I only follow the patriarchal aspects of Islam. Not the aspects that make you a cuck e.g. Abstaining from womanising, penetrating a sweet trap virgin ass and lowering your gaze.
Well actually it's with bussy just with artificial wombs to actually reproduce. The WOM part stands for "with other men". The obviois best future for the west is having half of all men transitioned to trussy for the other half to pound and turning all gussy into soylent green.
Me and my male significant other (sadly I'm hetereo) have several agreements which are very healthy.
I'm a strong proponent against objectivication so he agreed that his center of vision must never EVER be closer to a woman behind of breasts than a 30 degree angle. When he talks to a woman, he just looks slightly above her head to ensure my mental health.
No phone, no computer, no tablet. Those are gateways to porn.
We do monthly review session where I probe him about sexist thoughts. If he did "okay" (men can never do good there really), he get's to have sex as a reward.
Honestly, when people call me controlling, that's just sexist. Those are simply my personal boundaries to preserve my mental health in a world full of sexism and racism.
He can leave whenever he wants (but his bank account stays with me lol)
And then they spin it as if he's the problem for wanting freedom over enslavement.
Honestly with the manipulation he was throwing, it seems like you dodged a bullet. He tried to place the “its the principle of the matter” card to thrown you off balance and make you feel like a villain, but really he’s the bad guy here. He says you’re more important than porn...but then in the same breathe also says you’re not. This is truly a blessing in disguise.
It's like an entire sub full of my first girlfriend
Dude it's insane, it's like I went back 10 years and am chatting with her on MSN again. She didn't flat out say these things, but she had this exact mentality and was manipulating as fuck. I had this exact situation happen to me, hell I might even have replied with exactly the same words.
I learned a lot in that relationship. It wasn't pretty.
Do you think there's anything that guy could say that wouldn't be twisted into being 'manipulative' by that shit hive of crazy counts, other than him eating g his girlfriends shit sandwich with a smile?
It's like an entire sub full of my first girlfriend
For me it the line that brought back memories was:
I really wasn't expecting this. I felt blindsided. I started crying. [...] Things did not go at all like I had hoped or expected.
It's one thing to be surprised at the unexpected. It's another to convince yourself that a social interaction is destined to go the way you want, overplay your hand, and then break down when you don't get what you wanted.
They can't event write properly. She isn't choosing to not have porn in her life. She is choosing to not have porn in his life. A choice she seems to think she is entitled to.
And then everyone is telling her that HE is the bad guy for not going along with her stupid ultimatum. She couldn't even handle once or twice a month.
The part that worries me the most is you have a hundred other women babying the shit out of her behavior and even implying it's HIS fault that she decided to put an ultimatum on the table.
The truly awful part is the women giving her this advice have their own boyfriends who rub one out to porn every once in a while behind their backs, but poor, unlucky OP is out of what by her own standards was a decent boyfriend based on some internet, misunderstood, pedantic, patronizing, unrealistic dogma. OP should beg him to come back.
I already PM'ed the op that they need to get on the phone with their bf and try to make things work. Told her straight up that GC is nothing but older, bitter lonely women who's relationships didn't work out due to their(and their partners issues) and as a result hate all men and will fuck over other women'ss relationships to get a new ally to their cause.
wow. you see, i like r/gc. they have some righteous (hilarious) threads. they're just wrong about men sometimes but not about a lot of things. but they're women. of course they're going to be wrong about men sometimes.
i think you did OP a favor, I guess. someone had to.
I like drama and their hilarious screeching but man, someone needed to set OP straight on the multicolor haired viper pit. Sounds like GC has influenced a lot of bullshit that's aggravated her BF to the point where he was like fuck it, I'm done after this one.
The uncensored version of that thread is hilarious. That whole sub is full of Andrea Dworkins jacking each other off and hushing away the opinions that threaten their fragile ideology.
Among all the relationships I've been in, I've still been able to get myself off better than her. Sometimes you just want a quick wank and women for all of the good parts of them you can put it into, jerking it isn't usually their strong suit.
I asked this on an advice sub and they called me "crazy" and "controlling." I'd really like GC's perspective though since I've always leaned radfem and am mostly aligned with the ideas here.
After GC convinces her of her (self) righteousness:
Thank you all for your responses! I will have a talk with him and let him know I am firm on this issue.
And then...
Things did not go at all like I had hoped or expected. I haven't talked to anyone yet, and I'm still not sure where I stand with all this. Everyone close to me that I could call will say I'm crazy for making this an issue, and I'm not sure right now that I'd disagree with them.
She ignored the advice of normies and let the false bravado of internet femcels convince her she had the leverage to make this ill-fated power play in a three year relationship that, by her own account, was nearly perfect.
Relationships are built on dealing with shit. You've got to decide what you want to deal with that you dont like and what you won't deal with. For most people, the latter is drugs, abuse, cheating, etc. - serious and life altering shit - and decide to deal with picking up dirty socks, SO being vegetarian, or watching porn.
Unfortunately (or maybe fortunately for us normal men), these women are unable to see this and pick a stupid hill to fight for. Thank god this guy isn't a fucking doormat and won't reproduce with this psycho.
This dummy gave up the her version of a perfect relationship because the guy does something 100 percent of males do. Who would think of going to a self professed radical forum of anonymous bitter women for relationship advice??? The guy doesn't even watch the 'evil professional porn', he watches shit made by amateurs.
" Would you be so forgiving if say, he enjoyed and jerked off to homeless people fighting for food? Or black people getting lynched? " The state of these broads, as if women uploading themselves sucking a dick to vidme is comparable to that. Christ.
I laughed at the "once or twice a month too" dude was lying from the beginning to not have her freak out, which I'm sure he is well familiar with. I did the same thing.
Ah, there's the odd guy out there who's super religious or just... weird, or living out in the bush or some undeveloped country. They do exist, just super rare in modern western nations.
Cuz you know once the wifi's flicked on, that siren call of the bussy/gussy is gently crying your name, "Come fap to me!"
Knew a guy who didn't watch porn, but he was indeed pretty religious, fasted a day a week and all.
IIRC he was asked why once and he said "Yeah that's sort of a drug", so I guess that just like not drinking alcohol at all, it's about keeping "influences" out.
Brother was roommates with a super uptight mormon kid who was repressed like Elias from Clerks 2. Like you could tell he wanted the freedom like a regular kid but he heavily programmed with that mormon bullshit.
They took him to a strip club and Sonny nearly passed out from excitement.
I don't watch porn because I tend to overthink it. As soon as you stop being distracted most videos become quite grotesque, especially if you know how real sex actually works.
Considering the post mentions a week-long trip because of work, it might also just be that.
Like, I'll be honest, I would definitely be pretty pissed if my BF looked at porn instead of having sex - with me. obviously. But if I don't want to/can't have sex ( For whichever reason ), it's pretty fair game.
Apparently real porn is 100% rape, especially when it's consensual. That amateur video of a young, loving couple having sex? He's raping her, full stop. Literature and Chinese cartoons are totally okay though because nobody's getting hurt (read: actually having sex).
It's a patriarchy-capitalist problem; always has been, always will be. And the tendency of humans to extract the most from the least resistance possible. I wish I got paid for having sex, tbh, especially from porn since you get to more or less choose the partner. Not to say that women don't suffer under the larger question of cultural imbalance. I understand the GC argument. It's just that feminists don't really take the time to understand men most times because in their eyes, we are the inheritors of the world's riches, but ask any man if that's true today, or true throughout an one's entire existence.
