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It's a really...stupid situation I've got myself in.
My mom didn't prepare me for life all that well?? So when I got my job I HAD to have a bank account to deposit my checks into. My boyfriend was like "OK yeah just give them my bank info and get your checks deposited in my account"...so I did that (I know I know I'm really fucking dumb)
No shit.
and every thing has been FINE up until I needed to use his debit card to buy my plane ticket to go take care of my moms business....now he;s refusing to let me use it.
This is sounding pimpish
Says it's "his money" not mine.
BF is a Professional In Managing Professionals. A P.I.M.P.
Said I didn't deserve to go to her funeral because I "vented to him" too much about her??? So I went to my boss today and asked for an advance on my paycheck which didnt happen because
I;m only paid biweekly
I’m also paid biweekly, why is this ‘only’?
but I did get my next coming checks to be deposited in my own my bank account.
Her own bank account? Waaaaiitttttttt a minute. So now can auto deposit but previously couldn’t?
I can't withdraw my own money out of his bank account because my name isn't anywhere on his account. I know, again, I'm really fucking stupid. IDK what the fuck I'm going to do ..I got denied for a payday loan because I have "insufficient credit history" GODDAMNIT
One place she says that she had to do direct deposit and in another place she says she took her checks to his bank and wrote "pay to the order of" on them. This is about as fake as fake gets.
moral of my story is dont be an idiotic 18 year old who dates a 30 year old and listen to him about depositing your paychecks into his bank account. I'm a f**king idiot to say the least...IDK what Im going todo...
Wait, you don’t understand! She was 18! Everyone makes financially and emotionally devastating decisions completely devoid of common sense and reason at 18 (that they continue to make leading into their 20s)!
Call the police and ask them to help you by coming over and speaking to your 30 year old boyfriend. Make sure you have copies of your check going into his account and have the bank separate your money out into your own account.
LMFAO. "Uh, yeah can you return me that money that I deposited?"
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1 rationalhuckleberry 2018-09-27
No shit.
This is sounding pimpish
BF is a Professional In Managing Professionals. A P.I.M.P.
I’m also paid biweekly, why is this ‘only’?
Her own bank account? Waaaaiitttttttt a minute. So now can auto deposit but previously couldn’t?
Welcome to reality.
1 OnlyRacistOnReddit 2018-09-27
One place she says that she had to do direct deposit and in another place she says she took her checks to his bank and wrote "pay to the order of" on them. This is about as fake as fake gets.
Pay to the order of
Direct deposit
She's full of shit.
1 SamWhite 2018-09-27
Looking through ceddit it seems that even trollx have managed to see through the bullshit. That's how little effort was put in.
1 slugulon 2018-09-27
No one can possibly be this stupid right?
1 glorica 2018-09-27
Wait, you don’t understand! She was 18! Everyone makes financially and emotionally devastating decisions completely devoid of common sense and reason at 18 (that they continue to make leading into their 20s)!
1 glorica 2018-09-27
Why do TERFs assume that the excuse “I made that decision when I was not the same age as I am now” absolves them of responsibility
1 NormanImmanuel 2018-09-27
These aren't the TERFs
1 glorica 2018-09-27
All cis female feminists are TERFs
1 SJCards 2018-09-27
Even the cislesbians?
1 gaynazifurry4bernie 2018-09-27
If they won't go down on Riley Dennis, then yes/
1 AntiLuke 2018-09-27
Aren't terfs mostly lesbians?
1 dramasexual 2018-09-27
Eh, we're overrepresented in TERFdom but there's a lotta straight chicks there too.
1 Cybot_G 2018-09-27
Relinquishing all agency to a man is about the least radical thing you could do.
1 Burnnoticelover 2018-09-27
Worked for Kavanaugh.
1 dramasexual 2018-09-27
excuse you don't besmirch the good TERF name by conflating us with libfems
1 snallygaster 2018-09-27
Yes, yes they can
1 informat2 2018-09-27
I love how everyone is telling her she isn't stupid for doing something only an idiot would do.
1 aX10mAt1CaL1Y 2018-09-27
1 YameteOtosanItai 2018-09-27
who wouldn't want to help out a vulnerable 18 year old girl with nowhere to go?
1 YameteOtosanItai 2018-09-27
Is this some sort of reverse findom? Hot.
1 mrv3 2018-09-27
I'm going to take a guess and say this is one of those sob scams in which they'll take donations and then nothing comes of it.
1 pelhamsim 2018-09-27
Gussy. Not even once.
1 respaaaaaj 2018-09-27
This screams gofundme scam.
1 CucksLoveTrump 2018-09-27
LMFAO. "Uh, yeah can you return me that money that I deposited?"