I'll save everyone the trouble of a terrible article.
It's a feminist pulling off some extreme mental gymnastics to justify keeping female privileges in place while at the same time claiming she supports equality.
Because there's this delusion that feminism = equality, so when there are obvious inequalities that get promoted by self identified feminists, there's a bit of dissonance.
Because she is asking for more than that. She wants the dude to pay, but she still wants to be seen as an equal and in fact, to be worse off thanks to International Rape Culture Enforcement. She wants all the advantages with none of the payments, typical woman...
And this comment right here illustrates why you and all the other raging bull faggots in this thread canât get your dicks wet. Women donât want to waste their time on a low testosterone menslib faggot who canât pay the tab! They also sure as hell donât want you to be some kind of unfuckable incel and pay the bill thinking that you did them a favour or something. Thatâs why when the bill comes, be a fucking man and do the only right thing: scream out RAT while pointing at the floor, and while the waiter is distracted, grab your dateâs hand and run for the door. Then take her back to your place and fuck her while sheâs still panting with excitement. This is how men get laid.
Prosecutors had argued that Gonzales would take his dates out for dinner at different restaurants around the Los Angeles area. He would then eat and drink before leaving without paying.
Eight of the women said they had been forced to foot the bill, while in two other cases the restaurants had borne the cost, the Los Angeles County District Attorney's Office said.
I have significantly less respect for women that pull out this kind of shifty eyed reasoning on me than women that are open about wanting me to adhere to some traditional male dating role when we first go out.
Alternatively, splitting bills and the like is totally cool as well, I have no issue when dating a woman that prefers this setup.
But the death grip on these traditional dating benefits by women that simultaneously pretend to me theyâre also super progressive is as transparent as it is motivating to move on to the next one.
She just can't come out and say the truth, which is "Unless you're Chad, my pussy has more value than your dick, therefore to even have a chance to lubricate it you must pay for everything"
According to her logic about different levels of income and lifestyle costs we should all get out our tax returns and monthly bills to decide who has to pay.
If men pay for the date, the woman will feel like she's being paid for. But since the tab will probably be an insultingly low amount (e.g. the "$5 beer" in the article, when the woman would price herself at a somewhat higher amount) then it's just going to cause the woman to subconsciously avoid putting out at too low a price.
Whereas if you get the woman to pay, she'll subconsciously be more likely (not likely, just more likely, sorry manlets) to want sleep with you just to get value for money.
Getting the guy to pay is basically society's way of cock-blocking guys, because quite frankly we don't need them all passing on their genes.
âOK,â he says. âThe whole principle is this: The guy wants to be a gentleman. He doesnât want to be thought of as impolite, crude, or especially a cheapskate. As long as the girl knows the guyâs motives so well, itâs easy to steer him in the direction she wants him to go.
âTherefore,â he continued, âunder no circumstances be a gentleman! You must disrespect the girls. Furthermore, the very first rule is, donât buy a girl anything ââ not even a package of cigarettes â until youâve asked her if sheâll sleep with you, and youâre convinced that she will, and that sheâs not lying.â
âUh⌠you mean⌠you donât⌠uh⌠you just ask them?â
âOK,â he says, âI know this is your first lesson, and it may be hard for you to be so blunt. So you might buy her one thing â just one little something â before you ask. But on the other hand, it will only make it more difficult.â
Well, someone only has to give me the principle, and I get the idea. All during the next day I built up my psychology differently: I adopted the attitude that those bar girls are all bitches, that they arenât worth anything, and all theyâre in there for is to get you to buy them a drink, and theyâre not going to give you a goddamn thing; Iâm not going to be a gentleman to such worthless bitches, and so on. I learned it till it was automatic.
