Marital rape was only outlawed in every state in 93'. Hell, Trump's lawyer in the 80s used it not being illegal as a defense against one of his ex-wife's rape accusations in court.
I think most of the poster there are men pretending to be women, women who had actual trauma and confusing that place with /r/rape, and some legit sick fucks who rape people IRL. Any law enforcement looking into those users will probably have a productive day.
Most the people there are actually people into consensual non consent and people that want to talk about their experiences without people feeling bad for them or looking at them like a victim. Itās actually a pretty nice place and very few people there are actually rapey creeps. Those that are, like this guy, get called out pretty quick.
The closest thing to illegal there are the rape baiters who like to put themselves in dangerous situations to try to get raped. Even then itās hard to say the legality on that since both sides are into it even though no consent was given. Personally I find that sub section kinda iffy but I donāt think that theyāre criminals.
This guy talking about raping his ex is the outlier. Honestly most of it is CNC advice requests, stories of traumatic events and how they have effected people both positively and negatively, stories of CNC experiences, and rape based fiction. Personally it all fascinates me, theyāve even had actual health care professionals contact them to talk with people and study them. Itās actually all pretty above board over there.
Itās not consensual if sheās unconscious, that was the issue there. You canāt consent to things if you arenāt aware of them, you are unable to say no in that scenario so itās an automatic no.
Cnc doesnāt mean sheās unconscious. Itās basically rough sex and acting. Neither of which is illegal.
Yep, and if she has a ton of bruises and goes to the police, enjoy playing that game. "She consented officer! I'm just really into consensual nonconsent! She was acting out her fantasy!"
"Did you say nonconsent?"
"Just acting, I swear!"
"Cool, coolcoolcool. This is Bubba, your new cellmate. He's also into nonconsent."
Seriously I donāt get the kink and wonāt even pretend to try. It seems like a really shit plan though. I could see someone saying after the fact they might have wanted some parts but not all parts, ergo sexual assault.
The case name is evading my mind but look up the Canadian case on āMā (womanās name omitted for privacy). Itās notable for hitting Canadaās high court. Hubby and wifey play rape game, she goes āuhhh too far on that rape fantasy I had.ā And hubby goes to jail. Court goes, ācanāt consent to not consent. Trololol.ā
In the US I sincerely doubt it would even come close to going as far as the Canadian case went. Weāre a bit stricter on crimlaw and less sexually liberal.
BDSM practitioners play with fire in some of their more entertaining games. Itās one regret away from state sponsored bracelets.
Of course most of the people there are harmless, or pretending. But all it takes is a dozen of sick fucks reading stories about women "rape baiting" and then convincing themselves the girl they like is actually doing it to them.
Oh yeah I agree. I said legally it was complicated because both people are consenting but neither party gives consent. So depending on your definition that may or may not be rape. That being said the aggressor never knows if sheās actually into it or not so regardless the aggressor is still a rapist even if that incident wasnāt rape because as far as the aggressor is concerned it is rape.
Subreddits get closed for less. Only a tiny minority of incels will turn into homicidal freaks, but /r/incels still got closed when they suggested a dude castrate his roommate.
The difference here is that incels was encouraging violence on others and most the people in that sub agreed.
Rapekink is a lot smaller sub, itās not encouraging violence on others (unless you have their consent) and is not actively brigading other subreddits to spew their hate and encouragement. Itās small, mostly self contained, and even in the case of its own members it discourages risky behavior or gives less risky alternatives. Plus they self police and shut down actual rapists like OP.
What Iām saying is, the violence that cnc people are usually consenting too is the nerf version of real sexual violence. Itās violence with safe guards and rules. Itās violence in the same ways sports are violence.
How am I a creep. I respect consent, Iād never force anyone to have sex with me, Iād never hurt anyone more than they literally tell me (with words) that they want to be hurt.
Iām a creep because I like rough sex and acting? Ok I guess everyone that doesnāt like missionary for the sole purpose of procreation is a creep.
Reddit banned /r/SanctionedSuicide because they were "encouraging violence" against themselves. People who commit suicide usually consent to themselves, you know.
all it takes is a dozen of sick fucks reading stories about women "rape baiting" and then convincing themselves the girl they like is actually doing it to them.
So basically, itās the subās and OPās fault and not the actual rapistās fault. Delightful.
Most the people there are actually people into consensual non consent and people that want to talk about their experiences without people feeling bad for them or looking at them like a victim. Itās actually a pretty nice place and very few people there are actually rapey creeps. Those that are, like this guy, get called out pretty quick.
