After this intellectual discourse, he followed the guy to another thread the next day here showing his cool and articulate side that drives the femoids wild!
This is my first post for asking some questions. I'm currently in college and going to class. My main priority was to have my grades up and that was it. I'm fairly an attractive guy outside of class, but I currently found myself sucked into a social circle that I never wanted.
When we began class, the hottest girl from class came to me and started talking to me. However, I was focused on doing my work, not trying to get girls in class. Because of this I think she got mad at me thinking she rejected me. And now she has her own circle of "popular kids".
Throughout semester, I was associating with another girl, who isn't very attractive, but very smart. She aligned with my goal of getting good grades. But now I see a problem because of this choice.
Now the cliques have formed. To others observing me sees that I'm associated with the "smart kids" hence now treats me as such. And the hot girl who came to me before is now doing her own thing with her crew, while I'm stuck with some of the "lower" members of the social circles if you will.
Now outside of class, I attract fairly hotter women. That is to say, I go for women hotter than the girl I saw. But in this class, I noticed I'm being treated as a lower status individual that what I'm used to.
Our class is having an event towards the end of the month, and I'm thinking of bringing a girl that's pretty hot to this event. I think this will be a good experience in the future as I'm sure I will be involved in another social circle. And if my status is of a "lower guy", is there a way to change your status within the group? For example by bringing another hot girl into the group?
He's that one guy in college who thinks cliques and teenage obsession with popularity. carries over from high school.
When I'm with like six or seven of my clique, just cruising comment sections and ROASTING these offbrand-ass poindexter lames, the tastiest roasts are always met with a hearty "LMAO" from one of my contemporaries. If I'm not hearing a steady chorus of my goon squad spelling out "LMAO" rather than actually laughing, I know I gotta step my game up or I'm dangerously at risk of social demotion
He's that one guy in college who thinks cliques and teenage obsession with popularity carries over from high school.
I think he might be on the spectrum based on the tattoo story. Shop owner trying to give him some legit advice and he completely ignores it and gets irritated by it.
When you buy a car what do you do? Me: What? Him: You check to see if the air conditioner is working, or if the engines okay, or make sure the driving is good. You wouldn't just buy a car right? (no you retard, I would just buy a new car cause I'm not a broke dumbass like you)
I feel like he has never actually bought a car before...
Man, I really want to hang out with /u/JayShek09. He sounds super-cool, what with all the acting classes for fun and making friends with drunk people, and being able to take out loans for new cars and all.
Maybe we can cruise around in ubers (gotta save the miles on that new car we both can buy if we want to) and intimidate guys just by being our swaggy, confident selves.
The only thing you should be doing is eating my ass, young padowan. I got debt cause I'm the shit you feel me. I spent it all on Gucci, Louis Vuitto, and Chanel. I got a reputation to uphold my boy.
Copying this nutso from his post elsewhere since he deleted his delicious pasta
Hola amigos,
I have a question.
I'm fairly confident, friendly, and warm.
But I also know I make a lot of guys insecure around me.
It gets rather annoying when I first try to be friendly with them but they instead try to cut me down.
How do I deal with these types of behaviors from other men?
Here are some examples.
1 Insecure Guy Reaction
Uber Ride Pool: Me, Driver, Another girl (After Class)
Me: (Coming in with confident vibe) Sup man
Driver (Student on my campus): (Reacting to my energy) Sup!
(Pretty girl gets in)
Driver: How's your day going? (To me)
Me: Pretty good man, I just took my midterm in my acting class. And somehow I managed to memorize my scripts an hour before the midterm. I didn't realize I could do that.
Driver: Oh cool.
Me: Yeah man. So how bout you? Is uber your full-time job? (Asking genuinely)
Driver: (Getting insecure) Hell naw man, I'm also a full time choreographer. Matter of fact, you guys will probably see me on TV tonight. I'm a professional dancer.
Girl: Oh cool, I'm a ballerina
Driver: Yeah? Well you guys might seem me with (Some name). You know him? (To me)
Me: No
Driver: Well he's like the Michael Jordan of Hip Hop. I met him.
Girl: Oh wow, he's like my idol
Driver: Oh really? Well yeah, I'm gonna be on TV with him. (To me) So how bout you man? Got an agent for your acting career?
Me: Nope, I'm only taking it for fun. (I'm kind of confused here because here I was just having good vibes and trying to be friendly with this dude, and he instantly got insecure and started trying to cut me down)
Driver: Oh why not get an agent?
