So this whole thing begins with my now ex best friend.

We had a crazy one-year biseuxal relationship, but it got to us..

I introduced him to all of my friends. When I knew the relationship is going to end badly I kinda asked him not to hang out with them. He was super angry, even though he told me many times not to talk to certain people from his social circle and I always respected that.

Now he only hangs out with my friend group, even though we broke up. I wouldnt even give a shit, but some of my friends suddenly stopped calling me and when I see them the wibe is all weird. I feel they are plotting against me with my ex being the "leader".

Something simmilar happened to me before, so I know what the outcome will be.

So what will I do?

Once I've concluded that they really are plotting, I will be extra friendly and kind to them more than they deserve. Now, that's me plotting goodness towards them!

People feel awful when realizing they were talking shit about a good person. Specially when they get free food and festival tickets. ;) Wait for the moment they are broke. Be chill about buying lunch for the ones that go crazy if you owe them a few cents.

Be confident, chill and a good person, even if that means having some self control for the next few months. Try to get into the right mindset and you will attract people with your energy.

Get them to love you and then you control the situation.

This works if you do it without looking desperate, just keep it spontageous. Dont try too hard, but be prepared for the right moment.