Demands that men "call out" the "harassment" specifically of women is so asinine. Men deserve the same exact amount of autonomy that women have. Meaning, men should be able to show as much apathy toward the opposite sex as women do.
Women do not give a SINGLE FUCK when men are harassed, they don't even see it as harassment. So, why should a man be obliged to do anything for them?
I have literally never even heard of a woman defending a guy who was getting berated in a game. She would be more likely to feel uncomfortable because he was taking her victimhood monopoly away.
Overwatch solo queuing will inevitably lead you to open abuse and disagreement when your team mates have very different ideas about how to play the game.
Reddit admins could hire a bunch of trolls to call women mean things on Overwatch and they'll have server costs covered for 5 years after a week or so.
We're a group of people who will sit for hours, days, even weeks on end performing some of the hardest, most mentally demanding tasks. Over, and over, and over all for nothing more than a little digital token saying we did.
We'll punish our selfs doing things others would consider torture, because we think it's fun.
We'll spend most if not all of our free time min maxing the stats of a fictional character all to draw out a single extra point of damage per second.
Many of us have made careers out of doing just these things: slogging through the grind, all day, the same quests over and over, hundreds of times to the point where we know evety little detail such that some have attained such gamer nirvana that they can literally play these games blindfolded.
Do these people have any idea how many controllers have been smashed, systems over heated, disks and carts destroyed 8n frustration? All to latter be referred to as bragging rights?
These people honestly think this is a battle they can win? They take our media? We're already building a new one without them. They take our devs? Gamers aren't shy about throwing their money else where, or even making the games our selves. They think calling us racist, mysoginistic, rape apologists is going to change us? We've been called worse things by prepubescent 10 year olds with a shitty head set. They picked a fight against a group that's already grown desensitized to their strategies and methods. Who enjoy the battle of attrition they've threatened us with. Who take it as a challange when they tell us we no longer matter. Our obsession with proving we can after being told we can't is so deeply ingrained from years of dealing with big brothers/sisters and friends laughing at how pathetic we used to be that proving you people wrong has become a very real need; a honed reflex.
Gamers are competative, hard core, by nature. We love a challange. The worst thing you did in all of this was to challange us. You're not special, you're not original, you're not the first; this is just another boss fight.
Right. When someone talks loudly in a theater, the solution is to leap up onto your seat and punch them in the mouth, along with the people to their left and right.
Then when anyone so much as raises an eyebrow, insist that you're a firefighter setting controlled blazes to prevent forest fires.
Here's the best advise ever for those that feel cyberbullied and harassed by these guys who have no life aside from playing solo q: Stop playing the game. Simples. Play a game that had no chat feature.
Pathetic lolcows. I've been gaming most of my life, called every name in the book and told to KMS in a dozen different ways, never thought to call it harassment. Its just shit talking, part of every competitive game/sport.
In the case of women someone might direct some of the banter to their gender because they know they'll get buttblasted over it. Why is that suddenly a cybercrime but any way you can verbally tear a man down is not?
57 comments
1 PowerOfJerkoffMagic 2018-05-10
Read the recent announcement:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Drama/comments/8iaof8/no_gender_drama_posts_for_one_week/?st=jgzs440h&sh=4e3b92ef
You can post this next week in a catch-up thread
1 DisposableDoc 2018-05-10
Fuck off
1 saddertadder 2018-05-10
no no no! drama train stops for NO REASON!
1 CirqueDuFuder 2018-05-10
https://www.reddit.com/r/Drama/comments/8iaof8/no_gender_drama_posts_for_one_week/dyqdp4k/?context=1
1 RollBread 2018-05-10
Mother's Day is a construction of 'The Man' to oppress and condition the public into mindless consumers.
1 XhotwheelsloverX 2018-05-10
Lol gay
1 cheers_grills 2018-05-10
Keep yourself safe pls.
1 bG9sIG5pY2UgdHJ5Cg 2018-05-10
Who died and made you head cockwomble?
1 mydramaaccount 2018-05-10
Demands that men "call out" the "harassment" specifically of women is so asinine. Men deserve the same exact amount of autonomy that women have. Meaning, men should be able to show as much apathy toward the opposite sex as women do.