Then that night I was ready to try it out. I go into the bar as usual, and right away my friend says, âHey, Dick! Waitâll you see the girl I got tonight! She had to go change her clothes, but sheâs coming right back.â
âYeah, yeah,â I say, unimpressed, and I sit at another table to watch the show. My friendâs girl comes in just as the show starts, and Iâm thinking, âI donât give a damn how pretty she is; all sheâs doing is getting him to buy her drinks, and sheâs going to give him nothing!â
After the first act my friend says, âHey, Dick! I want you to meet Ann. Ann, this is a good friend of mine, Dick Feynman.â
I say âHiâ and keep looking at the show.
A few moments later Ann says to me, âWhy donât you come and sit at the table here with us?â
I think to myself, âTypical bitch: heâs buying her drinks, and sheâs inviting somebody else to the table.â I say, âI can see fine from here.â
A little while later a lieutenant from the military base nearby comes in, dressed in a nice uniform. It isnât long, before we notice that Ann is sitting over on the other side of the bar with the lieutenant!
Later that evening Iâm sitting at the bar, Ann is dancing with the lieutenant, and when the lieutenantâs back is toward me and sheâs facing me, she smiles very pleasantly to me. I think again, âSome bitch! Now sheâs doing this trick on the lieutenant even!â
Then I get a good idea: I donât look at her until the lieutenant can also see me, and then I smile back at her, so the lieutenant will know whatâs going on. So her trick didnât work for long.
A few minutes later sheâs not with the lieutenant any more, but asking the bartender for her coat and handbag, saying in a loud, obvious voice, âIâd like to go for a walk. Does anybody want to go for a walk with me?â
I think to myself, âYou can keep saying no and pushing them off, but you canât do it permanently, or you wonât get anywhere. There comes a time when you have to go along.â So I say coolly, âIâll walk with you.â So we go out. We walk down the street a few blocks and see a cafe, and she says, âIâve got an idea â letâs get some coffee and sandwiches, and go over to my place and eat them.â
The idea sounds pretty good, so we go into the cafe and she orders three coffees and three sandwiches and I pay for them. As weâre going out of the cafe, I think to myself, âSomethingâs wrong: too many sandwiches!â
On the way to her motel she says, âYou know, I wonât have time to eat these sandwiches with you, because a lieutenant is coming overâŚâ I think to myself, âSee, I flunked. The master gave me a lesson on what to do, and I flunked. I bought her $1.10 worth of sandwiches, and hadnât asked her anything, and now I know Iâm gonna get nothing! I have to recover, if only for the pride of my teacher.â
I stop suddenly and I say to her, âYou⌠are worse than a WHORE!â
âWhaddya mean?â
ââYou got me to buy these sandwiches, and what am I going to get for it? Nothing!â
âWell, you cheapskate!â she says. âIf thatâs the way you feel, Iâll pay you back for the sandwiches!â
I called her bluff: âPay me back, then.â
She was astonished. She reached into her pocketbook, took out the little bit of money that she had and gave it to me. I took my sandwich and coffee and went off.
After I was through eating, I went back to the bar to report to the master. I explained everything, and told him I was sorry that I flunked, but I tried to recover.
He said very calmly, âItâs OK, Dick; itâs all right. Since you ended up not buying her anything, sheâs gonna sleep with you tonight.â
âWhat?â
âThatâs right,â he said confidently; âsheâs gonna sleep with you. I know that.â
âBut she isnât even here! Sheâs at her place with the lieu ââ
âItâs all right.â
Two oâclock comes around, the bar closes, and Ann hasnât appeared. I ask the master and his wife if I can come over to their place again. They say sure. Just as weâre coming out of the bar, here comes Ann, running across Route 66 toward me. She puts her arm in mine, and says, âCome on, letâs go over to my place.â
The master was right. So the lesson was terrific!
When I was back at Cornell in the fall, I was dancing with the sister of a grad student, who was visiting from Virginia. She was very nice, and suddenly I got this idea: âLetâs go to a bar and have a drink,â I said.