The closest thing to illegal there are the rape baiters who like to put themselves in dangerous situations to try to get raped. Even then itās hard to say the legality on that since both sides are into it even though no consent was given. Personally I find that sub section kinda iffy but I donāt think that theyāre criminals.
This guy talking about raping his ex is the outlier. Honestly most of it is CNC advice requests, stories of traumatic events and how they have effected people both positively and negatively, stories of CNC experiences, and rape based fiction. Personally it all fascinates me, theyāve even had actual health care professionals contact them to talk with people and study them. Itās actually all pretty above board over there.
I mean believe it or not, not my issue, but look into CNC itās a lot more common than people think, especially in women. You can go onto any kink site and find people into it. Itās not my job to convince you or to defend them but itās definitely worth a look before writing off the group completely.
That sub is an awesome source of drama. You sometimes get posters who confuse it for /r/rape and ask actual advice. Few weeks ago I linked to a girl who had a huge rape kink, proceeded to get raped (on purpose) and was traumatized by it.
(Leaving now for my job. I drive an Ice Cream Truck, and today's gonna be a Hot One! BUT, I'll be back later this afternoon or this evening to answer all your questions, if there are any. So AMA!)
PS. It's "ALLEGEDLY anally raped his ex GF". Who chose NOT to report it to the authorities. May she rest in peace.
I drink my drink and I don't even want to
I think my thoughts when I don't even need to
I never look back 'cause I don't even want to
And I don't need toā¦Because she is dead!
As stated in the original post, it's a throwaway account for obvious reasons. And even then, there are people all over the redditsphere who want to sic the cops on me. So hell no, I didn't use my real account or real ISP. Duh!
116 comments
1 SnapshillBot 2018-05-25
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1 JumbledFun 2018-05-25
this time i wish you didn't grab it in time snappy
1 Byroms 2018-05-25
Wtf, seriously.
1 LivefromPhoenix 2018-05-25
I was only born in 2016, can anyone confirm whether or not rape was legal 20 years ago?
1 NotGonnaCooment 2018-05-25
Wow, today's youth is really inspiring ššš
1 IAintThatGuy 2018-05-25
I hope it was legal, or else I'm at risk for a bit of #metoo
1 RoyalEmotion 2018-05-25
in muslim countries, yes.
1 IAintThatGuy 2018-05-25
No. It's very illegal. Getting raped usually carries a death sentence for the victim.
1 RoyalEmotion 2018-05-25
exactly
1 OnlyRacistOnReddit 2018-05-25
And hi fives for the perps.
1 grungebot5000 2018-05-25
high fives are westernshit and you know it
1 OnlyRacistOnReddit 2018-05-25
True, but I don't know what the middle east's version of the high five is.
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-05-25
Mashallah
1 OnlyRacistOnReddit 2018-05-25
How do you mashallah?
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-05-25
You just say mashallah, in general at the end of a phrase.
Exemple :
"Good job, mashallah"
1 OnlyRacistOnReddit 2018-05-25
Well that's not fun at all.
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-05-25
American are very touchy feely. Most other cultures dislike skin contact unless you are familly.
1 OnlyRacistOnReddit 2018-05-25
I wouldn't go as far as saying most. Many are, but plenty aren't.
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-05-25
Italian don't count. :^)
1 OnlyRacistOnReddit 2018-05-25
What about Spaniards, Scotts, Australians and Greeks?
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-05-25
Greek are basically shorter, uglier italian.
Spanish are not very huggy either.
And australians barely count as human beings.
1 grungebot5000 2018-05-25
they are not a fun people. thatās why they all move drugs even though the Prophet forbade it- gotta deal with it somehow.
1 ffbtaw 2018-05-25
Seems a bit heretical.
1 JumbledFun 2018-05-25
oof
1 ANexGFdiedRECENTLY 2018-05-25
Well, things really were different, back in the day.
1 comebepc 2018-05-25
It's only illegal if you get caught
1 Write-Or-Die 2018-05-25
Marital rape was only outlawed in every state in 93'. Hell, Trump's lawyer in the 80s used it not being illegal as a defense against one of his ex-wife's rape accusations in court.
1 pm_me_ur_cats_toes 2018-05-25
Whelp.
1 Feanorfanclub 2018-05-25
This definitely sounds like it happened
1 pitterpatterwater 2018-05-25
Ed_IRL.
1 TaylorSwiftOfRdrama 2018-05-25
tbh Ed seems to weak and feeble to be able to properly rape someone. The only way he/she/they can rape is with emojis.
1 sooth_ 2018-05-25
and they say romance is dead
1 ANexGFdiedRECENTLY 2018-05-25
I got the idea from a Hallmark Card.
