SRDines getting very upset about guys having preferences when it comes to dating

122  2018-04-02 by k0lo0

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https://www.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/88zo0t/user_in_rrelationship_advice_thinks_that/dwodzuw/

I'm bothered by this, and it's not so much that I don't think OP should make the choice that's best for him or whatever, but how he talks about it is kind of unsettling. He seems to really care about how people might be perceiving him more than his relationship with her. Regardless of our opinions, he doesn't have to be with this woman if he doesn't want to, bottom line. It just seems really shitty all around for everyone involved.

I'm bothered by this,

SRD defined

u/knightwave can you defend it?

Nope.

You should consider ingesting a large quantity of bleach and/or self immolation

Ok.

Be nice to the lolcows please.

So does that mean we need to be nice to you now? :(

Wait, even if /u/knightwave comes here I can’t tell him to kill himself? Pretty gay tbh.

Be a bit more creative otherwise you might as well off yourself.

When the fudge did you get modded?

Little while ago. I was helping in other ways and was enlisted.

No. You can make a clever, light hearted joke. Hence people saying 'keep yourself safe'

this is problematic

This vexes me.

Dude that's gross and creepy

A dog whistle, really

Quit gaslighting them.

I'm seriously confused on how they use this term. I thought gaslighting was supposed to be such extreme manipulation that you start to believe things that never happened actually did. The way they use it is, "stop disagreeing with me."

You're not confused at all. That's exactly what SRD does - take legitimate concepts and marginalize them to the point that they can apply them to their boring ass lives.

pretty much, it's manipulation of past events to make someone completely doubt their memory and it can actually be damaging to a person's psyche.

so of course, as usual these chucklefucks dilute the term to mean "you're saying things that aren't true and YOU KNOW they aren't"

Not related to how they use it, but it can also be convincing someone that a memory they have isn't real, or that they didn't have some thought or emotion that they did (and the inverse).

Related to how they use it, gaslighting is apparently something that can only be done to women and there is no such thing as an abusive woman. Gaslighting to SRDines is essentially whenever a man disagrees with a woman or acts in some way contrary to a woman's agenda.

Ew!

Redditors are breaking up with their fiancé's for being the town bike and its terrifying

day of the can when??

.

I'm not bothered by anything, h-ha ha

Us.

Look it’s okay to be bothered by something, you just can’t post about it in a post discussing something. Or you’re smug or virtue signaling or something.

Someone kindly explain how SRD hasn't yet shrinked into its own smugness, because it's scientifically impossible for a space so holier-than-thou actually exist. I don't believe it.

I get the impression from reading the linked comments that most SRDers are either

(a) women who will fuck virtually any guy, or

(b) guys who can't get laid unless its by a woman who will fuck virtually any guy.

That sounds like a perfect dating platform

Except that the women still wouldn't date those guys and would instead be chasing after Chad's heart.

Fat chicks want a chad they can't have.

Soyboys want a supermodel they can't have.

Its the circle of incel.

A lot of them, male or female, just sound incredibly bitter about sex, relationships, etc. Don’t seem to have any insight into why a guy might not want to marry a chick who’s fucked half of the town and even his own friends have banged.

just sound incredibly bitter about sex, relationships, etc.

Yeah, I think it works like this:

Men - bitter because they can't get sex with a woman they want.

Women - bitter because they can't get a relationship with a man they want.

Women have the added bonus of shitting on the men who fuck and dump them.

They did a survey recently on their userbase (lol smug) and about 75% of them are Beta Mayo's.

I wish they were "beta", according to the survey, the median SRDine is a NEET. That's straight "Omega" stuff.

I've been fielding BS attacks about my decision to all of them all day now. I've come to pretty much the exact same conclusion.