On the way to the bar I was working up nerve to try the masterâs lesson on an ordinary girl. After all, you donât feel so bad disrespecting a bar girl whoâs trying to get you to buy her drinks â but a nice, ordinary, Southern girl?
We went into the bar, and before I sat down, I said, âListen, before I buy you a drink, I want to know one thing: Will you sleep with me tonight?â
âYes.â
So it worked even with an ordinary girl! But no matter how effective the lesson was, I never really used it after that. I didnât enjoy doing it that way. But it was interesting to know that things worked much differently from how I was brought up.
This story reminds me of the time I was bitten by a radioactive spider and subsequently developed super powers. Still did help me get laid though, so I resorted to telling women I was really rich to get sex. Worked like a charm.
You pay on the first date for the same reason companies buy you lunch when they are trying to sell you something, or you get a "free gift" for applying or whatever.
Its using human nature against them and in your favor.
No they did not you gobshite. I haven't paid in about 10 years and no where does it say that you need to pay regardless if you use the BBC. You are talking shit.
BBC News online used to be great, now itâsclickbait trash like any other. Also, this article was part of their 100 Women series they do every year so white middle class gussy can feel like victims...except articles like this appear every fucking day on the website.
I used to check it every morning during breakfast. Around 2014/2015 I noticed a massive change in the way their articles were being written. By 2016 during brexit they had gone full Buzzfeed. Now the only reason I go on there is to laugh at it.
If i was on a date and the woman started prattling on about such hogwash ideology, I would politely excuse myself to "take a call from my dear ill mother" and subsequently not return.
It's like telling people to stop thinking with their stomach when they eat food. Of course you can refrain from eating way too much food. But you will still want to eat fats and sugars and will enjoy eating it.
Even so the gender wage gap difference is not 100%. So why would you demand men to pay for the food? You should just demand them to pay 23% of your part as the gender wage gap is 77% - or however the math works. But then we should take hours worked taken into account or not? Because I we don't compare year by year but instead hour to hour the gender wage gap shrinks 50% as men in general work much more per week. So now men have to pay even less. But then there is also the factor or what jobs they work. Men typically work at more dangerous jobs that have high wages. So the gender wage gap suddenly shrinks down to nearly nothing if you take that into account too. But then there is also how long you have worked at the job. That's taken into account too?
But they often won't date each other as women want to date men with a higher wage than themselves. So they will still ask for the man to pay for the dinner.
Women take more unpaid time off using the Family Medical Leave Act (FMLA) and work fewer overtime hours than men.
When overtime hours are scheduled three months in advance, men and women work a similar number of hours; but when those hours are offered at the last minute, men work nearly twice as many overtime hours.
When selecting work schedules, women try to avoid weekend, holiday, and split shifts more than men.
To avoid unfavorable work times, women prioritize their schedules over route safety and select routes with a higher probability of accidents.
tl;dr: women work fewer hours, fewer overtime, avoid shifts that are stressful, avoid inconvenient work times, avoid dangerous routes.
This woman is a typical millennial "a la carte" feminist, she wants to be able to pick and choose which aspects of equality she wants while still being able to impose traditional gender roles and hierarchies. So essentially, rules for thee and not for me unless those specific rules benefit me, so be it.
For everyone worried about the "thot just trying to get free dinner and drinks" thing:
Don't go on a date with someone whose time is worth less than the cost of the dinner / drinks.
I.e., only date doctors, lawyers, bankers, scientists, consultants, etc. lmao@u if you're trying to date art hoes or "medical estheticians" whatever that is.
Man could pay, for being wealthier in most cases, just because of that, like for social equality, helping poorer person. But if female is roastie, she must pay for that
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1 SnapshillBot 2018-11-24
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1 lifesbrink 2018-11-24
Mayos. Not even once.
1 International_Agency 2018-11-24
That's actually pretty funny
1 SAC-Lawn_Gnome 2018-11-24
It's funny cause the primary dating ages, sub 30, women outearn men.
