I am not sure which is more cringey, the litany of erroneous assumptions you splayed out or the act of calling upon the student archetype with the intent of derision. Anti-intellectualism, check. src
haha ok ed, just for you I'll quote the juicy bits
It has been over a decade since I was raped, and the boy who did it is now a man. We haven’t lived in the same state since college. In all likelihood, he doesn’t think about me at all, while I have relived the moment he shoved himself inside me without my consent over and over for years, as though replaying it one more time will let me go back in time and stop this from happening to me.
And
I dated him afterward. Part of the encounter was consensual. We had both been drinking, him far more than me. I thought maybe he didn’t know what he was doing, and later didn’t remember. And so I didn’t think there was anything to report.
As of now, the vast majority of women cannot give meaningful sexual consent to men.
What an incredibly demeaning perspective of women. This mindset would classify all sex able-bodied people who have consensual sex with persons with disabilities, as rapists. Because apparently if someone is marginally more powerful than you, all of your own agency, dignity, capacity for reason and feeling...are invalidated. What a joke of a philosophy.
Rephrase the exact same facts as she presented from his point of view, and it is not at all clear what he did was rape, or that she did not rape him by getting him drunk and alone.
She was older than him, got him drunk, took him home, and they had sex. She continued to date him after that and they had consensual sex multiple times.
By her own record of events, she shares at least some blame for the encounter, and took advantage of him as much as he did of her. And her record of events is likely not the full record, because everyone likes to look good, but rarely acts 100% good. So we edit our stories to leave out the parts that make us look bad.
I struggle to see why anyone is praising this story. It reads to me like someone who is trying to spin an uncomfortable but consensual date that led into a much better overall relationship into a sob story. Nothing about it jumps out to me as something out of the ordinary. I have had dates similar to this. I was not raped. Poor communication between sex partners leading to discomfort is nothing new, and having a clumsy lover does not mean you were raped by them.
Women were cursed, punished by God, to suffer in labor because of Eve tempting Adam. When women stop having kids like they ought to, it creates an imbalance. So not only are women not owed anything, but they actually owe society a little suffering
Is one fo the criteria for getting hired to write opinion articles for NYT that you have to be so melodramatic and high off your own farts that it becomes extremely challenging to read the damn articles you write?
I dont give it a shit. Even If they are hypocritical about it I still have my position. If you start accusing this women of rape now because they would do the same if it was a men you are basically saying that they are hypocritical, but right.
But they are also wrong, so no rape has been commited by her part unless these men in question was so drunk that he was completely oit of it and had no idea whar he wad consenting to.
How different would things be if Judge Kavanaugh had played that card against Mrs Ford? She testified that she had only had one beer. He was allegedly stumbling blackout drunk.
the difference is that none of that was consensual. this cunt got him black out drunk, lured him into her bed for some naked cuddling, then when his inebriated reptilian brain slipped it in without asking her if it was okay at the moment of penetration, she did absolutely nothing.
She was literally on fucking NPR an hour ago. I heard her name, and knew it from /r/drama hahaha. Her story is a fucking joke. She said that they consensually started having sex, then he put it in her butt, and it hurt and she said to stop. She said he stopped but it took him "longer than she thought it should". She said she just figured it was because he was so drunk.
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1 BussyShillBot 2018-10-01
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1 yourdeadwife 2018-10-01
u said it bussy
1 wewladin 2018-10-01
Im now on team bussy
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1 SnapshillBot 2018-10-01
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1 Ed_ButteredToast 2018-10-01
https://i.imgur.com/zWEv5Gp.jpg
1 wow___justwow 2018-10-01
haha ok ed, just for you I'll quote the juicy bits
And
1 Lysis10 2018-10-01
Apparently she was so terrified, she decided to date him and have consensual sex later. The rape was just that good.
1 YameteOtosanItai 2018-10-01
getting them addicted to dick isn't just a hentai trope after all.
