I'm not even sure what your point is. Yeah I'd rather sleep with a dakimakura of my waifu Renge-chan than with some random 3D slut but that doesn't mean I'm desperate, it's the opposite, it implies that I have standards.
Plus there's nothing wrong with the "are you a feminist?" (At least by definition of that word) question. Just say something like you believe in human equality hence, by definition, you are a feminist etc etc. not a big deal imo.
She made it seem like they were crazy for not rescheduling. To me it just sounded like the typical flaky early twenties bullshit where no one really gives a fuck about going on the date because sex is available around every corner.
I jave never actually met a woman who tried to reschedule a first date. I've matched with plenty of them but if they say something came up it almost universally means they're going to ghost or not show. I'm sure sometime women genuinely have to and want to reschedule, I've jusy never actually seen it happen,
Yeah it’s happened to me a few times on tinder. I always just say “ok, no problem, just let me know when works best for you” at which point I know they’ll never come back to reschedule. And they never have
Yeah, I mean... isn't it basic manners for a first meeting in just about any context to... show up? It's good that she gives 24 hours notice but if he bought tickets or made reservations, what then?
If you're making a good faith effort to meet someone you ought to... make a good effort to meet them.
Plus there's nothing wrong with the "are you a feminist?" (At least by definition of that word) question. Just say something like you believe in human equality hence, by definition, you are a feminist etc etc. not a big deal imo.
That question itself hints at a combativeness that well-adjusted people tend to avoid. Your "just say this..." advice on how to answer that question assumes the dude is determined to get with this girl. Higher quality dating prospects aren't just trying to navigate a feminist obstacle course to get some; they'll be screening for crazies.
Plus there's nothing wrong with the "are you a feminist?" (At least by definition of that word) question. Just say something like you believe in human equality hence, by definition, you are a feminist etc etc. not a big deal imo.
So this random guy BTFO'd a fatty from trollx and all she could come up is reposting the message to get sympathy from the other fatties, which could answer even more retarded shit?
As a 25 year old in NYC using Bumble for a hot sec, 1/2 of my dates only went for a cheek kiss at the end of the first date.
This is why it's great being European in the US. You get to kiss whomever you want and they think they're being uncultured if they don't go along with it.
When I was in France, some girl did that whole cheek kiss thing when I met her. My first American instincts were to ball my fist and shift backward. I was about to pop her one in the face. He was a good kisser though.
Unless I've had sex with her a couple times, including FFM threesomes with my other girlfriends and at least some light A2M action, I won't even consider going on a first date with her. What does she think I am, a walking dinner-and-a-movie dispenser?
Also, her knees are too pointy, 3/10 wouldn't fuck.
u/GirlSeeksFeminist, I sincerely hope that you are a troll. If not, then let me tell you this. Purity tests, especially in such a politically divided world aren't good for you or the other party. Focus on discussion with those who oppose you rather than confrontation. Consider for instance your reply to him before you blocked him. Such self righteousness will only put people off and further alienate people. If you are that sure that your ideology is correct, make it a point to prove to your critics their validity, and never forget that the easiest person to deceive is yourself. All the best, and I sincerely hope you will find someone who is right for you.
I'm not sure what the point of this thread is. There's two crazy people, the OP and that first person saying she shit-tests people by having a rule to never kiss on the first date. Everyone else is just talking about bad dating experiences, or going out with people they don't like.
"You just don't realize that women have 10x the power of men..."
If we had "10x" the power of men...wouldn't we realize it? Are people leaping to offer us higher, competitive salaries? Are companies clamoring to hire women over men?
Yes, literally yes.
The problem is there aren't enough qualified women applying for those jobs.
When individuals in tech companies write manifestos about how affirmative action is bad
Yes, discrimination is bad.
and how recruitment of women is sexist,
he never claimed that.
Do we walk outside alone at night without a care in the world because we've never even thought about being afraid?
True.
On the other hand men are at a higher risk of being assaulted or killed.
Is it widely acknowledged that we should have access to birth control
At least half of pro-lifers are women.