1 modsarethebest 2018-05-25
the FBI should follow up on those guys
1 IAintThatGuy 2018-05-25
I think most of the poster there are men pretending to be women, women who had actual trauma and confusing that place with /r/rape, and some legit sick fucks who rape people IRL. Any law enforcement looking into those users will probably have a productive day.
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
Most the people there are actually people into consensual non consent and people that want to talk about their experiences without people feeling bad for them or looking at them like a victim. Itās actually a pretty nice place and very few people there are actually rapey creeps. Those that are, like this guy, get called out pretty quick.
The closest thing to illegal there are the rape baiters who like to put themselves in dangerous situations to try to get raped. Even then itās hard to say the legality on that since both sides are into it even though no consent was given. Personally I find that sub section kinda iffy but I donāt think that theyāre criminals.
This guy talking about raping his ex is the outlier. Honestly most of it is CNC advice requests, stories of traumatic events and how they have effected people both positively and negatively, stories of CNC experiences, and rape based fiction. Personally it all fascinates me, theyāve even had actual health care professionals contact them to talk with people and study them. Itās actually all pretty above board over there.
1 jewdanksdad 2018-05-25
Go rape elsewhere, pedo
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
Love how you instantly assume pedo despite there being no evidence of that. Infact underaged people are not allowed on rapekink.
Besides how do you know which side of the kink Iām on, maybe Iām on the victim side, or a switch.
1 rationalhuckleberry 2018-05-25
āOk Iām done being nonconsensually / consensually raped. My turn!ā
I just love when people find out that agreeing in advance to something is not legally consenting. Yāall are one hookup from prison.
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
Called safewords and covering your ass. There are precautions you can take and most people donāt do CNC with a first date. Some do but most donāt.
1 rationalhuckleberry 2018-05-25
Covering your ass how?
If the DA knocks on your door and starts asking questions whatās your plan?
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
Tell them the truth, Iāve done nothing wrong and hurt no one, there are no victims produced by me and point them towards CNC information
1 rationalhuckleberry 2018-05-25
CNC is not legally permissible bub.
https://www.canlii.org/en/on/onca/doc/2010/2010onca226/2010onca226.html
That's the closest it's ever gotten and even the leafs said, "lol, fuck that."
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
Itās not consensual if sheās unconscious, that was the issue there. You canāt consent to things if you arenāt aware of them, you are unable to say no in that scenario so itās an automatic no.
Cnc doesnāt mean sheās unconscious. Itās basically rough sex and acting. Neither of which is illegal.
Sleep play and the like are illegal
1 rationalhuckleberry 2018-05-25
Yep, and if she has a ton of bruises and goes to the police, enjoy playing that game. "She consented officer! I'm just really into consensual nonconsent! She was acting out her fantasy!"
"Did you say nonconsent?"
"Just acting, I swear!"
"Cool, coolcoolcool. This is Bubba, your new cellmate. He's also into nonconsent."
1 mcslibbin 2018-05-25
....you dont have a lot of sex, eh?
1 rationalhuckleberry 2018-05-25
Iām married, that joke writes itself.
Seriously I donāt get the kink and wonāt even pretend to try. It seems like a really shit plan though. I could see someone saying after the fact they might have wanted some parts but not all parts, ergo sexual assault.
1 mcslibbin 2018-05-25
well it's definitely not something you do with strangers, in my experience.
1 rationalhuckleberry 2018-05-25
Wellllll you say that.
The case name is evading my mind but look up the Canadian case on āMā (womanās name omitted for privacy). Itās notable for hitting Canadaās high court. Hubby and wifey play rape game, she goes āuhhh too far on that rape fantasy I had.ā And hubby goes to jail. Court goes, ācanāt consent to not consent. Trololol.ā
In the US I sincerely doubt it would even come close to going as far as the Canadian case went. Weāre a bit stricter on crimlaw and less sexually liberal.
BDSM practitioners play with fire in some of their more entertaining games. Itās one regret away from state sponsored bracelets.
1 TaylorSwiftOfRdrama 2018-05-25
still a degenerate regardless
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
Why? All it is is rough sex and acting?
1 jewdanksdad 2018-05-25
You are most definitely on the rape side. Post history confirms it
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
Nope, switch
1 joost1991 2018-05-25
Heās also defending a chomo in another thread. His entire post history is starting empty arguments. I think this person is a troll.
1 xoiz 2018-05-25
Fixed.
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
Naw the āincelsā actually hate rapekink because they just want real rape
1 IAintThatGuy 2018-05-25
Of course most of the people there are harmless, or pretending. But all it takes is a dozen of sick fucks reading stories about women "rape baiting" and then convincing themselves the girl they like is actually doing it to them.
