Cuckolding can be positive for some couples, study says

119  2018-01-25 by BussySundae

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This is a nice post and all, but I'm guessing that the only reason anyone is even arguing about this because these people believe 3D is superior to 2D.

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I bring from CNN great news for r/drama regulars.

58% of men and about a third of women had fantasized about cuckolding.

Apparently CNN does not even have one man working there who will stand up and say "uhhh... y'know... I kinda don't want to be cucked".

Part of what makes cuckolding arousing for heterosexual men is that they tend to view it as a taboo act.

Except it's not society that's against it, it's the guy who's potentially getting cucked. Letting some other guy fuck your wife doesn't make you Dirty Harry fighting against the system.

Except it's not society that's against it

Society is very much against it.

I bet society would be very accepting of my polyamorous relationship where my gf cheated on me with various bulls if I actually had a gf, so the joke's on you. Ha! Loser!

Tell that to Sweden.

That is what happens when you mix white guilt with history of vikings.

The Vikings hopped in boats and spread their seed throughout Europe.

The guys who stayed home became Swedes.

When the fuck did mmf threesomes get out of fasgion goddamn

That isn't cuck. Cuck is a woman getting fucked by another man and the significant other getting off to the humiliation.

yeah exactly. We should instead champion the virtues of rubbing dicks with another man while you're both inside your wife.

😏 nice

So you let your girlfriend fuck other men

Having a gf by itself makes me better than the majority of drama just by itself. No, I don't though. I was just saying cuck doesn't equal threesomes. It is a Venn diagram.

You need to see it for it to be a cuck

Not having this argument. This is retarded.

Argument? I'm just agreeing that you're technically not a cuck because you don't see the sex happen

ACKSHULLY

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I've been surprised how high a percentage of drama users are actually alpha males like myself.

I identify as an alpha male. In reality, I’m a middle aged housewife, but r/Drama has sold me on the bussy to the point where I only achieve sexual satisfaction now when I peg my husband with the biggest, brownest latex dong.

Thanks, r/Drama!

He appreciates the implication that he has a girlfriend.

That is when someone has a cuckold fetish. When another man fucks your partner that makes you a cuckold, regardless of whether or not you know/enjoy it.

Boring

Spit roasting a thot with your buddy is different than letting some guy plow your old lady.

When the balls touched

Wtf thats the best part

58% of men

There is no way the number is that high. Did they interview the weakest men they could find or something?

CNN viewers

#GOTEM

lol what a bunch of cucks.

I heard a rumor they did a poll with /r/MensLib users, just a rumor tho

There's now way 58% of Menslib is in a relationship.

It did say fantasy. It could be a fantasy inside a fantasy.

Zero chance menslib users are only 58% pro cuck fantasies. Don't gaslight menslib.

Please forgive me for my problematic behavior 😢 I'll never erase any more cucks, I promise

Are you surprised that 58% of CNN viewership are cucks?

Can gay men cuck each other?

Asking the real questions here.

What if a gay man cuck his partner with a woman?

Then he mad a mistake.

No, because a key facet of getting cucked is the unwanted dick in your life.

Probably imagine plowing someone's oneitis.

God even said don't be cucks

They probably respond "yes" to fucking someone elses wife, not to actually being cucked. But it's CNN so anything is possible.

Depends what they meant by what the men fantasized about when it came to cuckolding... For example, I have fantasized about being the bull and fucking a woman while I emasculate whatever beta is allowing his woman to fuck other men.

I also found a hot cuckold picture online in which a woman is pegging her cuck husband with the caption "I'll be ready for us in a minute baby, I'm just giving my hubby a little reward for being such a good sissy".

I honestly can't believe there are men that are THAT weak.

I honestly can't believe there are men that are THAT weak.

Right? I guess I'm just not woke enough to understand cuckolding

i am though i am a gay bottom so my weakness is not as terrible.

i am someone who gets off on being dominated and i like being weak and feminine and even i don't do cuckoldry i would do Cuckqueaning but thats not really that terrible.

58% of men and about a third of women had fantasized about cuckolding.

Apparently CNN does not even have one man working there who will stand up and say "uhhh... y'know... I kinda don't want to be cucked".

I mean I wouldn't argue against that stat if it's read as wanting to be the bull.

No, the men see themselves as the one fucking other men.

They likely have less assault charges from "looking at my women the wrong way"

So that's a plus

I wonder what the numbers are for ... what would you call it? Reverse cuckolding?

