"I was called a bitch, a slut, a whore, the n-word, and I was told that gender equality was never going to exist, I should kill myself, and that I should suck every one of their dicks for "carrying me.""

86 2018-07-13 by OddSandwich

123 comments

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1 bobbybonnadouchey 2018-07-13

Tbh it's 2018, who the hell is still playing overwatch?

1 OddSandwich 2018-07-13

Gender equality will never exist. Stay away from OUR game.

1 im-a-koala 2018-07-13

I do.

Please don't kinkshame.

1 bobbybonnadouchey 2018-07-13

Cucked drama mods banned me for being man last time.

So this time I'll call you a hopeless neet.

Get a job you hippie!

1 im-a-koala 2018-07-13

Oh I don't post in /r/overwatch, they're all much more retarded than the actual people who play the game.

1 Yiin 2018-07-13

What do you have to do to be banned? I got bored of pinging the /r/drama mods

1 bobbybonnadouchey 2018-07-13

You gotta tell someone to keep themselves safe.

1 Yiin 2018-07-13

😅

1 G_reth 2018-07-13

Submit a post with a np link.

1 Yiin 2018-07-13

If there were a list of the dumbest ideas that redditors have come up with, np would be at the tippy top. On the other hand force subscribing people--because the admins are very thorough workers--to the beta and redesign list sounds hilarious.

1 Ed_BotteredToast 2018-07-13

NP was not made by admins, but some user idea enforced by some moderators.

1 Fletch71011 2018-07-13

They're putting it on ESPN now.

1 bobbybonnadouchey 2018-07-13

Even more reason not to play Overwatch.

1 Phantom_Engineer 2018-07-13

Cable is dead.

1 cheeZetoastee 2018-07-13

I guess Sports Shouting ratings are down

1 mcslibbin 2018-07-13

Is this 30 rock?

1 aqouta 2018-07-13

I've been on espn for heroes of the storm before, it means nothing.

1 TransexualWiener 2018-07-13

it's still extremely popular and they still release new characters for it on a regular basis. it's not going anywhere for quite a while.

1 bobbybonnadouchey 2018-07-13

Does your mom know you are autistic?

1 TransexualWiener 2018-07-13

i don't play overwatch, i was just informing you of why it's not absurd to be still playing it, it's still "trending".

1 EasySchmitty 2018-07-13

Huh, seems pretty late for their weekly DUDE SEXISM IN OVERWATCH LMAO threads

I stand my ground that overwatch is he worst g*ming community

1 3E4K3RWRGZPR970NVH28 2018-07-13

All gaming communities are the worst gaming communities.

1 Fletch71011 2018-07-13

I don't even think it's sexism. Every community is filled with assholes. If you're sick of 12 year olds telling you they fucked your mom while simultaneously telling you to blow them, just fucking mute them or play in private parties. It's not that hard.

1 SlowFatHusky 2018-07-13

It's a Blizzard multiplayer game. Of course the community is going to become awful eventually. WoW's community would still be more toxic if more people were playing it.

I noticed she took the least offense to her greatest offense. You can call me any name in the book and I'll either ignore you or do shit passive aggressively. But if you claim to be carrying me, them's fighting words. Since it wasn't that offensive to her, she probably was being carried.

1 dootwiththesickness 2018-07-13

What is it with neckbeards and Blizzard? Blizzard games also have the weirdest fucking fan art and I swear there’s got to be a connection.

1 SlowFatHusky 2018-07-13

Blizzard games didn't have a high barrier for entry and the riff raff could easily play. The hardware requirements were kept low too, which encouraged even more bad players to join in.

1 dootwiththesickness 2018-07-13

Is “bad players” a nice way of saying “Brazilians?”

1 SlowFatHusky 2018-07-13

They were mostly contained to their own servers like Oceania. They would be included in the "bad players" group.

1 automatic_chuck 2018-07-13

😂😂😂 CSS FAGS 😂😂😂

1 automatic_chuck 2018-07-13

1 Twistandshooter 2018-07-13

Nice.

1 automatic_chuck 2018-07-13

😘

1 jaredschaffer27 2018-07-13

You've done me a grave disservice.

1 automatic_chuck 2018-07-13

Do your part to keep our community healthy by blowing everything out of proportion and making literally everything as dramatic as possible.