I have to admit the smugness level by some users there have reached the unreachable.

r/AgainstHateSubreddits/ r/socialism/ r/stopadvertising/ r/Feminism/ are all vying for the title of "how non self-aware and smug can you be at the same time" award.

r/politics def qualifies, SLS and SAS are good as well. SPS and SRC will let you debate though so not sure about them even though they are very reactionary in nature. Never been to neoliberal.

r/neoliberal used to be good then it became the nth soc-dem circlejerk.

SPS only lets you debate because they can’t conceive of themselves being wrong anyway

neoliberal’s a tough call because they’re not blindingly self-oblivious, but they ARE the smuggest

do you think shitpoliticssays is more smug than regular politics?

yes, but /r/politics is both more hysterical and more indignant

I'm afraid you guys are forgetting some very important players - the bad-x-ers

r/badhistory
r/badsocialscience
r/badpolitics
and the worst of all r/badphilosophy

r/badeconomics is actually OK

r/badeconomics is actually OK

That's where your wrong buddy.

Well ok it's not as bad as some of the others but the presidential election destroyed that sub.

Stupidity

r e n t f r e e

Aren’t there a ton of autists in here doing the same thing tho? The only difference is that these particular autists are mad at the woman for being mad for being judged, instead of being mad at the guy judging.

I am the original OP of the thread that's linked in their subreddit and holy shit I want to buy you a beer or something. These people remind me of the South Park episode where everyone bought a Prius and started smelling their own farts because they were just that damn smug. The people in SRD are even holier than thou than the people in the original thread!

My preferences are 2D and must be flat or my name isn’t Uncle Kraut.

Eichenwald?

Looks like Mr. Eichelwald prefers thicc comic girls https://i.redd.it/gxuapqh1ye2z.png

/u/therealtruedarklord are you bored or something? Switching between alts, replying to yourself, pretending to be a more handsome and intelligent person than you'll ever be (me).

I know you're not old enough to drink yet so your chances of getting laid seem rather grim but you can still use your time more productively nonetheless, for instance you could try learning Japanese with CGDCT anime. That's what I do.

How dare you compare me to that stupid Chad bro! I bet he has sex with big breasted 3D thots.

Don't be mad that I'm God-tier on Tekken. Maybe if you got gud like me, all the sexy Japanese bisexual coeds who vaguely resemble JAV models would start swarming me.

[it clearly says [UPDATE] in the title]

It clearly says MOD in my title.

Fucking lol

it clearly says [UPDATE] in the title

It clearly says MOD in my title.

/u/TheRedPike lol

RedPike is also a known kiddy diddler

Delicious mod abuse

/u/WallyWendels

You're invalidating where other people live based solely on their beliefs, don't you think that's a little backwards?

/u/WallyWendels calm the fuck down you super serious individual.

They justify her reputation as the town bicycle by claiming that she is:

comfortable with her sexuality

Who wants to place bets that this guy wears plaid shirts and loves the Nintendo Switch?

If promiscuous women are "comfortable with their sexuality", does that mean a non-promiscuous/normal women are "uncomfortable with their sexuality"? Sort of implies that most women are prudes.

Why would a male feminist rapist call women prudes? What's the motive? 🤔🤔🤔🤔

A lot of the common language tat 'sex positive' types use at least implicitly shames people who aren't promiscuous. ime a lot of the times when somebody mentions preferring a partner with a low partner count or values sex more than volleyball or whatever that one example was in the linked thread then they start using explicit language like 'puritan' or 'prude'. I think many 'sex positive' types get really upset when they hear that people with a high partner count aren't relationship material to a lot of (probably most) other people and start lashing out because it's the only thing they can do.

I'm not sex positive. As in, the number of people I've had sex with is "not positive".

Truly a surprising statement from a user of r/drama

listen, I'll have you know many of us have bit the bullet and paid for a rub n tug plus a little extra down at the thai massage parlor

*ba dum tish*

*ba dum tish*

Speak for yourself. The rest of us are out here crushing bussy. 😎

"What do you mean I'm not a good fit? I've been gainfully employed for 15 years."

