I don't give a fuck how much you call your flimsy delusions "enlightenment." There is no amount of ceaseless self-deception that will make you accept the charred hellscape of being a miserable useless destitute fucking junkie piece of shit. You know what you are, and it is deeply ugly on every level.
Only because it takes 3 months to test clear. I don't know what other people's relationship are like, but she won't wait that long... And I don't blame her. Kinda why I think it would be best to just act sick for another week and make sure she gets one more depo shot before things go back to the way they were.
They don't hate kids, they just don't want them. They're keeping people that don't want kids out of the gene pool, which helps humanity. How dumb are you?
I am an extremely active person with lots of hobbies
haha, yes.
But really he should tell her. If she really doesn't want to have kids it shouldn't bother her. If she does and he doesn't tell her he's just being an asshole and they're not long-term compatible anyway and should break up soon rather than later.
if it's clear to him that she wants kids it would make sense to also assume she knows that he doesn't, unless she's retarded, so this move should not surprise her at all
If a couple becomes pregnant, and she decides she wants an abortion, she's under no legal obligation to inform him of that pregnancy. She can book the procedure without his legal consent, she can go have the procedure without his knowledge, anonymously, and he'll never know. Thousands of women do this a year, and their husbands or boyfriends or lovers are totally unaware that they had a pregnancy scare.
Sure, it would be honorable for her to tell him, but even if she did inform him, he cannot affect the outcome. All she really gives that man by informing him is the chance to make an educated decision on whether to continue in the relationship, knowing what his partner is like.
How is what this dude is doing any different from this?
He's still going to get a medical procedure he's 100% legally entitled to perform on himself, and he's under no legal obligation to tell her he's getting it, either. Again, the only reason for him to do so is if he wants to be honorable, and if he decides to wait until after the procedure is done, so there's no chance for her to possibly undermine it, she'll have exactly the same options available to her as those men would, in return.
She won't be able to affect the outcome, and the information will only allow her an educated decision on whether to continue in the relationship, knowing what her partner is like. She has the same situation as every man who has EVER faced an abortion situation.
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1 SnapshillBot 2018-06-05
I don't give a fuck how much you call your flimsy delusions "enlightenment." There is no amount of ceaseless self-deception that will make you accept the charred hellscape of being a miserable useless destitute fucking junkie piece of shit. You know what you are, and it is deeply ugly on every level.
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1 Ed_ButteredToast 2018-06-05
/u/havinit
tell her, (assuming she doesn't break up) don't have sex till you snip. Why not go this route? You're being honest and getting the snippy snip.
1 havinit 2018-06-05
Only because it takes 3 months to test clear. I don't know what other people's relationship are like, but she won't wait that long... And I don't blame her. Kinda why I think it would be best to just act sick for another week and make sure she gets one more depo shot before things go back to the way they were.
1 normie_girI 2018-06-05
Your body, your choice, mate.
Best of luck /u/ havinit
1 Oh_hamburgers_ 2018-06-05
Well of course, just tell the girl you've been with for over a year rather than being shady about it.
1 modsarethebest 2018-06-05
did you seriously forget about
S P E R M J A C K I N G
?
1 voicelesshoodwinker 2018-06-05
Of course they do😒
1 mohkohnsepicgun 2018-06-05
r/childfree are still better than r/dogfree.
At least they don't fantasize about killing babies.
1 the_psycho_watch 2018-06-05
1 Kahina91 2018-06-05
They do, in my ricebowl
1 justchillouteveryone 2018-06-05
Hating dogs is not nearly as bad as hating kids. There’s something definitely wrong with r/childfree people
1 RedPillHero 2018-06-05
They don't hate kids, they just don't want them. They're keeping people that don't want kids out of the gene pool, which helps humanity. How dumb are you?
1 justchillouteveryone 2018-06-05
Umm, is this a different r/childfree?
1 part-time-stupid 2018-06-05
Not all. Some hate kids. Others love kids, as long as they can send them back to their parents. Others could not care less.
1 ffbtaw 2018-06-05
Has anyone from /r/dogfree actually killed a dog though?
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-06-05
haha, yes.
But really he should tell her. If she really doesn't want to have kids it shouldn't bother her. If she does and he doesn't tell her he's just being an asshole and they're not long-term compatible anyway and should break up soon rather than later.
1 movielover2018 2018-06-05
i agree
1 TheLordHighExecu 2018-06-05
Did he tell his girlfriend about the doctor who snipped his brain?
1 d-amazo 2018-06-05
if it's clear to him that she wants kids it would make sense to also assume she knows that he doesn't, unless she's retarded, so this move should not surprise her at all
1 movielover2018 2018-06-05
YOUR BODY YOUR CHOICE
1 Calliopenis 2018-06-05
I really don't see the problem with this.
If a couple becomes pregnant, and she decides she wants an abortion, she's under no legal obligation to inform him of that pregnancy. She can book the procedure without his legal consent, she can go have the procedure without his knowledge, anonymously, and he'll never know. Thousands of women do this a year, and their husbands or boyfriends or lovers are totally unaware that they had a pregnancy scare.
Sure, it would be honorable for her to tell him, but even if she did inform him, he cannot affect the outcome. All she really gives that man by informing him is the chance to make an educated decision on whether to continue in the relationship, knowing what his partner is like.
How is what this dude is doing any different from this?
He's still going to get a medical procedure he's 100% legally entitled to perform on himself, and he's under no legal obligation to tell her he's getting it, either. Again, the only reason for him to do so is if he wants to be honorable, and if he decides to wait until after the procedure is done, so there's no chance for her to possibly undermine it, she'll have exactly the same options available to her as those men would, in return.
She won't be able to affect the outcome, and the information will only allow her an educated decision on whether to continue in the relationship, knowing what her partner is like. She has the same situation as every man who has EVER faced an abortion situation.