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
Oh yeah I agree. I said legally it was complicated because both people are consenting but neither party gives consent. So depending on your definition that may or may not be rape. That being said the aggressor never knows if sheās actually into it or not so regardless the aggressor is still a rapist even if that incident wasnāt rape because as far as the aggressor is concerned it is rape.
1 IAintThatGuy 2018-05-25
Subreddits get closed for less. Only a tiny minority of incels will turn into homicidal freaks, but /r/incels still got closed when they suggested a dude castrate his roommate.
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
The difference here is that incels was encouraging violence on others and most the people in that sub agreed.
Rapekink is a lot smaller sub, itās not encouraging violence on others (unless you have their consent) and is not actively brigading other subreddits to spew their hate and encouragement. Itās small, mostly self contained, and even in the case of its own members it discourages risky behavior or gives less risky alternatives. Plus they self police and shut down actual rapists like OP.
1 IAintThatGuy 2018-05-25
It's all fun and games until someone gets raped because some psycho spent 8 hours reading through your sub...
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
Reading something doesnāt turn you into a rapist and if he actually read the sub it discourages rape.
1 IAintThatGuy 2018-05-25
Yeah that 1 post in 1000 you can use to soothe your conscience might not register as strongly with rapists.
1 Gryzblyxx 2018-05-25
You admit that it encourages violence
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
No itās encouraging consenting rough sex and role play
1 Gryzblyxx 2018-05-25
You literally refer to it as violence yourself lol
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
Violence with consent is basically spanking. Is spanking a grown consenting adult a crime? How about throwing them on a bed? Or pulling their hair?
1 Gryzblyxx 2018-05-25
Violence with consent is not basically spanking
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
But would you classify any of the things I mentioned as real violence?
1 Gryzblyxx 2018-05-25
I didnāt you did- but this isnāt what you were arguing about, was it?
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
What Iām saying is, the violence that cnc people are usually consenting too is the nerf version of real sexual violence. Itās violence with safe guards and rules. Itās violence in the same ways sports are violence.
1 Gryzblyxx 2018-05-25
So you continue to define it as violence- interesting
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
I never said it wasnāt violence, I claimed it wasnāt the same as rape.
Can a person consent to a wrestling match? Can they consent to play football? Can they consent to be spanked?
1 Gryzblyxx 2018-05-25
Can I consent out of talking to a creep like you?
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
How am I a creep. I respect consent, Iād never force anyone to have sex with me, Iād never hurt anyone more than they literally tell me (with words) that they want to be hurt.
Iām a creep because I like rough sex and acting? Ok I guess everyone that doesnāt like missionary for the sole purpose of procreation is a creep.
1 shallowm 2018-05-25
Reddit banned /r/SanctionedSuicide because they were "encouraging violence" against themselves. People who commit suicide usually consent to themselves, you know.
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
Except in the United States at least you canāt consent to death, which is why doctor assisted suicide is still federally illegal
1 shallowm 2018-05-25
hahahahaha how the fuck is consenting to yourself even real š like nigga you just raped yourself ššš
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
You were the one that said consenting to yourself lol
1 falselyclever 2018-05-25
So basically, itās the subās and OPās fault and not the actual rapistās fault. Delightful.
1 IAintThatGuy 2018-05-25
Isn't it the same excuse used to close any sub ever?
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
Most the people there are actually people into consensual non consent and people that want to talk about their experiences without people feeling bad for them or looking at them like a victim. Itās actually a pretty nice place and very few people there are actually rapey creeps. Those that are, like this guy, get called out pretty quick.
The closest thing to illegal there are the rape baiters who like to put themselves in dangerous situations to try to get raped. Even then itās hard to say the legality on that since both sides are into it even though no consent was given. Personally I find that sub section kinda iffy but I donāt think that theyāre criminals.
This guy talking about raping his ex is the outlier. Honestly most of it is CNC advice requests, stories of traumatic events and how they have effected people both positively and negatively, stories of CNC experiences, and rape based fiction. Personally it all fascinates me, theyāve even had actual health care professionals contact them to talk with people and study them. Itās actually all pretty above board over there.
1 modsarethebest 2018-05-25
uhu sure
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
I mean believe it or not, not my issue, but look into CNC itās a lot more common than people think, especially in women. You can go onto any kink site and find people into it. Itās not my job to convince you or to defend them but itās definitely worth a look before writing off the group completely.
