Quick question though. Let's say you marry this girl and grow old together. Hopefully, by the time you're 50, one woman will be enough for you. You think you would ever tell her that you had girls on the side?
But one woman is enough. the thing is people think I am cheating and like "fuck her! I dont need her". I love her. I am cheating because she wont find out and it passes the time. I wish i could be with her which I will be in a few weeks. Since I dont care about some act, I care how she feels I can cheat. I will gladly stop when I go back home as I would never know if she could find out then
No i would never tell her. She would die not knowing (knocks on wood). The point is I just dont think it matters what happens, it is what you know happend. It is how you feel.
Books are awesome. Cheating is not a hobby. i never cheat until I happened to be in this other country so i know she wont know. For me cheating is like a better wank. It means nothing. I wont miss it when I am back with her. it could be yeas before I happen to be in a situation where i cheat because I know she wont notice. Heck, it may never happen. I dont even seek it out.
Huh? We're fuck buddies. She knows this and I know this. probably wont talk after the next month and that is fine by me and her. If she is then I am her dildo
So, tell me if I am wrong here. You have sex with one girl because you love her or whatever. You find yourself out of the country, and now you are having sex with another girl because you like having orgasms, and a vagina feels better than your hand. Maybe there's some reciprocity to it, but it's entirely transactional. You get off, she gets off.
I don't know, maybe I should be asking if you think sex is an expression of deep emotions. If it is, what does that mean about the sex you have with the fuck buddy? If it isn't, what does that mean about the sex you have with your girlfriend?
But it would hurt her if she knew. It’s a betrayal of her trust. Doesn’t make you Hitler like the idiots in that thread think, but it’s kinda a dick move
I get that, and that is why in all the time I no her I dont even look at other women. I dont care. In this situation she clearly wont know because fo the set up. So, with that said I know there will be no pain. And I just dont see the issue if there is no pain.
Not to worry, your girlfriend will never tell you either. She’s probably fucking about because she’s bored and lets face it, you ain’t around. King size beds are for sharing.
Reddit's insecurity anytime cheating is brought up is pretty funny. They are just a hair short of going full radical Muslim and demanding that adulterers be stoned.
Redditors get super mad that someone with a gf could manage to actually fuck someone else, too. They have a hard enough time with the first part, but at least they're okay at videogames.
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1 SnapshillBot 2018-08-12
The people involved here probably don't even respect bussy all that much.
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1 HungerArtistatlunch 2018-08-12
Slitting a homeless man's throat in his sleep also causes no pain and it makes me feel good. That's why I do it.
1 ____________13 2018-08-12
you're also providing a valuable public service.
1 crandogill 2018-08-12
Whoah don't give me ideas.
1 HungerArtistatlunch 2018-08-12
Tbh, you're a piece of shit. But good on you for taking it on the chin.
1 crandogill 2018-08-12
got to roll with the punches.
1 HungerArtistatlunch 2018-08-12
Quick question though. Let's say you marry this girl and grow old together. Hopefully, by the time you're 50, one woman will be enough for you. You think you would ever tell her that you had girls on the side?
1 crandogill 2018-08-12
But one woman is enough. the thing is people think I am cheating and like "fuck her! I dont need her". I love her. I am cheating because she wont find out and it passes the time. I wish i could be with her which I will be in a few weeks. Since I dont care about some act, I care how she feels I can cheat. I will gladly stop when I go back home as I would never know if she could find out then
No i would never tell her. She would die not knowing (knocks on wood). The point is I just dont think it matters what happens, it is what you know happend. It is how you feel.
1 HungerArtistatlunch 2018-08-12
So you're cheating as a hobby? Not to come off as judgy, but maybe reading a book would be a better use of your time.
1 crandogill 2018-08-12
Books are awesome. Cheating is not a hobby. i never cheat until I happened to be in this other country so i know she wont know. For me cheating is like a better wank. It means nothing. I wont miss it when I am back with her. it could be yeas before I happen to be in a situation where i cheat because I know she wont notice. Heck, it may never happen. I dont even seek it out.
1 HungerArtistatlunch 2018-08-12
So this other woman is just a complex fleshlight? Pretty sure she appreciates that. Getting a real good look at how you operate here.