"Yeah, but you've been with 57 different employers never for more than a month at a time and come with no recommendations."

"...are you casual laborer shaming me right now? You know what, forget it, Walmart will rehire me. Technically I'm still employed there cuz they did the fade away and stopped giving me shifts but I know I'm still on the books and they probably don't even remember the clothes I took when I left anyway."

For whatever reason, as soon as it comes to sex it's horrible and bigoted to even entertain the idea that someone's past behavior can say something about who they are and what they do.

That seems like a big part of the social justice shakedown: to take away people's ability to criticize legitimately awful people without some pseudo-moral backlash.

How dare you judge me based on how I've been my entire life.

to even entertain the idea that someone's past behavior can say something about who they are and what they do.

Ok so what does her past say about OP's gf?

Man I wish I had used this example originally instead, damn. They just got more angry when I tried using drugs, or criminal history, or anything else really to make the same analogy. Everyone willfully ignored the actual point of what I was trying to say, but this one is pretty perfect and hard to get offended by, even for the SRD people. Or at least I think.

Just tell us the number dude. How many people did she fuck?

What's funny is that a lot of those "sex positive" types would totally apologise for using that kind of language if someone said they were asexual and found that kind of language oppressive and bigoted.

I'm sorry you are right, ace, that was very problematic of me to bring up those sexless NEET subhumans in front of you.

Oh wait a minute? You're not just a fat virgin, you identify as a fat virgin? This completely changes the way I will treat you!

do you have a high partner count?

asking for a friend.

Hi there, OP from the original original thread here. And you've summed it up perfectly IMO. I started to get the feeling that by me ending my engagement with my fiance, that these people were somehow triggered by some deep seated fear they have, like I was somehow invalidating their past actions despite having nothing to do with them in real life. At least that's the conclusion I came to when I started receiving a barrage of insults and attacks lol.

I remember growing up with hearing that I should fuck every dick i see just because i can and i am a strong woman that does as she pleases to please herself, and all that overly empowering bullshit that actually made me want to do the opposite. I think they actually drank the cool aid, and when someone opposes this view they have, that they should be able to just do what the fuck they want without consequences, shatters this perception they have of themselves. You are threatening to their fee fees, and they cant handle it.

The thot is immunized against all dangers: one may call her a bitch, femoid, gold-digger, it all runs off her like Chad's cum off Stacy's face. But call her a thot and you will be astonished at how she recoils, how injured she is, how she suddenly shrinks back: “I’ve been found out.”

Ok where do all the "switch is for hipster cucks" coming from? I see the memes, I don't see the source.

Did Anthony Burch get his taken in a breakup again?

Just read /r/NintendoSwitch and you'll see.

It started with a load of balding 20 year old games journalists posing in front of switch’s with a soylent grin.

They are literally reusing worn out feminist phrases. Who wants to place bets that this guy wears plaid shirts and loves the Nintendo Switch?

Yeah, there's nothing more CHAD than being upset your wife was fucking around while you were playing video games 😂👌

Why do men get to have their own emotions at all? It's so problematic...

That's just crazy talk. Men don't have emotions.

We have Gin, it's very similar to emotions, I think.

this but earnestly

Because you care about what SRDines have to say.

No don't be stupid. This man's emotions were dumb and he should not be allowed to have them. I am serious, and you are a cuck if you think other people should be allowed to have stupid feelings just because "well everyone's different".

Lol, call me after you've wifed the town bike, let me know how that works out for you.

Why on Earth would I wife someone let alone live in a town. Don't be a dumb.

SRDines smugposting and virtue signalling from their cuck sheds. Not much else to do when your wife's boyfriend is over I guess.

wife's boyfriend

Can some someone in the cuck-scene share the differences between Wife's Boyfriend and "Bull"? Is there a difference, or are they the same thing?

I can only assume that he invites and accepts the bull as part of his kink, whereas he has no say on his wife having a BF as he’s so cucked.

