Hi there everyone! It’s pretty much what the title says. I was scrolling through GW on Friday and I saw my GF’s photo. Her face was not in it but I recognized a birthmark. I don’t know how to feel about it. She did talk to me about wanting more sex etc., but lately I haven’t been in the mood. She actually talked a lot about how she misses the beginning of the relationship when we had sex at least once a day. Nowadays, it’s more like 2x a week.
So after I saw it, I confronted her about it. She said that she just likes the attention, likes getting PMs and let me read all of them. She didn’t engage in any sort of conversation with anyone. I still feel slightly weirded out.
A part of me feels okay with her posting as long as it just stays like this. A part of me is jealous that a lot of people jerk off to the pictures of my GF. She had a lot of upvotes and comments.
Is this a bad sign? She didn’t deny it when I asked her about it, she wasn’t defensive and showed me everything right away. But I still feel like she kept it a secret, was hiding it from me. What should I do? Also how do I deal with her not being sexually satisfied? I’m often tired and really am not in the mood. She has tried so many different things, dressing up for me, buying sexy lingerie, cooking dinner, setting up a romantic bath. I feel bad for rejecting her but I also feel like she’s being a bit pushy.
Maybe I should let her continue posting on GW because it makes her feel more confident. She also told me that if it makes me uncomfortable, she can stop but said that we need to find a way together then so she can feel sexy/confident. She explained that our sex life (or the lack of) has been really affecting her confidence.
Sorry for rambling, I’m also writing this from my phone.
I hope someone can give me advice on what to do cause I have no idea.
TL;DR My gf has posted on gonewild, I don’t know how to feel about it. She has been sexually frustrated.
That is true, absolutely. They really should just end it since she wants one thing and OP wants another. - /u/Gutter7676
"You want sex twice a week and she wants it more often, OMFG BREAK UP ALREADY!" Have we reached peak /r/relationships?
Do we need any more proof that every user there is a fat lonely woman who has never been in a healthy relationship LARPing that they are a relationship councillor?
Thought we were talking 3D. Well in anime I'd mostly go for the highschool aged ones (those are the most common too), e.g. my waifu Azusa-chan is 17 in the anime (18 in the manga).
Well in anime I'd mostly go for the highschool aged ones (those are the most common too), e.g. my waifu Azusa-chan is 17 in the anime (18 in the manga).
Listen to this man. His name is /u/Trajan_, and to those of you that are uninitiated, he is an expert in the ways of love. He has made love to many fine ladies from the lowliest bus station skank to the classiest most sophisticated, educated, debutante, high society... bus station skank.
we need an alternative version where the boyfriend posts to ladyboners or something. Just watch them roast him for seeking attention from girls who are not his gf, it's fine if you're female though.
You shouldn't need more than that to realize you should have more sex with your GF. If she is on gonewild and you don't like it or feel jealous THAT IS YOUR FAULT.
It's okay to pressure your partner into sex as long as it's a man.
The idea appeals to self hating sluts who are jealous that they can't get off to consuming porn, but get off to the validation from producing it. They hate the stigma that comes with producing it so they deluded themselves into thinking of it as "participating in" porn rather than separate actions creating/consuming (similar to veganism, buy local, fair trade, etc).
Women "participating in" porn (creating) should be thought of the same as men "participating in" porn (consuming) or else it's a double standard in their eyes.
You described someone who thought posting nudes is the SAME as consuming them. From the perspective of some kinda retard who thinks posting nudes is different from consuming them.
I saw "retard" and just associated that with "posting nudes is the same as consuming them". Like most people on this site, I'm terrible at reading and project my own beliefs on the shit that I see here.
I was going through a blog of a whore (i'm not insulting her, she is really a hooker) on tumblr and some girl asked this. If this is what some women really believe, I don't think it's too far fetched to see these kinds of answers on reddit.
Also, u/agjios: babe you need to see a doctor? or a psychiatrist? You really seems so angry at the OP. Do you have a fetish with girls posting naked pics of themselves on the titernets secretly? Or your erectile dysfunction prohibits you from feeling horny?
I was going through a blog of a whore (i'm not insulting her, she is really a hooker) on tumblr and some girl asked this.
Is it wrong tho? If your jobs is offensive to your boyfriend, shouldn't you dump him?