😎😎😎

1 HagenKopter 2018-07-13

This is so retarded that it is almost impressive.

1 Burnnoticelover 2018-07-13

I’ve seen a lot more Nintendo neckbeards than Blizzard neckbeards, but maybe that’s just me.

1 loli_esports 2018-07-13

would not be surprised if blizz banned you for not communicating with the team

1 Wolfgang7990 2018-07-13

League of Legends community is pretty godawful.

1 Dolphin_McRibs 2018-07-13

Yea, I was about to say, this guys never played league.

1 otherwiseyep 2018-07-13

Gamers are worse than anime tbqh

1 serial_crusher 2018-07-13

Let me guess how this conversation went.

Teammate: "Dude, you should do this instead of that."

Strong WOC: "I am not a dude. I am a Strong Woman of Colour, and I resent your white heteropatriarchal assumption that I'm a man!"
Other teammate: "Yeesh, calm down lady."

Srong WOC: "What?! 'Lady'?!?!?! Is that all I am to you, reduced to my gender?!"

Teammates, in unison: "Ugh. Let's just say mean things to her until she leaves."

1 wwyzzerdd 2018-07-13

Probably not.

But it doesn't matter, all /u/cpokwdwh needs to remember is when they go in on her hard, question their penis size.

All you have to do is keep repeating how they have baby dicks and they'll lose their fucking minds. If they try and come back hard with more whore/slut/dick sucking you just keep riffing on micro dicks... "I can't suck your dick cuz I can't find it."

The dudes playing Overwatch, and on a wider scale, dudes talking stupid shit on vidya are always insecure about their sexual prowess, always.

1 revofire 2018-07-13

Hardly, I can shit talk all day and when someone tries with some weak ass shit such as you've suggested, I'll double down and rape you with your own words.

1 kippot 2018-07-13

Wew lad, are you a big strongly man?

1 revofire 2018-07-13

No my dick is pretty small tbh. Send help.

1 Goatsac 2018-07-13

No my dick is pretty small tbh. Send help.

So was that one rapist dude they just caught. East Area Rapist.

Don't let anything hold you back from your dreams.

1 revofire 2018-07-13

I don't know who or where, but I'm sure you're well acquainted with your friends so I won't stop ya from associating. White knighting and rape goes hand in hand you know, the statistics show.

1 Goatsac 2018-07-13

Did you send that to the wrong person?

1 revofire 2018-07-13

Oh hells yeah. White knights are detrimental to everything, prove me wrong.

1 Goatsac 2018-07-13

Why prove you wrong, I agree.

The only thing creepier than a white knight is a male feminist.

1 revofire 2018-07-13

Oh shit, now I might like you. This isn't good.

1 alphetasauce 2018-07-13

Was that an example of you raping with words?

1 dootwiththesickness 2018-07-13

Do me next u/revofire, do me!

1 revofire 2018-07-13

Oh aren't you an excited little one. (;

1 dootwiththesickness 2018-07-13

Was that it?

1 revofire 2018-07-13

You'll have to wait a while before that happens.

1 revofire 2018-07-13

No, this isn't even my final form.

1 22333444455555666666 2018-07-13

someone actually trying to brag about how edgy their autistic spergout in a video game is

1 revofire 2018-07-13

I don't know what you're trying to imply but I like it, let's go.

1 wwyzzerdd 2018-07-13

No you wont. Much like your baby dick and balls your words are ineffective.

1 Awayfone 2018-07-13

More effective than that weak "just spam small dick" advice

1 wwyzzerdd 2018-07-13

^ found another micro peen.

ProTip - Squat to pee, it'll keep your shirt dry.

1 revofire 2018-07-13

1v1 me, you wanna take this outside?

1 imissyouseattle 2018-07-13

Guys this works, trust me.

1 allendrio 2018-07-13

It does you are just used to /r/drama levels of bants where the average persons ability to bant is equal to pizzashill posting a picture of himself with a gross ass mustache.

I used to make south east asians go fucking insane in dota 2 saying pretty basic your mom insults whenever they called mine a dog because that seems to be their only insult.

1 istural 2018-07-13

We have the best bantz here.

1 jaja10 2018-07-13

you sound autistic.

