that forum sounds like a bunch of crackhead women who couldn't support a kid, gave them up for adoption, and now want to call everyone baby thieves to make themselves feel better.
Sort the comments to controversial and I keep seeing the same theme repeated ad nauseum by people like u/Blacknightingale04 and u/adptee that "it's morally right to support/assist a poor mother than to take away her child."
Just a thing or two to consider:
If a mother is willing to sell her baby for exorbitant amounts of cash...was she really going to be a good mother in the first place? Cash is king and all, but if nature documentaries have taught me anything, it's that mothers are usually willing to do anything to ensure the survival/comfort of their offspring...even willing to give their own lives to protect them. If a mother isn't willing to do this...to do without to provide what she can for her child in the face of financial obstacles, was she really going to be a proper mother in the first place?
Likewise, if someone offered me an obscene amount of cash in exchange for cutting off and keeping my left hand, I wouldn't take the offer since my left hand has worth to me that's beyond what money can offer; if a mother doesn't feel about her baby like how I feel about my left hand, maybe it's best that the kid be given to someone else more capable.
The stance you guys have on this seems eerily similar to the staunch pro-life assholes that put the fear of God and hell into a pregnant teen's mind so that they keep their baby and avoid "eternal damnation." That's great and all, but that's not the end of the story for the child in these situations. Go look up prolific serial killers like Charles Manson, Henry Lee Lucas, etc. and you'll see a correlation to bad/neglectful parenting and growing up with violent/psychotic tendencies. I'm sure that EVERY mother that you come across is gonna say, "Of course I want my baby, I love him!" to your face (because to say otherwise is extremely taboo), but I'm sure there is built-up resentment towards their situation that can resurface as abuse/neglect behind closed doors. And while a psychopath's brain is structured differently from the normal, research has found that criminal psychopaths studied also had a history of grotesque physical and/or psychological abuse during childhood. Call me paranoid, but I don't think that a woman that's willing to sell her child for any amount of money (or for a pitcher of beer, as in Manson's case) is going to foster a great childhood and parenting experience.
Please let these people buy these babies, I don't want any more Charles Manson's running around because you have your personal hang-ups about your own adoption and think you know what's best for everyone. 🙄🙄🙄
Redditors who think adopting a kid is theft and that it's better for kids to have no family at all than one who loves them even though they aren't biologically related. I really have seen it all 😲
You say - "It turns out they live in a bug-infested shack" and "some rat hole in the hood." This means they are poor. You say "the parents refuse to give up rights even though they are making no attempts to better their situation." This means they are still clinging to their children whom they most likely love (even if that does not look familiar to you) and that they are stuck.
No it means they are abusive. u/allegedlyjohn are you seriously thinking that previously charged abusive pedos are "bad parents" only because money?
So is this sub basically a bunch of people with BPD who were adopted and have an axe to grind? They seem like a bunch of borderline personality types who are jealous that someone might find a loving and stable home.
I used to want to adopt but then I stumbled onto a forum for adult adoptees and they basically blame being adopted for everything in their lives and hate their adopted parents and mostly just wish they hadn’t been born. I’m sorry, but if you’re going to hate me any way, you might as well share my gene pool.
Not thinking a domestic abuser sex offender and a child abuser Meth head cooking meth in a bug infested shack is a good environment is classist and means you font see the child as a person.
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6 Lysis10 2018-07-21
that forum sounds like a bunch of crackhead women who couldn't support a kid, gave them up for adoption, and now want to call everyone baby thieves to make themselves feel better.
5 reallyrunningnow 2018-07-21
"CPS took my kids. Sure I fed them drugs, refused to take them to school and beat them. But those foster parents are baby snatchers."
2 LaFemmeMacabre 2018-07-21
Sort the comments to controversial and I keep seeing the same theme repeated ad nauseum by people like u/Blacknightingale04 and u/adptee that "it's morally right to support/assist a poor mother than to take away her child."