How retarded do you have to be to believe being against baby-murder is misogyny?
and that condom-wearing is the default?
Isn't it, for casual sex? As for relationships: all my girlfriends preferred sex without condom.
In a medical context, who is presumed to be a doctor vs. a nurse?
Half of working doctors are women. And they would be a significant majority, if women with medical degrees were working full-time until retirement age. In reality female MDs work far fewer years per career, and even when they have their own practice they work far fewer hours per week.
How many female presidents has the US had?
It's an election.
In contrast to affirmative action, you actually have to convince people that you're the better candidate.
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1 SnapshillBot 2018-01-25
I'm not even sure what your point is. Yeah I'd rather sleep with a dakimakura of my waifu Renge-chan than with some random 3D slut but that doesn't mean I'm desperate, it's the opposite, it implies that I have standards.
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1 AzizAnsarisCurryDick 2018-01-25
You're never going to convince me that this bot isn't sentient
1 EternallyMiffed 2018-01-25
I for one welcome our shitpost archiving robotic overlords.
1 Ed_ButteredToast 2018-01-25
Fuck u OP. At least put some effort you mong. Also what mind games? Like not kissing on the first date? That's pretty reasonable tbh.
Plus there's nothing wrong with the "are you a feminist?" (At least by definition of that word) question. Just say something like you believe in human equality hence, by definition, you are a feminist etc etc. not a big deal imo.
With that being said,
Lol
1 Socrates2x 2018-01-25
TrollX actually.
And the last time I checked, there was one woman saying she cancels her dates the day before to see how they'll react.
1 Ed_ButteredToast 2018-01-25
Edited it but you were too fast4me. They are worse I agree lol.
Link that shit for us lazy fuckers. Or not. Lol
1 alphetasauce 2018-01-25
She made it seem like they were crazy for not rescheduling. To me it just sounded like the typical flaky early twenties bullshit where no one really gives a fuck about going on the date because sex is available around every corner.
1 aqouta 2018-01-25
I jave never actually met a woman who tried to reschedule a first date. I've matched with plenty of them but if they say something came up it almost universally means they're going to ghost or not show. I'm sure sometime women genuinely have to and want to reschedule, I've jusy never actually seen it happen,
1 AllBluesNoReds 2018-01-25
Yeah it’s happened to me a few times on tinder. I always just say “ok, no problem, just let me know when works best for you” at which point I know they’ll never come back to reschedule. And they never have
1 aqouta 2018-01-25
Pretty much the same strategy.
1 Socrates2x 2018-01-25
Yeah, I mean... isn't it basic manners for a first meeting in just about any context to... show up? It's good that she gives 24 hours notice but if he bought tickets or made reservations, what then?
If you're making a good faith effort to meet someone you ought to... make a good effort to meet them.
1 SmurfPrivilege 2018-01-25
That question itself hints at a combativeness that well-adjusted people tend to avoid. Your "just say this..." advice on how to answer that question assumes the dude is determined to get with this girl. Higher quality dating prospects aren't just trying to navigate a feminist obstacle course to get some; they'll be screening for crazies.
1 shallowm 2018-01-25
I found it kind of weird that this post was there only a few days ago (related /r/drama thread).
1 Ed_ButteredToast 2018-01-25
Lmao
1 EternallyMiffed 2018-01-25
I don't like lying.
1 Ed_ButteredToast 2018-01-25
well boo you lol
1 aggressiveshitpost 2018-01-25
So this random guy BTFO'd a fatty from trollx and all she could come up is reposting the message to get sympathy from the other fatties, which could answer even more retarded shit?
Must be a day that ends in Y in /r/TrollX.
1 _Suprememe_ 2018-01-25
Even the days of the week are totems of patriarchy!
1 [deleted] 2018-01-25
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1 Lawgustmarck 2018-01-25
I like it! It’s a chad repellant and will attract all the soyboy, “not a rapist” to the yard!
1 Nerdlinger 2018-01-25
This is why I also never order pasta on a first date; otherwise I’d never have a special first pasta-for-dinner date.
