Bi-polar turbothot writes article about how great it is to snag a married guy. Gets linked to forum of bitter divorced hags. Author thows up in comment section to defend herself.

123  2018-08-10 by 30_Year_old_boomer-

The article in question

Now here is where it gets good. A forum for losers who got cheated on (lmaoing at ur failed marriges nerds) does their own write up on it

Needless to say the bitterness in that is only rivaled but the comment section as old lonely uggos rant about their own failed marriages. Finally the author shows up (cant directly link becuz shit UI on this site, ctrl-f "Note from the author"):

Oh dear, my friends. While this was certainly a hilarious revision of my essay (I laughed pretty hard), the version I wrote is the truth. It was so hard to reveal my sins and shortcomings to the world because, as you all point out, I am the jerk. Do you all think I exposed myself to gloat? Because I can’t think that my depiction of myself and my behavior is anything to gloat about. I made myself vulnerable to you all to thank Beka and let other people know that she and Josh have created something out of their divorce. What they have created has made both of them happier, but it was–and will continue to be–difficult at times.

This essay is my love letter to Beka. This is my attempt to express a gratitude that is inexpressible.

You all make a number of assumptions about Josh and me that aren’t true. You don’t know the circumstances of Josh and Beka’s marriage before they divorced, and you don’t know the things that Josh has done–and still does–to care for the children and for Beka. Come see us in Nashville, and you will see what I am talking about. Come to dinner with Josh, Beka, Rose, Alice, and me. Come see us trying and working to be the people we want to be. I fail every single day, but, thanks to the example set by Josh and Beka, I keep on trying.

As a side note, if Josh cheats on me or leaves me, I will be fine. I wouldn’t want anyone to stay with me out of complacency or pity or duty. As my essay mentioned, he wasn’t able to “cheat”–he had to tell Beka. Again, though, you should meet Josh before you decide that he is the stereotypical boorish male. I think he might really surprise you. And if he ever wants to leave our relationship, he will go with my blessing and love and thanks. I’m sure you won’t believe me, but you would if you met me.

Many of you sound so unhappy in your comments. You sound like you have given up hope in other people. I’m sorry about this, particularly because I was trying to convey hopefulness in what is usually seen as a bitter, hopeless, ugly situation. But I know how it feels; I lost hope for a long time. I could write about that, but, given the unfortunate comments about my mental health, I think I will withhold that information.

Now you may all commence ripping me to shreds yet again. I hope, though, that you will stop and think before you write something that reinforces bitterness and hopelessness. Perhaps you need to know a bit more about me, about Josh, and about Beka.

Of course this goes swimmingly, leading to the owner of the site to write another blogpost about her allowing her that rent free headspace.

57 comments

1  BussyShillBot 2018-08-10

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1  SnapshillBot 2018-08-10

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1  reallyrunningnow 2018-08-10

Lol. The real drama starts in 2 years when Josh finds a younger hotter BPD thot.

1  wisty 2018-08-10

BPD (borderline personality disorder aka bitch personality disorder) is noqat

1  parameciidae 2018-08-10

I had bipolar II disorder

We know, but that's not what the woman in the article says she has.

1  _Petronius 2018-08-10

She will totally be fine. Definitely won’t be only publicfreakout running down a thot in a parking lot in her 97 Cavalier

1  reallyrunningnow 2018-08-10

Or forcing her students to read a bunch of Sliva Plath as she insists that all men are evil. While whining to Becka

1  oxyhaledrine 2018-08-10

Andrea is that you?

1  reallyrunningnow 2018-08-10

Who?

1  CulturalYogurt 2018-08-10

Forum full of bitter divorced hags

🤩🤩 time to Move in After Completion

1  Redactor0 2018-08-10

Damn. I need to get married and then get cheated on so I can learn how to be that savage.

1  Zozbot 2018-08-10

zoz

1  Zozbot 2018-08-10

zle

1  Zozbot 2018-08-10

zozzle

1  CSharpApostle 2018-08-10

I am onto zozbots pattern. At 5 pm PST time it chooses a random post to bless

Ez game ez life. Im the real sherlock holmes

1  NNewtoma 2018-08-10

If you ever have free time on a week day you should go sit in on family court. It’s fun and free.

1  snallygaster 2018-08-10

that's sick lmao

1  CirqueDuFuder 2018-08-10

Literally irl Drama.

1  PixelatedFractal 2018-08-10

That actually sounds like a lot of fun

1  wootfatigue 2018-08-10

That was my go-to tinder date.

1  bareballzthebitch 2018-08-10

I have spent a considerable amount of time in family court over the last few years and I have seen some very strange and sad situations.

A rich guy who has five lawyers for himself, 2 for the ex-wife, one for the kid (who spent 15 mins getting assigned off the kid). 2 of his lawyers were partnership specialists arguing that he should be able to disperse a million bucks. Oh yeah the rich guy wasn't even in the courtroom. I figure he was running 3 K an hour for the 8 attorneys involved. Went on for half an hour. Judge finally cut them off to move onto the other 20 people waiting.

1  snappleteadrink 2018-08-10

Lol what did the rich guy hope to prove?