1 IDFSHILL 2018-11-24
Don't tell feminists that, they're often very quick to cite factors like education, hours worked, job type, etc.
You know, all the things they conveniently ignore when citing the "real" pay gap.
1 Electroyote 2018-11-24
Maybe women are just better than men lmao.
1 Thisisepicstein 2018-11-24
When the entire government is on your side then yeah you're gonna have an easier time
1 error404brain 2018-11-24
It's the government that push men to commit over 90% of all criminal offenses, moid.
1 aX10mAt1CaL1Y 2018-11-24
What do you call the War on Drugs?
1 error404brain 2018-11-24
The war on drug is not responsible for all murders, moid. Deal with it, you are violent beasts barely constrained by womankind.
1 aX10mAt1CaL1Y 2018-11-24
It's responsible for over 90% of them you bitch moid. Don't even pretend you're better than the rest of us pieces of trash.
1 error404brain 2018-11-24
Imagine disagreeing with a law and commiting thousands of murders. Moids absolute state lmao.
1 aX10mAt1CaL1Y 2018-11-24
Tbf, it's also the reason foids get locked up in the first place these days. Used to just blame everything they did on the man.
1 error404brain 2018-11-24
Yet moids still commit 90% of all crimes. Really make you think.
1 aX10mAt1CaL1Y 2018-11-24
That's cause the foids are obviously conspiring with the government to keep beta males oppressed while they act as the real victims of society.
1 error404brain 2018-11-24
Strange how moids still commited 90% of crime a hundred year ago. It's almost as if moids are just violent beast barely leashed by foid society.
1 aX10mAt1CaL1Y 2018-11-24
It's because it's a foid society that this has always been the case. The gaymers realized this and now they have to be targeted.
1 error404brain 2018-11-24
BOTTOM TEXT.
1 TimothyGonzalez 2018-11-24
Also when you are seen as so incompetent that there are special quotas to help get you a job.
1 cultish_alibi 2018-11-24
WHAT ABOUT THE EMOTIONAL LABOR THEY HAVE TO DO
1 reallyrunningnow 2018-11-24
:) My future as a Sugar momma is looking up.
1 -Morgenstern- 2018-11-24
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1 ihopeitsnormal 2018-11-24
2018
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1 Electroyote 2018-11-24
Das gay
1 IDFSHILL 2018-11-24
I'll save everyone the trouble of a terrible article.
It's a feminist pulling off some extreme mental gymnastics to justify keeping female privileges in place while at the same time claiming she supports equality.
1 Protista_of_Peace 2018-11-24
Why do people have to rationalize their decisions? Just say you want the dude to pay on the first date and be done with it.
1 PowerImbalanceIsHot 2018-11-24
Because there's this delusion that feminism = equality, so when there are obvious inequalities that get promoted by self identified feminists, there's a bit of dissonance.
1 badukbingepurge 2018-11-24
glimmers of rationality and intellectual self respect
1 Electroyote 2018-11-24
Because she's a good caring woman that needs to virtue signal to anyone atound!
1 JurijFedorov 2018-11-24
It's like rationalizing why you feel thirst. Because men are are working so much that they produce heat which causes me to feel thirst.
There are just some things you do because you do them. You can't explain them via some long theory about society.
1 SkipperPauline 2018-11-24
Because she is asking for more than that. She wants the dude to pay, but she still wants to be seen as an equal and in fact, to be worse off thanks to International Rape Culture Enforcement. She wants all the advantages with none of the payments, typical woman...
1 needs-discipline 2018-11-24
And this comment right here illustrates why you and all the other raging bull faggots in this thread canât get your dicks wet. Women donât want to waste their time on a low testosterone menslib faggot who canât pay the tab! They also sure as hell donât want you to be some kind of unfuckable incel and pay the bill thinking that you did them a favour or something. Thatâs why when the bill comes, be a fucking man and do the only right thing: scream out RAT while pointing at the floor, and while the waiter is distracted, grab your dateâs hand and run for the door. Then take her back to your place and fuck her while sheâs still panting with excitement. This is how men get laid.