Women do not give a SINGLE FUCK when men are harassed, they don't even see it as harassment. So, why should a man be obliged to do anything for them?
1 Ed_ButteredToast 2018-05-10
This but unironically. Grow a thick skin and play your fucking cancerous game without all the whining and moaning.
P.S: I'm surprised how people haven't brought up gamergate yet š¤
1 Redactor0 2018-05-10
Overwatch players are too young to remember it.
1 LedinToke 2018-05-10
good times though
1 pitterpatterwater 2018-05-10
Anyone who cares about gamergate should be hanged.
1 aqouta 2018-05-10
I don't but I'm hung, is thisba mix up?
1 o11c 2018-05-10
Well, you just did.
The one thing I have conclusively learned about gamergate is: anyone who brings up gamergate has no life.
1 Ed_ButteredToast 2018-05-10
Oh I'm sorry. If I mentioned what should not be named in a different sub than where the tards are fighting over a game.
1 whenweriiide 2018-05-10
Yo ed, what'd you end up having for dinner?
1 saddertadder 2018-05-10
fish and chips with a side dish of BUSSY smashing after we watched a k-pop drama, right ed?
1 saddertadder 2018-05-10
/u/Ed_ButteredToast pls respond. how come you didnt answer my phone this morning after reading the parent comment above?
1 Awayfone 2018-05-10
It is there. Lots of discussion of the previous threads being full of misogynist and both gamergate and anti-sjw dog whistles
1 Boeing676 2018-05-10
Don't jinx it š
1 saddertadder 2018-05-10
whoa, let me tell you about white knights
1 Bigfartyshit 2018-05-10
I have literally never even heard of a woman defending a guy who was getting berated in a game. She would be more likely to feel uncomfortable because he was taking her victimhood monopoly away.
1 fiodorson 2018-05-10
This is not true from my experience. Usually women are usually first to call out any harassment in the group. Did you tried to be around women?
1 michgot 2018-05-10
lol wemen
1 morerokk 2018-05-10
LOL
1 fiodorson 2018-05-10
Maybe you just need better friends.
1 die_rattin 2018-05-10
Hysterical
1 fiodorson 2018-05-10
tru tru
1 saddertadder 2018-05-10
My OP is better, you knob: https://www.reddit.com/r/Drama/comments/8iak37/overwatch_drama_still_going_on/
1 VagrantHobo 2018-05-10
Overwatch solo queuing will inevitably lead you to open abuse and disagreement when your team mates have very different ideas about how to play the game.
1 VidiotGamer 2018-05-10
Fuck you, it's misogyny!!!!!!
1 DoktuhParadox 2018-05-10
what a bunch of pussies
1 Swingfire 2018-05-10
Reddit admins could hire a bunch of trolls to call women mean things on Overwatch and they'll have server costs covered for 5 years after a week or so.
1 Power_Incarnate 2018-05-10
63 gold just between those 3 posts... WTF
1 bG9sIG5pY2UgdHJ5Cg 2018-05-10
What if that's exactly what's happening here though
1 tcfb 2018-05-10
They targeted gamers.
Gamers.
We're a group of people who will sit for hours, days, even weeks on end performing some of the hardest, most mentally demanding tasks. Over, and over, and over all for nothing more than a little digital token saying we did.
We'll punish our selfs doing things others would consider torture, because we think it's fun.
We'll spend most if not all of our free time min maxing the stats of a fictional character all to draw out a single extra point of damage per second.
Many of us have made careers out of doing just these things: slogging through the grind, all day, the same quests over and over, hundreds of times to the point where we know evety little detail such that some have attained such gamer nirvana that they can literally play these games blindfolded.
Do these people have any idea how many controllers have been smashed, systems over heated, disks and carts destroyed 8n frustration? All to latter be referred to as bragging rights?
