I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
u/CLSIG next you're gonna say, I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened. Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
yes when I put the rose in my hair like the Andalusian girls used or shall I wear a red yes and how he kissed me under the Moorish wall and I thought well as well him as another and then I asked him with my eyes to ask again yes and then he asked me would I yes to say yes my mountain flower and first I put my arms around him yes and drew him down Jo me so he could feel my breasts all perfume yes and his heart was going like mad and yes I said yes I will Yes.
oh definitely. it's just kind of tragic because it's soooooo obvious this due is not going to put a ring on it. you just know she has a whole convoluted story for why there's no wedding date "yet."
that said part of me kinda wants to cut her a little slack since being hella pregnant doesn't exactly make one super rational
On the other hand, she already dumped him once, with police involvement and all, so I can understand his hesitancy to make this relationship more permanent.
Sure, but once you've had your boyfriend arrested (even if he actually did something criminal), it shouldn't be too surprising he might have second thoughts about marrying you.
At that point, I suppose the better question is, "Why do you even want to marry this dude?", but I think we can probably guess the answer to that one.
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing 🈚🈚🈚 to do with their break 💔💔💔 up ☝☝. However, all these years their children 👨👩👧👦👨👩👧👦👨👩👧👦 had never ❌ accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this ⬆ “regret” comment was made now I feel like 😄😄😄 I know 🤔 why 🤔. They probably feel like 😄😄 my daughter and I have 🈶🈶🈶 ruined his life 💓 and theirs. I don’t know 🤔, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this ⬆ anger 💢💢💢 that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never ❌ bothered me because since they were never ❌ in communication 🛰 I never ❌ felt I should let it get 🉐🉐🉐 to me. Plus, I can’t control how 🤔 people 👫👫👫 feel. Hey 👋, if she still loves him, what 😅 does that have 🈶🈶🈶 to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is 🈶 that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt 🤕🤕 because he has given power 🔋🔋🔋 to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out 🏎🏍 of anger 💢💢💢. Which really hurts me cause 🎗🎗 I have 🈶🈶 bent over backwards for us to grow as a family 👪. Not that money 🤑🤑🤑 should play 🎽🎽🎽 a roll 😋 but in my eyes 🤩🤩🤩 it does because I have 🈶🈶 sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person 👤👤 (50-60k a year, if that) when ⏰ we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop ✋✋✋ working 🏗 and focus on 🔛 his dream 💤💤💤 which is 🈶 a construction 👷♀️ company. So I funded him and his new 🆕🆕 company 100 💯💯% until it took off. It’s not yet where 🤷 it’s gonna be but he does pretty good 👌👍🏾 jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross 🤢🤢🤢 revenue). So it really hurts to learn 🎓🎓🎓 that he felt at any point 🈯🈯🈯 that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up ☝☝☝ is 🈶 because he started getting into the habit that when ⏰ he would get 🉐🉐🉐 into a stupid argument he would run 🏃 up ☝ to me and pretend like 😄😄😄 he was going to hit 👊 me. So one 1️⃣1️⃣ day I got sick 😣😣😣 of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On 🔛 top 🔼 of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun 🔫 in the house 🏠🏠🏠. He didn’t do any time ⌚ but I had requested in the courts that the only way ↕️ he can come back ⬅️⬅️⬅️ to his daughter’s life 💓 is 🈶 if he does an anger 💢 management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back ⬅️⬅️ together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never ❌ again did it again and that I know 🤔 of no 😣😣😣 weapons around. Now, yes 👍👍👍 we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power 🔋🔋 or that voice to go around saying what 😅 he has said to her. I’m also upset 😞😞 that he was even in communication 🛰🛰🛰 with her during our break 💔💔💔 up ☝☝ because god knows 🤔 what 😅 we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know 🤔 why 🤔 my daughter or assume why 🤔 our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is 🈶 because they think 🤔🤔🤔 he is 🈶 miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial 🏦 change 📈 in his life 💓 and feel a bit envious about it. This ⬆ is 🈶 going to sound 👂👂👂 petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult 🧑🧑🧑 children 👨👩👧👦👨👩👧👦 and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work 💼💼💼. I’ve been very upset 😞 on 🔛🔛 how 🤔 they have 🈶🈶🈶 treated my daughter. In 8 years they have 🈶 made zero 0️⃣0️⃣0️⃣ attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money 🤑 because legally half there’s. Many would say 🗣 prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get 🉐🉐🉐 married. Am fine with that. I know 🤔, it’s petty in my part but it’s how 🤔 I feel. So what 😅 I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is 🈶 that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success 📈📈📈 and mine is 🈶 not focused on 🔛🔛🔛. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is 🈶 the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit 👊 the fan in the future 📡📡. Now I feel like 😄😄 I sound 👂👂 like 😄😄😄 a dirt bag 🎒🎒🎒 to you guys lol 🤣🤣🤣. Anyways, please 🙏🙏 reply and I will give as much detail to help 🆘 me sort this ⬆ out 🏎🏍 in my head 💆 before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road 🛣, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes 👍 I know 🤔 I should focused just on 🔛🔛🔛 the baby 👶👶👶 but I can’t help 🆘 to think 🤔🤔🤔 of this ⬆. It just recently happened.
Wait 🚏🚏🚏! Also, he should take full 🈵🈵 responsibility for his comment to her and make this ⬆ right 👉👉👉 between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have 🈶🈶🈶 no 😣😣😣 other choice but to break 💔💔 up ☝☝☝ with him.
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened. Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened. Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I moo proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
Entré en escena diez años después de su divorcio. Entonces no tuve nada que ver con su ruptura. Sin embargo, todos estos años. Desde que me enteré de este "arrepentimiento", el comentario se hizo ahora. Siento que sé por qué. Probablemente se sientan como mi hija y yo arruiné su vida y la de ellos. No lo sé, esa es mi suposición. En cuanto a ella, tenía esta rabia de que todavía lo amaba. Nunca me molestó porque nunca estuvieron en comunicación. Nunca pensé que debería dejar que me afectara. Además, no puedo controlar cómo se siente la gente. Oye, si ella todavía lo ama, ¿qué tiene eso que ver conmigo? Ahora, algo que no mencioné antes era. Entonces soy el que está herido. También me ha dicho que no se arrepiente de ella en el pasado. Lo cual realmente me duele porque me he esforzado demasiado. Pero he sacrificado mucho. Él era un asalariado regular (50-60k al año, si eso) cuando nos juntamos. Le mencioné hace años que debería dejar de trabajar y concentrarse en su sueño. Entonces le pagué 100% hasta que despegó. Todavía no es donde va a haber trabajos bastante buenos ahora (en un año, tal vez cerca de $ 500k de ingresos brutos). Así que me duele mucho saber que él se arrepiente. Ahora, la razón por la que rompimos es porque él comenzó a tomar el hábito. Así que un día me cansé de eso, llamé a la policía y lo arrestaron por asalto. Además de eso, mencioné a los policías que tenía un arma en la casa. Él no hizo nada del tiempo, me preguntaron en los tribunales. Entonces ellos otorgaron mi pedido. Después de un año, vi una mejora y volví a unirme a él. Han pasado 4-5 años desde ese incidente y nunca lo volvió a hacer. Ahora, sí, sí, tuvimos nuestro parche de ruff, pero realmente me molesta que le haya dado ese poder. También estoy molesto de que él haya estado en comunicación con ella. A pesar de que han pasado más de 19 años desde que estuvieron juntos de alguna manera, ahora siento que ella es una amenaza en nuestra relación. Además, ahora sé por qué mi hija está embarazada, creo que ella es miserable conmigo. También han visto el cambio financiero en su vida y sentimiento. Esto va a sonar como una mezquindad de mi parte. He estado muy enojado con la forma en que han tratado a mi hija. En 8 años, han hecho cero intentos en una relación con ella. Entonces si me caso con él ahora. Muchos dirían acuerdo prenupcial, pero mantengamos las cosas simples y no nos casemos. Estoy bien con eso. Lo sé, es como me siento. Entonces, de lo que no quiero sentirme culpable por no haberme casado con él es porque no me quedo solo. Una vez que se levanta en el nivel superior, entonces somos iguales y no sé lo que estoy haciendo. Ahora siento que ja ja. De todos modos, responda y le daré todo lo que pueda para ayudarme. Estoy en un cruce, déjalo o quédate? FYI: Puedo dar a luz hoy y sí, no puedo evitar pensar en eso. Simplemente sucedió.