1 grungebot5000 2018-05-25
acting during sex sounds emotionally exhausting
1 Human-Sexuality 2018-05-25
People role play during sex all the time
1 HINDBRAIN 2018-05-25
If you can do naughty teacher why not go the extra mile and do Gigadik, Grand Penetrator of the Galactic Rapelord?
1 reallyrunningnow 2018-05-25
Wow... I'm speechless...
1 Thiapimios 2018-05-25
tbh, being literally struggle snuggled (not what in insinuates) sounds really appealing.
1 fsdgfhk 2018-05-25
Even by the standards of those "am totes gril" subs like rapekink and r/stupidsluts, that story is fake as fuck.
1 BrawndoTTM 2018-05-25
Iām like 99% sure this guy is trolling
1 MG87 2018-05-25
It has everything a troll
1 Rambo1stBlood 2018-05-25
Is there a chance this guy just wrote this as a fantasy? Like he wishes this happened so he could be some "powerful rapist" who "got away with it" ?
It's just so self aware, but also so fucked up.
1 Osterion 2018-05-25
Like a 95% chance
1 Yiin 2018-05-25
So uh, what were you doing there?
1 IAintThatGuy 2018-05-25
That sub is an awesome source of drama. You sometimes get posters who confuse it for /r/rape and ask actual advice. Few weeks ago I linked to a girl who had a huge rape kink, proceeded to get raped (on purpose) and was traumatized by it.
1 Yiin 2018-05-25
Sorry to break the news, but that wasn't a few weeks ago.
1 IAintThatGuy 2018-05-25
3 months.
https://www.reddit.com/r/Drama/comments/7wm68o/rrapekink_lurker_and_her_bf_decide_to_give_it_a/
1 shallowm 2018-05-25
How does that even happen? The word "kink" is right there in the sub's name.
1 IAintThatGuy 2018-05-25
Turns out women who get raped IRL and then turn to Reddit for advice aren't the smartest ones to begin with, and some don't speak perfect English.
1 32624647 2018-05-25
Imagine being this good at verbally digging up your own grave. FBI's gonna be banging at his door aaaaaany minute now...
1 ANexGFdiedRECENTLY 2018-05-25
You know the FBI investigates FEDERAL crimes, right? So unless this incident took place in a national forest, they probably aren't interested.
1 soupvsjonez 2018-05-25
Wow. So that's a sub.
1 ANexGFdiedRECENTLY 2018-05-25
OP Here. AMA.
(Leaving now for my job. I drive an Ice Cream Truck, and today's gonna be a Hot One! BUT, I'll be back later this afternoon or this evening to answer all your questions, if there are any. So AMA!)
PS. It's "ALLEGEDLY anally raped his ex GF". Who chose NOT to report it to the authorities. May she rest in peace.
1 IAintThatGuy 2018-05-25
Thank you for your service.
1 ANexGFdiedRECENTLY 2018-05-25
Er, You're welcome.
1 ahbslldud 2018-05-25
It's not alleged given that you literally admitted to it, shit-for-brains.
1 ANexGFdiedRECENTLY 2018-05-25
When you admit something in a joking manner to a specific person just to make them smile, it's not exactly the same as an indictment and conviction.
1 ahbslldud 2018-05-25
But you also just admitted it to us with your post.
1 ANexGFdiedRECENTLY 2018-05-25
Naw. I said "Alleged anal rape".
1 ahbslldud 2018-05-25
You can say alleged, but it doesn't negate the blatant admission
1 SonyXboxNintendo11 2018-05-25
I drink my drink and I don't even want to I think my thoughts when I don't even need to I never look back 'cause I don't even want to And I don't need toā¦Because she is dead!
1 Jackdom95 2018-05-25
taking bait this hard
1 ANexGFdiedRECENTLY 2018-05-25
As stated in the original post, it's a throwaway account for obvious reasons. And even then, there are people all over the redditsphere who want to sic the cops on me. So hell no, I didn't use my real account or real ISP. Duh!
1 AlphaOmegaSith 2018-05-25
/u/ANexGFdiedRECENTLY
Says he's grieving his ex but then says he's happy she's dead?
Want some advice? Here's some advice, draw a hot bath, grab a nice sharp razor blade or scalpel and go down the road on both arms up to the shoulder.
If you're a troll, do better. If you're being honest hurry up and draw that bath.
1 Mircy 2018-05-25
you can't tell people to kill themselves that's against reddit's hurt-feelings rules
do it again and i'll ban you
1 AlphaOmegaSith 2018-05-25
Ok :(
1 TruthPains 2018-05-25
fake. Look at all his comments, all edgy and specifically said to get a rise.
Seriously, this shit screams bait.