Not in the cuck scene, but from what I can tell the difference is that bull's refers to dudes used strictly as sex objects, whereas "wife's boyfriend" implies a kind of polyamorous relationship.

This is all irrelevant though because the NEETs of SRD can only fantasize about marriage (hence their socially and emotionally detached views on promiscuity).

Wifes boyfriend implies a less consensual relationship. The cuck was unable to pleqse his wife so she wants a polyamorous relationship. Bull is some jungle bunny the cuck picks to fuck his wife while he beats it in the corner.

A bull is someone you get over to fuck your wife, your wife's boyfriend is someone who lives with you and fucks your wife.

let's ask the expert /u/CucksLoveTrump

I think this was the first genuine laugh I've had in 2 or 3 days hahaha. Thanks man. I'm the original OP that kicked it all off, I appreciate it.

Is it possible you don't know what you're talking about

I suppose so

A rare moment of clarity from SRD.

I call people assholes for doing stuff outside of what’s covered by employment law all the time.

Like, you can choose only to be friends with women you may one day want to bang if your current relationship breaks up too, it’s not illegal. I’ll still call you an asshole.

/u/FalloutTubes

How can you be narcissistic enough to believe anybody cares whom you deem an asshole?

yawn, try harder

When the SRD creepers talk about how much they respect women can you smell the soy through your screen?

so this is the power of SRDine humour... whoa...

Nobody asked for "former partner quotes"

Way to double down on the narcissism I guess

i don't need ur cuck license lol i'm good with my quality license ;) much better for my well being instead of picking a wife that doesn't value herself nor the person she's with, i get it your into your wife fucking and sucking other dudes before you and after you, i'm just not into that shit that's all why would i pick someone that enjoys doing that with random phases of come and go love?, that's just not authentic the girl your with was fucked like a whore before you and will fuck like that after you moaning like some dumb bdsm shit fetishes that you speak off that's just fucking weird, that's just too fake bullshit commitment with no commitment or respect to you or herself nor her family or kids, i'm not into that sorry mr triple H wrestling worship licensed kid lol, you can cheap out all you want, but i'll always be with my high grade wife that you can never ever get ;), when i tell her i love her whether alone or infront of my kids or family, it's always be true because i know and it and she does, what do you have fake low tier bullshit cuck stuff? lol please your out of my league when it comes to contemplating things in depth of what high grade love is this is true well being, and you know what it'll always bother you or her back in your mind because you know it's true you never protected it, and every girl wants something like that deep intimacy that you cannot give her because you already broke it in yourself and nor did she protect it which will affect everything you do subtly overtime in life ruining your overall well being this is the truth ;) next time you fight with her or your kids in the future partially it will be because of that calm isn't there, true love heals a lot of stuff and you don't have that so please continue having yourself cucked with low tier cheapos like yourself and her ;)

Also to frame it in that weird rulesy way too. What a nerd lmao.

I think youre an asshole

SRDines are the ideal candidates to marry and support the town sluts when the wear and tear starts to settle in.

“””””wear and tear””””

Can you please explain this yet you had no idea who Laurelai was until last month?

I missed the dramawave around Laurelai

Metaposting for years and you missed Laurelai? Literally 100% unbelievable. One or the other is a lie.

Are you actually /u/FrostFedora like /u/ebilutionist said?

I also missed the FrostFedora drama, but apparently he fucks dogs.

He’s mostly forgettable other than that.

Why do you come into SRD so hot and argumentative? Your account was only a few days old and you were racking up warnings when I first noticed you? Could you be a /u/BolshevikMuppet alt? It almost seems like a decent match with the devil’s advocating, but you’re not quite as eloquent or educated.

You will often argue opposing sides of the issues in different threads with the same vigor. You had no problem all but throwing insults even at mods like /u/TAKEitTOrCIRCLEJERK, like in that thread.