1  bareballzthebitch 2018-08-10

He was trying to disperse a million bucks to him and his partners. The ex was objecting because she thought it was community property. It was ridiculous because this guy had big money problems and everyone else in the court had little people problems (visitation, child support of $300 a month, various kinds of family court silliness). And then there was this guy, with 8 lawyers, arguing for half an hour about partnership law, so he could sneak a million away from his ex.

1  snappleteadrink 2018-08-10

Ah I see I thought you meant he was trying to give a million to his ex wife

1  GreatTelephone 2018-08-10

chumplady

This could have satisified my cuckquean fetish, but they're all boomer mayo burgers instead of cute christmas cake japanese women.

1  parameciidae 2018-08-10

I am on the side of the person who can write such a catty takedown of another woman.

1  snallygaster 2018-08-10

Who wants to take bets on whether this lady is still madly in love with the cheater?

1  alphetasauce 2018-08-10

I wish I could take her up on her offer to eat dinner with them. That would be the funniest thing in the world.

1  snallygaster 2018-08-10

If you have a cool gf you could bang her, then your gf could chat with her in a nail salon and report back

1  rnjbond 2018-08-10

Or bring a female friend and have her bang the dude

1  snappleteadrink 2018-08-10

Wait bang the gf?

1  reallyrunningnow 2018-08-10

I predict an increase in dramacoin when she finds his updated tinder account

1  point_shaver 2018-08-10

I'm willing to bet she's happier than the salt tablets on that forum. People contemplating suicide are probably happier. I get that getting cheated on sucks (a lot of people in there seem to be conflating someone simply leaving them as cheating), but holy shit none of those seem mentally healthy people.

1  BussySundae 2018-08-10

Who was it that said 30-year old boomers? I forgot which resident autist originally commented that here, I want to say it was pizzashill but i cannot remember.

1  Lezzymclezface 2018-08-10

The men in this sub are the saddest losers on the planet, I can’t even mock these lolcows. We should cry for you. Ugh.

1  Sedai09 2018-08-10

Don't cry for me

1  Lezzymclezface 2018-08-10

I have to, this is the saddest attempt at mockery I’ve ever seen. Im not sure I can even follow this sub now after this post, all I have is deep pity for you all now. Wow. I didn’t know you were all really this immature and broken, I thought you were in on the joke, but clearly you are probably all cutters. Heartbreaking.

1  Sedai09 2018-08-10

You were supposed to say Argentina.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KD_1Z8iUDho

1  Lezzymclezface 2018-08-10

Awe. Are you trying to spin it like you are clever when you are just crying inside? I’m honestly incredibly sad for the men of r/drama right now. I didn’t know how truly broken you were.

1  Sedai09 2018-08-10

Please help me I'm so sad. You're first kind person who really gets me on reddit.

1  Lezzymclezface 2018-08-10

No one can or should help you, just sad for you.

1  Sedai09 2018-08-10

Oh, what should I do then?

1  Lezzymclezface 2018-08-10

Do you have hobbies? Crafting or an Etsy shop? Just complain about rat kings on KW farms, you don’t have to change boo

1  Sedai09 2018-08-10

I was reading Neuromancer but took a break to check reddit because I'm not really used to this style of writing.

1  Lezzymclezface 2018-08-10

Great. Sounds productive.

1  otherwiseyep 2018-08-10

Sweaty, I really think it might be best for you to just turn 360 degrees around and keep walking.

1  CirqueDuFuder 2018-08-10

Argentina

1  ObsessedAussie 2018-08-10

Argentina

1  CirqueDuFuder 2018-08-10

You are a caricature

1  Nom_Chompy 2018-08-10

P-Puss? Is that you?

1  wow___justwow 2018-08-10

I don’t have stable and nurturing human relationships. Ergo Josh looks pretty good.

OK this is actually pretty funny.

1  Sojir 2018-08-10

The nyt article are indistinguishably similar to trollx bait .

1  maatsfeather 2018-08-10

I’m sorry, I can’t hear you up so high on my lofty perch of superiority. Let me send some doves of mercy to shit on your heads.

This is glorious.

1  Ravensthrowit 2018-08-10

Josh and Beka were a powerhouse couple — affluent, attractive, highly educated, generous — and the backbone of upper-middle-class respectability developing in my bohemian neighborhood.

Ask me how I know they are white

1  Sojir 2018-08-10

There's mention of fentanyl

1  30_Year_old_boomer- 2018-08-10

Beka didnt try to pull off her weave in a parking lot fight?

1  otherwiseyep 2018-08-10

I think chumplady.com is my new favorite website.

1  30_Year_old_boomer- 2018-08-10

Ive spent hours reading the archives. I have never seen so much salt. This shit is better than r/politics after the 2016 election

1  rnjbond 2018-08-10

Lies, nothing is better than when that Meltdown subreddit suddenly reversed course.

1  michgot 2018-08-10

These women are so FREE and MIGHTY

1  rnjbond 2018-08-10

This is amazing. Not sure why this girl deserves a NYT column about nothing, but the responses and drama are amazing

1  JustAntha 2018-08-10

Nothing screams "I'm a capable, mature adult who is really winning at living my best life" quite like spending most of their posts mocking her for having a mental illness.