Sometimes that sub claims their boyfriends never watch porn,or even never have to which all men say that's patently untrue. But sure r/GC, believe your bf on that, lol. No disrespect but all modern American men have watched porn. All modern single American men watch porn. Full stop.
This is one position that I understand, GC is anti-porn because they think every girl in the porn industry is abused and that any time a man watches porn, he's watching a woman being raped. Erotica is just written words, nothing is actually happening.
I don't agree with their position, but I understand the dichotomy.
Right, and I honestly don't think they're wrong that ~95% of women in porn are more or less abused. It's a mind fuck no matter which way it's looked at. Or some women do like to push sexual boundaries and the porn actresses who don't have to push those same limits to make a living. I understand that as well. It's their insistence that there exist men who have never watched porn or that single men in America do not watch porn that I vehemently disagree with.
I think the common implication in that sub that these female pornstars are raped is really kinda sexist.
Unless they're literally being chained up, or physically forced to do these acts, it's removing any sense of agency from those women. If the guys are just raping them - why bother fucking paying them?
Eh, I feel like they take it too far ("paid rape" lmao) but there's a nugget of a point worth discussing there.
Work is inherently coercive, assuming you're in a position where you either work or you starve/end up homeless/whatever, which a lot of people are. This is annoying, but fine if your work is submitting TPS reports or ringing out groceries for bitchy boomers, but when that work is literally having sex, that coercive element becomes more of a problem. If a chick has to let a dude prolapse her anus on camera or not make rent this month, that's legit pretty fucked. Ideally these people would all have enough market value or whatever to freely make choices about what sex acts they want to participate in, but realistically that's absolutely not what's happening in the vast, vast majority of cases.
So instead of working in porn they could idk, get a job doing litterally anything else? Get a shitty retail/cleaning/phone salesman job like everyone else who lacks qualifications for better gigs. Sure, the pay and hours are way worse, but everyone else manages so why not?
So instead of working in porn they could idk, get a job doing litterally anything else?
Maybe they can't get those jobs, maybe those jobs available don't pay enough for them to survive. Maybe they got into the porn industry as an easily-manipulated young person who bought into the LE EMPOWERMEM narrative and now that they've been in porn and their identities are known nobody wants to hire them anywhere else.
I mean, for a young person living in LA with that high CoL "just get a job that pays enough to survive" isn't a small task even when you don't have a complete lack of industry-relevant job skills and a publicly-available black mark on your name from being in porn. And for all we know these women could have kids or other dependents at home. There's lots of reasons switching jobs or careers isn't always immediately feasible.
Then move somewhere where you don't have to get raped to make a living?
Like I said in my previous post, your mentality removes agency from these women. That's the only way to make the "they're in porn but don't want to be so it's rape" argument - by implying they're too stupid, or lazy, or whatever, to make a living the way 90% of other people do.
The reality is that, like a lot of jobs, being a pornstar has it's good bits (Like making what takes a retail worker a month to make in 5 hours), and bad parts (Like getting your anus prolapsed). But just like the guy down at Wal-Mart bitching about his job, getting paid to suck dick was a conscious choice.
"they're in porn but don't want to be so it's rape"
I'm not making that argument lmao. You're not talking to someone from that thread fam. You just gotta take into account the realities of financial survival when you're self-supporting, although I can forgive a dude yet to leave his Mom's basement for not knowing anything about that.
lmao, saying "hey there's something to be considered here about how coercive this situation is" is a really far cry from "porn is rape." I even mocked that argument in my original post, ya brainlet.
It's obviously not rape because they are physically capable of not participating in it. You can choose to be homeless instead of getting buttfucked on camera. It's a fucked up choice to be faced with, but it is a choice. There's a big spectrum between "this is perfectly okay and we should support it" and "this is literally rape."
And the realities of financial survival is that people with shitty jobs that earn way less than doing porn aren't starving to death, regardless of whether or not they have kids. Granted, a substantial part of that might be through welfare picking up the slack (especially if you have kids) and living a life constantly agonizing over sudden expenses (like healthcare, the fridge breaking down, having to get your kids new shoes, how to manage to get your kids snacks or get money so they can join the other kids in the class on outings etc) but it's certainly possible, millions of people do it.
Yeah, a black mark from doing porn might make working as say, a school teacher pretty hard but it's sure as hell not going to stop you from a job as a phone salesman. All they check for that is that you got a pulse and can remotely show up on time.
I get it though, change is hard, especially when it is something big like employment, doubly so if you are massively trading down when it comes to standard of living and massively ramping up your work hours.
But unless you are actually being trafficked it really is a choice.
Tbh porn stars could just go flip burgers if they weren't addicted to coke and driving flashy cars. So if you think about it they kind of deserve what they get tbh.
Well, I've seen plenty where they've actually been chained up, and they sure as shit didn't have a problem with that. Kink dot com in fact has interview sessions after (and intros before) their bdsm content that really blows away a lot of those outdated misconceptions.
Sure, you could argue those are in the 5%, but it's still an interesting source of counterexamples.
Your point about denying agency is a super common theme amongst rape-culture dog-whistlers (who think errrrrything is rape).
It's weird bc one of the deleted comments is someone talking about reading porn cartoons with their SO and people yelled at 'em. I don't see why porn cartoons would be a problem under the GC anti-porn stance?
Ask yourself this question. Is it a man doing it? Specifically, a straight man. If the answer is yes, then it is problematic. This really isn't rocket science.
That kind of falls apart with amateur content though. Then you get into consent concerns and whether or not the person consented to that stuff being online, but you can literally never know that, just like you can literally not know that every women in professional porn is being abused.
So I guess if we're going on possibilities, all porn is suspect. Or whatever.
I know there's a lot of steps to verify on pornhub to submit OC, so I'm guessing some kind of consent form is part of their process. I'm guessing that if they had a filmed threesome, the couple would need the 3rd to sign a consent form or otherwise it wouldn't be approved?
Stick around and you'll see plenty more of the lolcows at GC! Wait till you meet that stupid bird world of women or her even stupider friend womenswarrior. You should send them a PM of a penis you find on google!
I think my last gf gave me PTSD, and that first response triggered it.
If you give in on this and stay with him, his porn use will escalate, no doubt, 100%, because he knows now that this boundary is one you have given him permission to stomp all over. And he will know that all of your boundaries are up for debate. It won't end with porn, that is just the beginning.
Imagine typing this without realizing that you are a manipulative, heartless piece of shit
Actually their take on it is that gay porn ( Along with trans porn, because they have nothing if not obsessed with trans people ) is always sweet and all lovey, with no trace of BDSM, rough sex or all that whatsoever.
I've seen them say that gay porn is problematic because it "falls into the same tropes of submission and dominance that straight porn does, and the bottom is essentially a stand in for a woman." They're somehow more homophobic than conservatives when they want to be.
Even after leaving her she might kill him. He should have taken the key to his place instead of saying "get your shit while I'm gone." That's a good way to come home to, at best, a fucked up house, at worse, an ambush of shrieking radfems
The OP talks like people in her actual life aren't completely retarded and would tell her she's crazy. He at least shouldn't get ambushed by a bunch of them.