You know exactly the line, and who you can say it to. Some mods have more of a tolerance for abuse than others

O shit lemme reevaluate my life based on a drama comment real quick

Not an answer. Here you are [either lying or being incredibly unobservant again.](Imgur It got nuked in a flurry of insults of course.

Please don’t rethink your life. Arguments, bait, banter and trolling is all part of meta. You know this of course, after being here for years.

Eww no i’d never frequent drama. Y’all, like, expect people to pay rapt attention to internet drama and remember shit about it, apparently.

Alright, your loss though Tits McGee.

God why would I get a surgery with like a 6mo full recovery time and serious long term health risks to not have kids?

Iunno. What does your username refer to?

I think I had been playing Fallout when I made it and just added “tubes” for wordplay? I wasn’t trying very hard.

This but unironically.

/u/FalloutTubes what did you mean by Dis good shit if you missed out on FrostFedora? Why do you lie all the time?

There’s someone famous for dogfucking who apparently now has an alt. Is that not good shit?

So good that you missed it.

You somehow miss both laurelai and frostfedora yet you've been in SRD for years and metareddit for years.

Hmm. Ok, pal.

Sorry i’m not properly dedicated to Reddit drama dude.

Listen bitch, you don't get to fucking brag about how you've been meta for years and then flip to oh I'm too cool for school.

Who the fuck brags about wasting time on Reddit drama for years?

You have.

Isn't he a dogfucker?

They don't believe hoes get stretched out, babies don't break pussies either. Bussy or bust.

I just realized what that looks like. That looks like every single legaladvice thread that hit frontpage.

All those people actually talking about how they think things should be and getting very upset with anyone who tells them how things are. On one hand because they don't want to face the shitty reality, on the other hand because they perceive that person to also talking about how things should be and wanting them to be shitty.

They're not wrong about that thread getting brigaded by TRP tho. You're not getting balanced or healthy relationship advice from people who unironically say things like "found the roastie".

If anyone from TRP is brigading any thread, send me their names.

GTFO roastie

I permabanned that fucker.

found the roastie

Degenerate, black (shivers) rappers call females all degrading terms. They refer to them as bitches, whores and all kind of HORRENDOUS things a man can say, yet at the end of the day, they are DROWNING in pussy, whilst I am busy in my room doing nothing, watching young females on social media and creating fake scenarios in my head of us being together and having a lovely time together. Believe me, I respect females. Nobody posses the same tremendous amount of respect that I have for females. Now, I have thought and thought without having came to a clear conclusion. I don't know why females prefer brutes rather than an eloquent and poetry-appreciating gentleman such as I. I am smart, magnificent, and yet these WHORES refuse to even remotely give me a chance. The first thing they do when they come home is getting fucked by their hung negro bull. Hardworking men such as us that built the basis of modern society are treated like shit. I call for a change. This can't go on much longer, these slutty stuck up bitches will get dealt by, and I will personally be the one to ignite the incel revolution. Call me a madman, after all I am a mere man, our ideology will live on forever though ,as long as there is unjustice there will be uprisings. And getting our basic human right denied, that is, - sex. Is a crime that can NEVER be forgotten. I don't know what I have in my pockets to start the revolution, but it will be in an amazing matter, a bit like an exploding star. You will be in awe of my intelligence and you will be the ones begging and kissing my feet, normshits, after you realize how powerful the INCELMALE can be. No longer will incels walk around sex-less once I have initiated the revolution, no longer will the term "incel" even exist anymore. Heck, the earth will be an utopia, created by the most rightous incels. I spend a lot of my free time appreciating misunderstood people. A favorite of them would be Saddam Hussein. God I wish I was his son so bad, his son, Uday lived a life you could NEVER dream of. It was an utopia for any man on earth, what he simply did was he would JUST point at a female to sleep with him, and if she refused, well there would be rightfully bad consequences, so most didn't bother questioning and slept with him. I am thinking that as I am the one initiating the incelrevolution then I would take a similar stance to Uday, I would have the prestige of pointing at any female and basically she would sleep with me, and I have all rights to do so as my overall doings to society after the incelrevolution would far out-weight some unconsented sex. God it is my dying wish to be a man of the likes of Uday, I would be a literal god. I would just point at any female and there would be no other option for her but to accept me filling her with my semen. A perfect world would be the ability to de-flower absolutely any female you could point to, so why even live if you are not living life fully? Uday is my hero and I wish to God that I was reincarnated into him. Sadly this is impossible to do, and I hate my life for not being Uday.