These people honestly think this is a battle they can win? They take our media? We're already building a new one without them. They take our devs? Gamers aren't shy about throwing their money else where, or even making the games our selves. They think calling us racist, mysoginistic, rape apologists is going to change us? We've been called worse things by prepubescent 10 year olds with a shitty head set. They picked a fight against a group that's already grown desensitized to their strategies and methods. Who enjoy the battle of attrition they've threatened us with. Who take it as a challange when they tell us we no longer matter. Our obsession with proving we can after being told we can't is so deeply ingrained from years of dealing with big brothers/sisters and friends laughing at how pathetic we used to be that proving you people wrong has become a very real need; a honed reflex.
Gamers are competative, hard core, by nature. We love a challange. The worst thing you did in all of this was to challange us. You're not special, you're not original, you're not the first; this is just another boss fight.
1 Korn_Bread 2018-05-10
https://www.reddit.com/r/Overwatch/comments/8i7cbx/when_we_call_talking_about_sexism_in_overwatch/dyq7nbm/
1 Diogenes2XLantern 2018-05-10
/u/coyotetale
Right. When someone talks loudly in a theater, the solution is to leap up onto your seat and punch them in the mouth, along with the people to their left and right.
Then when anyone so much as raises an eyebrow, insist that you're a firefighter setting controlled blazes to prevent forest fires.
1 coyoteTale 2018-05-10
Damn thatās how Iāve been dealing with theater disputes for years, and now I learn thatās not how itās supposed to be done. I feel like a fool
Just curious though, how do you stop someone from talking in a theater?
1 saddertadder 2018-05-10
Light them on fire
1 Korn_Bread 2018-05-10
Go to the people in charge of a theater, just how you should deal with people misbehaving in a videogame
1 RollBread 2018-05-10
Because it's not a realistic issue, "please stop people from being assholes on the internet games".
If we could do that we fucking would've twenty years ago.
1 Diogenes2XLantern 2018-05-10
What's with all the cowardly quotes-without-pings?
I can understand if people are afraid of the insulting pinging rule, but the posts that I'm seeing wouldn't even come close to that...
1 RollBread 2018-05-10
Oh yeah you can ping.
1 TheMauveHand 2018-05-10
You can remove "on the internet" from that reply. People are assholes in person too.
So what.
1 RollBread 2018-05-10
Real life is different, there are actual things you can do about it.
1 TheMauveHand 2018-05-10
You'd think so, but not really. Asshole are gonna be asshole no matter what you do to 'em.
1 RollBread 2018-05-10
You can kick their ass, or tell them to fuck off and threaten to kick their ass.
Of course, if you're a stringy soyboy this won't prove effective, but no one cares about losers anyway.
1 TheMauveHand 2018-05-10
Right, but will that make them less of an asshole? Or will it just make you feel better?
1 RollBread 2018-05-10
It means people think twice before being assholes to others.
1 Redactor0 2018-05-10
Has anyone posted the Chris Avellone drama yet? If not, I might do it tomorrow, but it's gonna require some serious effortposting to do justice to it.
1 Zacharey01 2018-05-10
Here's the best advise ever for those that feel cyberbullied and harassed by these guys who have no life aside from playing solo q: Stop playing the game. Simples. Play a game that had no chat feature.
1 Plague-Lord 2018-05-10
Pathetic lolcows. I've been gaming most of my life, called every name in the book and told to KMS in a dozen different ways, never thought to call it harassment. Its just shit talking, part of every competitive game/sport.
In the case of women someone might direct some of the banter to their gender because they know they'll get buttblasted over it. Why is that suddenly a cybercrime but any way you can verbally tear a man down is not?
1 Morgan-CR 2018-05-10
Not even Jesus Christ can achieve this level of white-knightery
1 acct_118 2018-05-10
Blizzard has this unique ability to create video games that attract the most sad and toxic communities without fail. Truly a modern marvel.
1 Redactor0 2018-05-10
It could actually take us to the moon and planets) if we utilized it effectively.
1 istural 2018-05-10
Blizzard has monetized pathetic people escaping their lives with an addictive substance, just without having to sell them illegal things.
1 Muiminaiken 2018-05-10
waah somebody called me a faggot on the internet please give me upvote
1 jaja10 2018-05-10
Anyone who complains about people being mean in videogames should be shot.
1 Forum_Rage 2018-05-10
That thread has 30 gold. Thirty.
1 die_rattin 2018-05-10
Think of how many lootboxes they could have bought instead