1 Electroyote 2018-11-24
Not if she's fat tho.
1 oss_spy 2018-11-24
You think she's going to run if she's fat?
1 needs-discipline 2018-11-24
Why would you date a fat woman? Thatâs insane.
1 WhiteKyriarchy 2018-11-24
lol
1 RecallRethuglicans 2018-11-24
In those two cases, name the restaurant so both can dine and dash as a team.
1 Alicesnakebae 2018-11-24
If I wanted to pay to get laid I'd just buy a hooker at least they don't complain when I choke them
1 stalejokesunlimited 2018-11-24
a c c u r a t e t a k e
I have significantly less respect for women that pull out this kind of shifty eyed reasoning on me than women that are open about wanting me to adhere to some traditional male dating role when we first go out.
Alternatively, splitting bills and the like is totally cool as well, I have no issue when dating a woman that prefers this setup.
But the death grip on these traditional dating benefits by women that simultaneously pretend to me theyâre also super progressive is as transparent as it is motivating to move on to the next one.
1 Teh_Jews 2018-11-24
I have no problem paying for the meal, just pretend that you were gonna split it and we are good.
1 onlyhappywhenitrainz 2018-11-24
Feminism isn't about not paying on the first date. I'm a feminist and fuck this woman.
1 RecallRethuglicans 2018-11-24
A real feminist would want to fix the gender gap and not ignore it.
1 Plague-Lord 2018-11-24
She just can't come out and say the truth, which is "Unless you're Chad, my pussy has more value than your dick, therefore to even have a chance to lubricate it you must pay for everything"
1 Violent_Lamb 2018-11-24
According to her logic about different levels of income and lifestyle costs we should all get out our tax returns and monthly bills to decide who has to pay.
1 MeagerMistake23 2018-11-24
Men should pay because they're tryna get their dick wet and the woman should at least get something out of it.
1 cochnbahls 2018-11-24
It's not equality sweaty, it's equity.
1 wisty 2018-11-24
Actually, there's a different reason.
If men pay for the date, the woman will feel like she's being paid for. But since the tab will probably be an insultingly low amount (e.g. the "$5 beer" in the article, when the woman would price herself at a somewhat higher amount) then it's just going to cause the woman to subconsciously avoid putting out at too low a price.
Whereas if you get the woman to pay, she'll subconsciously be more likely (not likely, just more likely, sorry manlets) to want sleep with you just to get value for money.
Getting the guy to pay is basically society's way of cock-blocking guys, because quite frankly we don't need them all passing on their genes.
1 zergling_Lester 2018-11-24
Cue Richard Feynman's nuclear redpill:
âOK,â he says. âThe whole principle is this: The guy wants to be a gentleman. He doesnât want to be thought of as impolite, crude, or especially a cheapskate. As long as the girl knows the guyâs motives so well, itâs easy to steer him in the direction she wants him to go.
âTherefore,â he continued, âunder no circumstances be a gentleman! You must disrespect the girls. Furthermore, the very first rule is, donât buy a girl anything ââ not even a package of cigarettes â until youâve asked her if sheâll sleep with you, and youâre convinced that she will, and that sheâs not lying.â
âUh⌠you mean⌠you donât⌠uh⌠you just ask them?â
âOK,â he says, âI know this is your first lesson, and it may be hard for you to be so blunt. So you might buy her one thing â just one little something â before you ask. But on the other hand, it will only make it more difficult.â
Well, someone only has to give me the principle, and I get the idea. All during the next day I built up my psychology differently: I adopted the attitude that those bar girls are all bitches, that they arenât worth anything, and all theyâre in there for is to get you to buy them a drink, and theyâre not going to give you a goddamn thing; Iâm not going to be a gentleman to such worthless bitches, and so on. I learned it till it was automatic.