1 yourdeadwife 2018-10-01
She was cock drunk, it wasn't her fault.
1 DinosSuck 2018-10-01
This is called deescalating and it doesnt mean anything close to what you think it does.
1 Lysis10 2018-10-01
Well, I'm sure something was escalatin' up if ya know what I mean...wink wink.
1 transoceanicdeath 2018-10-01
oh, there's a word for it. that explains it!
1 WhatsupDoc001 2018-10-01
But you see, they have already addressed it with pseudo-intellectual bullshit, that means it makes perfect sense now!
1 transoceanicdeath 2018-10-01
it's funny because just from that one post i can imagine exactly what the psychobabble explanation of "deescalating" is
1 DinosSuck 2018-10-01
Uhmm ok sweetie dont get bent out of shape because you don't understand very basic sociological concepts.
1 MildlyCat 2018-10-01
How much did those sociological concepts set you back? $30k?
Damn I bet you live in the same neighborhood as Notch now
1 DinosSuck 2018-10-01
Wages and tuition are patriarchal concepts and I do not ascribe to them.
1 transoceanicdeath 2018-10-01
too obvious at this point
1 Sojir 2018-10-01
You can only Dee's calate with a blowjob. Why nobody reads feminist theory anymore?
1 QinEmperor 2018-10-01
Obviously she had to fuck him multiple times for months/years to prevent him from ever raping her again, that was totally the only reason.
1 DeescalateWithABJ 2018-10-01
1 transoceanicdeath 2018-10-01
lol
1 youcanteatbullets 2018-10-01
Forcing your pee pee into a woman without her consent is rape. It always has been. This is not complicated.
1 wow___justwow 2018-10-01
He was incapable of consenting to sex because he was way more drunk than she was. Yet she took him into her while he was a mere boy.
Begone rape apologist and spread rape culture no further.
1 Ed_ButteredToast 2018-10-01
Lmao @ uuuuuuuu
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1 shallowm 2018-10-01
She didn't say he was way more drunk than him, just that he drank way more. Maybe he held his liquor better.
1 Pizzashillsghost 2018-10-01
Imagine being this feminist.
1 shallowm 2018-10-01
a
1 Pizzashillsghost 2018-10-01
So, what you’re telling me is that you’re extreamly fat and you have a lot of cats.
1 shallowm 2018-10-01
What's wrong with having a lot of cats?
1 Ed_ButteredToast 2018-10-01
That fucking LARP lmao. I fucking love you so much i swear to god lol! Also, there's nothing wrong with having
too manynot enough kitties 😻😻😻1 AHealthySenseofDread 2018-10-01
Bruh you're getting taken for a ride by shallow of all people have some self respect.
The last time i saw him putting such little effort into something and still succeeding it was hitting on your mother
1 diggity_md 2018-10-01
When every womyn becomes She Hulk, then men may be free of the original sin of rape
1 2odastream 2018-10-01
Wait I upvoted thinking you were joking, now I realised I upvoted because you're a lolcow.
1 shallowm 2018-10-01
a
1 2odastream 2018-10-01
We're very dedicated to our radical centrism.
1 WiggityWatchinNews 2018-10-01
I upvoted you for the same reason
1 2odastream 2018-10-01
Ah, so you have heard of me ;).
1 WiggityWatchinNews 2018-10-01
Yea you like his pasta?
1 2odastream 2018-10-01
I like-a the spaghetti.
1 MissionNobody 2018-10-01
Based male feminist
1 Protista_of_Peace 2018-10-01
🍝⁉️
1 a_thumb_in_my_bum 2018-10-01
So, so much easier being gay. Its a relief, actually....I feel lucky.
1 Dirty_Socks_Mullins 2018-10-01
All that and you didn't once use the term "PiV".