Espera! Además, él debería asumir toda la responsabilidad por el suyo. Que él no ha roto y no romperá con él.
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1 Neil_Tzedakah 2018-04-10
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
1 hughmad 2018-04-10
simply epic
1 mygoodpostingalt 2018-04-10
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
1 IqtaKadabra 2018-04-10
u/CLSIG next you're gonna say, I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
1 zeeruhour 2018-04-10
N-Nani?!?!?
1 toynbeeidea16 2018-04-10
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened. Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-04-10
I'm not reading this, this is worse than the ending of Ulysses.
1 CarnistHappyCamp 2018-04-10
Ulysses had an ending?
1 toynbeeidea16 2018-04-10
yes when I put the rose in my hair like the Andalusian girls used or shall I wear a red yes and how he kissed me under the Moorish wall and I thought well as well him as another and then I asked him with my eyes to ask again yes and then he asked me would I yes to say yes my mountain flower and first I put my arms around him yes and drew him down Jo me so he could feel my breasts all perfume yes and his heart was going like mad and yes I said yes I will Yes.
Trieste-Zürich-Paris, 1914--1921
1 CarnistHappyCamp 2018-04-10
maybe i should try to read it again. been at least a decade since the last time i failed.
1 toynbeeidea16 2018-04-10
I'm way too stupid for that book.
1 CarnistHappyCamp 2018-04-10
tbh the last few times i tried to read it i was high 24/7, that may have influenced my quitting.
1 TransexualWiener 2018-04-10
is that what female sexual consent looks like?
1 Plexipus 2018-04-10
It ended when I said "I'm not reading all of this shit" and closed the book and put it down
1 CarnistHappyCamp 2018-04-10
pretty much my scenario
1 darth_tiffany 2018-04-10
fucking lol at calling him her "fiance" when they've been together a decade and have two fucking kids. take the hint bitch
1 snallygaster 2018-04-10
Sounds like the world is better off if both of them are no longer in the dating pool.
1 darth_tiffany 2018-04-10
oh definitely. it's just kind of tragic because it's soooooo obvious this due is not going to put a ring on it. you just know she has a whole convoluted story for why there's no wedding date "yet."
that said part of me kinda wants to cut her a little slack since being hella pregnant doesn't exactly make one super rational
1 imaginarycreatures 2018-04-10
On the other hand, she already dumped him once, with police involvement and all, so I can understand his hesitancy to make this relationship more permanent.
1 TransexualWiener 2018-04-10
0 sympathy for any man who actually dates gussy. what morons.
1 DefNotaZombie 2018-04-10
I mean, if he actually gotten into the habit of pretend running up to her and pretending to try and punch her, then that's fair game
1 imaginarycreatures 2018-04-10
Sure, but once you've had your boyfriend arrested (even if he actually did something criminal), it shouldn't be too surprising he might have second thoughts about marrying you.
At that point, I suppose the better question is, "Why do you even want to marry this dude?", but I think we can probably guess the answer to that one.
1 redfield021767 2018-04-10
Maybe she's just a super bad receiver of his overly enthusiastic high-fives.
