So he's a gay man married to a gay woman out of comfort and convenience and they're openly allowed to enjoy their own respective sexual exploits.

That shit sounds awesome if you ask me.

Except for the part where they are both disgusted by each other’s genitalia

Well they are married so that fits

god fucking dammit, snappy

My wife (f30) and I(m33) work at the same company, but different areas and different bosses. Her boss is a conservative female, and her bosses boss is foreign (I honestly don't know where he is from, but I assume India) and doesn't really treat my wife, or any other women there the fairest. Women can't advance because they can't possess the skills type thing. People have complained, nothing has been done, and he has been told who and why. My wife and I were more predominant to members of the same sex before we got together, but we became best friends and then lovers. (It was really hard at first since we fought constantly, but we are phenomenal now). My wife's lead really dislikes homosexual people. She has made this known at least 1 to 5 times a week for over a year.

"My daughter's won't be taught by those lesbians! I don't want them to influence my children, turn em gay!"

My wife didn't want anyone to know this about her at our work, since her sexuality is none of anyone's business. I agreed, and we never have made much of a big deal out of it. We hear jokes, we don't care. We have friends that understand because their gay there, but even they don't know. It's work. Yet, her lead keeps saying it all the time. She is the main trainer (1000+ employees there) in her area, and all of the new hires would eventually tell my wife that they were hearing the same thing. My wife, after a while, started to become miserable here. Everyday the same thing. So she complained to her bosses boss, and asked him to stop her harassing her. I say harass because it's not just the talk. She constantly moves my wife around to ensure her break is last, yells at her for doing things that no others don't get yelled at for in the same position, etc. Her bosses boss told her to "suck it up. It will pass." My wife said nothing about the homosexual comments yet. She continues to ask her to stop, and nothing, so she went to her bosses boss again. He said "this is hear say, she will just have to work through it."

My wife now finds out that her boss is now saying this to every new hire. "They're immoral and disgusting, I don't want them in here influencing my area!" Ect. So now my wife feels that she has done enough to give her a chance and goes to her bosses boss and tells him everything except that my wife is gay. He tells her to move on, that there is no proof, it's all hear say again, and try to work it out. Now my wife is truly uncomfortable. It's still happening, and since her boss is a trainer, she decides to the training coordinator. He is floored because he is also gay. My wife's anonymity is still protected. He tells his boss, his boss tells her to go to HR.

My wife tells HR and waits for a phone call during the day, even though she should be sleeping so she can work that night from 6pm to 6 am. HR finally calls, and they say "even though it is offensive, it is not a for of discrimination unless you are a member of that specific protected class."

My wife tries giving her a ton of scenarios hoping to getsome answers she wants, but they all combed out the same. My wife needs to come out as gay to our workplace, which they consider hard because she is married, for her rights to be protected. They say "the investigation is on going, so keep this private, don't talk to anyone about it. It will take about a week.

She doesn't want our workto know. She silent that whole day crying and not sleeping. So she still goes into work that night, and in walks her HR rep. The rep pulls out an employee that works with my wife, and sends then back. Then they call out my wife's lead. They told her boss everything. Her lead comes in livid, and my wife was freaking out. The first thing her lead does is go to every one of my wife's employees and tells them that my wife reported her. She knows this, because every one of them came up asking why she reported her and asking when she is transferring. They all keep misidentifying product and giving it to her add go around to other areas and tell them. My wife was given the responsibility of fixing a tool that moves product over long distances. The second she stepped into it when asked by the person who runs it, her lead comes up and just rips her a new asshole in front of everyone. Citing safety, sop's, ect. My wife is in tears at this point, every time her lead talks it's at her expense. Finally she breaks down and demands to be moved to another area, even though she loved this one. Her bosses boss told her "absolutely not". Still, her lead is forcing the homosexual hate comments. My wife sends any email to her bosses bosses boss. He says that she needs to stop talking about it with people (which she's not, her lead is. Also telling them to report my wife for various things) and the only thing he can do is move her to another shift, that I don't work on. With 1 car. People still keep coming up to her and asking why she reported her, asking her to either just switch shifts already, or asking when she's going to switch shifts. She didn't want to go to work anymore. I have tried contacting a lawyer, but we will nights and all the ones I called call back when were asleep, or don't because it's entering the weekend. I'm offended now, as worried to find myself in that same situation. I have heard her lead say these things on several occasions. Nobody will consider it harassment or discrimination unless she tells our employer that she's gay (which she is so afraid of, even more so now). We don't know what to do. Every time my wife went toher leads boss, she was just asking to switch areas. She never wanted anyone to get in trouble. She was told by management that this would be confidential, and now she wants nothing to do with life, let alone work. It breaks my heart, and I don't know what else I can do.

Tl;Dr : my wife's is gay in secret, she tried to complain about harassment from a lead without bringing her sexuality into it and just asked to move areas. She contacted HR, HR said no dice unless my wife comes out as gay and the next day came into or work area and told my wife's lead everything, then has forced my wife to work under the pissed off conservative won now knows my wife reported her. Don't know what to do.

damn son, where'd you find this?

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