And so on.
2 Insecure Reaction
Another Uber Driver
I walk in with a swagger.
Him: (Immediately react to be with a bit of like, who the fuck does he think he is)
Me: (I usually don't notice as most guys wanna be friends with me)
Me: (Not realizing he was insecure already by me) Sup man!
Him: Sup
Me: Busy tonight?
Him: Hah, I'm always busy man. I got 3 jobs. (I can tell there's a subtle aggression)
Me: Okay, well I'm talking about tonight with Uber.
Him: Oh nah, it's slow.
Me: That's cool man.
Him: How bout you?
Me: It's alright. I'm glad there won't be any drunks with me pooling today.
Him: Well, obviously, it's Sunday night. (uh, okay?)
Me: (I ignore it) Yeah, it was funny last night, I was in a pool with 3 other drunk people. And it's amazing how fast 3 drunk strangers become instant friends and get a party going in the ride.
Him: Haha well, what do you expect out of drunk people?
Me: (At this point, I'm getting annoyed)
Him: And then he starts talking about some drunk people trying to talk to me.
3 Tattoo Shop
I walk into this tattoo shop. And immediately when I walk in, the whole shop kind of stops and looks at me.
I walk in with a upright posture, slow walk, and etc.
There's like a little clique of workers, and there's one owner. (They're all guys around 21-29)
Leader of the clique: Sup man, how can I help?
Me: Sup, I just need a piercing in my left ear. (When I talk, my voice is very low, articulate, and very commanding, or I've been told)
Immediately I sense the leader guy get insecure. (Which I didn't know bout til I started talking to him)
I befriend the customers there and there's some cuties looking at me, giving me girly eyes and stuff.
Anyway, I've been wanting to get a sleeve and I saw that the "leader" guy had a pretty cool sleeve.
So I walk up to him.
Me: Sup man, nice sleeve.
Him: Thanks
Me: I've been looking to get a sleeve and researching a bit, when'd you get yours done?
(Here everyone stopped to hear what we were talking about. The followers in his crew were all staring and the girls started listening in. i have no idea why_
Him: Oh this is from a celebrity tattoo shop man, you can't just get it anywhere.
Me: (Okay? I ignore this idiotic comment) that's great man. I'm getting one in a few months. how much did it cost ya?
Him: Everything depends man.
Me: That's why I'm asking you, you're the tattoo artist right?
Him: Well, it's like a car. When you buy a car what do you do?
Me: What?
Him: You check to see if the air conditioner is working, or if the engines okay, or make sure the driving is good. You wouldn't just buy a car right?
Me: (I just look at him like Wtf are you talking about?) You know what man, nevermind I said anything. (And I just walk back to my place)
(Everyone's kind of just staring at what hapepend?)
Him: (Reacting) Wait, you get what I mean right?
Me: in my head (no you retard, I would just buy a new car cause I'm not a broke dumbass like you)
So here are some annoying examples of how insecure dudes get.
I noticed that with guys, I get very black and white reactions.
With other confident guys, they become friends with me, and are really good with me.
Average Joes: They're either intimidated, or REALLY friendly with me
And then there's the ones who get insecure around me: They get hostile, or try to cut me down like the above.
My question is, how do I deal with this? Especially when there's women around?
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1 in_hazmat_suit 2018-02-14
After this intellectual discourse, he followed the guy to another thread the next day here showing his cool and articulate side that drives the femoids wild!
1 snallygaster 2018-02-14
pls say this is a troll. nobody can be that obnoxious, right??
1 PussMonster_ 2018-02-14
You would think, but then again that sub is bound to attract the PUA types
1 in_hazmat_suit 2018-02-14
I'm afraid so.
1 orangetato 2018-02-14
Oh you don't honey, you're suck there forever
1 Wordshark 2018-02-14
Hahahaha hoooooooooly shit
1 Starship_Litterbox_B 2018-02-14
/u/Jayshek09 got into an argument with a bot, so I think we're dealing with an actual retard. โฟโฟโฟ
1 recklessrider 2018-02-14
Link?
1 ModeratorAbuseSucks 2018-02-14
Pls I need that link, I need this so bad
1 ModeratorAbuseSucks 2018-02-14
Pls I need that link, I need this so bad
1 Starship_Litterbox_B 2018-02-14
https://www.reddit.com/r/NSFWIAMA/comments/7xd3dq/i_f_can_hear_my_husband_fuck_a_young_girl_in_the/du84wmv/
1 HaulOfChina 2018-02-14
https://www.reddit.com/r/NSFWIAMA/comments/7xd3dq/i_f_can_hear_my_husband_fuck_a_young_girl_in_the/du856ee/?context=1
1 shallowm 2018-02-14
He deleted his comment, but here's the removeddit link.