Stepping into that sub is like stepping into a different world it's insane. A lot of people there act like my first girlfriend did and she was certified insane.
I like how the dude responded, it's exactly how I responded when she tried to stop me from ever trying weed.
Honestly with the manipulation he was throwing, it seems like you dodged a bullet. He tried to place the “its the principle of the matter” card to thrown you off balance and make you feel like a villain, but really he’s the bad guy here.
This shit. Fucking hell. The dude is not allowed to stand up for himself, they can't even begin to see his argument. It's like they don't even see him as a person but rather a possession. It's insane. It's my way or the highway.
I'd like to punch this person in the nose.
First of all, I don't get why women get all worked up about porn.To me porn is just like a movie except more immersive.Are you going to attempt everything you see in a movie in real life.Hell no
similarly you are not gonna want your sex life to be
similar to what is being shown in porn.Its just a different form of entertainment.
I'd really like GC's perspective though since I've always leaned radfem and am mostly aligned with the ideas here
So you just want... confirmation bias and that people can agree with you? Well gee. What's the point of even fucking asking the question if you already know what you want
How broken and incapable of seeing a woman of having any agency do you have to be to think that when she makes an ultimatum and he says "can't do it, if you stay or if you go it's up to you" that it's him being manipulative.
They love to deny women of any agency so they can paint any stupid decision they make as oppression by {{{someone else}}} ( It's men ).
They shoot themselves in the foot pretty often that way. Have seen one say rape by women was irrelevant when she admitted to being a rape-by-a-woman survivor in the same post.
That sounds like some rape-victim-who-has-not-coped logic if I ever heard it. People do all kinds of weird shit to intentionally minimize what happened to them so they don't have to deal with it. Like I knew someone who was molested as a kid and she once started throwing an absolute fit saying its the kid's fault if they get molested. It's really sad actually.
I love the way they're trying to make it out like he's being manipulative by putting the choice to stay or go in her hands. Like, she delivered the ultimatum, but wants to feel like he broke up with her instead of the other way around.
At the same time, while I get what he's going for with that "if you choose to leave" bullshit, he needs to be more firm. In delivering an unfeasible ultimatum, she has already broken up with him. If she gussies out and "decides to stay", things are only going to get worse.
uhm did you not read the op? its not that we would rather watch porn, its that any girl psycho enough to threaten our relationship over it, isn't worth keeping. if she's willing to give ultimatums over porn, and it works, then whats next? hanging out with the guys, other, normal habits, that may not be super healthy but we still enjoy? if you care about this guy you take your time and convince him to change his ways, don't make it all dramatic and get upset when we don't wanna deal with it.
Oh God it's so true. When I was 18 I was dating a 30 year old who always told me he wasn't into young women as even then I was sensitive about being fetishized. When I was 21 I found his searches and they were literally all centered around 'teen' and felt so betrayed and disgusted, it forever changed the way I saw him and all men and knew I couldn't handle it in my relationships or life in general.
Is GC the ultimate destination of all those crazy chicks who think it's a good idea to date a middle aged person while they can still get in trouble with the state for not going to high school? Like how could anyone spend 2 minutes talking to an 18 year old girl and think that any 30 year old would want to date them for anything but sex? 18 year olds are insufferable.
And I thought r/drama was the most retard dense subreddit. That is literally the worst shit I've ever seen and it really makes me want to die. I welcome our incel overlords, at least I know that isn't the worst fate.
How is making a choice to an ultimatum any sort of manipulation?
These people are mental.
In 3 months someone needs to do a role reversal thread where a dude gives an ultimatum to his girlfriend to give up Cosmo or he'll break up with her, and see how things go.
How utterly insecure do you have to be in yourself as to be threatened by a man who watches porn? I'd say someone needs to give these ladies a penis for a few days so they can see what it's actually like but there TERFs so they don't even like the concept of testosterone in a women much less having a dick. They realize that the thing that gives them a sex drive is the same thing that gives us a sex drive...and we have 20 times more of it.
I've discussed my perspective with him: How it objectifies women, and how the porn industry mistreats the women involved. I've also told him that it makes me feel demeaned to know that he watches it.
thank god I will never have to deal with this insanity because i only beat to bootleg chinese cartoons.
Yeah, this is pretty easy. Thankfully my wife is not particularly concerned with my porn watching, or at least she has never stated as such. However, as a guy (identity politics FTW), I'm going to jerk off, and I'm probably going to do so relatively often. I have needs I need to fulfill. I don't expect, need, or want you to be there any time I feel the need to get off. So yes, if you were willing to have sex every day or every other day, I'm still going to jerk off. Sometimes I need to rub one out before bed with little-to-no-effort. Sometimes I just want to jerk off. Sometimes I want to fuck. Sometimes I want neither.
Generally speaking, I will not let this behavior impact our sex life. For instance, I won't be doing it so much that I don't want to have sex (unless you literally want to have sex every single day, which I'm not going to want anyway).
I am going to jerk off, and I am going to do it without you there. It is something I need to do. Is that a problem for you? If it is, we are done, because I am never going to stop jerking off, for you or anyone else. If you're okay with that, why would you want to take away one of the tools I use to fulfill that need? Because I can assure you that no matter what you think, I have total control over you ever finding out that I ever watch porn. There is literally no way for you to figure it out if I don't want you to.
If it's still a problem, don't let the door hit you on the way out.
Also...
This thread is being brigaded by limp dick losers who like jerking off to women being raped, so I'm locking it.
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1 SnapshillBot 2018-08-29
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1 DrRockzosCocaine 2018-08-29
She gave him an ultimatum and she's shocked he picked his freedom to watch porn over her. Wonder how fat/shrill she is to be that jealous
1 high_side 2018-08-29
1 PoorLilMarco 2018-08-29
"Here's your two choices."
"Wait no, don't pick that one!"
Fucking women.
1 IllustriousTooth 2018-08-29
This but actually unironically, artificial wombs can't come soon enough.
1 tschwib 2018-08-29
1 ItsSugar 2018-08-29
FTFY, friendly reminder that the manlets preaching the wonders of the industrial reproduction will be dead or infertile by the time we get there.
1 aqouta 2018-08-29
Well actually it's with bussy just with artificial wombs to actually reproduce. The WOM part stands for "with other men". The obviois best future for the west is having half of all men transitioned to trussy for the other half to pound and turning all gussy into soylent green.
1 cheesetrap2 2018-08-29
English, motherfucker!?
1 Awayfone 2018-08-29
Excuse me no one said robot female would have the wombs
1 NardDogAndy 2018-08-29
Anime waifu sex bots with artifical wombs
1 cheesetrap2 2018-08-29
What'll those be called, Fleshheavies?
1 cmakk1012 2018-08-29
Is that “with other men” at the end?
I’d have thought you’d prefer other otherkin OwO
1 PoorLilMarco 2018-08-29
Do you even know what an otherkin is
1 cmakk1012 2018-08-29
I didn’t wanna just say fursuit
1 PoorLilMarco 2018-08-29
I'm too poor to own a fursuit
1 cmakk1012 2018-08-29
damn that smarts
1 PoorLilMarco 2018-08-29
Also I'm not a furry 😓
1 cmakk1012 2018-08-29
Ya but I don’t even know whether I could afford a fursuit or not 🤔
1 PalicoSmash 2018-08-29
doubt
1 DerekSavageCoolCuck 2018-08-29
Just like hit a deer with your car or something?