If you have a well paying job in the weapon industry and your boyfriend is a retarded peacenick that want you to stop that job, dumping him would be the right choice by pretty much all metrics.
I know, I'm not talking about the whole answer. I was talking about the part where she said "selfish misogynistic ego". I think it's too far to call someone misogynistic because the guy doesn't support his gf in the world sex working.
some people are really not comfortable with their partner selling pics, videos, being a prostitute. like some people are not comfortable with other aspects of a relationship has, like an open relationship, etc.
I honestly think it doesn't have anything to do with misogyny or whatever. Most people don't like their partner to get naked for other people and whatnot
well of course they are, im talking about normal people living in normal countries, not in a country where people are killed by the police for practicing witchcraft. Unfortunately it's expected to have misogyny in these situations.
That the comparison is way off. Of course people in Saudi Arabia are gonna be sexist, misogynistic, you name it. Look at their culture.
What I'm talking about since the beginning is a normal couple from a normal country. And then the woman wants to become a camslut or a real hooker. 9,9 out of 10 men aren't gonna be fine with this. And it has nothing to do with "owning the sexyness" of a woman. If you think otherwise, I think you are part of the 0,1 out of 10 men
Fam, I am french. Doing cam work is completely normal here.
Because your normal couple in a normal country is not a thing outside of burgerland. Burgers are prude as fuck.
You also compltely missed the point of the comparison. The point was that, much like SA shit about their women not being seen, this thinking derive from a possessive point of view. Which is inherently mysoginistic (also pretty assholish. You don't own your SO.)
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1 SnapshillBot 2018-03-19
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1 GuillotinesNOW 2018-03-19
Agree to disagree.
1 DesertRichard 2018-03-19
Before the fascist mods of /r/relationships delete the post:
1 Michelanvalo 2018-03-19
This sounds way too normal and reasonable to be on an advice subreddit.
1 zergling_Lester 2018-03-19
This is bait. This is 100% bait for the future gender swap.
1 vcloud25 2018-03-19
i said the same thing after reading the first few comments
1 imnotagayboy 2018-03-19
"You want sex twice a week and she wants it more often, OMFG BREAK UP ALREADY!" Have we reached peak /r/relationships?
Do we need any more proof that every user there is a fat lonely woman who has never been in a healthy relationship LARPing that they are a relationship councillor?
1 Gutter7676 2018-03-19
Lol, I'm confused if you are accusing me of being a fat lonely woman or what? You quoted me but then there is more quotes under that...
1 imnotagayboy 2018-03-19
If you tell me you're not a fat lonely woman you're lying.
1 Gutter7676 2018-03-19
Lol, you don't know how wrong you are but I guess ignorance is bliss.
1 incineratechicken 2018-03-19
Lmao imagine getting cuckolded by redditors
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-03-19
If I caught my gf posting to gonewild I'd simply turn her in, problem solved.
1 ghuy123 2018-03-19
Turn her in to who? Do you live in Saudi Arabia?
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-03-19
Local police department
1 imnotagayboy 2018-03-19
WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE, AMIRITE GUISE?:
1 lamb_der 2018-03-19
Fuck off, /u/promeleeplayer. Your edgy shtick is fucking cringeworthy and I hope the BND puts your pedo ass behind bars.
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-03-19
You're a bully
For what? I didn't do anything (I'm not even a pedo).
1 lamb_der 2018-03-19
I am fairly sure that being this cringy constitutes hatespeech in germany
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-03-19
> Not a pedo
> Has oniichan in its name.
Pick one and only one, pedo
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-03-19
What's wrong with wanting a kawaii imouto who calls you onii-chan in the streets?
Or alternatively a pettanko gf who calls you onii-chan in the sheets?
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-03-19
That's a weird way to call loli, pedo.
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-03-19
As long as she's of age and mentally mature enough it's not a bad thing at all if she's youthful looking ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-03-19
It's anime. Of course she isn't mentally mature.
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-03-19
Thought we were talking 3D. Well in anime I'd mostly go for the highschool aged ones (those are the most common too), e.g. my waifu Azusa-chan is 17 in the anime (18 in the manga).
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-03-19
Poor kids.
How can I call you pedo if you admit it?
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-03-19
And literally before I wrote "As long as she's of age and mentally mature enough" so I'm clearly not talking about kids
Sure, sure, unless the drawn girl is legal in burger law you're a pedo. Good definition.