1 wallumbilla_Jamborie 2018-04-10
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
1 XhotwheelsloverX 2018-04-10
Good bot
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1 toynbeeidea16 2018-04-10
bad bot
1 tilmoph 2018-04-10
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
1 Kevin_LanDUI 2018-04-10
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1 wallumbilla_Jamborie 2018-04-10
Thanks fam
1 TothB 2018-04-10
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing 🈚🈚🈚 to do with their break 💔💔💔 up ☝☝. However, all these years their children 👨👩👧👦👨👩👧👦👨👩👧👦 had never ❌ accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this ⬆ “regret” comment was made now I feel like 😄😄😄 I know 🤔 why 🤔. They probably feel like 😄😄 my daughter and I have 🈶🈶🈶 ruined his life 💓 and theirs. I don’t know 🤔, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this ⬆ anger 💢💢💢 that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never ❌ bothered me because since they were never ❌ in communication 🛰 I never ❌ felt I should let it get 🉐🉐🉐 to me. Plus, I can’t control how 🤔 people 👫👫👫 feel. Hey 👋, if she still loves him, what 😅 does that have 🈶🈶🈶 to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is 🈶 that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt 🤕🤕 because he has given power 🔋🔋🔋 to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out 🏎🏍 of anger 💢💢💢. Which really hurts me cause 🎗🎗 I have 🈶🈶 bent over backwards for us to grow as a family 👪. Not that money 🤑🤑🤑 should play 🎽🎽🎽 a roll 😋 but in my eyes 🤩🤩🤩 it does because I have 🈶🈶 sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person 👤👤 (50-60k a year, if that) when ⏰ we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop ✋✋✋ working 🏗 and focus on 🔛 his dream 💤💤💤 which is 🈶 a construction 👷♀️ company. So I funded him and his new 🆕🆕 company 100 💯💯% until it took off. It’s not yet where 🤷 it’s gonna be but he does pretty good 👌👍🏾 jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross 🤢🤢🤢 revenue). So it really hurts to learn 🎓🎓🎓 that he felt at any point 🈯🈯🈯 that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up ☝☝☝ is 🈶 because he started getting into the habit that when ⏰ he would get 🉐🉐🉐 into a stupid argument he would run 🏃 up ☝ to me and pretend like 😄😄😄 he was going to hit 👊 me. So one 1️⃣1️⃣ day I got sick 😣😣😣 of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On 🔛 top 🔼 of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun 🔫 in the house 🏠🏠🏠. He didn’t do any time ⌚ but I had requested in the courts that the only way ↕️ he can come back ⬅️⬅️⬅️ to his daughter’s life 💓 is 🈶 if he does an anger 💢 management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back ⬅️⬅️ together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never ❌ again did it again and that I know 🤔 of no 😣😣😣 weapons around. Now, yes 👍👍👍 we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power 🔋🔋 or that voice to go around saying what 😅 he has said to her. I’m also upset 😞😞 that he was even in communication 🛰🛰🛰 with her during our break 💔💔💔 up ☝☝ because god knows 🤔 what 😅 we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know 🤔 why 🤔 my daughter or assume why 🤔 our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is 🈶 because they think 🤔🤔🤔 he is 🈶 miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial 🏦 change 📈 in his life 💓 and feel a bit envious about it. This ⬆ is 🈶 going to sound 👂👂👂 petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult 🧑🧑🧑 children 👨👩👧👦👨👩👧👦 and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work 💼💼💼. I’ve been very upset 😞 on 🔛🔛 how 🤔 they have 🈶🈶🈶 treated my daughter. In 8 years they have 🈶 made zero 0️⃣0️⃣0️⃣ attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money 🤑 because legally half there’s. Many would say 🗣 prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get 🉐🉐🉐 married. Am fine with that. I know 🤔, it’s petty in my part but it’s how 🤔 I feel. So what 😅 I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is 🈶 that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success 📈📈📈 and mine is 🈶 not focused on 🔛🔛🔛. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is 🈶 the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit 👊 the fan in the future 📡📡. Now I feel like 😄😄 I sound 👂👂 like 😄😄😄 a dirt bag 🎒🎒🎒 to you guys lol 🤣🤣🤣. Anyways, please 🙏🙏 reply and I will give as much detail to help 🆘 me sort this ⬆ out 🏎🏍 in my head 💆 before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road 🛣, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes 👍 I know 🤔 I should focused just on 🔛🔛🔛 the baby 👶👶👶 but I can’t help 🆘 to think 🤔🤔🤔 of this ⬆. It just recently happened.