(I know I'm leaving myself open for an obvious joke, but seriously, is there a distinct term for it like there is for a female cheating with another male?)

There have to be some women somewhere that get off on that. I wonder how many there are.

Cuckquean.

Why the quean spelling?

because we were kangz and queanz

Ohhhh

The act is referred to as being CuckQuean, often spelled just like that.

I think that's just called the natural order of things.

I wonder what the numbers are for ... what would you call it? Reverse cuckolding?

Being a fucking man.

I mean the idea is that the female partner gets off on it happening.

I don't know. I've only partnered with women who get off on my bringing home another girl. Anything else seems like emotional immaturity and a misunderstanding of women's role in the world.

This is not real.

the article or the senitment?

because if #1: yeah it is I'm lookin right now

if #2: (((duh, I wonder why they'd write this)))

In our current political climate, the term "cuck" -- short for "cuckservative"

4chan has memed leftists and left leaning liberals into being cucks and making it mainstream. CNN is doing articles about getting cucked and talking about emasculated men.

Next month for CNN, why soy is good for you.

R E N T F R E E

why soy is good for you.

Well, I mean it takes care of those pesky erections in airplanes.

Sounds like Imma get to fuck a bunch of married liberal chicks soon enough

Lmao you act like soy is weirder than this

No, I act like Hillary put out Pepe articles and now CNN does cuck. Soy is just next in the list. Honestly I am just waiting for that point where the DNC tells male voters to become women to prove the Nazis in Washington wrong.

Cut off your dicks to prove the alt right you are better than them!

Soy was probably done in 2013

Next month for CNN, why soy is good for you.

Wait, soy is unhealthy? I really need to keep up with real journalism like Alex Jones.

Soy raises estrogen levels and turns you into Brianna Wu.

Thanks for the info :)

So are we talking more or less estrogen than a cup of milk?

How much do you have to consume to turn into a tranny? Lots of East Asians men consume soy products and they still don't look like women.

Agree to disagree.

Lots of East Asians men consume soy products and they still don't look like women.

http://lmgtfy.com/?t=i&q=East+Asian+Men

I don't get it. I see a lot of man-looking men in there.

Obviously some form of racist. Those guys Google throws up are not only rugged, lantern jawed movie/tv stars, they'll get more than he ever will.

In our current political climate, the term "cuck" -- short for "cuckservative"

Can't they make it past the first sentence without saying something retardedly and obviously wrong? "cuck" is short for "cuckold", it's not complicated. Even professional journalists should be able to manage.

Even professional journalists should be able to manage.

" professional journalists "

Sorry, my English is not so good. I believe the correct term is "retards". It's the same word in my language.

Fair enough.

What retarded language is this?

it's the opposite of that colbert joke "there's two sides to every story, the president's side and the vice president's side." only with CNN and someone else irrelevant.

That was it's main usage when it came onto the internet/political scene. That's how it was popularized -- referring to neocons who sell out/cuck their country for foreign interests(Israel, our greatest Ally etc)

Except it's used to describe lots of people on the left. When people call Justin Trudeau a "cuck", they don't mean it as a shorthand for "cuckservative".

That's what it evolved into. But again, a few years ago it mainly was used in reference to cuckservative. V

"In our current political climate" are literally the first words of the article and immediately precede the "definition" of the word, so saying that the definition used to be correct doesn't really hold water.

That's a lot of seriousposting for me, so here's de bussy

O u right.

Can't tell if u/backtrack is retarded, or memeing.

Probably a little bit of both.

Ah, pulling the 'ol /u/ed_butteredtoast

I think ed is just full retard tbh.

At this point I'm not gonna disagree wtih ya

When people call Justin Trudeau a "cuck", they don't mean it as a shorthand for "cuckservative".

This alone is all the explanation needed to shut down all these idiots.

They literally explain the roots of the slur in the next sentence:

The slur has its roots in the concept of cuckolding, or having an adulterous partner.

Is it a weird statement to start the article with? Yes. It is inherently wrong? No.

Author is 300% Cuck

It is wrong. "Which can be short for" would not be wrong. That's like saying "fuck (short for fuck boy)"

Sure it is

It is a lie because cuckservative is just an additional related insult. When people call Antifa or CNN reporters cucks they aren't calling them fake conservatives.

It's not retarded, they just tried to change the insult so that it targets conservatives instead of lefties.

Except the second one is actually true

And bussy is superior anyway.