Then that night I was ready to try it out. I go into the bar as usual, and right away my friend says, âHey, Dick! Waitâll you see the girl I got tonight! She had to go change her clothes, but sheâs coming right back.â
âYeah, yeah,â I say, unimpressed, and I sit at another table to watch the show. My friendâs girl comes in just as the show starts, and Iâm thinking, âI donât give a damn how pretty she is; all sheâs doing is getting him to buy her drinks, and sheâs going to give him nothing!â
After the first act my friend says, âHey, Dick! I want you to meet Ann. Ann, this is a good friend of mine, Dick Feynman.â
I say âHiâ and keep looking at the show.
A few moments later Ann says to me, âWhy donât you come and sit at the table here with us?â
I think to myself, âTypical bitch: heâs buying her drinks, and sheâs inviting somebody else to the table.â I say, âI can see fine from here.â
A little while later a lieutenant from the military base nearby comes in, dressed in a nice uniform. It isnât long, before we notice that Ann is sitting over on the other side of the bar with the lieutenant!
Later that evening Iâm sitting at the bar, Ann is dancing with the lieutenant, and when the lieutenantâs back is toward me and sheâs facing me, she smiles very pleasantly to me. I think again, âSome bitch! Now sheâs doing this trick on the lieutenant even!â
Then I get a good idea: I donât look at her until the lieutenant can also see me, and then I smile back at her, so the lieutenant will know whatâs going on. So her trick didnât work for long.
A few minutes later sheâs not with the lieutenant any more, but asking the bartender for her coat and handbag, saying in a loud, obvious voice, âIâd like to go for a walk. Does anybody want to go for a walk with me?â
I think to myself, âYou can keep saying no and pushing them off, but you canât do it permanently, or you wonât get anywhere. There comes a time when you have to go along.â So I say coolly, âIâll walk with you.â So we go out. We walk down the street a few blocks and see a cafe, and she says, âIâve got an idea â letâs get some coffee and sandwiches, and go over to my place and eat them.â
The idea sounds pretty good, so we go into the cafe and she orders three coffees and three sandwiches and I pay for them. As weâre going out of the cafe, I think to myself, âSomethingâs wrong: too many sandwiches!â
On the way to her motel she says, âYou know, I wonât have time to eat these sandwiches with you, because a lieutenant is coming overâŚâ I think to myself, âSee, I flunked. The master gave me a lesson on what to do, and I flunked. I bought her $1.10 worth of sandwiches, and hadnât asked her anything, and now I know Iâm gonna get nothing! I have to recover, if only for the pride of my teacher.â
I stop suddenly and I say to her, âYou⌠are worse than a WHORE!â
âWhaddya mean?â
ââYou got me to buy these sandwiches, and what am I going to get for it? Nothing!â
âWell, you cheapskate!â she says. âIf thatâs the way you feel, Iâll pay you back for the sandwiches!â
I called her bluff: âPay me back, then.â
She was astonished. She reached into her pocketbook, took out the little bit of money that she had and gave it to me. I took my sandwich and coffee and went off.
After I was through eating, I went back to the bar to report to the master. I explained everything, and told him I was sorry that I flunked, but I tried to recover.
He said very calmly, âItâs OK, Dick; itâs all right. Since you ended up not buying her anything, sheâs gonna sleep with you tonight.â
âWhat?â
âThatâs right,â he said confidently; âsheâs gonna sleep with you. I know that.â
âBut she isnât even here! Sheâs at her place with the lieu ââ
âItâs all right.â
Two oâclock comes around, the bar closes, and Ann hasnât appeared. I ask the master and his wife if I can come over to their place again. They say sure. Just as weâre coming out of the bar, here comes Ann, running across Route 66 toward me. She puts her arm in mine, and says, âCome on, letâs go over to my place.â
The master was right. So the lesson was terrific!
