niceguy creep.
1 a_normal_human 2018-01-03
are.... you surprised that women are liars and lie about their relationships? that's like women 101.
1 EarnestNoMeta 2018-01-03
Its funny watching yall figure women lie about everything all on your own. Like no shit they lie, how did you not know this?
1 do0rkn0b 2018-01-03
jesus christ
1 EarnestNoMeta 2018-01-03
Yeah im allowed to say it, im from the south
1 do0rkn0b 2018-01-03
I'm from the deep South and I'd still throat punch you for saying it
1 EarnestNoMeta 2018-01-03
Lol no u wouldnt
1 Mexagon 2018-01-03
You'd have plenty of throats to choose from.
1 crudehumourisdivine 2018-01-03
i reckon yall wooden wanna do that
1 slimeddd 2018-01-03
im not even in the deep south (dfw) and i hear it literally every day. why does it even bother you?
1 do0rkn0b 2018-01-03
Have you read the sidebar my friend
1 slimeddd 2018-01-03
nope. makes sense now. cheers pal
1 EarnestNoMeta 2018-01-03
Nosuh ah cannuh read
1 CucksLoveTrump 2018-01-03
honestly, it would be better if you just left the state please
1 slimeddd 2018-01-03
drop a pin bro post up loser gotta leave the country
1 JumbledFun 2018-01-03
Gross please take some fentanyl
1 EarnestNoMeta 2018-01-03
Im more of a ketamine guy myself but if you're buyin im not complainin
1 lewildcard 2018-01-03
When I was a waitress at a fancy italian restaurant, the managers told us we had to use "you all" or "you folks" because "you guys" is misogynistic.
1 OctupleNewt 2018-01-03
That's funny, I served and tended bar for like 6 years when I was in undergrad and, while I normally use y'all, I would occasionally use "you guys". Had exactly one table of a few middle aged women get offended so I had to backtrack and explain that I meant it to be gender neutral like "dude". I stuck with good ol y'all from then on. The place I worked for much of that time was a pub type atmosphere anyway in a tourist town anyway so not upscale.
1 lewildcard 2018-01-03
Yeah, ironically the more advanced society gets the more we all sound like we're from the south
1 OctupleNewt 2018-01-03
I mean, it kinda is a patch for the English language. Most other languages have a dedicated second personal plural pronoun. We have "you" as both second person singular and plural. We used to use "thou" as singular and "you" as plural but now we have "you" as singular and "y'all" as plural.
Just embrace it.
1 Uniquestusername99 2018-01-03
Bullshit reason ay? You guys just sounds too casual for fancy.
1 lewildcard 2018-01-03
Oh la de da sorry I’m from Arkansas and Red Lobster isn’t up to your “fancy” standards
1 snallygaster 2018-01-03
If you're using a couple of posts on reddit and some anecdotes involving unstable people, then it's fair to say that all men are rapists/pedos/violent/whathaveyou using the same metrics.
1 EarnestNoMeta 2018-01-03
I agree on all accounts
1 Mr_Americas 2018-01-03
All people lie, like a ton. Both Guys and girls equally. I just think a lot of guys believe women are less prone to lie for some reason.
1 Che_Gueporna 2018-01-03
Naw, i think its that women are more trained to work their aggressions in a a passive or social fashion.
Like, in high school, a male bully will just punch you. But a female bully will make up lies behind your back.
1 westofthetracks 2018-01-03
i mean, they are
1 leredditbugman 2018-01-03
People they like are good, people they don’t like are bad.
Attractive heroin addict? Love is love.
Unattractive regular guy? Neckbeard creep.
1 Che_Gueporna 2018-01-03
Yes?
It's literally where the whole "nice guy" thing comes from. "Nice guys" hear their crushes complaining about how all dudes are shit and think to themselves "but i'm a nice guy, who don't you get with me" for years.
Until eventually they realize that the problem isn't with every other dude, but with the girl.
1 OniTan 2018-01-03
/u/liability_girl why so rat like in appearance?
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1 tetheredrose 2018-01-03
Heroin
1 OniTan 2018-01-03
Yeah, but I wanted that dumb bitch to say it.
