I’ve opened my heart and experienced sex with love. I know what I’m missing when I try to just have a physical experience that doesn’t integrate my mind, body, and emotions. Also, I’m awesome, so I neither give up hope nor consider being alone a horrible thing. It’s got its perks.
/u/yogamystic I shave my pubes for me and it offends me that you're trying to womansplain a MAN'S grooming habits. Not everything is about sex you presumptuous doo-doo head. Plus it feels nice to have a baby smooth penis.
It's not even that... how downright thick do you have to be to not see that attitudes about body hair come from outside of porn and porn is just responding to it just like everyone else?
I’ll let a guy know I’m into him, but I’m not going to court him. I worked really hard to make all my relationships work, and if a dude can’t bring it, I just don’t see that he’s really interested in me...I’m not going chasing after these lazy dudes who think their entitled.
Do some research. Pain and depression use the same pathways in the brain, hence the connection. Sadly, they didn’t help my symptoms happily, diet, Yoga and supplements seem to be helping. Catch up with the latest developments before judging things you don’t know anything about.
Well, that she can't help at this point, so I didn't feel the need to pile on. If she wants to improve her dating prospects, her attitude is definitely something she can improve. Just as we tell all the incels.
I've been eating well and exercising regularly. I also try to empathize with and avoid having an adversarial view of women. It's worked out really well so far! No degrading sex in the back of a van [knock on wood] and if a woman has only one hobby she seems to enjoy talking about, I'm usually genuinely interested to learn how her passion for it developed.
By not dismissing her interests and then later complaining about her on internet forums, I'm usually able to form positive connections with the women I meet.
This attitude has worked out so well for me over the last few years, that at this point, I don't really approach women anymore. I know that different women have very different views on where and when they want to be approached and I wouldn't want to offend any of them. But since I'm open to them approaching me pretty much anywhere..coffee shops, public transportation, elevators...I've discovered that there are plenty of women willing take the initiative. I really don't mind taking my headphones out at the gym to talk to a woman, even if I'm not interested. And because I'm fit, I dress well, and am known to be a great listener, I've had tremendous success with my "strategy" for lack of a better term.
Unfortunately, because you consider this "laziness" on my part and are unwilling to break out of traditional gender roles, you and I will never have an opportunity to get to know each other. But it was nice talking to you on Reddit. Best of luck to you on the dating scene!
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1 SnapshillBot 2018-07-18
Hell hath no fury like a suburban soccer mom cucked, I guess.
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1 soyboyoyoyoyong 2018-07-18
/u/YogaMystic
pretty rich coming from someone admitting that they're hopelessly alone lmao
1 YogaMystic 2018-07-18
I’ve opened my heart and experienced sex with love. I know what I’m missing when I try to just have a physical experience that doesn’t integrate my mind, body, and emotions. Also, I’m awesome, so I neither give up hope nor consider being alone a horrible thing. It’s got its perks.
1 archdukef4gg0talt 2018-07-18
/u/YogaMystic have you tried dating women lately? no reason, just wondering.
do they smell like i've always dreamed they would? do they still like to be called mommy?
1 YogaMystic 2018-07-18
They never liked being called mommy.
1 archdukef4gg0talt 2018-07-18
lolwut
then explain why my biological mother has let me call her mommy for 33 years and counting
can you answer the first question too pls
1 Agenda_Poster 2018-07-18
/u/yogamystic I shave my pubes for me and it offends me that you're trying to womansplain a MAN'S grooming habits. Not everything is about sex you presumptuous doo-doo head. Plus it feels nice to have a baby smooth penis.
1 midairfistfight 2018-07-18
It's not even that... how downright thick do you have to be to not see that attitudes about body hair come from outside of porn and porn is just responding to it just like everyone else?
1 YogaMystic 2018-07-18
Fapping easier?
1 SmurfPrivilege 2018-07-18
What a catch!
1 banananutbranmuffin 2018-07-18
She's an overly entitled single mother, just another beggar trying to be a chooser.
1 real_human__bean 2018-07-18
She also has fibromyalgia, which is totally not made up I promise guys. It is treated with antidepressants, though 🤔
1 YogaMystic 2018-07-18
Do some research. Pain and depression use the same pathways in the brain, hence the connection. Sadly, they didn’t help my symptoms happily, diet, Yoga and supplements seem to be helping. Catch up with the latest developments before judging things you don’t know anything about.
1 Pastelitomaracucho 2018-07-18
And the tiny fact that she is a single mother
1 SmurfPrivilege 2018-07-18
Well, that she can't help at this point, so I didn't feel the need to pile on. If she wants to improve her dating prospects, her attitude is definitely something she can improve. Just as we tell all the incels.
1 YogaMystic 2018-07-18
Y’all are so cute.
1 SmurfPrivilege 2018-07-18
Why thank you!
I've been eating well and exercising regularly. I also try to empathize with and avoid having an adversarial view of women. It's worked out really well so far! No degrading sex in the back of a van [knock on wood] and if a woman has only one hobby she seems to enjoy talking about, I'm usually genuinely interested to learn how her passion for it developed.
By not dismissing her interests and then later complaining about her on internet forums, I'm usually able to form positive connections with the women I meet.
This attitude has worked out so well for me over the last few years, that at this point, I don't really approach women anymore. I know that different women have very different views on where and when they want to be approached and I wouldn't want to offend any of them. But since I'm open to them approaching me pretty much anywhere..coffee shops, public transportation, elevators...I've discovered that there are plenty of women willing take the initiative. I really don't mind taking my headphones out at the gym to talk to a woman, even if I'm not interested. And because I'm fit, I dress well, and am known to be a great listener, I've had tremendous success with my "strategy" for lack of a better term.
Unfortunately, because you consider this "laziness" on my part and are unwilling to break out of traditional gender roles, you and I will never have an opportunity to get to know each other. But it was nice talking to you on Reddit. Best of luck to you on the dating scene!
1 reallyrunningnow 2018-07-18
Whoa.. That just got r/antinatalism's hopes up.
1 _narrows 2018-07-18
Is she fat? I'm guessing she's fat.
1 Pastelitomaracucho 2018-07-18
At least, hairy
1 Pastelitomaracucho 2018-07-18
Wait until they hear about gussy