this but unironically

Guys, this is really immature and just shows how awful reddit can be. This isn’t funny, this isn’t interesting, and this isn’t nice. All that happened here was that I made a mistake, I admitted in the original post that it was, in fact, a mistake. Like I’ve never studied a vagina before, how was I supposed to know where everything was?

Like, if this post was made right after I made the original cervix statement, I could see why. But this was made long after I had a conversation with many people and eventually was corrected after a million assholes had downvoted me for no reason.

Put yourself in my shoes, what if you made a mistake and you got harassed and had the post plastered all over the internet? Wouldn’t feel very good, would it? Or how would you like it if you lost ALL your comment karma over one fuck up? Wouldn’t feel very good, would it?

Like, the worst part is, you sick bastards actually think this shit is funny. Is a simple typo funny? Is a misunderstanding funny (especially from someone who never had to study or learn this anatomy before)? Is discriminating against someone because of their state funny? Is calling someone retarded and telling them they should die funny?

Like, you guys need to stop being cynical reddit fags and stop cyberbullyig someone over such a trivial thing. If you want to see something actually funny, go watch something like Charlie Chaplin or Looney Tunes, don’t bully some random person on the internet for laughs.

I doubt TRP gives worse relationship advice than /r/relationships

Different but not worse, just equally bad.

Of course it is. /r/relationship_advice is the last place they can go to comment on their outrage and justice porn without getting instabenned.

There's a high probability the thread was TRP trolling in the first place.

As a fan of drama I can't complain, but it does end up with people solidifying their notion that "Caring about your partner's number = TRP", which makes them less willing to engage with people who have such concerns and generally makes the world slightly less civil.

Oh no! /r/relationships might have a real effect on the world!

For me the sign is the breathless update within two days of the first post. So, he decided to break up with her, broke up with her and hopped on Reddit all in less than 48 hours. And, mostly what people have a problem with is TRP version of caring about partner count. It's one thing if you personally have respected the meaning of sex and lived your life according that value and want to find a match. It's another to busy body women's sex lives when you think you can have all the casual sex you want. At least that's my impression from these conversations. But, you're right, it brings down the quality of discussion when TRP comes along with their "found the roastie" bs. It makes people get defensive instead of listening to each other. But, I guess that's where the drama comes from, so have at it folks.

And, mostly what people have a problem with is TRP version of caring about partner count.

I don't know. To me, a lot of the comments implied, if not outright stated, that there is no valid reason to care about the number of previous partners. But I really don't want to get all "internet psychologist" here, this is not SRD and I'm way over my daily seriousposting limit.

Sorry for serious posting! I just thought you had made a really interesting point. We both agree that the story is probably BS. It was actually really effective bait so you've got to give the guy that.

Dead serious, had never heard of TRP before I got this. Someone quickly messaged me after I made the 1st thread in /r/relationship_advice and was getting skewered for the post and said it would be a better place to get a male perspective. I didn't have enough karma to post in /r/AskMen, so I went for it, which was probably a big mistake in retrospect.

Why is the timeline so weird to you? What else am I going to be doing? I just ended my damn engagement dude. I've barely not looked at a screen to distract me from the reality around me. A few people continually PM'd me asking for updates and I even told them I wasn't sure if I was going to post one, but then I finally decided fuck it. Your welcome to see screenshots of my inbox if you'd like.