1 Imsomniland 2018-10-01
What an incredibly demeaning perspective of women. This mindset would classify all sex able-bodied people who have consensual sex with persons with disabilities, as rapists. Because apparently if someone is marginally more powerful than you, all of your own agency, dignity, capacity for reason and feeling...are invalidated. What a joke of a philosophy.
1 ToTheNintieth 2018-10-01
Aaaand here's where the bamboozle shows itself
1 cimarafa 2018-10-01
This sub has fallen far :( too many mdefugees, no way to tell who they are, no more outoutout bot...
1 e-guy 2018-10-01
Rephrase the exact same facts as she presented from his point of view, and it is not at all clear what he did was rape, or that she did not rape him by getting him drunk and alone.
She was older than him, got him drunk, took him home, and they had sex. She continued to date him after that and they had consensual sex multiple times.
By her own record of events, she shares at least some blame for the encounter, and took advantage of him as much as he did of her. And her record of events is likely not the full record, because everyone likes to look good, but rarely acts 100% good. So we edit our stories to leave out the parts that make us look bad.
I struggle to see why anyone is praising this story. It reads to me like someone who is trying to spin an uncomfortable but consensual date that led into a much better overall relationship into a sob story. Nothing about it jumps out to me as something out of the ordinary. I have had dates similar to this. I was not raped. Poor communication between sex partners leading to discomfort is nothing new, and having a clumsy lover does not mean you were raped by them.
1 wewladin 2018-10-01
Careful of the sexist and misogynistic view that girls lose all conteol when drunk and men take advantage of this
But men and wahmen are equal!
1 transoceanicdeath 2018-10-01
hey. you're the reason no one takes whatever shit you're peddling seriously.
1 dratamard2 2018-10-01
> getting this cucked by Ed
1 saint2e 2018-10-01
I mean, he was so drunk he didn't remember it afterwards, whereas she does. Sounds like she raped him.
1 Corporal-Hicks 2018-10-01
wow this shit makes me totally sympathetic to MGTOW
1 911roofer 2018-10-01
She actually is black, you fucking klansman.
1 El_Guero_Alto 2018-10-01
Inb4 AHS raids the thread to complain out Ed’s reaction link.
1 FullPoet 2018-10-01
What if AHS is the hate subreddit?
1 Alicesnakebae 2018-10-01
You have to hate hate to be against it tbh
1 CirqueDuFuder 2018-10-01
Yeah but hopefully someone does.
1 dratamard2 2018-10-01
👆👆👆👆
😴😴😴
1 LemonScore_ 2018-10-01
Add "illiteracy" to the long list of things wrong with Special Ed
1 ThatDamnedImp 2018-10-01
A big part of the problem in this society is women thinking that america owes them a goddamned thing. Don't nobody owe you shit, bitch.
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1 El_Guero_Alto 2018-10-01
Wait... Ike motherfucking Turner is that you?
1 BasicallyADoctor 2018-10-01
Women were cursed, punished by God, to suffer in labor because of Eve tempting Adam. When women stop having kids like they ought to, it creates an imbalance. So not only are women not owed anything, but they actually owe society a little suffering
1 wewladin 2018-10-01
Inshallah
1 tyuijvhvhcfcjf 2018-10-01
Someone's been reading the catechism
1 JackRipener 2018-10-01
"A big part of the problem in this society is women".
Your post should have ended there
1 Yiin 2018-10-01
/u/911roofer that thread is two days old moran
1 911roofer 2018-10-01
I remain a proud thread necromancer. My dank sorcery is UNSTOPPABLE.
1 The_Reason_Trump_Won 2018-10-01
1 Ed_ButteredToast 2018-10-01
Trump deserves more credit than this
1 serial_crusher 2018-10-01
no. no he doesn't
1 ComedicSans 2018-10-01
Because stupid people have internet access? Yes, we know.
1 Jimbo_B_Beterson 2018-10-01
THE GOLDEN EMPEROR RETURNS!
1 WeWuzKANG5 2018-10-01
'Make my Sexual Assault Count'
I'm done at the title tbh.