1 Momruepari 2018-08-29
Repair bill will probably cost as much as the suit. cracked bumper and everything
1 NardDogAndy 2018-08-29
MGTOWWOK
1 LampLanguage 2018-08-29
Men Going Their Own Way Without A Mom?
1 dramasexual 2018-08-29
these chicks need to be WGTOWWOW tbh
like seriously, just be a political lesbian who only dates other political lesbians at this point
1 tschwib 2018-08-29
Yikes.
Me and my male significant other (sadly I'm hetereo) have several agreements which are very healthy.
I'm a strong proponent against objectivication so he agreed that his center of vision must never EVER be closer to a woman behind of breasts than a 30 degree angle. When he talks to a woman, he just looks slightly above her head to ensure my mental health.
No phone, no computer, no tablet. Those are gateways to porn.
We do monthly review session where I probe him about sexist thoughts. If he did "okay" (men can never do good there really), he get's to have sex as a reward.
Honestly, when people call me controlling, that's just sexist. Those are simply my personal boundaries to preserve my mental health in a world full of sexism and racism.
He can leave whenever he wants (but his bank account stays with me lol)
1 Reddits_penis 2018-08-29
Yaasss slay
1 shadowbannedlol 2018-08-29
are you Karen Pence?
1 tschwib 2018-08-29
I'm not (yet) considering full blown castration
1 YTPeePo 2018-08-29
There was a poster on GenderCritical who wouln't let her two teenage daughters have any of these things for this exact reason.
1 dramasexual 2018-08-29
lmao that won't backfire at all
1 DannyLee90 2018-08-29
There's nothing like being completely naive of the modern world to prepare your children for the future.
1 ABigBigThug 2018-08-29
Turning Amish to own the patriarchy.
1 GiveMeBackMyPants 2018-08-29
Literally none of that sounds healthy, but you do you.
1 NardDogAndy 2018-08-29
Is it like that new blade runner movie, but while your finger is on his prostate?
1 handklap 2018-08-29
Excellent trolling. I give it a B+
1 the_psycho_watch 2018-08-29
And then they spin it as if he's the problem for wanting freedom over enslavement.
It's like an entire sub full of my first girlfriend
1 GreatnessPersonified 2018-08-29
Her next ultimatum will involve her new soy-bull taking care of her emotional well being through non-emotional PIV.
1 Coolscorpion_83 2018-08-29
That last sentence is the best thing I’ve heard in a long time
1 the_psycho_watch 2018-08-29
Dude it's insane, it's like I went back 10 years and am chatting with her on MSN again. She didn't flat out say these things, but she had this exact mentality and was manipulating as fuck. I had this exact situation happen to me, hell I might even have replied with exactly the same words.
I learned a lot in that relationship. It wasn't pretty.
1 NardDogAndy 2018-08-29
Being principled is manipulative in current year
1 nmx179 2018-08-29
Do you think there's anything that guy could say that wouldn't be twisted into being 'manipulative' by that shit hive of crazy counts, other than him eating g his girlfriends shit sandwich with a smile?
1 the_psycho_watch 2018-08-29
No, not a chance
1 movielover2019 2018-08-29
So delusional
1 midairfistfight 2018-08-29
For me it the line that brought back memories was:
It's one thing to be surprised at the unexpected. It's another to convince yourself that a social interaction is destined to go the way you want, overplay your hand, and then break down when you don't get what you wanted.
1 GadolBoobies 2018-08-29
Feminists are always right, especially when they're wrong.
1 TheMortarGuy 2018-08-29
They can't event write properly. She isn't choosing to not have porn in her life. She is choosing to not have porn in his life. A choice she seems to think she is entitled to.
Odd.
1 GadolBoobies 2018-08-29
Feminist: "It's either me or the porn!"
[boyfriend walks away and chooses porn]
Feminist: "I wasn't going to give you a choice anyway! Plus I'M leaving you!"
1 TheMortarGuy 2018-08-29
And then everyone is telling her that HE is the bad guy for not going along with her stupid ultimatum. She couldn't even handle once or twice a month.
The part that worries me the most is you have a hundred other women babying the shit out of her behavior and even implying it's HIS fault that she decided to put an ultimatum on the table.
..... The fucking gymnastics are world class.
1 sentrybot619 2018-08-29
meanwhile the exbf has probably spanked it a few dozen times to some tasty pron and hasn't looked back.
1 Fishofthetunavariety 2018-08-29
Cumming out of retirement.
1 freejosephk 2018-08-29
The truly awful part is the women giving her this advice have their own boyfriends who rub one out to porn every once in a while behind their backs, but poor, unlucky OP is out of what by her own standards was a decent boyfriend based on some internet, misunderstood, pedantic, patronizing, unrealistic dogma. OP should beg him to come back.
1 DrRockzosCocaine 2018-08-29
I already PM'ed the op that they need to get on the phone with their bf and try to make things work. Told her straight up that GC is nothing but older, bitter lonely women who's relationships didn't work out due to their(and their partners issues) and as a result hate all men and will fuck over other women'ss relationships to get a new ally to their cause.
1 freejosephk 2018-08-29
wow. you see, i like r/gc. they have some righteous (hilarious) threads. they're just wrong about men sometimes but not about a lot of things. but they're women. of course they're going to be wrong about men sometimes.
i think you did OP a favor, I guess. someone had to.
1 DrRockzosCocaine 2018-08-29
I like drama and their hilarious screeching but man, someone needed to set OP straight on the multicolor haired viper pit. Sounds like GC has influenced a lot of bullshit that's aggravated her BF to the point where he was like fuck it, I'm done after this one.
1 Gugulen1 2018-08-29
It's been six hours. Did she ever message you back?
1 DrRockzosCocaine 2018-08-29
Woops, just saw this but I never got a reply from her
1 cleverseneca 2018-08-29
One hundred other Alts. Some may or may not be women or NEET or duplicates.
1 Momruepari 2018-08-29
tbf If he's only doing it once or twice a month, it shouldn't be that hard to get away with
1 texasjoe 2018-08-29
The uncensored version of that thread is hilarious. That whole sub is full of Andrea Dworkins jacking each other off and hushing away the opinions that threaten their fragile ideology.
1 WorldStarCroCop 2018-08-29
Among all the relationships I've been in, I've still been able to get myself off better than her. Sometimes you just want a quick wank and women for all of the good parts of them you can put it into, jerking it isn't usually their strong suit.
1 Starship_Litterbox_C 2018-08-29
First she came for my porn, and I did speak out
Because I love porn 😻😻😻
1 SmurfPrivilege 2018-08-29
From her previous post:
After GC convinces her of her (self) righteousness:
And then...
She ignored the advice of normies and let the false bravado of internet femcels convince her she had the leverage to make this ill-fated power play in a three year relationship that, by her own account, was nearly perfect.
1 Karma-Means-Nothing 2018-08-29
It's called creative writing.
1 Robot879 2018-08-29
I need to believe.
1 TheMortarGuy 2018-08-29
Could this be the wake up call that she needs???
1 chumthescrubber 2018-08-29
Gender Critical advice didn't work? Who would've guessed?
