This is extremely weird. Who would want to be known in a documentary as an incel? It's a VICE documentary, but still this is one of the dumbest ways to get attention.
The important thing that explains everything incels do is that they aren’t just unable to get laid: they’ve abandoned all hope too. This guy thinks it’s already hopeless, so he’s embracing it.
True. This kind of thinking also invites the garbage/entry level advice that they hate so much. Incels gets extremely mad whenever some former late bloomer waddles in and starts slinging around "wisdom" but they fail to realize they invite it upon themselves. As long as they imply their situation is doomsday/no hope, they will always be btfo by the "just be yourself"-ers and "just take a shower"-ers.
Seems counterproductive. A lot of undesirables can be redeemed with a bit of work. Like me, my natural personality is... well, here I am on /r/drama, punching down at some poor sap who never did anything to hurt me. But by checking myself before I say something horribly autistic irl, I’ve been able to date successfully.
I didn't mean that in a "punch down" sort of way. I literally meant that's a way to get guys to be completely bare about who they are as opposed to regular people who have a public face for strangers and acquaintances. Almost everyone has traits /inclinations/hobbies that if were easily apparent wouldn't appeal to most people, so they put a more acceptable front until they're comfortable enough to open up. It's just like you said. From the otherside though the advice lets you more easily vet people.
in this subculture, people bond over self-loathing. Joey says it's therapeutic, but four of his friends have killed themselves.
these are rookie numbers. It's honestly disappointing to see whities sucking so hard at mayocide.
on a sidenote I'd pay to meet the kind of people who think shitting themselves is a funny joke. Not a lot of money and from behind a glass wall, but still I'd pay.
When I told him to be himself, he explained that was an incel meme—Chad thinks it’s not his muscles or money that let him glide through life, but his personality. Just be yourself, man.
You're assuming what's best for incels is best for all.
Incorrect.
The reason society tells young men to "be themselves" while demonstrably not being the best sexual strategy for many men, is because women need to identify those who are socially awkward in order to secure their own physical safely but also sexual selection preferences.
Basically if a man is under-socialised, he is a risk to women and other vulnerable people. And if he's tricked into "being himself" and raising the red flag to those around him, all the better.
own physical safely but also sexual selection preferences.
Unless that's bait (in which case, good job) no. Under-socialized people rarely pose any sort of meaningful danger to women, compared to people with dark triad traits of character, which excel at finding partners but are also at the higher risk of being abusive and manipulative.
The part about sexual selection, however, is true.
Not really true re: the dark triad, especially for sociopaths, who are the most dangerous part of the triad. True clinical sociopaths generally have a very hard time maintaining long-term success, because they're terrible at delaying gratification and planning ahead. The mask of sanity almost always slips once someone interacts with them on more than a surface-deep level.
They are, but at the subclinical level the triad basically just becomes one thing. Like, is a subclinical narcissist really that different from a subclinical psychopath, especially from the POV of people who need to deal with them?
To offset the seriousness of this post, you moron. You fucking imbecile.
Like, is a subclinical narcissist really that different from a subclinical psychopath, especially from the POV of people who need to deal with them?
Yeah. Their behaviours, as long you're not being "enchanted" (for the lack of the better word) can be discerned. They have different aims and usually employ different methods to get what they want.
To offset the seriousness of this post, you moron. You fucking imbecile.
Justification is a higher nervous activity. If I understand correctly, justifications may differ depending on the multitude of factors, shaping any given person at any given time. Someone just wants to get to the top of the world, while someone just wants the world to burn.
The watch the world burn types are probably the more dangerous ones. Getting to the top requires systematic planning, which again, sociopaths are shit at.
guys just shouldn't listen to dating advice by women in general. I doubt it's malicious or anything but they'll always try to give advice from their perspective, which behavior benefits them most, how they would like men to act.
Depends on their standards, depending on their situation, depending on their mental health at the moment but yeah, I love when women try to deny that legit passion is aroused only by people they are physically attracted to and not by people whose personalities they like.
I mean, they might just enhance that attraction but physical comes first. Always.
The worst part is foids constantly try to pull this shit and claim men care about looks more than women but it isn't even close to true.
Then they show up in incel spaces and start telling them to "take showers."
I think a lot of foids don't understand the fact that when you're physically attracted to someone you rate their personality as better than it actually is, and when you aren't physically attracted to someone you rate it lower than it might actually be.
Everything is looks, the incels are completely right and even the bluebill femoids know it but they'll never admit it.
Fair enough, physical attraction is based purely on looks but no consideration is given to people’s personal taste. What I find good looking my good friend thinks I need my head examined or eyesight.