1 crandogill 2018-08-12
Huh? We're fuck buddies. She knows this and I know this. probably wont talk after the next month and that is fine by me and her. If she is then I am her dildo
1 HungerArtistatlunch 2018-08-12
So, tell me if I am wrong here. You have sex with one girl because you love her or whatever. You find yourself out of the country, and now you are having sex with another girl because you like having orgasms, and a vagina feels better than your hand. Maybe there's some reciprocity to it, but it's entirely transactional. You get off, she gets off.
I don't know, maybe I should be asking if you think sex is an expression of deep emotions. If it is, what does that mean about the sex you have with the fuck buddy? If it isn't, what does that mean about the sex you have with your girlfriend?
1 crandogill 2018-08-12
dude sex can be both. I like a womans ass and vag. But it is not at all as good as all of that plus love
1 HungerArtistatlunch 2018-08-12
So the emotions are not intrinsic to sex? If so, would you be OK if you never had sex but was with a woman you love dearly?
1 crandogill 2018-08-12
It is more that sex with someone you love is a whole different thing. Infinitely better. If you dont love them it is just a good wank.
All that being said, I would still stay with my gf if she couldnt have sex anymore. Love that woman!
1 TransexualWiener 2018-08-12
you sound gay.
1 HungerArtistatlunch 2018-08-12
No u
1 uniqueguy263 2018-08-12
But it would hurt her if she knew. It’s a betrayal of her trust. Doesn’t make you Hitler like the idiots in that thread think, but it’s kinda a dick move
1 crandogill 2018-08-12
I get that, and that is why in all the time I no her I dont even look at other women. I dont care. In this situation she clearly wont know because fo the set up. So, with that said I know there will be no pain. And I just dont see the issue if there is no pain.
1 Bobby-B-Kenobi 2018-08-12
That's so noble, you're a real catch you know that.
1 crandogill 2018-08-12
Oh come on, it was just a typo I corrected it to "know" so i'm good now right? ....right??
1 CocoNutsOn 2018-08-12
Not to worry, your girlfriend will never tell you either. She’s probably fucking about because she’s bored and lets face it, you ain’t around. King size beds are for sharing.
1 crandogill 2018-08-12
Exactly. I know she isnt but nobody can ever really know. so since I dont feel bad cuz i believe it aint true then there is no harm
1 CocoNutsOn 2018-08-12
That’s the spirit.
1 crandogill 2018-08-12
I actually got a disciple!
1 CocoNutsOn 2018-08-12
You’re probably gonna need/meet Jesus when you get found out.
1 22333444455555666666 2018-08-12
except you will find out in like 12 years when she moves in with tyrese and takes half your money
1 crandogill 2018-08-12
Well hopefully by then I'll have something to take, right now maybe we can settle on the yu gi oh card collection in the attic...
1 chimera_Sphinx 2018-08-12
W. T. F.
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-08-12
it's obviously a troll, why do you even engage him?
1 HungerArtistatlunch 2018-08-12
I am having fun.
1 xthorgoldx 2018-08-12
Dude, you can't just call homeless people trolls.
The PC term is "troglodyte."
1 jumpydoll_ 2018-08-12
It's a inferiority complex
1 uniqueguy263 2018-08-12
10/10 troll. Tons of Redditors who respect wamen are completely horrified by this
1 better_bot 2018-08-12
Troll: Greetings, reddit. I am a one-dimensional character of everything you hate.
Reddit: REEEEEE
Ad nauseum
1 uniqueguy263 2018-08-12
There's also middle aged suburban middle aged women and overbearing older men. You can just feel the deep seated issues
1 abasqueye 2018-08-12
Is it deep-seated or deep -seeded?
1 HvinFunOnTheInternet 2018-08-12
Reddit's insecurity anytime cheating is brought up is pretty funny. They are just a hair short of going full radical Muslim and demanding that adulterers be stoned.
1 King_Drumpf 2018-08-12
Chad strikes again!
1 rhyme-ocerus 2018-08-12
Redditors get super mad that someone with a gf could manage to actually fuck someone else, too. They have a hard enough time with the first part, but at least they're okay at videogames.
1 TransexualWiener 2018-08-12
if you don't get side pussy constantly, you're a beta.
1 transgirltradwife 2018-08-12
Man if only I can be in a cuckquean relationship
1 HvinFunOnTheInternet 2018-08-12
Makes sense to me.