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-03-19
Given that you waifu is underage, of age for you is not what anyone else would consider of age.
Yes, if the girl's underage, you are a pedo.
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-03-19
Well a 3D girl should be 18+, I don't want to date a teenager, around 20 would be best.
Btw most anime girls are underaged by burger standards, 99% of anime has a highschool setting.
She's not underage where I'm from, burger-bigot.
Also in Japan she could get married at 16 with parental consent.
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-03-19
Reeeeeeeeeeee I am not a burger. Don't insult me, pedo
1 toynbeeidea16 2018-03-19
She's actually a 600-year-old demon in a 12-year-old's body, so its totally okay. Stop kinkshaming, shitlord.
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-03-19
12 yo mentality tho.
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-03-19
She's actually a 598-year-old vampire in a 8-year-old's body
FTFY
1 Trajan_ 2018-03-19
/u/234banana432
Don't listen to the man hating white knighting cucks in /r/relationships.
Tell your gf to stop being a low grade thot or you'll dump her slut ass.
1 TSwizzlesNipples 2018-03-19
Listen to this man. His name is /u/Trajan_, and to those of you that are uninitiated, he is an expert in the ways of love. He has made love to many fine ladies from the lowliest bus station skank to the classiest most sophisticated, educated, debutante, high society... bus station skank.
1 Trajan_ 2018-03-19
The fuck are you talking about with high class bus station ladies.
I source from under a bridge and go down from there.
1 Basically_Trash 2018-03-19
Holy shit I love all the people in there saying "Um, actually isn't he doing the same thing by browsing gonewild?"
Have we reached levels of degeneracy as a society where looking at porn is now the same thing as appearing in porn?
That said I give it a 75% chance this is more cuck fan fiction courtesy of /r/relationships
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-03-19
we need an alternative version where the boyfriend posts to ladyboners or something. Just watch them roast him for seeking attention from girls who are not his gf, it's fine if you're female though.
1 GetAmericaLaidAgain 2018-03-19
It's okay to pressure your partner into sex as long as it's a man.
1 grungebot5000 2018-03-19
idkbu, but any time someone Rule 63’s a reddit post I start jerkin it
1 HailSanta2512 2018-03-19
I saw a guy selling drugs the other day and I'm pretty much Pablo Escobar now. AMA.
1 im-a-koala 2018-03-19
What's your favorite Christmas tradition?
1 HailSanta2512 2018-03-19
(((Christ)))
Need I say more?
1 ineedmorealts 2018-03-19
What kinda retard thinks posting nudes is different from consuming them?
1 aGolfHipster 2018-03-19
The idea appeals to self hating sluts who are jealous that they can't get off to consuming porn, but get off to the validation from producing it. They hate the stigma that comes with producing it so they deluded themselves into thinking of it as "participating in" porn rather than separate actions creating/consuming (similar to veganism, buy local, fair trade, etc).
Women "participating in" porn (creating) should be thought of the same as men "participating in" porn (consuming) or else it's a double standard in their eyes.
1 grungebot5000 2018-03-19
you’re criticizing the inverse of what he’s calling retarded
1 aGolfHipster 2018-03-19
I was trying to give an answer to his question by describing that kind of retard.
1 grungebot5000 2018-03-19
You described someone who thought posting nudes is the SAME as consuming them. From the perspective of some kinda retard who thinks posting nudes is different from consuming them.
1 aGolfHipster 2018-03-19
Oh fuck you're right. I'm retarded.
I saw "retard" and just associated that with "posting nudes is the same as consuming them". Like most people on this site, I'm terrible at reading and project my own beliefs on the shit that I see here.
1 grungebot5000 2018-03-19
who hasn't
1 Chicup 2018-03-19
Its /r/relationships so lets bump that to over 90%.
1 grungebot5000 2018-03-19
this, out of context, and unironically
1 im-a-koala 2018-03-19
More like 75% chance this is someone trolling /r/relationships to show they're sexist, as if anybody needed further proof.