1 LadyVetinari 2018-02-14
the bot was obviously just insecure ๐ค
1 KateUptonsCumback 2018-02-14
/u/Jayshek09 this is fucking pathetic.
1 Fading_Joy 2018-02-14
Nahh, the dude is funny(and confident) as fuck DAWG
1 moudougou 2018-02-14
and what a thread!
1 in_hazmat_suit 2018-02-14
Ikr? That's how I found out about this guy lol ๐
1 Tomotronic 2018-02-14
Shrek is oddly fucking obsessed with bullies and nerds he and his friends picked on.... Considering he posted this a couple months ago...
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/7jygmr/how_should_i_handle_this_i_confronted_my_old
I wish I could see what it was because I bet it adds a lot of context.
1 uniqueguy263 2018-02-14
Ceddit?
1 LadyVetinari 2018-02-14
wow such confidence
what an alfalfa I'm swooning
1 in_hazmat_suit 2018-02-14
LMAO ๐๐
1 JasonJewnova 2018-02-14
Watch it bich you already have a C H A D
1 LadyVetinari 2018-02-14
I don't know honey, how many uber drivers have you intimidated with your masculine greetings ๐ค
1 JasonJewnova 2018-02-14
Uber had to stop running in Dublin since I AMOGed all their beta cuck drivers ๐ฆ๐ญ
1 LadyVetinari 2018-02-14
Sexy af tbh ๐๐๐ฆ
1 SmurfPrivilege 2018-02-14
This is my first post for asking some questions. I'm currently in college and going to class. My main priority was to have my grades up and that was it. I'm fairly an attractive guy outside of class, but I currently found myself sucked into a social circle that I never wanted.
He's that one guy in college who thinks cliques and teenage obsession with popularity. carries over from high school.
1 gerradp 2018-02-14
When I'm with like six or seven of my clique, just cruising comment sections and ROASTING these offbrand-ass poindexter lames, the tastiest roasts are always met with a hearty "LMAO" from one of my contemporaries. If I'm not hearing a steady chorus of my goon squad spelling out "LMAO" rather than actually laughing, I know I gotta step my game up or I'm dangerously at risk of social demotion
1 auto-xkcd37 2018-02-14
Bleep-bloop, I'm a bot. This comment was inspired by xkcd#37
1 Tagesausbruch 2018-02-14
That smart girl is probably annoyed by this clingy ape making her look bad to others
1 Alwaysafraidtodie 2018-02-14
To be fair I occasionally show my friends retards on discord, fresh cringe is a bonding experience.
1 wow___justwow 2018-02-14
I think he might be on the spectrum based on the tattoo story. Shop owner trying to give him some legit advice and he completely ignores it and gets irritated by it.
I feel like he has never actually bought a car before...
1 S3xb3ard 2018-02-14
Hey, itโs the guy he followed. Thanks for posting all this. Iโm glad you guys found it as funny as I did!
1 in_hazmat_suit 2018-02-14
Lol. That pasta is glorious tho!๐
1 Denny_Craine 2018-02-14
What's the over/under on this guy being hapa?
1 Nerdlinger 2018-02-14
Man, I really want to hang out with /u/JayShek09. He sounds super-cool, what with all the acting classes for fun and making friends with drunk people, and being able to take out loans for new cars and all.
Maybe we can cruise around in ubers (gotta save the miles on that new car we both can buy if we want to) and intimidate guys just by being our swaggy, confident selves.
1 LightUmbra 2018-02-14
Let's be honest here. /u/JayShek09 is a total manlet.
1 uniqueguy263 2018-02-14
Who desperately tries to be cool and fails
1 uniqueguy263 2018-02-14
He's a totally cool alpha who isn't a pathetic loser at all and anyone who would think that is a pathetic loser
1 DaoneCook 2018-02-14
Guys look, I found his instagram.
www.instagram.com/jayshek09
1 ay_what_up2 2018-02-14
FUCK itโs deleted. And so is his reddit acc. Lol
1 uniqueguy263 2018-02-14
Heโs so secure. Really. So secure that he deleted his account bc some people were mean to him
1 nanonan 2018-02-14
What an alpha.