1 atsteak 2018-08-29
TFW when you criticize the gender and the gender fights back
1 oss_spy 2018-08-29
Relationships are built on dealing with shit. You've got to decide what you want to deal with that you dont like and what you won't deal with. For most people, the latter is drugs, abuse, cheating, etc. - serious and life altering shit - and decide to deal with picking up dirty socks, SO being vegetarian, or watching porn.
Unfortunately (or maybe fortunately for us normal men), these women are unable to see this and pick a stupid hill to fight for. Thank god this guy isn't a fucking doormat and won't reproduce with this psycho.
1 marmaladerecipes 2018-08-29
This dummy gave up the her version of a perfect relationship because the guy does something 100 percent of males do. Who would think of going to a self professed radical forum of anonymous bitter women for relationship advice??? The guy doesn't even watch the 'evil professional porn', he watches shit made by amateurs.
" Would you be so forgiving if say, he enjoyed and jerked off to homeless people fighting for food? Or black people getting lynched? " The state of these broads, as if women uploading themselves sucking a dick to vidme is comparable to that. Christ.
1 The_DJSeahorse 2018-08-29
Your porn genres intrigue me.
1 TheMauveHand 2018-08-29
Add some incest in there and you have the Southern Combo.
/r/relevantflair
ROLL TIDE
1 the_psycho_watch 2018-08-29
I laughed at the "once or twice a month too" dude was lying from the beginning to not have her freak out, which I'm sure he is well familiar with. I did the same thing.
1 AFellowCanadianGuy 2018-08-29
We all have.
1 texasjoe 2018-08-29
That's the beauty of getting older and not giving a fuck any more. I've got no shame in my game.
1 Merkin-Muffley 2018-08-29
exactly, any guy that doesn't look at porn (at least occasionally) is a liar.
1 SRSLovesGawker 2018-08-29
Ah, there's the odd guy out there who's super religious or just... weird, or living out in the bush or some undeveloped country. They do exist, just super rare in modern western nations.
Cuz you know once the wifi's flicked on, that siren call of the bussy/gussy is gently crying your name, "Come fap to me!"
1 Nadare3 2018-08-29
Knew a guy who didn't watch porn, but he was indeed pretty religious, fasted a day a week and all.
IIRC he was asked why once and he said "Yeah that's sort of a drug", so I guess that just like not drinking alcohol at all, it's about keeping "influences" out.
1 GreatnessPersonified 2018-08-29
I'd say it's about getting the prostate-cancer causing influences out. Regular ejaculation dramatically improves the chances of not getting cancer.
1 Nadare3 2018-08-29
Got an excuse like that but for women lying around ? :D
1 vtesterlwg 2018-08-29
ejaculate into your wife
1 CannabisCumshot69 2018-08-29
or an altar boy, no need to be bigots here
1 vtesterlwg 2018-08-29
he is riht though.
1 DrRockzosCocaine 2018-08-29
Brother was roommates with a super uptight mormon kid who was repressed like Elias from Clerks 2. Like you could tell he wanted the freedom like a regular kid but he heavily programmed with that mormon bullshit.
They took him to a strip club and Sonny nearly passed out from excitement.
1 PierligBouloven 2018-08-29
I don't watch porn because I tend to overthink it. As soon as you stop being distracted most videos become quite grotesque, especially if you know how real sex actually works.
1 zenicaone 2018-08-29
thats where you're wrong kiddo
r/gonewildaudio/
1 myusername_sucks 2018-08-29
A man of culture I see.
1 OnionBits 2018-08-29
GWA + Busty Petite + Pale Girls = 👌
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-08-29
I read porn because I am a weirdo.
1 GreatnessPersonified 2018-08-29
I use braile. Checkmark Roastcels.
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-08-29
That's called reading, lol.
1 oss_spy 2018-08-29
He doesn't use his hand to read it
1 freejosephk 2018-08-29
Using my peen to read braille.....
Ascension
1 dramasexual 2018-08-29
Written erotica is the patrician porn choice tbh
1 dogDroolsCatsRules 2018-08-29
This but unironically.
1 NardDogAndy 2018-08-29
It's strange to think that I've probably seen more vaginas than all of my ancestors combined.
1 gemininature 2018-08-29
And the thing is....would she be putting out more often to make up for the lack of jerking off? Doubt it.
1 Russiangreyman 2018-08-29
Funny enough. In all my relationships I never needed to look at porn and rarely jerked it because we would have sex enough.
Either shes not attractive to him (very likely) or shes not putting out (also very likely).
1 Nadare3 2018-08-29
Considering the post mentions a week-long trip because of work, it might also just be that.
Like, I'll be honest, I would definitely be pretty pissed if my BF looked at porn instead of having sex - with me. obviously. But if I don't want to/can't have sex ( For whichever reason ), it's pretty fair game.
1 Fishofthetunavariety 2018-08-29
Those interactions are hilarious.
"what have you been doing?" "... Jerking off" "what the fuck?! You should have said something!"
1 NardDogAndy 2018-08-29
Even when I'm having frequent sex in a relationship, I still jerk off. It's a totally different experience and fulfills a different urge than sex.
1 texasjoe 2018-08-29
The amount of getting laid and the amount of masturbation in my life have never been related.
1 PhysicsIsMyMistress 2018-08-29
Funny how women don't like it when men want body autonomy.
1 high_side 2018-08-29
1 Bucklar 2018-08-29
...holy fucking shit...
1 GARBAGE_MACHINE 2018-08-29
1 freejosephk 2018-08-29
However,
So, porn is wrong for men, but okay for women?
1 kefefs 2018-08-29
Apparently real porn is 100% rape, especially when it's consensual. That amateur video of a young, loving couple having sex? He's raping her, full stop. Literature and Chinese cartoons are totally okay though because nobody's getting hurt (read: actually having sex).
1 freejosephk 2018-08-29
It's a patriarchy-capitalist problem; always has been, always will be. And the tendency of humans to extract the most from the least resistance possible. I wish I got paid for having sex, tbh, especially from porn since you get to more or less choose the partner. Not to say that women don't suffer under the larger question of cultural imbalance. I understand the GC argument. It's just that feminists don't really take the time to understand men most times because in their eyes, we are the inheritors of the world's riches, but ask any man if that's true today, or true throughout an one's entire existence.
Sometimes that sub claims their boyfriends never watch porn,or even never have to which all men say that's patently untrue. But sure r/GC, believe your bf on that, lol. No disrespect but all modern American men have watched porn. All modern single American men watch porn. Full stop.
1 ThaThug 2018-08-29
Ok but what about the rest of the world....
1 SideFumbling 2018-08-29
Is this a serious post?
1 pablos4pandas 2018-08-29
What about solo stuff, is the woman raping herself?
1 realtomdelay 2018-08-29
sorry sweatie japanophiles get the noose too
https://old.reddit.com/r/GenderCritical/comments/76j20j/apparently_liking_to_stick_things_up_your_butt/doega59/
1 kefefs 2018-08-29
Is nothing safe?
1 realtomdelay 2018-08-29
you don't seem to understand. you were meant to die in the womb or shortly after exiting it. the Y chromosome is a mistake sweatie
1 imnotagayboy 2018-08-29
The male brain is a female brain which has been damaged by testosterone at various stages in its life
1 realtomdelay 2018-08-29
yup mandatory estrogen treatment for any Ysome mutants the moment they're detected in the womb.