1 EarnestNoMeta 2018-01-03
Lol
1 hard_to_explain 2018-01-03
I think it's the mouse ears on top of her head, that helps
1 liability_girl 2018-01-03
I'm hesitating saying anything at all, but for what it's worth: 1) I know Reddit's reading comprehension level is lacking at times, but I said "toxic relationships" not toxic people, or abusive. If my ex wants to make this about him and throw up his own story he can have that. I could post screenshots, voicemails, etc so Reddit can get off on more drama but internet karma was not the intent of my original post. Furthermore, I have no ill will against him. I was sharing my happiness with r/happiness not expecting it to make it to the front page. Turning this into a circus of he said/she said is not worth my peace, but if he wants to take the reins from here and get some sweet internet points...they're all his.
2) For those of you that will inevitably reply with super fucked up messages and death threats (which I'm already getting...), don't let this shit be what you get your energy from. Life has a lot more to offer than this and if hiding behind a screen to make jokes about someone you don't (or do) know is something that makes you happy then maybe you need to take a look at that.
1 youngjusticeperv 2018-01-03
1.) don't tease /r/drama with more drama if you can't/wont deliver. you may not have expected to make the front page but here we are, and posting here is only going to exacerbate the fun, what do you hope to accomplish by posting here??
2.) boo hoo, people are saying mean things to you on the internet?? ohh the horror, no one else has ever dealt with this before! maybe a dope head shouldn't be giving life advice on where to get your energy from, hmmm
1 TheEyeballQueen 2018-01-03
LOL you don't have any ill will toward the man you cucked and cheated on while married after finding your solace in some other addict's dick while he paid your bills?
You're practically Mother Theresa 😂😂😂
1 DodgeIvan 2018-01-03
Bitch is like Fiona Gallagher level of relationship stupidity
1 Ultrashitpost 2018-01-03
Mother Theresa was a cunt, so there's some truth to that.
1 HarleysAndHeels 2018-01-03
I learned things about MT I never knew before. It was quite the eye opener.
1 SJWSMUSTDIE 2018-01-03
You should be fucking ashamed of yourself. Nasty skank.
1 SJWSMUSTDIE 2018-01-03
White knight downvotes incoming!
1 Ninjatroiiii 2018-01-03
Lol you got downvoted but she cheated on him while married to him. I thought reddit hated cheaters
1 SJWSMUSTDIE 2018-01-03
Not if it's a woman - Reddit: Where white knight beta pucci bois go to congregate.
1 I_DRINK_TO_FORGET 2018-01-03
Nobody cares about any of that. We are just waiting for the inevitable drama surrounding your divorcing the new hubbie when he decides he loves a different white lady again. Good luck in life.
1 a_normal_human 2018-01-03
oh, he's forever in love with a white lady. the question will be how op handles it when she comes back.
1 I_DRINK_TO_FORGET 2018-01-03
Yes, that was the reference i was making.
1 a_normal_human 2018-01-03
okay then
1 wokeaspie 2018-01-03
Enjoy your third marriage to a guy who can't do much more than clean toilets because of his convictions and jail time. ~2getha 4eva~
1 a_normal_human 2018-01-03
>a skank with no morals finds her soulmate with a heroin addict
so when he relapses, are you going to bail on him, like you did your last two marriages?
1 wokeaspie 2018-01-03
It's a given as long as she has another branch to swing to.
1 die_rattin 2018-01-03
No no this time is forever
1 JustForWsb 2018-01-03
Ancient indomitable proverb says "Third time's the charm" so ya'll can suck it. /s
1 OnlyRacistOnReddit 2018-01-03
Did you really insist on maintaining contact with you junkie while you were married?
1 Walraven_van_Hall 2018-01-03
Look, missy,
There aren't many rules around here
But teasing us with some sappy drama?
Post drama or you can go fuck yourself.
1 Bitch_Please___ 2018-01-03
Shut the fuck up you horse faced bitch. Society outwardly and openly rejects junky trash like you and with good reason; you're not to be trusted. It's a good thing you have each other because to the rest of the world you're not even people. Do humanity a favor and OD.
1 alphetasauce 2018-01-03
E D G Y
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1 hard_to_explain 2018-01-03
Shut up dummy
1 hard_to_explain 2018-01-03
Why do mentally sick whores always lie about death threats?