1 in_hazmat_suit 2018-02-14
u/Joan_Wayne_Gacy u/serialflamingo what do you think of /u/JayShek09? Does your bussy get wet by his cool and alpha behavior?
1 PussMonster_ 2018-02-14
lmao really?
1 snallygaster 2018-02-14
AMOG?
1 PussMonster_ 2018-02-14
Alpha Man of the Group - showing his chadliness and asserting dominance
1 snallygaster 2018-02-14
imagine centering your social interactions around a debunked explanation of how primitive dogs behave
1 Neronoah 2018-02-14
Yeah, modern theory says humans are more like a herd of mentally challenged cats.
1 Bucklar 2018-02-14
As opposed to what, master race dogs?
1 Bucklar 2018-02-14
That is the gayest thing I've ever heard. I don't mean that pejoratively. Like, super gay.
1 ConsoleWarCriminal 2018-02-14
Uber drivers? More like Ubermensch drivers.
1 in_hazmat_suit 2018-02-14
hewwo!! OwO it me!! ur ๐uber๐๐ dwiver!! x3 w^ watashi waiting๐ outside for ๐ป๐ฎu ๐ป๐ฎ!! >w<
1 afclu13 2018-02-14
That sub is full of BS. The stuff they preach is not going to get you any bussy let alone gussy.
1 in_hazmat_suit 2018-02-14
Implying gussy > bussy
๐ ๐ ๐
1 herestoeuclid 2018-02-14
Oh boy. If my math is right, he's like 27. Hahaha
1 ThenTheGorursArrived 2018-02-14
He's doing a PhD in taking acting classes casually you fucking beta nerd that he used to pick on in school.
1 PussMonster_ 2018-02-14
literally only doing it for the never-ending supply of fresh pussy
1 herestoeuclid 2018-02-14
unironically
1 WinterTeaching 2018-02-14
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1 herestoeuclid 2018-02-14
My dude, but unironically
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1 uniqueguy263 2018-02-14
BITCONNNNEEEECCCTTT
1 MG87 2018-02-14
I'd be shocked if /u/JayShek09 is older than 14
1 MSU-Darbhanga 2018-02-14
/u/JayShek09
Will your seduction techniques have to change once you graduate from acting school and start working as a barista?
1 CummyBot-1999 2018-02-14
Something tells me u/JayShek09 is a mayo soyboy in desperate need of a bull
1 life_is_painfull 2018-02-14
https://www.reddit.com/r/NSFWIAMA/comments/7xd3dq/i_f_can_hear_my_husband_fuck_a_young_girl_in_the/du85pjl/?context=3
1 HodorTheDoorHolder 2018-02-14
I want to read more interactions of this guyโs daily life.
1 in_hazmat_suit 2018-02-14
Ikr? We'll be blessed with new and fresh pasta ๐
1 Chicup 2018-02-14
You guys are a bunch of beta bitches. /u/JayShek09 scored 4 touchdowns in a single game in highschool. Four! It was the highlight of his life.
1 TheHeroReditDeserves 2018-02-14
Now generally I shy away from using the phrase "gigantic faggot" to describable people but exceptions do have to be made occasionally.
1 WilliamAytchMacy 2018-02-14
/u/JayShek09 likes to pretend he has enough money to hire a lawyer, but prefers to get his advice from the autismos on /r/legaladvice instead. He's also a shitty driver.
1 TempestCola 2018-02-14
Lmao literal high schoolers have better credit than him, thatโs sad
1 alphetasauce 2018-02-14
That's the cherry on top. But this is hitting too many troll buttons.
1 shallowm 2018-02-14
How do retards like this even exist?
1 ChadSlayer918 2018-02-14
/u/JayShek09 is a fat, virgin, beta nerd and I bet he's too much of a pussy to post a selfie here and prove me wrong.
1 HodorTheDoorHolder 2018-02-14
sorry dude but we gotta remove mean pings
1 Iamjustadick 2018-02-14
There is no way in hell this guy isn't a great troll.
1 Unicorn_Abattoir 2018-02-14
/u/JayShek09
https://www.theonion.com/i-had-bedbugs-but-theyre-all-cleared-up-now-1819584740
1 Systemsmodel 2018-02-14
Copying this nutso from his post elsewhere since he deleted his delicious pasta
Hola amigos,
I have a question. I'm fairly confident, friendly, and warm. But I also know I make a lot of guys insecure around me. It gets rather annoying when I first try to be friendly with them but they instead try to cut me down.
How do I deal with these types of behaviors from other men? Here are some examples.