1 jimmahdean 2018-08-29
This is one position that I understand, GC is anti-porn because they think every girl in the porn industry is abused and that any time a man watches porn, he's watching a woman being raped. Erotica is just written words, nothing is actually happening.
I don't agree with their position, but I understand the dichotomy.
1 freejosephk 2018-08-29
Right, and I honestly don't think they're wrong that ~95% of women in porn are more or less abused. It's a mind fuck no matter which way it's looked at. Or some women do like to push sexual boundaries and the porn actresses who don't have to push those same limits to make a living. I understand that as well. It's their insistence that there exist men who have never watched porn or that single men in America do not watch porn that I vehemently disagree with.
1 vtesterlwg 2018-08-29
abused is wrong tbh, i dont like porn and don't watch it anyway. it's bad for u
1 UBIisLazy 2018-08-29
I think the common implication in that sub that these female pornstars are raped is really kinda sexist.
Unless they're literally being chained up, or physically forced to do these acts, it's removing any sense of agency from those women. If the guys are just raping them - why bother fucking paying them?
1 freejosephk 2018-08-29
Raped by the patriarchy, sure; aren't we all?
1 dramasexual 2018-08-29
Eh, I feel like they take it too far ("paid rape" lmao) but there's a nugget of a point worth discussing there.
Work is inherently coercive, assuming you're in a position where you either work or you starve/end up homeless/whatever, which a lot of people are. This is annoying, but fine if your work is submitting TPS reports or ringing out groceries for bitchy boomers, but when that work is literally having sex, that coercive element becomes more of a problem. If a chick has to let a dude prolapse her anus on camera or not make rent this month, that's legit pretty fucked. Ideally these people would all have enough market value or whatever to freely make choices about what sex acts they want to participate in, but realistically that's absolutely not what's happening in the vast, vast majority of cases.
1 SinisterSintram 2018-08-29
So instead of working in porn they could idk, get a job doing litterally anything else? Get a shitty retail/cleaning/phone salesman job like everyone else who lacks qualifications for better gigs. Sure, the pay and hours are way worse, but everyone else manages so why not?
1 dramasexual 2018-08-29
Maybe they can't get those jobs, maybe those jobs available don't pay enough for them to survive. Maybe they got into the porn industry as an easily-manipulated young person who bought into the LE EMPOWERMEM narrative and now that they've been in porn and their identities are known nobody wants to hire them anywhere else.
I mean, for a young person living in LA with that high CoL "just get a job that pays enough to survive" isn't a small task even when you don't have a complete lack of industry-relevant job skills and a publicly-available black mark on your name from being in porn. And for all we know these women could have kids or other dependents at home. There's lots of reasons switching jobs or careers isn't always immediately feasible.
1 UBIisLazy 2018-08-29
Then move somewhere where you don't have to get raped to make a living?
Like I said in my previous post, your mentality removes agency from these women. That's the only way to make the "they're in porn but don't want to be so it's rape" argument - by implying they're too stupid, or lazy, or whatever, to make a living the way 90% of other people do.
The reality is that, like a lot of jobs, being a pornstar has it's good bits (Like making what takes a retail worker a month to make in 5 hours), and bad parts (Like getting your anus prolapsed). But just like the guy down at Wal-Mart bitching about his job, getting paid to suck dick was a conscious choice.
1 dramasexual 2018-08-29
I'm not making that argument lmao. You're not talking to someone from that thread fam. You just gotta take into account the realities of financial survival when you're self-supporting, although I can forgive a dude yet to leave his Mom's basement for not knowing anything about that.
1 UBIisLazy 2018-08-29
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1 dramasexual 2018-08-29
lmao, saying "hey there's something to be considered here about how coercive this situation is" is a really far cry from "porn is rape." I even mocked that argument in my original post, ya brainlet.
It's obviously not rape because they are physically capable of not participating in it. You can choose to be homeless instead of getting buttfucked on camera. It's a fucked up choice to be faced with, but it is a choice. There's a big spectrum between "this is perfectly okay and we should support it" and "this is literally rape."
1 SinisterSintram 2018-08-29
And the realities of financial survival is that people with shitty jobs that earn way less than doing porn aren't starving to death, regardless of whether or not they have kids. Granted, a substantial part of that might be through welfare picking up the slack (especially if you have kids) and living a life constantly agonizing over sudden expenses (like healthcare, the fridge breaking down, having to get your kids new shoes, how to manage to get your kids snacks or get money so they can join the other kids in the class on outings etc) but it's certainly possible, millions of people do it.
Yeah, a black mark from doing porn might make working as say, a school teacher pretty hard but it's sure as hell not going to stop you from a job as a phone salesman. All they check for that is that you got a pulse and can remotely show up on time.
I get it though, change is hard, especially when it is something big like employment, doubly so if you are massively trading down when it comes to standard of living and massively ramping up your work hours.
But unless you are actually being trafficked it really is a choice.
1 dramasexual 2018-08-29
Man I seriouspost too much here.
1 ToTheNintieth 2018-08-29
Are... you serious?
1 dramasexual 2018-08-29
Well yeah, if you have to work in order to eat you do actually have to work. That's all that means.
1 imnotagayboy 2018-08-29
Tbh porn stars could just go flip burgers if they weren't addicted to coke and driving flashy cars. So if you think about it they kind of deserve what they get tbh.
1 dramasexual 2018-08-29
Plus, free burgers!
1 cheesetrap2 2018-08-29
Well, I've seen plenty where they've actually been chained up, and they sure as shit didn't have a problem with that. Kink dot com in fact has interview sessions after (and intros before) their bdsm content that really blows away a lot of those outdated misconceptions.
Sure, you could argue those are in the 5%, but it's still an interesting source of counterexamples.
Your point about denying agency is a super common theme amongst rape-culture dog-whistlers (who think errrrrything is rape).
1 PhysicsIsMyMistress 2018-08-29
So then GC should have no problem with hentai cause it's not real, right?
1 I-need-MAYO 2018-08-29
lol, no.
1 hitlerallyliteral 2018-08-29
lmao and here I thought 'yikes' was just a meme
1 cheesetrap2 2018-08-29
Well shit, it's actually hard to disagree with that part.
1 dramasexual 2018-08-29
It's weird bc one of the deleted comments is someone talking about reading porn cartoons with their SO and people yelled at 'em. I don't see why porn cartoons would be a problem under the GC anti-porn stance?
1 imnotagayboy 2018-08-29
Ask yourself this question. Is it a man doing it? Specifically, a straight man. If the answer is yes, then it is problematic. This really isn't rocket science.
1 dramasexual 2018-08-29
I, for one, welcome our new matriarchical overlords
1 cheesetrap2 2018-08-29
Yeah but no death by snu-snu here, more likely death by snooze, when her bulk rolls over you in her sleep.
1 GiveMeBackMyPants 2018-08-29
That kind of falls apart with amateur content though. Then you get into consent concerns and whether or not the person consented to that stuff being online, but you can literally never know that, just like you can literally not know that every women in professional porn is being abused.
So I guess if we're going on possibilities, all porn is suspect. Or whatever.
1 jimmahdean 2018-08-29
1 GiveMeBackMyPants 2018-08-29
Their position falls apart when you consider amateur content.