Yeah, but (((they))) don't want you to know that.

Gay marriage should be like abortion: safe, legal and accompanied by intense feelings of shame.

Isn't marriage a relic of patriarchy oppression? Why should two men loving each other want to imitate that anyway?

Cuckoo birds were a mistake. Those who call themselves "cucks", they disgust me greatly.

Back when spam email started I read a report that said "spam" comes from what it would be like if you threw spam at a moving fan.

"Journalists"

I mean, there have been studies showing journalists are statistically dumber than the general populace, so maybe the stupidity is endemic to the profession.

Most of the "journalists" I used to work with were retards, so this is totally unsurprising.

ಠ_ಠ

The fourth estate, everyone.

Look, smart people know to avoid a dying industry, it's no surprise that the intelligence of the press cratered when clickbait and outright propaganda became their new fiscal strategy.

What, exactly, is a journalism major expert in, one wonders.

Gossip and pop culture?

He's a cuckspert for Christ's sake

I think it's just high-level trolling, tbqh.

I'm here for the triggered people.

Put that chastity cage back on your cock right now boi

I'm not sure how that's related to what I said.

The author is Jewish. Just gonna put that out there.

Of course. (((THEY))) are involved in yet more degeneracy.

Oy vey!

By Ian Kerner

Kerner

I remember being shaken out of my trust of CNN when they went full Britney Spears meltdown coverage and I just remember asking myself how the fuck is this national news? And now, cuckolding op eds, ffs this timeline is bonkers.

Its uncomfortable how much the cuckold fetish is getting this much attention lately. Also Jewish author and psychologist really activates the almonds.

Don't knock it till you tried it 😀

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If you answered affirmatively you should ingest the nearest Tide pod.

They Live (1988) works as a (((metaphor.)))

"...put on the damned glasses!!!

So many closed minded alt right fools triggered by this commenting lol.

Found the cuck!

Handing my wife over to strangers to own the Nazis!

Book from the author that really made me think 🤔

I'm going to be straight here. I am a cuckold, but I am also a white nationalist. I believe that whites have contributed more to humanity than any other race, space travel, anti—biotics the list goes on. But when it comes down to it, blacks are just better at fucking. Theres no shame in admitting this. There is no shame in admitting that despite the infinite intellectual and moral superiority of the white race, black cock is just better at pleasing women.

The reason white women are turning from the cause and running to niggers is simply because they are not being sexually satisfied. Can you blame them? If you dont get enough to eat at home youre going to go out to eat. The only way to save the white race from miscegenation is cuckolding. My pure white wife is my angel, the apple of my eye. And I want nothing but the best for her. So every friday she gets to have her fill of big black cock. And our relationship goes on like normal. We love each other, and plan on having a child soon. She also shares my red pilled beliefs.

Monogamy is a tool of the jew. Just give it a chance once. Its exhilarating. Theres something deeply majestic about watching a toned muscular black stud going in and out of a beautiful white woman. Try it once.

We must learn to live together as brothers or perish together as fools.

Or both.

What is the overall racial fucking skill hierarchy. Where will my wife's sons fall in this? One is black and the other latino.

Alt-right shitlords ITT so quick dismiss the thinking man's fetish...

Save this comment for later after this comes true and you can come back and gild me. In the next couple years there WILL be a netflix original show that centers around a guy getting cucked. And it will be shown in a very positive light. It will get glowing reviews from the media by how brave the woman is for "being true to herself" and how the cuck is a paragon of virtue. THIS WILL HAPPEN

Did you see the netflix commercial that strongly implied it?

Lol the open relationships one? That is only the beginning

Females will start being more and more open about it I think, of course they'll never admit 50% of them have a back up partner while in a relationship.. unless it becomes super mainstream.

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I know drama isn't the place for serious discussion, but even factoring in mayo degeneracy there is no way this study is accurate.

The only way this could be accurate is if that 58% includes people who want to be the bull. I mean, I'm pretty sure most guys would like the idea of fucking the wife of someone they hate to hurt and humiliate them.

Or just fuck in general. A dude watching isn’t a bad trade

Sure, I've done it and a few Eiffle Towers in my day. It can be fun, but I feel like it's a younger man's game.

This image bothers me. Greatly.

CNN is supposed to be talking about wars and shit, not sexual topics.

Jesus, this is worse than getting sex tips from a Cosmopolitan.

Meanwhile Teen Vogue is covering politics

I give up on this timeline.