I don't speak for TRP or anyone else. I'm my own person. I personally am not a casual sex kind of guy. I'm not religious, it's just not my thing. This experience taught me that my fiance and I were not on the same page in that regard. TRP did have one point that I did find valid, and that was that I should have owned up to my true feelings on the matter sooner to avoid this and going forward in the future need to be clear about what I want from somebody. So I'll give them that, though other non-TRPers said similar things as well.

The ping, motherfucker. Like herding a gaggle of retards. Admins have rules.

Nothing personal, just running my mouth. You don't need to show me any screen shots. I guess I was judging by my own way of doing things in that a person would need to be waiting a long ass time for an update from me while I was getting around to doing something, lol. Also, some times fake stories do have updates that seem to happen to quickly.

I agree you have the right to your values and to have your own deal breakers. You don't need to justify that to anyone. But, the picture of a group of guys denigrating a woman for having the casual sex they helped her have is kind of off putting to some people. Like how many people she had sex with tells you about her character, this tells people about the dudes' character and somewhat yours for allowing them to make her small in your eyes.

It was probably nice of you to update since people were feeling supported by your post. I don't care if you are RP or not. I've been wasting my life gossiping on the internet today. Who cares what I think?

I guess /u/TheRedPike managed to actually be a bigger douche than anyone else who has commented, ironically by saying nothing of substance at all

Well, what did you do to get banned?

Dead serious, had never heard of TRP before I got this. Someone quickly messaged me after I made the 1st thread in /r/relationship_advice and was getting skewered for the post and said it would be a better place to get a male perspective. I didn't have enough karma to post in /r/AskMen, so I went for it, which was probably a big mistake in retrospect.

Normally i'm very critical people who have a Disney/teen girl view of marriage, but considering most of the people on that thread are either thirteen year old girls or adult men who want to date thirteen year old girls, I guess I have to let it pass.

Kinda with you on this one.

Also helps that the post is obviously fake and gay.

OP here and no, post is not fake, this last week has been a bitter whirlwind.

OP here and no, post is not fake, this last week has been a bitter whirlwind.

5 year old account with only 1,800 karma (all earned off the same fake post) and a post and comment history that only goes back 4 days.

Nigga, nevermind your bullshit story, you are fake and gay.

Nigga whatever you wanna tell yourself. I really don't care. Came back to reddit and forgot I hadn't logged out of this account. Yeah I have an old throwaway that I deleted all of my old throwaway posts on prior to this one. Big whoop lol. That means nothing. But hey man, do you, I'm never logging into this account again so won't see if you reply, but you're the one hanging out in a drama subreddit all day hoping to watch a piece of internet drama action, who's really the gay one? Later!

Which is more embarrassing, SRD giving relationship advice or SRD giving job advice?

I'll take "yes" for w/e passes for a prize in this sub.

w/e passes for a prize in this sub.

Handjobs

Hygiene advice?

Job because I have been in some toxic as shit relationships that would not look out of place in r/relationships and I am now married for the past 4 almost 5 years, Relationships aren't hard they are just confusing, Jobs now there is advice I wouldn't take from SRD unless I needed directions.

this is perhaps the dumbest shit of all time. of course nobody wants to consider a long-term relationship with someone who used to sleep around constantly unless theyre incredibly hot.

Not every conversation that involves gender is a good situation to jump into with "but what about how women suck?". If it's important >>to you to say that that's fine, just wait for a more appropriate time to say it.

You must not be familiar with TiTrCJ’s commenting history. It’s one of his favorite things.

mfw a menslib regular is insufficiently progressive on srd

He should definitely end it. Not because I care about him -- he's one tiny dick joke away from being a school shooter. I just think if you're in a relationship with a guy whose masculinity is so fragile that your ability to recognize a penis is a threat, you should know that before he starts stockpiling weapons.

That just ain't the sort of thing you wanna be told by the reporters ambushing you in your driveway to ask about how he could possibly do whatever horrible thing he did.

Another reasonable banger of an opinion from SRD.