Just a thing or two to consider:
If a mother is willing to sell her baby for exorbitant amounts of cash...was she really going to be a good mother in the first place? Cash is king and all, but if nature documentaries have taught me anything, it's that mothers are usually willing to do anything to ensure the survival/comfort of their offspring...even willing to give their own lives to protect them. If a mother isn't willing to do this...to do without to provide what she can for her child in the face of financial obstacles, was she really going to be a proper mother in the first place?
Likewise, if someone offered me an obscene amount of cash in exchange for cutting off and keeping my left hand, I wouldn't take the offer since my left hand has worth to me that's beyond what money can offer; if a mother doesn't feel about her baby like how I feel about my left hand, maybe it's best that the kid be given to someone else more capable.
The stance you guys have on this seems eerily similar to the staunch pro-life assholes that put the fear of God and hell into a pregnant teen's mind so that they keep their baby and avoid "eternal damnation." That's great and all, but that's not the end of the story for the child in these situations. Go look up prolific serial killers like Charles Manson, Henry Lee Lucas, etc. and you'll see a correlation to bad/neglectful parenting and growing up with violent/psychotic tendencies. I'm sure that EVERY mother that you come across is gonna say, "Of course I want my baby, I love him!" to your face (because to say otherwise is extremely taboo), but I'm sure there is built-up resentment towards their situation that can resurface as abuse/neglect behind closed doors. And while a psychopath's brain is structured differently from the normal, research has found that criminal psychopaths studied also had a history of grotesque physical and/or psychological abuse during childhood. Call me paranoid, but I don't think that a woman that's willing to sell her child for any amount of money (or for a pitcher of beer, as in Manson's case) is going to foster a great childhood and parenting experience.
Please let these people buy these babies, I don't want any more Charles Manson's running around because you have your personal hang-ups about your own adoption and think you know what's best for everyone. 🙄🙄🙄
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1 Starship_Litterbox_C 2018-07-21
Redditors who think adopting a kid is theft and that it's better for kids to have no family at all than one who loves them even though they aren't biologically related. I really have seen it all 😲
1 pax1 2018-07-21
you haven't seen the half of it. if you think that post was bad check this one out: https://www.reddit.com/r/Adoption/comments/7xo6sk/what_are_our_chances/
3 reallyrunningnow 2018-07-21
No it means they are abusive. u/allegedlyjohn are you seriously thinking that previously charged abusive pedos are "bad parents" only because money?
1 Starship_Litterbox_C 2018-07-21
So is this sub basically a bunch of people with BPD who were adopted and have an axe to grind? They seem like a bunch of borderline personality types who are jealous that someone might find a loving and stable home.
1 PM_ME_UR_FIGURINES 2018-07-21
I used to want to adopt but then I stumbled onto a forum for adult adoptees and they basically blame being adopted for everything in their lives and hate their adopted parents and mostly just wish they hadn’t been born. I’m sorry, but if you’re going to hate me any way, you might as well share my gene pool.
1 Starship_Litterbox_C 2018-07-21
They just sound like average poor people tbh 😂😂😂
1 helppls555 2018-07-21
Sounds just like hapas but for mayos
1 XhotwheelsloverX 2018-07-21
Throw in psycho/sociopathy and you have your average reddit armchair analysis.
2 Starship_Litterbox_C 2018-07-21
Well, they're your average reddit weirdos, seems like a rub 💃
1 Awayfone 2018-07-21
Not thinking a domestic abuser sex offender and a child abuser Meth head cooking meth in a bug infested shack is a good environment is classist and means you font see the child as a person.
Just wow
1 LickMyElbowItsACOCK 2018-07-21
mommy is a little nutter
1 a_jill_sandwich 2018-07-21
She’d rather have another woman fucking her husband than get a surrogate and a turkey baster.
People are fucking bizarre, man.
2 911roofer 2018-07-21
She's a cuck. Don't kinkshame.
1 churm92 2018-07-21
It's a 1 day old account.
Drama is only good when it's from 100% genuine lolcows. Otherwise it's just low effort and useless.
1 rsaahhuul0 2018-07-21
u/SeriousRise idk if I’d compare adoption to shopping for groceries mate
1 sweetyellowknees 2018-07-21
Fuck kids anyway