I was going to complain about your lame title, but it's word for word from the article

🤔

First the normies culturally appropriated eating ass and now this.

What about the reverse CNN? Where you know the girl has to sit and watch her husband get fucked by a guy. Sexist.

(((KERNER)))

THE NOSE KNOWS

CUCK NEWS NETWORK

You know,

Being a repulsive virgin doesn't really seem that bad anymore.

The study is only about gay men, which is relevant because they don't actually go into the racism and toxic masculinity in this, nor do they discuss how to put the brakes on it if you don't fit the specific criteria for which this isn't a good idea or is mental poison. The hate is understandable especially since, as someone who has dealt with relationship violence, the themes in this kind of porn in videos, captions, stories, etc is like someone taking a hatchet to my brain.

All three authors are questionable and the fact that the article never mentions "cuckqueaning" which is an equally old concept of a wife watching her husband kind of reveals this. Why make this gender specific and freak out all the guys who are already afraid they're not good enough to keep their partner interested in monogamy?

The people in this fetish also pretend to be women and go on other subs to get a ruse out of people by participating in humiliation play. I remember in college I saw threads on snap chat by women who were talking about cheating on their boyfriends and husbands, and now I'm almost certain those were men who got off on the fantasy but were making it seem real to everyone else. That dovetails with its full embrace of stereotypes about race that were supposed to die with slavery (literally the most racist stuff in porn is in this fetish and the erotica can be mind numbingly hateful), and stereotypes and toxic ideas about men and women that are virtually identical to the Redpill.

In a world of over stimulation, porn addiction, rampant male depression and esteem issues, and men not knowing how to prevent relationship violence, this can be a disaster. I've seen plenty of women pushed into types of relationship they were truly unhappy with and articles like this aren't going to help anyone, they're just going to risk people making huge mistakes or being pushed into them by partners, male or female.

The racism is basically based on old fears of black men and unfortunately this, some people find it arousing but that doesn't change what it is or where it comes from: http://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2017/03/black-men-threatening.aspx

tl:;dr

It's actually different from a lot of other fetishes, really hurtful to those who aren't into it, and full of racism and toxic masculinity. Saying " as long as they're into it" doesn't mean much when it's being plastered all over porn and getting glowing reviews in CNN and a bunch of other publications.

How do you know better Mr Armchair Psychoanalyst? Let cucks be cucks. They can do it without racism and with everyone's consent.

Essentially cuckoldry is a form of humiliation play, which some men and women get off to. Men and women who you may never suspect to enjoy this type of fetish end up having their own secret desires.

The toxic masculinity thing is over blown, since people involved in kink have been safely practicing their play without letting what they do in the bedroom define their day to day interactions with people. Your whole spiel is based on unsubstantiated conjecture.

Well read the full thing, and consider that I care less about what happens in bedrooms and more about when it moves to society and everyone else

What about it "moving to society" do you mean?

Men across many societies have been preoccupied with cuckoldry for centuries. Often times the societies where the men weren't had set ups where the maternal uncle would raise the children in the paternal role, putting less worry on being the biological father. So many stories and songs have been about stealing or losing loves to someone else. It's one of the classic themes. The black bull trope even stems from the Arabian classic 1001 nights(perhaps even earlier). If the current media in news and porn showcase this, it's because they're reflecting what society already feels.

People end up having shockingly different or unexpected bedroom behavior in comparison to their politics. We should be focusing on penalizing stereotypes and isms where they actually matter, not in people's private lives that they consent to.

It's a fantasy that porn can sexualized media can constantly push racial stereotypes and not have any effect on the outside world, especially as sexualized spaces become more common. Is sex tourism "private lives?"

This is the best tl;dr I could make, original reduced by 85%. (I'm a bot)


According to a recent study by David Ley, Justin Lehmiller and the writer Dan Savage, acting on cuckolding fantasies can be a largely positive experience for many couples, and hardly a sign of weakness.

"Men are more likely to fantasize about cuckolding, and they do it more often - but there are a number of women who have these fantasies as well, which points to the need for more research focused on women's cuckolding desires," Lehmiller said.

"We found several personality factors that predict more positive experiences acting on cuckolding fantasies. For those who have a lot of relationship anxiety or abandonment issues, who lack intimacy and communication, and who aren't careful, detail-oriented planners, acting on a consensual non-monogamy fantasy could very well be a negative experience," he said.


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ahaha

leftists are all cucks anyway.

Nothing to see here.