1 Denny_Craine 2018-07-13

OP actually said she was white

1 morbidru 2018-07-13

or it never happend and she is just looking for attention... would be the first time women make these kinds of stuff up..

but it could also be true.. its about 50/50 chance in my opinion

1 ThiccChampa 2018-07-13

There is no chance this happened

1 Honk4Tits 2018-07-13

Wow the really cringe is the thirsty gamers white knighting here creepily. Calling her lovely and sweetheart.

1 le_epic_xd 2018-07-13

Never downplay the thirstyness of a Overwatch player

1 aef823 2018-07-13

Huge amounts of salt usually means big thirst.

1 JustAThrowaway4563 2018-07-13

We're not all that bad. Unrelatedly what are you doing tonight?

1 Elite_AI 2018-07-13

My gf (male) (it's you)

1 Nopepole 2018-07-13

Never downplay the thirstyness of a vidya player

1 OniTan 2018-07-13

It's amazing. One girl can turn a group full of nerds into woman hating incels and white knighting niceguys, and she doesn't even have to be present. Her voice or even just mentioning her gender over text is enough.

1 voicelesshoodwinker 2018-07-13

I will ask this again - does mute and block features exist in Overwatch?

1 revofire 2018-07-13

They should use it on her.

1 KingNothing305 2018-07-13

Yes. But I guess it's difficult for women to navigate a menu and find it.

1 Kuonji 2018-07-13

I don't really get that. The minute someone starts mouthing off I just mute them, unless I find it funny. It's easy, it's permanent, and it lets me get back playing the game.

1 chumthescrubber 2018-07-13

Yeah in the post she said she could've, but she'd still know they what they were saying and thinking.

1 zergling_Lester 2018-07-13

but she'd still know they what they were saying and thinking.

We need some sort of police that can stop people from thinking wrong things.

1 constantinople_2053 2018-07-13

🤔🔫🚨👮‍♀️👮‍♀️🚨

⚰

🎉🎉🌈👭👭🌈🎉

1 kippot 2018-07-13

Gamercide when

1 bobbybonnadouchey 2018-07-13

Shouldn't you be playing UnderRail?

1 kippot 2018-07-13

Uhh

1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-07-13

Further proof we need to get rid of all nerds. The female ones too, they're obnoxious.

1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-07-13

Gamer aren't nerds. Gamers are the only human category inferior to nerds.

1 orangetato 2018-07-13

Just so happens that 99% of nerds are also ganers

1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-07-13

You are allowed to be wrong, famalama

1 Nopepole 2018-07-13

Motha fucka over here wearin' Jordan's to a MTG tournament 🤣

1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-07-13

First of all, I only wear bluchers.

1 yourdeadwife 2018-07-13

I agree

1 astrometrics2 2018-07-13

"and that I should suck every one of their dicks for 'carrying me'"

This is literally my biggest fantasy. Why can this never happen to me instead of some ungrateful privileged cis person...

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1 a_jill_sandwich 2018-07-13

/r/thathappened. Overwatch is a ban-happy game, no one ever says shit on there anymore.

Also all of those wankers are playing Fortnite instead now anyway.

1 [deleted] 2018-07-13

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1 saddertadder 2018-07-13

Put the long island ice tea down dude

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1 Cybot_G 2018-07-13

If it's only once a week, that's a massive improvement from their earlier days.

But they remain as goldmines, so it's probably still once every other day.

1 Boxonta 2018-07-13

Inb4 overwatch mercy main

1 LickMyElbowItsACOCK 2018-07-13

I bet the op of that post is trans.

MtF and White to Black.

1 saddertadder 2018-07-13

I feel like some troll posts these to illicit an outrage and create content for us all

1 Mao_Zedong_Thot 2018-07-13

No sort of equality will ever exist, except for an approximation of equality under the law. How does this manage to escape people?

1 Mao_Zedong_Thot 2018-07-13

Is Overwatch a version of "Team Fortress" but for genderpeople?

1 OniTan 2018-07-13

Yup. Basically SJW Fortress 2.