1 DrRockzosCocaine 2018-08-29
I know there's a lot of steps to verify on pornhub to submit OC, so I'm guessing some kind of consent form is part of their process. I'm guessing that if they had a filmed threesome, the couple would need the 3rd to sign a consent form or otherwise it wouldn't be approved?
1 GiveMeBackMyPants 2018-08-29
There is only one way to find out....
1 chumthescrubber 2018-08-29
Yeah I kind of would like to see what would happen if it was the other way around.
1 WhiskeyOnASunday93 2018-08-29
Pretty sure that’s bait.
The original posts paints the bf as the most ethical type of porn user, and the update is totally RP fan fiction guy smoothly handling a breakup.
1 tschwib 2018-08-29
It's amazing either way
1 GARBAGE_MACHINE 2018-08-29
The facts that the comments are real make it worth it
1 mcslibbin 2018-08-29
swallowing the bait is what SRD and /r/drama have most in common
1 I-need-MAYO 2018-08-29
the bait, and other things.
1 mcslibbin 2018-08-29
the mayo
1 schoolboystirner 2018-08-29
The comments are the bulk of the drama anyway.
1 le_epic_xd 2018-08-29
You can never be right with femcels.
1 high_side 2018-08-29
Oh yes.
1 schoolboystirner 2018-08-29
Is this the GC blackpill?
1 ltedt 2018-08-29
Based
1 realtomdelay 2018-08-29
take the cat pill
1 Osterion 2018-08-29
That users constantly posting that blog spam in like half of her comments.
1 jocq 2018-08-29
And it's the most blatantly sexist shit I've seen all week. I'd never really encountered that sub.. They're bat shit crazy.
1 DrRockzosCocaine 2018-08-29
Stick around and you'll see plenty more of the lolcows at GC! Wait till you meet that stupid bird world of women or her even stupider friend womenswarrior. You should send them a PM of a penis you find on google!
1 zohmg 2018-08-29
That bitch is crazy.
"Sorry about your penis."
"All men are cancer"
Why the fuck would anyone take any advice from such a miserable cunt?
1 YTPeePo 2018-08-29
Without looking I already know this is the 'men are broken' spam lunatic, she's quite entertaining on there, she's mad.
https://www.reddit.com/r/GenderCritical/comments/8uevd0/straight_women_have_any_of_you_given_up_on_men/e1f5tpi/
genetic reject.
1 imnotagayboy 2018-08-29
lmao is this advice for dealing with emotions or is she trying to turn a Jedi to the dark side?
1 cheesetrap2 2018-08-29
Goood, goood...
1 PierligBouloven 2018-08-29
I think my last gf gave me PTSD, and that first response triggered it.
Imagine typing this without realizing that you are a manipulative, heartless piece of shit
1 PoorLilMarco 2018-08-29
What's the GC take on gay porn, since no women are involved in the making of it? Exclusionary sexism?
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-08-29
They hate all porn, drawn porn too.
1 PoorLilMarco 2018-08-29
So they hate weeb shit and furries? Wtf I love terfs now
1 -4x- 2018-08-29
TERFs are pretty based. Too bad most of them are women (retards).
1 Momruepari 2018-08-29
I bet at least 10% of GC are self-hating secret trannies pretending to be TERFs
1 myusername_sucks 2018-08-29
But apparently they can read shit literotica because it's just words. The guy should've been smart and just watched hentai. They're only cartoons.
1 whatis0x6472616d61 2018-08-29
They have a point tbh. Pens are phallic and triggering and the paper didn't consent to having smut drawn on it.
1 Nadare3 2018-08-29
Actually their take on it is that gay porn ( Along with trans porn, because they have nothing if not obsessed with trans people ) is always sweet and all lovey, with no trace of BDSM, rough sex or all that whatsoever.
1 imnotagayboy 2018-08-29
wrong
1 Nadare3 2018-08-29
Right
1 timsboss 2018-08-29
They don't hate exploitation of women, they hate sex. Gay porn involves sex so they hate it too.
1 cleverseneca 2018-08-29
It's not that they hate sex specifically, they hate any joy a man might feel for anything.
1 wisty 2018-08-29
Men are involved, and they hate men.
1 Fishofthetunavariety 2018-08-29
1 nomad1c 2018-08-29
taking it up the bum on camera is symbolism of womyn’s struggle
1 gemininature 2018-08-29
I've seen them say that gay porn is problematic because it "falls into the same tropes of submission and dominance that straight porn does, and the bottom is essentially a stand in for a woman." They're somehow more homophobic than conservatives when they want to be.
1 kefefs 2018-08-29
A mod posted a message about how porn is "women being raped" so I'm guessing they follow that batshit insane line of thinking.
1 YameteOniichanItai 2018-08-29
He did the right thing. You don't negotiate with terrorists.
1 voicelesshoodwinker 2018-08-29
And people say that femcels don't exist....also, congrats to the dude...she might have actually killed him.
I seem to remember news articles about an old women killing her husband over porn.
1 gemininature 2018-08-29
Even after leaving her she might kill him. He should have taken the key to his place instead of saying "get your shit while I'm gone." That's a good way to come home to, at best, a fucked up house, at worse, an ambush of shrieking radfems
1 myusername_sucks 2018-08-29
The OP talks like people in her actual life aren't completely retarded and would tell her she's crazy. He at least shouldn't get ambushed by a bunch of them.
1 Regenas 2018-08-29
Radfems are female incels. Batshit crazy shit
1 HINDBRAIN 2018-08-29
The comments on the linked thread are hilarious. Good on this splendid queen for dodging that abusing, controlling fuck!
1 Orsonius2 2018-08-29
can't wait for her to get dumped and be replaced by stacy
1 Michaelbama 2018-08-29
Holy shit is that top comment claiming not wanting your SO to sleep with other people is 'controlling'? lol
1 Awayfone 2018-08-29
Top comment from the past thread. TERFs apparently dont know definitions
1 the_psycho_watch 2018-08-29
Stepping into that sub is like stepping into a different world it's insane. A lot of people there act like my first girlfriend did and she was certified insane.
I like how the dude responded, it's exactly how I responded when she tried to stop me from ever trying weed.
This shit. Fucking hell. The dude is not allowed to stand up for himself, they can't even begin to see his argument. It's like they don't even see him as a person but rather a possession. It's insane. It's my way or the highway.
I'd like to punch this person in the nose.
1 tschwib 2018-08-29
Careful there. That's a dogwhistle for rape.
1 the_psycho_watch 2018-08-29
Don't kink shame please.
1 iamtheinfinityman 2018-08-29
First of all, I don't get why women get all worked up about porn.To me porn is just like a movie except more immersive.Are you going to attempt everything you see in a movie in real life.Hell no similarly you are not gonna want your sex life to be similar to what is being shown in porn.Its just a different form of entertainment.
1 ltedt 2018-08-29
Lmao now these cunts are using a "new" term: stonewalling. Instead of saying "he doesn't listen" they say "he's stonewalling me 😢😢😢"
No wonder so many failed relationships, they need to find everything absolutely problematic
1 serial_crusher 2018-08-29
Can't believe they would use a reference to a confederate general like that. Whole sub is like a gateway for the alt-right, SMDH.
1 sevgee 2018-08-29
Wasn't it a gay thing too at some point?
1 astronomicat 2018-08-29
ye the Stonewall Inn is probably the most famous gay bar
1 Going_up_the_Country 2018-08-29
I think it's also a wall thing.