1 Insecure Guy Reaction
Uber Ride Pool: Me, Driver, Another girl (After Class)
Me: (Coming in with confident vibe) Sup man Driver (Student on my campus): (Reacting to my energy) Sup! (Pretty girl gets in)
Driver: How's your day going? (To me) Me: Pretty good man, I just took my midterm in my acting class. And somehow I managed to memorize my scripts an hour before the midterm. I didn't realize I could do that. Driver: Oh cool. Me: Yeah man. So how bout you? Is uber your full-time job? (Asking genuinely) Driver: (Getting insecure) Hell naw man, I'm also a full time choreographer. Matter of fact, you guys will probably see me on TV tonight. I'm a professional dancer. Girl: Oh cool, I'm a ballerina Driver: Yeah? Well you guys might seem me with (Some name). You know him? (To me) Me: No Driver: Well he's like the Michael Jordan of Hip Hop. I met him. Girl: Oh wow, he's like my idol Driver: Oh really? Well yeah, I'm gonna be on TV with him. (To me) So how bout you man? Got an agent for your acting career? Me: Nope, I'm only taking it for fun. (I'm kind of confused here because here I was just having good vibes and trying to be friendly with this dude, and he instantly got insecure and started trying to cut me down) Driver: Oh why not get an agent?
And so on.
2 Insecure Reaction
Another Uber Driver
I walk in with a swagger. Him: (Immediately react to be with a bit of like, who the fuck does he think he is) Me: (I usually don't notice as most guys wanna be friends with me) Me: (Not realizing he was insecure already by me) Sup man! Him: Sup Me: Busy tonight? Him: Hah, I'm always busy man. I got 3 jobs. (I can tell there's a subtle aggression) Me: Okay, well I'm talking about tonight with Uber. Him: Oh nah, it's slow. Me: That's cool man. Him: How bout you? Me: It's alright. I'm glad there won't be any drunks with me pooling today. Him: Well, obviously, it's Sunday night. (uh, okay?) Me: (I ignore it) Yeah, it was funny last night, I was in a pool with 3 other drunk people. And it's amazing how fast 3 drunk strangers become instant friends and get a party going in the ride. Him: Haha well, what do you expect out of drunk people? Me: (At this point, I'm getting annoyed) Him: And then he starts talking about some drunk people trying to talk to me.
3 Tattoo Shop
I walk into this tattoo shop. And immediately when I walk in, the whole shop kind of stops and looks at me. I walk in with a upright posture, slow walk, and etc. There's like a little clique of workers, and there's one owner. (They're all guys around 21-29) Leader of the clique: Sup man, how can I help? Me: Sup, I just need a piercing in my left ear. (When I talk, my voice is very low, articulate, and very commanding, or I've been told) Immediately I sense the leader guy get insecure. (Which I didn't know bout til I started talking to him)
I befriend the customers there and there's some cuties looking at me, giving me girly eyes and stuff. Anyway, I've been wanting to get a sleeve and I saw that the "leader" guy had a pretty cool sleeve. So I walk up to him.
Me: Sup man, nice sleeve. Him: Thanks Me: I've been looking to get a sleeve and researching a bit, when'd you get yours done? (Here everyone stopped to hear what we were talking about. The followers in his crew were all staring and the girls started listening in. i have no idea why_ Him: Oh this is from a celebrity tattoo shop man, you can't just get it anywhere. Me: (Okay? I ignore this idiotic comment) that's great man. I'm getting one in a few months. how much did it cost ya? Him: Everything depends man. Me: That's why I'm asking you, you're the tattoo artist right? Him: Well, it's like a car. When you buy a car what do you do? Me: What? Him: You check to see if the air conditioner is working, or if the engines okay, or make sure the driving is good. You wouldn't just buy a car right? Me: (I just look at him like Wtf are you talking about?) You know what man, nevermind I said anything. (And I just walk back to my place) (Everyone's kind of just staring at what hapepend?)
Him: (Reacting) Wait, you get what I mean right? Me: in my head (no you retard, I would just buy a new car cause I'm not a broke dumbass like you)
So here are some annoying examples of how insecure dudes get.
I noticed that with guys, I get very black and white reactions. With other confident guys, they become friends with me, and are really good with me. Average Joes: They're either intimidated, or REALLY friendly with me
And then there's the ones who get insecure around me: They get hostile, or try to cut me down like the above.
My question is, how do I deal with this? Especially when there's women around?
1 p00ying 2018-02-14