I had to take a cab somewhere the other day. My driver was a doughy, dorky neckbeard who spent the ride talking about his wife. There, I left my house once and I have evidence that women find guys of decidedly below average attractiveness appealing. It's not that people think physical attractiveness plays no part, it's that incels exaggerate how attractive a man needs to be in order to find someone who will mate with him.
People do incels no favors by implying that they have found an objective truth. I think their worldview comes more from their desire to think nothing will help them.
The funny shit is to see lookism recalibrate their standards whenever an objectively handsome man who doesn’t fit their mold comes along. Vincent Cassel is a great example.
Anyway, “Chad” doesn’t necessarily mean handsome. Take Wayne Rooney.
Oh boy, this is going to be a pointless exchange innit?
You accused me of saying you claimed to be better looking than this guy:
Where did I say I was good looking, and he wasn't?
I did nothing of the sort. I just offered my 0.02 neetbux on this situation, which were that the dude is better looking than you. There’s no need to get irrationally angry. You’re literally doing what you claim to dislike about women.
That, and both of these guys have their faces attached to their handles. Darqwolff is a mayo with a full beard, Pizzashill is Latino (I think?) and can’t grow facial hair.
I stick by my guns. Pizzashill looks almost prepubescent in the one pic he posted. If he shaved and put on makeup he could pass for an extremely homely girl. This Joey guy at least has a clearly masculine face.
Eh, let the stubble grow in more and new hairdo and he’d be sorted. The other guy ain’t cutting it. Skin tone, eyes, complexion and messed up nose. Fair enough on semi masculine jaw.
I paused the video and read the greentext, and besides using the word "cunt" and having Pepe, there's nothing remotely incellish about it. They clearly just chose the first 4chan post they saw.
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1 -4x- 2018-08-02
Jesus Christ, I forgot how fucking terrible YouTube comments on social and political videos are.
1 imissyouseattle 2018-08-02
Mod YouTube commenters when?
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-08-02
Something something YouTube Heroes.
1 better_bot 2018-08-02
Oh look, another volcel.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
For real, that guy isn't even bad looking. If he cleared up his skin he'd do fine.
1 better_bot 2018-08-02
Cleared up his skin and stopped being friends with people who shit themselves.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
And went back in time and didn't show his face in this fucking documentary.
1 schoolboystirner 2018-08-02
This is extremely weird. Who would want to be known in a documentary as an incel? It's a VICE documentary, but still this is one of the dumbest ways to get attention.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
The important thing that explains everything incels do is that they aren’t just unable to get laid: they’ve abandoned all hope too. This guy thinks it’s already hopeless, so he’s embracing it.
1 schoolboystirner 2018-08-02
True. This kind of thinking also invites the garbage/entry level advice that they hate so much. Incels gets extremely mad whenever some former late bloomer waddles in and starts slinging around "wisdom" but they fail to realize they invite it upon themselves. As long as they imply their situation is doomsday/no hope, they will always be btfo by the "just be yourself"-ers and "just take a shower"-ers.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
This really is terrible advice for a lot of people though. You don’t even need to be an incel to know that that’s the case.
1 schoolboystirner 2018-08-02
Like /u/broden said, it's just a way to weed out the undesirables.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
Seems counterproductive. A lot of undesirables can be redeemed with a bit of work. Like me, my natural personality is... well, here I am on /r/drama, punching down at some poor sap who never did anything to hurt me. But by checking myself before I say something horribly autistic irl, I’ve been able to date successfully.
1 schoolboystirner 2018-08-02
I didn't mean that in a "punch down" sort of way. I literally meant that's a way to get guys to be completely bare about who they are as opposed to regular people who have a public face for strangers and acquaintances. Almost everyone has traits /inclinations/hobbies that if were easily apparent wouldn't appeal to most people, so they put a more acceptable front until they're comfortable enough to open up. It's just like you said. From the otherside though the advice lets you more easily vet people.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
Punching down as in mocking pizzashill’s looks.
1 schoolboystirner 2018-08-02
pizzashill has hurt everyone.
1 Black_Bird_Cloud 2018-08-02
these are rookie numbers. It's honestly disappointing to see whities sucking so hard at mayocide.
on a sidenote I'd pay to meet the kind of people who think shitting themselves is a funny joke. Not a lot of money and from behind a glass wall, but still I'd pay.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
Imagine quoting this interesting article (it actually is, IMO) but not directly linking to it. Is your name Keith Young-Smythe?
1 agareo 2018-08-02
1 better_bot 2018-08-02
It's better to tell incels to be anyone but themselves.
1 broden 2018-08-02
You're assuming what's best for incels is best for all.
Incorrect.
The reason society tells young men to "be themselves" while demonstrably not being the best sexual strategy for many men, is because women need to identify those who are socially awkward in order to secure their own physical safely but also sexual selection preferences.