I unironically agree with that take tho

I think it's pretty funny tbh.

u/snallygaster how can you be a SRDing mod and a mod here? Is r/drama just letting any old lolcow run the place these days?

TIL u/TAKEitTOrCIRCLEJERK is ok with SRDings calling each other dog fuckers with zero proof and doesn't consider it trolling.

wtf i love SRD now

He's just hoping to find a friend who shares the same interests.

Existing on the razor's edge between "you shouldn't need any external validation for your relationship -- it's only between you and her, if someone doesn't validate your choice then ignore them" and "being externally validated in your choice of gender identity or sexual preference is literally the most important thing in the world, if someone doesn't validate your choice they should be jailed"

Wow SRD is full of slut sympathizers. These guys are the complete opposite of incel posters (R.I.P)

It's incredibly obvious she whored around with every Chad she could get her hands on and when she decided she was done being a slut, she would settle for OP. Happens every day. There should be an after school special on how much this is an epidemic.

You're kind of stupid for not doing the same tbh

There's enough projection and popcorn in that thread for it to be a full on cinema. The people claiming that not wanting to marry someone with a high body count is a sign of insecurity are the same people absolutely losing their shit and taking it as a deeply personal insult for someone to not want to be with them after they've taken twenty dicks. They're ashamed of their past and hate that it carries consequences when it comes to trying to find some wallet to settle down with in marriage.

Straight people are so boring.

that is true I have seen more Drama between two drag queens that saw a twink in a speedo now that was probably the funniest night of my life that I barely remember probably should have laid off the whiskey.

Yes, "seek professional help". Go to your nearest commie minder and take some pills goy

Read a book

Educate yourself

Experts and sources say the internet is loving it and you should too, and that's a good thing

A very high amount of promiscuous individuals suffer from a personality disorder or otherwise extremely low self-esteem that causes them to use sex as an easy way to obtain validation. If anyone's confused about why so many neurotic comments are being made in that thread as if they're being personally, deeply attacked, it's because sex is literally the only thing they feel they can (true or otherwise) derive self-worth from.

I mean, to be fair, if you're hanging around in SRD, you're going to be projecting on everything you read, so suggesting OP needs professional help is par for the course.

Most of the top comments I skimmed are saying the guy is free to have whatever preferences he wants, am I missing something?

/u/sweetjaaane on how reddit has changed how she views the world:

HONESTLY Reddit has made me a lot more wary of men in general. It’s not doing your sex a lot of favors.

Oh, the wonderful, delicious irony, Jane.

I bet OP goto with her when she was over 'bad boys' and sluttery and thinking he had wifey material. Then his friend said 3 other guys who he knew banged her not that long ago including Darryl He knew Darryl since the first grade and knew he was a POS, who treated women like shit and was a man-whore. Which made him rethink his fiance's judgment overall.

I'm the OP, and I can't really follow what you're saying here at all...

Close enough. It's the myth of the "stretched out vagina."

We really ought to counter that shit by claiming that the penis gets smaller the more vaginas it enters, like water eroding a cliffside.

Lol. So Ed can say that he only has a small weenus because he's banged so much gussy and bussy?

that idea they have makes no sense considering if your douching enough they should face no issues.

Why were ROASTIES allowed to have sex while I was playing WoW and watching Anime?? 😭😭😭 This isn't fair, the dirty sluts 😡😠 I would never sleep around, such morally degrading behavior 🙄

why do I feel like I am listening to someone from across the bar while 3 slightly heavy women comfort her while I wonder what the fuck she expected while in a gay bar that the "complete hottie" would not fucking give her the time of day.

...too much?

Can you imagine believing redditors stories about relationships enough to argue about them ?

If you don't want to marry a girl who's been sexually promiscuous, that makes you sexist! Thanks, SRD

I remember reading a study somewhere, it said that promiscuous women are an order of magnitude more likely to initiate divorce. He did the right thing.