When I was back at Cornell in the fall, I was dancing with the sister of a grad student, who was visiting from Virginia. She was very nice, and suddenly I got this idea: âLetâs go to a bar and have a drink,â I said.
On the way to the bar I was working up nerve to try the masterâs lesson on an ordinary girl. After all, you donât feel so bad disrespecting a bar girl whoâs trying to get you to buy her drinks â but a nice, ordinary, Southern girl?
We went into the bar, and before I sat down, I said, âListen, before I buy you a drink, I want to know one thing: Will you sleep with me tonight?â
âYes.â
So it worked even with an ordinary girl! But no matter how effective the lesson was, I never really used it after that. I didnât enjoy doing it that way. But it was interesting to know that things worked much differently from how I was brought up.
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1 zergling_Lester 2018-11-24
Yes, if you learn from Dick you might end up doing a heroine.
1 I-165 2018-11-24
The perfect ending to that story.
1 JustLions 2018-11-24
1 needs-discipline 2018-11-24
This story reminds me of the time I was bitten by a radioactive spider and subsequently developed super powers. Still did help me get laid though, so I resorted to telling women I was really rich to get sex. Worked like a charm.
1 motherjoad 2018-11-24
I think women never pay because they suck ass at keeping petty cash.
1 The_Great_I_Am_Not 2018-11-24
That's because they have no pockets!
Which is a conspiracy by the patriarchy to keep them in those [tight fittin' jeans]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LIYtv5UmyxU) or leggings.
1 philoponeria 2018-11-24
If shes willing to suck ass im fine with buying dinner.
1 Chicup 2018-11-24
You pay on the first date for the same reason companies buy you lunch when they are trying to sell you something, or you get a "free gift" for applying or whatever.
Its using human nature against them and in your favor.
1 sailnmon 2018-11-24
There are layers to how wrong this is.
1 Chicup 2018-11-24
Go on...
1 sailnmon 2018-11-24
âIf you have to ask what jazz is, you'll never know.â
â Louis Armstrong
1 Chicup 2018-11-24
When you can't explain something, quote something unrelated.
1 Velxon 2018-11-24
This article was payed for by British taxpayers lol
1 ironicshitpostr 2018-11-24
Paying the TV license is the ultimate cuckery
1 Minimum_T-Giraff 2018-11-24
Then i'm a major cuck. Just got hit by about 100$ tax for TV.
1 TheMayorOfHounslow 2018-11-24
Then you don't have to pay it big retard
1 Minimum_T-Giraff 2018-11-24
They recently changed it so everybody needs to pay it.
1 TheMayorOfHounslow 2018-11-24
Holy fuck you guys got cucked big fucking time, I live in commie France and even here they didn't do that
1 Minimum_T-Giraff 2018-11-24
What they also did was change the tax from per household to per person.
1 I-165 2018-11-24
That would never happen here in Australia. We proudly subsidise middle class breeders.
1 Conradfr 2018-11-24
Well, they are certainly planning to. https://www.ouest-france.fr/medias/television/qu-ils-aient-ou-non-la-tele-tous-les-foyers-devront-ils-payer-la-redevance-5968389
1 TheMayorOfHounslow 2018-11-24
I know they're planning to but they didn't dare do it yet. Something like 2020 surely.
1 SkipperPauline 2018-11-24
No they did not you gobshite. I haven't paid in about 10 years and no where does it say that you need to pay regardless if you use the BBC. You are talking shit.
1 Minimum_T-Giraff 2018-11-24
Maybe because BBC is not my state propaganda outlet?
1 f5191a96ef 2018-11-24
Complete bullshit
1 Minimum_T-Giraff 2018-11-24
https://www.thelocal.se/20181115/sweden-scraps-tv-licence-heres-what-you-need-to-know-about-the-new-tax
1 f5191a96ef 2018-11-24
Why are you talking about Swedish licence fees when everyone else is talking about the BBC and UK?