Wait 🚏🚏🚏! Also, he should take full 🈵🈵 responsibility for his comment to her and make this ⬆ right 👉👉👉 between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have 🈶🈶🈶 no 😣😣😣 other choice but to break 💔💔 up ☝☝☝ with him.
1 0987654231 2018-04-10
Another day, another reason why Bussy is superior.
1 rogue0tter 2018-04-10
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
1 JumbledFun 2018-04-10
ugh now i just have you dumb assholes spamming my inbox with said rant
1 Delkseypoo 2018-04-10
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened. Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
1 toynbeeidea16 2018-04-10
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened. Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
1 tilmoph 2018-04-10
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
1 Plexipus 2018-04-10
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened. Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
1 HINDBRAIN 2018-04-10
Did somebody call for a dumb asshole?
1 JumbledFun 2018-04-10
No, but here you are!
1 SylvanasBiggieMilky 2018-04-10
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
1 shinthemighty 2018-04-10
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
1 shallowm 2018-04-10
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1 Kevin_LanDUI 2018-04-10
You will never be Snappy.
1 Matthew94 2018-04-10
Hahaha, what a thread Mark!
1 Kevin_LanDUI 2018-04-10
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1 Tricitiesdrama 2018-04-10
I came into the picture ten years after their divorce. So I had nothing to do with their break up. However, all these years their children had never accepted my daughter as their sister. Since I learned of this “regret” comment was made now I feel like I know why. They probably feel like my daughter and I have ruined his life and theirs. I don’t know, that’s my assumption. As for her, she has had this anger that I just couldn’t understand or points to that she still loves him. It never bothered me because since they were never in communication I never felt I should let it get to me. Plus, I can’t control how people feel. Hey, if she still loves him, what does that have to do with me? Now, something that I did not mention before is that he said to her that she wasn’t a regret to him but I was. So am hurt because he has given power to someone that doesn’t deserve or can use it against me. He also has told me that he doesn’t regret her in the past and he says that he only said that about me out of anger. Which really hurts me cause I have bent over backwards for us to grow as a family. Not that money should play a roll but in my eyes it does because I have sacrificed so much. He was a regular wage person (50-60k a year, if that) when we got together. I mentioned to him years ago that he should stop working and focus on his dream which is a construction company. So I funded him and his new company 100% until it took off. It’s not yet where it’s gonna be but he does pretty good jobs now (in a year, Maybe close to $500k gross revenue). So it really hurts to learn that he felt at any point that he regrets me. Now, the reason we broke up is because he started getting into the habit that when he would get into a stupid argument he would run up to me and pretend like he was going to hit me. So one day I got sick of it and called the cops and got him arrested for assault. On top of that, I mentioned to the cops that he had a gun in the house. He didn’t do any time but I had requested in the courts that the only way he can come back to his daughter’s life is if he does an anger management course for a year. So they granted my request. After a year, I saw an improvement and got back together with him. It’s been 4-5 years since that incident and he never again did it again and that I know of no weapons around. Now, yes we had our ruff patch but it truly bothers me that he gave her that power or that voice to go around saying what he has said to her. I’m also upset that he was even in communication with her during our break up because god knows what we’re the intentions between them. Even though it’s been 19+ years since they’ve been together somehow I now feel she’s a threat in our relationship. Plus, now I know why my daughter or assume why our daughter was not accepted by her siblings is because they think he is miserable with me. They’ve also has seen the financial change in his life and feel a bit envious about it. This is going to sound petty from me but I haven’t married him so that they (his adult children and ex) don’t benefit from my hard work. I’ve been very upset on how they have treated my daughter. In 8 years they have made zero attempts in a relationship with her. So if I marry him now my hard earned money because legally half there’s. Many would say prenup but let’s keep things simple and let’s not even get married. Am fine with that. I know, it’s petty in my part but it’s how I feel. So what I do not to feel guilty about not marrying him is that I lift him as an individual so that he don’t stay behind and has his own success and mine is not focused on. Once he gets at a higher level we then equal and I don’t feel my stuff is the only thing at risk of stuff shall hit the fan in the future. Now I feel like I sound like a dirt bag to you guys lol. Anyways, please reply and I will give as much detail to help me sort this out in my head before I moo proceed with my decision. Am at a cross road, leave him or stay? FYI: I may give birth today and yes I know I should focused just on the baby but I can’t help to think of this. It just recently happened.