1 BasicallyADoctor 2018-10-01
Is one fo the criteria for getting hired to write opinion articles for NYT that you have to be so melodramatic and high off your own farts that it becomes extremely challenging to read the damn articles you write?
1 Couldnt_think_of_a 2018-10-01
No wonder we're having trouble finding more mods.
1 onafriday 2018-10-01
How the fuck are you everywhere?
1 almagest 2018-10-01
Yes. It's part of the submission criteria.
1 chumthescrubber 2018-10-01
More appeals to emotion from the NYT. Surprised we haven't seen more male victims to support Kavanaugh at this point
1 Krombopulos-Snake 2018-10-01
Woman Sober / Man Sober : RAPE
Woman Drunk / Man Sober : RAPE
Man Drunk / Woman Sober : RAPE
Woman Drunk / Man Drunk :RAPE
The solution : Have sex with gay men.
1 geeses 2018-10-01
All hail bussy.
1 Pizzashillsghost 2018-10-01
You have it wrong. Didn’t you learn galgebra in gender studies class? Let me mansplain:
1 + 2 = rape; therefore,
X + y = rape; therefore,
XX + XY = rape; hence
XY = rape
1 LILHOMIE1250 2018-10-01
You forgot to say no homo
1 Pepperglue 2018-10-01
NY Times and people involved in this trash is not helping their case, at all.
1 Momruepari 2018-10-01
OK Ms. Gay, that's pretty gay
1 ConfuseTheJews 2018-10-01
dafuq? you fucked a blackout drunk guy while you were way more sober and he raped you?
1 ILieToCaptchas 2018-10-01
You can be blackout drunk and still have consensual sex though
1 ConfuseTheJews 2018-10-01
new york author who fucked blackout drunk man and feminists would disagree strongly and call it rape
but just if its a woman blackout drunk
1 polygalaancestry 2018-10-01
youcanbuythatonamazon.com
1 ConfuseTheJews 2018-10-01
are you a russian bot?
1 ILieToCaptchas 2018-10-01
I dont give it a shit. Even If they are hypocritical about it I still have my position. If you start accusing this women of rape now because they would do the same if it was a men you are basically saying that they are hypocritical, but right.
But they are also wrong, so no rape has been commited by her part unless these men in question was so drunk that he was completely oit of it and had no idea whar he wad consenting to.
1 ConfuseTheJews 2018-10-01
nope im holding them to their own standards. is good way to deal with hypocrites
1 ILieToCaptchas 2018-10-01
Dunno man, I think is more important to point out that their standards are wrong in the first place
1 serial_crusher 2018-10-01
How different would things be if Judge Kavanaugh had played that card against Mrs Ford? She testified that she had only had one beer. He was allegedly stumbling blackout drunk.
1 transoceanicdeath 2018-10-01
the difference is that none of that was consensual. this cunt got him black out drunk, lured him into her bed for some naked cuddling, then when his inebriated reptilian brain slipped it in without asking her if it was okay at the moment of penetration, she did absolutely nothing.
1 ComedicSans 2018-10-01
Is "I got raped by a teenaged girl" better or worse defence than "I was a full blown incel"?
1 Protista_of_Peace 2018-10-01
"How can I make this about me?"
1 voicelesshoodwinker 2018-10-01
😯😐😕😧😵
"Beliebe wymynx".
1 aX10mAt1CaL1Y 2018-10-01
Wait where's the part where she raped him?
1 damaged_unicycles 2018-10-01
This retard wrote all about how brave she was for sharing #Herstory and forgot to share it 😂😂😂
1 nybbas 2018-10-01
She was literally on fucking NPR an hour ago. I heard her name, and knew it from /r/drama hahaha. Her story is a fucking joke. She said that they consensually started having sex, then he put it in her butt, and it hurt and she said to stop. She said he stopped but it took him "longer than she thought it should". She said she just figured it was because he was so drunk.