1 TransexualWiener 2018-07-13

team fortress = all male characters, every single one spawning hilarious memes, cool hats, no one whining

overwatch = 70% thot characters, no cool hats, can't think of any memes, constantly women whining about how mean people are

1 XhotwheelsloverX 2018-07-13

Let’s Call Female Online Harassment What It Really Is: Terrorism A few months ago I was on television speaking about rape culture. It was shortly after the allegations against Jian Ghomeshi had come to light, and I was part of a panel discussing sexual assault and violence against women. I made sure to keep what I was saying was pretty basic—not too radical, and completely based on easily available statistics. I wasn't in "angry feminist" mode; I was more like "nice girl on TV who maybe smiles too much." I was aiming to came across as likable and reasonable.

Later, the television program uploaded the segment to YouTube. The first comment was a man saying that I deserved to be raped.

I wish I would tell you that this comment was some kind of anomaly, but of course it wasn't. Rape threats, death threats, and general threats of violence populate my inbox, Twitter mentions, and blog comments. I've had people target my family—one popular tactic is to threaten to report me to Children's Aid as an abusive parent.

What makes these incidents even worse is just how common they are, not only for me, but for any woman who speaks out or takes up space, especially on the internet

"Men in formal and informal networks are engaging in targeted speech with the express intention of silencing women," says professor Joanne St. Lewis, member of the faculty of law at the University of Ottawa and lecturer at the University of Southern California CREATE Homeland Security Center of Excellence Executive Program on Counter-Terrorism. "They are not willing to subject their ideas to the challenges posed by women's advocacy. Instead, they target and intimidate women."

They target and intimidate women with the express intention of silencing them. These attacks aren't just "trolling." They aren't people just randomly lashing out. They sure as hell aren't simple expressions of "freedom of speech."

We need to start calling things by their real names. This is gender terrorism.

A terrorist is, by definition, someone who uses violence or threats of violence in order to intimidate or coerce. With that in mind, these men are textbook terrorists.

In an era where the word "terrorist" is so frequently used to describe certain types of violence that the BBC recently warned its staff to use "careful thought" when deploying the term, it seems unbelievable that people continue to be reticent about applying it to the online abuse and targeting of women.

Says St. Lewis, "It might initially seem that referring to the online speech targeting and silencing of women as terrorism is overblown. However, these attacks are having real-time impact on the lives of individual women activists and result in preemptive censorship, by the women initially targeted and other women, to avoid further attack. This is limiting our ability to advance our rights, shape our activism, and participate in democratic policy-making processes."

This past year has offered plenty of evidence of the real-life consequences of this type of online harassment.

At the height of GamerGate, game developer Brianna Wu was advised by the police that she should leave her home after receiving repeated and detailed threats against herself and her family. She recently tweeted that she has received 45 serious death threats.

A talk by media critic Anita Sarkeesian at Utah State University had to be cancelled after someone threatened to carry out a "Montreal Massacre–style attack" (a reference to the 1989 murder of 14 women Montreal's École Polytechnique); Sarkeesian has also been driven from her home at several points.

Firefly alum and noted anti-feminist Adam Baldwin circulated videos whose comments contained doxxing of Zoe Quinn, the game developer at the center of the GamerGate conspiracy theories, making it necessary for Quinn to (you guessed it) flee her home.

When Model View Culture founder Shanley Kane criticized the Linux community for their ongoing support of one of their leaders, a man with a long history of abusive and oppressive behavior, the home addresses of every member of her immediate family were published online. Kane herself received thousands of threats of violence, rape, and death.

Writers and activists Feminista Jones, Sydette, Pia Glenn, and Imani Gandy all recently spoke out in an article for Alternet about the gendered, racist abuse black women face on twitter just for black women in a public space.

These examples are only the tiniest slice of the violent harassment women face online. These are only the biggest, most egregious cases, the few that manage to make it into the news. The reality is that threats like these are being volleyed at women on a near-constant basis. Sometimes they escalate to the point that law enforcement becomes involved; other times the outcome of these attacks is women stepping back, shutting down social media accounts, and retreating from online discourse. But whether the result is a woman being forced to leave her house or a woman locking her twitter account, the intent is always the same: to silence women. Not just one woman, but all women.

According St. Lewis, "These men want to shift the terrain from the realm of ideas where speech resides, to one of psychological and/or physical warfare. The stratagem of using sexual violence is not accidental—it is deliberate and gendered."