1 sevgee 2018-08-29
You're shitting me!
1 tschwib 2018-08-29
He pretty much raped her right there
1 PureGold07 2018-08-29
I checked her first post on that sub
So you just want... confirmation bias and that people can agree with you? Well gee. What's the point of even fucking asking the question if you already know what you want
1 wiking85 2018-08-29
Validation
1 SRSLovesGawker 2018-08-29
How broken and incapable of seeing a woman of having any agency do you have to be to think that when she makes an ultimatum and he says "can't do it, if you stay or if you go it's up to you" that it's him being manipulative.
1 Nadare3 2018-08-29
They love to deny women of any agency so they can paint any stupid decision they make as oppression by {{{someone else}}} ( It's men ).
They shoot themselves in the foot pretty often that way. Have seen one say rape by women was irrelevant when she admitted to being a rape-by-a-woman survivor in the same post.
1 dramasexual 2018-08-29
That sounds like some rape-victim-who-has-not-coped logic if I ever heard it. People do all kinds of weird shit to intentionally minimize what happened to them so they don't have to deal with it. Like I knew someone who was molested as a kid and she once started throwing an absolute fit saying its the kid's fault if they get molested. It's really sad actually.
1 stillakilla 2018-08-29
The best comment was the one where someone was like “and yeah my husband has never ever watched porn during our relationship” yeah.... right...
1 high-rollr 2018-08-29
Lmao
1 serial_crusher 2018-08-29
I love the way they're trying to make it out like he's being manipulative by putting the choice to stay or go in her hands. Like, she delivered the ultimatum, but wants to feel like he broke up with her instead of the other way around.
At the same time, while I get what he's going for with that "if you choose to leave" bullshit, he needs to be more firm. In delivering an unfeasible ultimatum, she has already broken up with him. If she gussies out and "decides to stay", things are only going to get worse.
1 TheMortarGuy 2018-08-29
Or the part where she said "I almost took it all back, but didn't"
Her relationship is in the toilet and she flushed it. Instead of reaching in to grab it she just watched it go down.
1 CoPSwords 2018-08-29
I don't see how this can be seen as anything but good for both parties involved.
1 chumthescrubber 2018-08-29
If there's one thing that sub doesn't like it's male masturbation.
1 FmW-41 2018-08-29
It's proven to encourage rape because the porn victims can't consent to their jerkin
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1 DrRockzosCocaine 2018-08-29
get the fuck out
1 myusername_sucks 2018-08-29
One brave soul stepped forward.
1 gemininature 2018-08-29
Nuked in 3....2....
1 myusername_sucks 2018-08-29
Lol the whole thread is negative now.
1 the_psycho_watch 2018-08-29
And he paints a perfect example, because I went down that slippery slope with my first GF.
1 Gtyyler 2018-08-29
I think you are misinterpreting the situation. In this case, a woman is being ignored.
1 GetHisWallet 2018-08-29
"Dont ever look at porn or we are through"
"There is no way I am going to start a pattern in our relationship where you dictate my behavior by threats"
"OMG he chose PORN over ME"
1 ItsSugar 2018-08-29
1 aqouta 2018-08-29
What a fucking mench.
1 aqouta 2018-08-29
Is GC the ultimate destination of all those crazy chicks who think it's a good idea to date a middle aged person while they can still get in trouble with the state for not going to high school? Like how could anyone spend 2 minutes talking to an 18 year old girl and think that any 30 year old would want to date them for anything but sex? 18 year olds are insufferable.
1 ScatmanDosh 2018-08-29
And I thought r/drama was the most retard dense subreddit. That is literally the worst shit I've ever seen and it really makes me want to die. I welcome our incel overlords, at least I know that isn't the worst fate.
1 saint2e 2018-08-29
How is making a choice to an ultimatum any sort of manipulation?
These people are mental.
In 3 months someone needs to do a role reversal thread where a dude gives an ultimatum to his girlfriend to give up Cosmo or he'll break up with her, and see how things go.
1 HvinFunOnTheInternet 2018-08-29
I applaud whoever wrote this excellent bait.
1 high_side 2018-08-29
Masterful bait.
1 WoWscape98-1 2018-08-29
holy shit imagine comparing that shit to watching porn
1 Awayfone 2018-08-29
The original "advice" thread they were claiming porn viewing is non-monogamy and cheating
1 whoatethekidsthen 2018-08-29
"You can't watch porn anymore"
"Is this an ultimatum?"
"Yes"
"Nope, you don't get to dictate my masturbatory habits. Get your shit outta my house"
"YOU GUYS HE BROKE UP WITH ME, WHHHHYYYYYY?"
I'm willing to bet shes a fatass as well
1 GreasyPeter 2018-08-29
How utterly insecure do you have to be in yourself as to be threatened by a man who watches porn? I'd say someone needs to give these ladies a penis for a few days so they can see what it's actually like but there TERFs so they don't even like the concept of testosterone in a women much less having a dick. They realize that the thing that gives them a sex drive is the same thing that gives us a sex drive...and we have 20 times more of it.
1 realtomdelay 2018-08-29
thank god I will never have to deal with this insanity because i only beat to bootleg chinese cartoons.
1 high_side 2018-08-29
You think the voice actors are just pretending?
1 realtomdelay 2018-08-29
like anybody actually knows what the fuck those dog eater are really saying.
1 Alicesnakebae 2018-08-29
He probably would have thought about it if she told him she'd stop going to reddit for advice
1 texasjoe 2018-08-29
lol holy shit, they're all Andrea Dworkin
1 PIGamer86 2018-08-29
I love the previous post: “I posted this in another sub first but didn’t get the responses I wanted, so I’m gonna post here. Please validate me.”
1 NardDogAndy 2018-08-29
Side steps her when she goes for the hug. Alpha as fuck.
1 GiveMeBackMyPants 2018-08-29
Yeah, this is pretty easy. Thankfully my wife is not particularly concerned with my porn watching, or at least she has never stated as such. However, as a guy (identity politics FTW), I'm going to jerk off, and I'm probably going to do so relatively often. I have needs I need to fulfill. I don't expect, need, or want you to be there any time I feel the need to get off. So yes, if you were willing to have sex every day or every other day, I'm still going to jerk off. Sometimes I need to rub one out before bed with little-to-no-effort. Sometimes I just want to jerk off. Sometimes I want to fuck. Sometimes I want neither.
Generally speaking, I will not let this behavior impact our sex life. For instance, I won't be doing it so much that I don't want to have sex (unless you literally want to have sex every single day, which I'm not going to want anyway).
I am going to jerk off, and I am going to do it without you there. It is something I need to do. Is that a problem for you? If it is, we are done, because I am never going to stop jerking off, for you or anyone else. If you're okay with that, why would you want to take away one of the tools I use to fulfill that need? Because I can assure you that no matter what you think, I have total control over you ever finding out that I ever watch porn. There is literally no way for you to figure it out if I don't want you to.
If it's still a problem, don't let the door hit you on the way out.
Also...
lol
1 ToTheNintieth 2018-08-29
Holy shit. Please tell me everyone on that sub is in on the joke.
1 soupvsjonez 2018-08-29
No. I got banned for saying that having sex with someone with a dick is different than having sex with someone with a vag.
1 movielover2019 2018-08-29
This is amazing lmao