Basically if a man is under-socialised, he is a risk to women and other vulnerable people. And if he's tricked into "being himself" and raising the red flag to those around him, all the better.
1 better_bot 2018-08-02
That's a good point.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-08-02
Unless that's bait (in which case, good job) no. Under-socialized people rarely pose any sort of meaningful danger to women, compared to people with dark triad traits of character, which excel at finding partners but are also at the higher risk of being abusive and manipulative.
The part about sexual selection, however, is true.
1 broden 2018-08-02
I suppose incel shooters are so rare on a grand scale that they're of no consequences.
Potentially breeding with a wimp tho, that's the real danger.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
Not really true re: the dark triad, especially for sociopaths, who are the most dangerous part of the triad. True clinical sociopaths generally have a very hard time maintaining long-term success, because they're terrible at delaying gratification and planning ahead. The mask of sanity almost always slips once someone interacts with them on more than a surface-deep level.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-08-02
Subclinical presentations are also a thing, you know.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
They are, but at the subclinical level the triad basically just becomes one thing. Like, is a subclinical narcissist really that different from a subclinical psychopath, especially from the POV of people who need to deal with them?
To offset the seriousness of this post, you moron. You fucking imbecile.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-08-02
Yeah. Their behaviours, as long you're not being "enchanted" (for the lack of the better word) can be discerned. They have different aims and usually employ different methods to get what they want.
NO U.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
Okay, fair point. Do psychopaths even have any aims, beyond seeking the next stimulus?
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-08-02
Justification is a higher nervous activity. If I understand correctly, justifications may differ depending on the multitude of factors, shaping any given person at any given time. Someone just wants to get to the top of the world, while someone just wants the world to burn.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
The watch the world burn types are probably the more dangerous ones. Getting to the top requires systematic planning, which again, sociopaths are shit at.
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-08-02
guys just shouldn't listen to dating advice by women in general. I doubt it's malicious or anything but they'll always try to give advice from their perspective, which behavior benefits them most, how they would like men to act.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
How they think they would like men to act. Women and men both are bad at verbalizing what they find attractive.
1 pizzashill 2018-08-02
According to the incels over at incels.me this is fake news. A fakecel actor hired by vice, he isn't even ugly.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-08-02
Shmucks at incels.me have a serious overlap with lookism, who are usually average-above average in looks.
1 pizzashill 2018-08-02
There are some real fucking gremlins on incels.me dude. And either way, even average guys get shat on by internet foids so who cares.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-08-02
Depends on their standards, depending on their situation, depending on their mental health at the moment but yeah, I love when women try to deny that legit passion is aroused only by people they are physically attracted to and not by people whose personalities they like.
I mean, they might just enhance that attraction but physical comes first. Always.
1 pizzashill 2018-08-02
The worst part is foids constantly try to pull this shit and claim men care about looks more than women but it isn't even close to true.
Then they show up in incel spaces and start telling them to "take showers."
I think a lot of foids don't understand the fact that when you're physically attracted to someone you rate their personality as better than it actually is, and when you aren't physically attracted to someone you rate it lower than it might actually be.
Everything is looks, the incels are completely right and even the bluebill femoids know it but they'll never admit it.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-08-02
inb4 Ed appears in this thread and says something like "now kiss" or "just fuck each other".
1 better_bot 2018-08-02
And that's a good thing.
1 CocoNutsOn 2018-08-02
Fair enough, physical attraction is based purely on looks but no consideration is given to people’s personal taste. What I find good looking my good friend thinks I need my head examined or eyesight.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-08-02
You'd find that at least one trait correlates to something very masculine.
1 CocoNutsOn 2018-08-02
That is probably true and if it was somewhere in the middle or very feminine, I’d be bi or a lesbian.
1 parameciidae 2018-08-02
I had to take a cab somewhere the other day. My driver was a doughy, dorky neckbeard who spent the ride talking about his wife. There, I left my house once and I have evidence that women find guys of decidedly below average attractiveness appealing. It's not that people think physical attractiveness plays no part, it's that incels exaggerate how attractive a man needs to be in order to find someone who will mate with him.
People do incels no favors by implying that they have found an objective truth. I think their worldview comes more from their desire to think nothing will help them.
1 pepperouchau 2018-08-02
Well, I sure am convinced!
1 pizzashill 2018-08-02
I mean I kind of believe them tbh. That guy had decent social skills and isn't even ugly, he's like bordering on chadlite.
One of the incels there also claimed to know him and he's an admitted mentalcel/trustfund baby.
1 better_bot 2018-08-02
He literally admitted as much in the interview. Trustfund wouldn't be surprising as he's a NEET.
1 alphetasauce 2018-08-02
Chadlite? Really? How in the hell is he almost a Chad?
1 pizzashill 2018-08-02
I'm just reporting what the incels said.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
But how the hell did they decide this guy was chadlite?