1 imnotagayboy 2018-03-19
Somebody ping that guy who spends all his free time writing fake stories there
1 imnotagayboy 2018-03-19
Shut up sexist pig, she's a strong independent woman and her boyfriend has no right to keep her body all to himself
1 TelegraphGreen 2018-03-19
this is a perfect post to gender switch in 6 months
1 siskonaut 2018-03-19
>imblying anyone wants to see a ledditor's fupa and microdick
1 Straightest_Guy_Ever 2018-03-19
Imagine having a gf in 2018.
/u/234banana432, there is a support sub for people who have gone through something like this. Its called r/MGTOWWOM
1 ProMeleePlayer2 2018-03-19
Stupid thots, they should be gone, and leave me with my qt3.14
lolipetite child-like 2D waifus.1 ltedt 2018-03-19
I thinks this is a bit related.
I was going through a blog of a whore (i'm not insulting her, she is really a hooker) on tumblr and some girl asked this. If this is what some women really believe, I don't think it's too far fetched to see these kinds of answers on reddit.
Also, u/agjios: babe you need to see a doctor? or a psychiatrist? You really seems so angry at the OP. Do you have a fetish with girls posting naked pics of themselves on the titernets secretly? Or your erectile dysfunction prohibits you from feeling horny?
1 vcloud25 2018-03-19
oh shit 😂 u/agjios get fucking flamed
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-03-19
Is it wrong tho? If your jobs is offensive to your boyfriend, shouldn't you dump him?
If you have a well paying job in the weapon industry and your boyfriend is a retarded peacenick that want you to stop that job, dumping him would be the right choice by pretty much all metrics.
1 ltedt 2018-03-19
I know, I'm not talking about the whole answer. I was talking about the part where she said "selfish misogynistic ego". I think it's too far to call someone misogynistic because the guy doesn't support his gf in the world sex working.
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-03-19
It's pretty selfish to want your SO to stop doing a job they like, that's for sure.
Misogynistic, yeah sorta. Fundamentally, he doesn't want it because his woman sexyness should belong to him.
Much like the SA tards that do not want their women to sell pic of their head by becoming actress, it's fundamentally mysoginistic.
1 ltedt 2018-03-19
some people are really not comfortable with their partner selling pics, videos, being a prostitute. like some people are not comfortable with other aspects of a relationship has, like an open relationship, etc.
I honestly think it doesn't have anything to do with misogyny or whatever. Most people don't like their partner to get naked for other people and whatnot
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-03-19
Some SA dudes are not confortable with their partner being seen by anyone else. That doesn't make their shit any less mysoginistic.
1 ltedt 2018-03-19
sa?
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-03-19
Saudi arabia.
1 ltedt 2018-03-19
well of course they are, im talking about normal people living in normal countries, not in a country where people are killed by the police for practicing witchcraft. Unfortunately it's expected to have misogyny in these situations.
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-03-19
Your point being?
1 ltedt 2018-03-19
That the comparison is way off. Of course people in Saudi Arabia are gonna be sexist, misogynistic, you name it. Look at their culture.
What I'm talking about since the beginning is a normal couple from a normal country. And then the woman wants to become a camslut or a real hooker. 9,9 out of 10 men aren't gonna be fine with this. And it has nothing to do with "owning the sexyness" of a woman. If you think otherwise, I think you are part of the 0,1 out of 10 men
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-03-19
Fam, I am french. Doing cam work is completely normal here.
Because your normal couple in a normal country is not a thing outside of burgerland. Burgers are prude as fuck.
You also compltely missed the point of the comparison. The point was that, much like SA shit about their women not being seen, this thinking derive from a possessive point of view. Which is inherently mysoginistic (also pretty assholish. You don't own your SO.)
1 vcloud25 2018-03-19
I saw a youtube video today. I guess you could call me pewdiepie
1 baaaaby 2018-03-19
this is the first time ive seen that sub be as bad as drama users always say it is
1 grungebot5000 2018-03-19
it wasn’t that bad though
1 baaaaby 2018-03-19
as far as unjustly siding with the woman for no real reason this is the first time ive seen it
1 The_Reason_Trump_Won 2018-03-19
This is p mild for r/ relationships
1 imnotagayboy 2018-03-19
omg you need to break up with him
1 K-town- 2018-03-19
How do you tards think this is real? I can understand the r/relationships audience biting but this is embarrassing
1 BasedRubby 2018-03-19
say no to monogamy
1 Iwbo1 2018-03-19
Show me the sauce?