1 icyhat 2018-01-03
The users here that aren't dipshits won't send death threats. So you can stop with that fucking pity party bullshit. The people who are sending death threats will be people who want to make this out to be sexism.
1 TruthPains 2018-01-03
Sorry you are a cheating bitch who has a thing for junkies.
1 RyeWhiskeyy 2018-01-03
You were planning on shacking up with some guy while still married, then you didn't even have the fortitude to tell your husband face to face that you were leaving.
You and the junkie are meant for eachother. You're codependant.
Begone thot.
1 FoxForce5Iron 2018-01-03
That's just embarrassing. Revealing you're a virgin like that.
1 06C1916D27AC4662977E 2018-01-03
That's just embarrassing. Revealing you're old like that.
1 FoxForce5Iron 2018-01-03
No doubt. I'm old as fuck. 32 years from birth, and probably less than 32 years from death, should my maternal line's habit of premature cardiac death take me.
1 CaptainNeeMoNoy 2018-01-03
Show bobs and vagene
1 FoxForce5Iron 2018-01-03
You got it.
1 Gorgatron1968 2018-01-03
I feel sorry for the junkie at this point.
1 SpinningNipples 2018-01-03
OP pls post voicemails
1 LATL21 2018-01-03
Who leaves voicemails anymore?vThere aren't any, lol.
1 MeowyMcMeowMeowFace 2018-01-03
Whelp, if she posts recorded phone conversations and you happen to live in a 2-party-consent state, then you can take her to court!
(Honestly, having to put down previous relationships to justify your current one is pretty trashy in and of itself. Your ex isn’t seeing the red flags she’s making for herself.)
Sorry you’re having to go through this.
1 QACrusher 2018-01-03
Hey man, I know the heartache you must have experienced...I mean I know the story now. I know it all, actually. I seen it.
Fucking Patriots man, as a Steelers fans to a Hawks fan who set the record straight.
Fuck the Pats
Julio is the best WR in football well AB is 1a/1b
1 LATL21 2018-01-03
Falcons bro, Falcons...
I was mostly drunk by Q3 anyways so all I know is 28-3 Falcons SBLI champs.
1 do0rkn0b 2018-01-03
that's good advice, think about it the next time you decide to post some personal shit on the internet.. ya fuckin' idiot.
1 Dzjill 2018-01-03
Just face the facts that you're an awful person and you're marrying an even more awful person, and when shit gets bad you'll deserve every bit of it.
1 VoltageHero 2018-01-03
So, when are you going to start posting on /r/Relationships?
1 Ninjatroiiii 2018-01-03
Lol okay
1 Kitnado 2018-01-03
Man do you sound toxic.
1 OdinSQL 2018-01-03
I'll give you $20 for a bj in a couple of years. I have no doubt that you're going to need the money once you find yourself heavily in debt and living in a trailer park with your drug addicted husband.
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1 EU_WON_SEASON1 2018-01-03
You cheated on your fucking husband and sent him an EMAIL that you´ll never return. What the fuck is wrong with you?
The best thing is that the other guy is a heroin addict. It´s not like you left your husband to be with a millionaire or a rich guy. You left him for a man who´s going to let his "friends"/dealer fuck you in exchange for heroin.
1 Mr_Americas 2018-01-03
FEED US WOMAN
1 Muted_Post-Horn 2018-01-03
Hey
Just wanted to let you know
Youre a junkie cunt
😎 hope you die soon
1 Muted_Post-Horn 2018-01-03
Not only are you a dumb cheating thot but you're sanctimoneous about it as well
Congratulations you truly are a hateable cunt
1 nememess 2018-01-03
You need at LEAST one year clean before entering into a relationship. I waited a year. I'm 10 years clean. I still have issues with addiction.
1 CavalierEternals 2018-01-03
You wont post voicemails or text or anything related, why even threaten? Any post most likely wont support your side of the story, and if it does, will have zero context to it.
1 b0n3rd1x 2018-01-03
lol
1 Ottermatic 2018-01-03
So I'm going to respond and actually be level headed. I see you're getting a lot of sexism in the replies here, and that's not constructive.