1 pizzashill 2018-08-02
Who knows, they have a bunch of weird ways of rating people.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
The funny shit is to see lookism recalibrate their standards whenever an objectively handsome man who doesn’t fit their mold comes along. Vincent Cassel is a great example.
Anyway, “Chad” doesn’t necessarily mean handsome. Take Wayne Rooney.
1 Plexipus 2018-08-02
The orbital socket to jawline ratio and the prominence of his nasal labial folds?
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
Honestly, from what I recall of your selfie, this guy is better looking than you mate.
1 pizzashill 2018-08-02
Where did I say I was good looking, and he wasn't?
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
Calm down, I'll explain things to you.
/> Incel in documentary is accused of being fakecel
/> incels.me say he isn't ugly enough
/> pizzashill reports this shocking rumor to r/Drama
/> I, doot, chime in to say that indeed, this guy is better looking than pizzashill, a volcel(?)
1 pizzashill 2018-08-02
I'm not even a cel. To be clear, I'm pretty sure you just didn't read what I said correctly due to low reading comprehension levels.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
Oh boy, this is going to be a pointless exchange innit?
You accused me of saying you claimed to be better looking than this guy:
I did nothing of the sort. I just offered my 0.02 neetbux on this situation, which were that the dude is better looking than you. There’s no need to get irrationally angry. You’re literally doing what you claim to dislike about women.
1 pizzashill 2018-08-02
I'm not angry, I just have a disdain for low intelligence people, and I've concluded that's what you are.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
You’re acting uncannily like Darqwolff.
1 pizzashill 2018-08-02
Did he also pick up on your low intelligence levels?
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
Uncanny, I tell ya.
1 pizzashill 2018-08-02
So he did.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
Actually Darqwolff has never noticed me :(
1 pizzashill 2018-08-02
Maybe he's smarter than I am, then.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
Quite possibly!
Tell me please, what do you think you said that I misunderstood?
1 pizzashill 2018-08-02
You aren't really worth spending more energy on, tbh. I've got more interesting things to do, like watch grass grow.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
But I’m asking nicely.
1 Zizac 2018-08-02
If you didn't out yourself as an /r/iamverysmart wannabe in just a single sentence, I'd think you were a darqwolff alt.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
That, and both of these guys have their faces attached to their handles. Darqwolff is a mayo with a full beard, Pizzashill is Latino (I think?) and can’t grow facial hair.
1 CocoNutsOn 2018-08-02
I’d disagree, different look yes but not better looking.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
I stick by my guns. Pizzashill looks almost prepubescent in the one pic he posted. If he shaved and put on makeup he could pass for an extremely homely girl. This Joey guy at least has a clearly masculine face.
1 CocoNutsOn 2018-08-02
Eh, let the stubble grow in more and new hairdo and he’d be sorted. The other guy ain’t cutting it. Skin tone, eyes, complexion and messed up nose. Fair enough on semi masculine jaw.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
The nose isn’t that important for a man’s looks. A messed up nose will absolutely wreck a woman’s face, but have you seen Owen Wilson?
1 CocoNutsOn 2018-08-02
The attraction to Owen Wilson is hoping he’s really funny IRL and therefore you can bypass the nose and plus the rest of his face is nice.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
I’m speaking as a straight man, so this is guesswork... but I think Owen Wilson’s broken nose might also add a bad boy mystique to him.
Also, Vincent Cassel. Not even a broken nose there, he’s just a Frenchman.
1 CocoNutsOn 2018-08-02
Bad boy mystique. I’m thinking more sweet, let me feel your hair. Vincent just looks slightly evil tbh.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
Probably why Vincent almost always plays villains in English-language movies. He’d actually be my choice to play Geralt of Rivia though.
1 CocoNutsOn 2018-08-02
Yeah, he would be a good choice.
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
Oh, and since we mentioned eyes, pizzashill has the peepers of a man who spent the past 48 hours shooting black tar on an uncovered mattress.
1 CocoNutsOn 2018-08-02
Aw, he’s got nice brown eyes. Just needs some Vitamin D
1 dootwiththesickness 2018-08-02
I paused the video and read the greentext, and besides using the word "cunt" and having Pepe, there's nothing remotely incellish about it. They clearly just chose the first 4chan post they saw.
1 shallowm 2018-08-02
They probably chose that post because the title was "Why the fuck are women always so retarded about everything?"
Given that they got it from /r9k/, they could have done a lot better.
1 73696D756C6174696F6E 2018-08-02
I see
1 shallowm 2018-08-02
lol @ them misspelling "chad" at 1:38
1 broden 2018-08-02
Well if she can breed with the stallion while getting the more submissive male to provide for her, it's the best of both worlds isn't it?