These are all threats that are happening publicly, in broad daylight, by men using their real names. That is how minimal the consequences are for this type of harassment and abuse.

Some continue to refer to these occurrences as "harmless threats," and blame women for not being willing to engage in "robust debate." The idea of free speech is often invoked, and women who are targeted are often told that if they can't take a joke, they should get off the internet. People will often say that men experience just as much online harassment as women, an argument which completely ignores the violent, gender-based threats that women receive.

"When we call it terrorism we are clearly stating that the harm to women online creates a democratic deficit for all of us," St. Lewis says. "Women's citizenship and entitlements to dignity and respect do not stop at the virtual border of the internet. The word 'terrorism' should make people sit up and pay attention. It calls for acknowledgment of a serious problem, quick action, resources, and accountability. These are all overdue in this area where the trolls and cyberbullies thrive."

This type of terrorism needs to be treated with the same type of gravitas that we give other forms of domestic terrorism. There needs to be accountability, and there need to be swift and just consequences. Above all, there needs to be a recognition that these online threats are neither random nor harmless but rather part of a systematic effort to terrorize women.

1 morbidru 2018-07-13

is this copypasta?

1 nicomarc10923 2018-07-13

nice copypasta

1 Vaigna 2018-07-13

It was I who gilded her four times to show my support as a male ally. I mean, I may have murdered eightyseven Mexican prostitutes over the last decade or so but at least I am a male ally!

1 WeWuzKANG5 2018-07-13

Overwatch is full of white knights, like really really full of them and they sometimes yield vvvv good pasta: https://old.reddit.com/r/Drama/comments/8hwexy/what_about_the_gurls_thread_5982459245_in/dyn37dy/

1 TheSmugAnimeGirl 2018-07-13

u/cpokwdwh

Have you considered playing a less-shit game that isn't full of try-hards? Really, any game that has a competitive scene that isn't 1v1 is garbage.

1 charming_tainter 2018-07-13

That's nothing compared to Rainbow 6

1 chumthescrubber 2018-07-13

Now that community is... difficult.

1 32624647 2018-07-13

You know what? I miss back when being an asshole was the default multiplayer game behavior. I miss when games like TF2 outright encourage you to induce a ragequit in your opponent. And oh boy do I miss back when people didn't have spergouts over people being mean online, acting as if the "mute" button isn't even a thing.

I mean, don't get me wrong, the constant bickering about what kind of harassment is "right" and "wrong", the endless attempts to portray being called mean names as something that can literally induce death or worse, and the online culture wars such as Gamergate are good for Dramacoin in short term, but in long term they are just endlessly boring and repetitive. This shit is simply not worth it.

1 loli_esports 2018-07-13

if you dont have an anime profile pic, you're leaving an easy +10% winrate on the ground. everyone gets tilted by anime

1 SylvanasBiggieMilky 2018-07-13

Imagine asking an battery/assault victim to "Just deal with it for the beating, or else you'll be punished too. We know, your skull might be fractured, but if you run away or call the police, it's just as much your fault! Why didn't you just turn the other cheek? You wouldn't have hurt that bad on the other side! Just close your eyes! Close your ears! Easy!"

imagine comparing getting your feelings hurt to getting beaten up

1 Harry_Knutts 2018-07-13

#bullyhunters

1 DeathByDragonDildo 2018-07-13

How the fuck would they know she's black?

1 Vandredd 2018-07-13

Can't handle the banter

1 Fuzzy_Oil 2018-07-13

Imagine asking an battery/assault victim to "Just deal with it for the beating

/u/cpokwdwh because literally being beaten and some people making bantz because you keep feeding is the same thing.

Grow the fuck up.

1 MelissaClick 2018-07-13

But they told her gender equality would never exist. How is that any different from a physical beating?

1 jaja10 2018-07-13

Everyone who plays this shitty game should be gassed

1 NeadStork 2018-07-13

Idk who should be genocided first, overwatch community or white ppl

1 myshl0ng 2018-07-13

Hahaha get back to the kitchen punani lmao

1 whydosomanywomen 2018-07-13

I've heard and experienced way worse just from being near she creatures IRL. SMH, she creatures are so frail. Imagine if they got treated that way IRL.

1 cheekygorilla 2018-07-13

I remember when i first started gaming too