1 ____________13 2018-01-25
This is why it's great being European in the US. You get to kiss whomever you want and they think they're being uncultured if they don't go along with it.
1 newprofile15 2018-01-25
Watch yourself, even PoC are getting me too’d now (see Aziz), no one is safe. Unless you’re tall and attractive in which case, carry on.
1 ____________13 2018-01-25
I know I'm attractive, because I get to do a lot of the things that the more embittered feminists claim all men can do.
1 jaredschaffer27 2018-01-25
When I was in France, some girl did that whole cheek kiss thing when I met her. My first American instincts were to ball my fist and shift backward. I was about to pop her one in the face. He was a good kisser though.
1 ConsoleWarCriminal 2018-01-25
>some girl
>He
le bussy
1 GuillotinesNOW 2018-01-25
Just kiss. I don’t even wait. And when you’re a star, they let you do it. You can do anything. Grab 'em by the bussy.
1 SDRresume90 2018-01-25
god dammit
1 wokeaspie 2018-01-25
Meet up with a roastie like this and you're begging to get #metoo'd. Just ghost her and let her write an angry blog post about it. Everybody wins!
1 shallowm 2018-01-25
I found it kind of weird that this post was there only a few days ago (related /r/drama thread).
1 Chicup 2018-01-25
If she doesn't fuck on the first date, why bother going out?
1 DickingBimbos247 2018-01-25
Unless I've had sex with her a couple times, including FFM threesomes with my other girlfriends and at least some light A2M action, I won't even consider going on a first date with her. What does she think I am, a walking dinner-and-a-movie dispenser?
Also, her knees are too pointy, 3/10 wouldn't fuck.
1 CummyBot-1999 2018-01-25
u/GirlSeeksFeminist, I sincerely hope that you are a troll. If not, then let me tell you this. Purity tests, especially in such a politically divided world aren't good for you or the other party. Focus on discussion with those who oppose you rather than confrontation. Consider for instance your reply to him before you blocked him. Such self righteousness will only put people off and further alienate people. If you are that sure that your ideology is correct, make it a point to prove to your critics their validity, and never forget that the easiest person to deceive is yourself. All the best, and I sincerely hope you will find someone who is right for you.
1 jimmahdean 2018-01-25
I'm not sure what the point of this thread is. There's two crazy people, the OP and that first person saying she shit-tests people by having a rule to never kiss on the first date. Everyone else is just talking about bad dating experiences, or going out with people they don't like.
There's no drama at all.
1 DickingBimbos247 2018-01-25
/u/lillycrack
HAHA yeah, because that's what feminism is in 2018
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA you're a hoot
1 Socrates2x 2018-01-25
Honestly, that's the kind of loaded question that there is seldom a really "right" answer to, short of grunting and nodding repeatedly.
1 DickingBimbos247 2018-01-25
/u/sugarfreeme
Yes, literally yes.
The problem is there aren't enough qualified women applying for those jobs.
Yes, discrimination is bad.
he never claimed that.
True.
On the other hand men are at a higher risk of being assaulted or killed.
At least half of pro-lifers are women.
How retarded do you have to be to believe being against baby-murder is misogyny?
Isn't it, for casual sex? As for relationships: all my girlfriends preferred sex without condom.
Half of working doctors are women. And they would be a significant majority, if women with medical degrees were working full-time until retirement age. In reality female MDs work far fewer years per career, and even when they have their own practice they work far fewer hours per week.
It's an election.
In contrast to affirmative action, you actually have to convince people that you're the better candidate.
1 Nerdlinger 2018-01-25
Almost as retarded as you’d have to be to conflate birth control with abortion.
1 ProgressiveFragility 2018-01-25
Abortion is the only kind of birth control where access is contested.
1 FaygoMakesMeGo 2018-01-25
u/redkait Admit it, you've never been on a date.
1 XhotwheelsloverX 2018-01-25
Posting on trollx should've been the giveaway.
1 SaintJason 2018-01-25
The pasta for asking a simple question is far worse tho