There isn't really an issue with dating someone before your divorce is up. I'm currently dating someone who is in the process of a divorce; it takes a long fucking time, and people move on before the government does. That part is fine.
What the issue is, is the supposed cheating, because that's wrong. And even more wrong is it seems like you didn't intend to stay with this guy, and always planned on leaving him. If that's the case, that's a really shitty thing to do. None of us know all the details and a lot of people are making assumptions. But this is what it seems to be right now.
If either one of those things are true, those are terrible things to do to a person. These are the kinds of things that can break a person, and toying with people is cruel. Live your life and be happy, but don't ruin other people's happiness to make that happen. That's all I'm saying.
1 The_Nba_Is_Dead 2018-01-03
!remindme 2 years. This train wreck that will happen lol
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1 Revaine 2018-01-03
!remindme 5 years when your life is a mess and he's gone back to the gutter, if alive at all.
1 Ravensthrowit 2018-01-03
Lol I had a GF EXACTLY like this. Whole time we dated I could just tell she was still in love with that fucking waste of life drug addict even after he went to jail/rehab for stealing and being a junkie. When I found out he came back she faked pregnancy to keep me around while I assume she cheated on me.
Long story short: we didn’t stay together, they didn’t stay together because the bf became addicted to heroin again, she became straight edge, and it all ended with her calling me from the roof of the building telling me I was the only one she truly loved and she wanted to apologize before jumping (she did not).
So u/LATL21 I’d at least be prepared for the last part to come to fruition within the next year or two.
1 JustForWsb 2018-01-03
Are girls like this common? Almost exact same story, I got dumped as soon as her ex got out of rehab (the same day). He ditched her eventually(for drugs), we got back together (I was dumb, I know). He od'd and she told me she could never love someone the way she loved him and we split for good.
She texts me from time to time and I can never find it in me to fully engage with her.
She's a good girl and I wish her the best, but I don't feel like I could be the one to shoulder her burdens after all that happened.
1 QACrusher 2018-01-03
Stand up guy. Seems to have no issues, but no one gave him fucking gold? C'mon Reddit we can do better than that. That shit was up for over 40 minutes you broke fucks!
/u/LATL1 post here so we can give you your fucking gold you animal!
1 Chicup 2018-01-03
Is anyone on reddit a normal person or are normal people just fucked up in ways we don't see?
I mean I'm a sexual degenerate with my swinging stuff, but I feel pretty fucking normal compared to the usual trans, bipolar, depressed, drug addicted, etc etc crew.
1 do0rkn0b 2018-01-03
WTF is that title
1 Coffeegoodbye 2018-01-03
/r/happy is more of a circlejerk than /r/circlejerk
1 broden 2018-01-03
If you are ever in an environment where everyone is projecting happiness constantly, then tension is just below the surface.
1 GulGarak 2018-01-03
And if you're in an environment where everybody is projecting tension constantly, then happiness is just below the surface!
1 ricardogce 2018-01-03
"Life happened" is the millennial "yadda yadda yadda".
1 mcmur 2018-01-03
Anybody who routinely uses the word 'toxic' to describe other people is toxic themselves.
1 fsdgfhk 2018-01-03
Thats a pretty problematic way of looking at things, friend.
1 a_jill_sandwich 2018-01-03
/u/LATL21, so do you know if this guy is just wearing a wedding ring as a "joke" like your ex says, or is she talking shit there too?
1 LATL21 2018-01-03
No idea, they can’t be legally married, but as far as I know he isn’t be married to someone else either. Just a weird joke I guess.
1 spezzi 2018-01-03
Anyone have a permalink of the comment from the ex? I'm having trouble sorting through that thread.
1 LATL21 2018-01-03
You should be able to see my comment history, no?
1 Gorgatron1968 2018-01-03
Does anyone have a copy before those douches over at /happy decided to purge the "non circlejering" comments? It seems they deleted like 200 comments just to keep this little whores narrative.
1 SuitableSeason 2018-01-03
https://ceddit.com/r/happy/comments/7nq0yt/we_met_9_years_ago_then_he_took_me_on_my_first/
1 shootyourschoolup 2018-01-03
DUTERTE WORLDWIDE PLS
1 LORD-THUNDERCUNT 2018-01-03
Wow, a women being a two-faced whore? What a surprise.