Wait! Also, he should take full responsibility for his comment to her and make this right between us. Which he hasn’t and if he don’t I will have no other choice but to break up with him.
1 DefNotaZombie 2018-04-10
Entré en escena diez años después de su divorcio. Entonces no tuve nada que ver con su ruptura. Sin embargo, todos estos años. Desde que me enteré de este "arrepentimiento", el comentario se hizo ahora. Siento que sé por qué. Probablemente se sientan como mi hija y yo arruiné su vida y la de ellos. No lo sé, esa es mi suposición. En cuanto a ella, tenía esta rabia de que todavía lo amaba. Nunca me molestó porque nunca estuvieron en comunicación. Nunca pensé que debería dejar que me afectara. Además, no puedo controlar cómo se siente la gente. Oye, si ella todavía lo ama, ¿qué tiene eso que ver conmigo? Ahora, algo que no mencioné antes era. Entonces soy el que está herido. También me ha dicho que no se arrepiente de ella en el pasado. Lo cual realmente me duele porque me he esforzado demasiado. Pero he sacrificado mucho. Él era un asalariado regular (50-60k al año, si eso) cuando nos juntamos. Le mencioné hace años que debería dejar de trabajar y concentrarse en su sueño. Entonces le pagué 100% hasta que despegó. Todavía no es donde va a haber trabajos bastante buenos ahora (en un año, tal vez cerca de $ 500k de ingresos brutos). Así que me duele mucho saber que él se arrepiente. Ahora, la razón por la que rompimos es porque él comenzó a tomar el hábito. Así que un día me cansé de eso, llamé a la policía y lo arrestaron por asalto. Además de eso, mencioné a los policías que tenía un arma en la casa. Él no hizo nada del tiempo, me preguntaron en los tribunales. Entonces ellos otorgaron mi pedido. Después de un año, vi una mejora y volví a unirme a él. Han pasado 4-5 años desde ese incidente y nunca lo volvió a hacer. Ahora, sí, sí, tuvimos nuestro parche de ruff, pero realmente me molesta que le haya dado ese poder. También estoy molesto de que él haya estado en comunicación con ella. A pesar de que han pasado más de 19 años desde que estuvieron juntos de alguna manera, ahora siento que ella es una amenaza en nuestra relación. Además, ahora sé por qué mi hija está embarazada, creo que ella es miserable conmigo. También han visto el cambio financiero en su vida y sentimiento. Esto va a sonar como una mezquindad de mi parte. He estado muy enojado con la forma en que han tratado a mi hija. En 8 años, han hecho cero intentos en una relación con ella. Entonces si me caso con él ahora. Muchos dirían acuerdo prenupcial, pero mantengamos las cosas simples y no nos casemos. Estoy bien con eso. Lo sé, es como me siento. Entonces, de lo que no quiero sentirme culpable por no haberme casado con él es porque no me quedo solo. Una vez que se levanta en el nivel superior, entonces somos iguales y no sé lo que estoy haciendo. Ahora siento que ja ja. De todos modos, responda y le daré todo lo que pueda para ayudarme. Estoy en un cruce, déjalo o quédate? FYI: Puedo dar a luz hoy y sí, no puedo evitar pensar en eso. Simplemente sucedió.
Espera! Además, él debería asumir toda la responsabilidad por el suyo. Que él no ha roto y no romperá con él.
1 rnjbond 2018-04-10
I read it and I don't understand it at all...