1 Minimum_T-Giraff 2018-11-24
Maybe because somebody talked about cuck tv licence.
1 nukemybackyard 2018-11-24
lol the uk is so cucked
1 pm_me_jumbo_jets 2018-11-24
BBC News online used to be great, now itâsclickbait trash like any other. Also, this article was part of their 100 Women series they do every year so white middle class gussy can feel like victims...except articles like this appear every fucking day on the website.
1 FmW-41 2018-11-24
I used to check it every morning during breakfast. Around 2014/2015 I noticed a massive change in the way their articles were being written. By 2016 during brexit they had gone full Buzzfeed. Now the only reason I go on there is to laugh at it.
1 pm_me_jumbo_jets 2018-11-24
Same. Used to be a great news site, even Magazine. Now itâs just a Buzzfeed clone. Wonder whoâs in charge of this shit.
1 ShitCommentBelow 2018-11-24
An army of interns, probably.
1 myshl0ng 2018-11-24
Why is this whore even breathing still
1 BigTiddyAnimeWaifu 2018-11-24
and people here claim that 14 yos are too young. shows what they know
1 Watermark03 2018-11-24
In general men still automatically pay on the first date because they want to get laid and most don't want to take any chances to save a few bucks.
1 HeroicIncelDesi 2018-11-24
Bird brain women lol
1 HelpfulHospital6 2018-11-24
If i was on a date and the woman started prattling on about such hogwash ideology, I would politely excuse myself to "take a call from my dear ill mother" and subsequently not return.
1 needs-discipline 2018-11-24
Men need to do this more often. Itâs not as classy as the dine and dash, but it will do in a pinch.
1 knigpin 2018-11-24
"The Gentleman's Retreat"
1 JurijFedorov 2018-11-24
Even if she was hot? Most men would stay.
1 trilateral1 2018-11-24
There's an epidemic of soybeta cucks.
1 aX10mAt1CaL1Y 2018-11-24
Imagine dealing with that in 20 years. She ain't gonna stay hot forever.
1 JurijFedorov 2018-11-24
Doesn't matter. If you have been married for 20 years she gets half in the divorce? It's not like you can just walk away with all your wealth.
1 aX10mAt1CaL1Y 2018-11-24
Why put yourself in that situation in the first place? Stop thinking with your dick.
1 JurijFedorov 2018-11-24
It's like telling people to stop thinking with their stomach when they eat food. Of course you can refrain from eating way too much food. But you will still want to eat fats and sugars and will enjoy eating it.
1 aX10mAt1CaL1Y 2018-11-24
You're posting on r/drama. We're clearly not the metric of self control one should measure others with.
1 I-165 2018-11-24
As I said to my mates when they said they didnât like smokers âIt wonât last long enough to be an issue.â
1 PM_ME_UR_SUSPICIONS 2018-11-24
I would make a woman pay for the first date if she was fat tho.
1 pepperouchau 2018-11-24
If this is the extent of what you believe, then why the previous several paragraphs of nonsense?
Anyway, my take is that I don't mind paying at all, but it's a red flag from anyone expecting me too.
1 TimothyGonzalez 2018-11-24
Also, 100% certain here that the "terms that suit" this particular couple are her not paying for fuck all.
1 Thatlookedlikeithurt 2018-11-24
I pay on the first date because it allows me to assert dominance over gussy by providing when she canât provide for herself.
1 transgirltradwife 2018-11-24
Fuck I have the word âtradwifeâ in my reddit name and even I pay for myself on the first date for the sake of fairness
1 International_Agency 2018-11-24
I see you also have some other words in your reddit name
1 transgirltradwife 2018-11-24
Those words arenât relevant though
1 International_Agency 2018-11-24
Especially the word 'girl'
1 trilateral1 2018-11-24
yawn
1 transgirltradwife 2018-11-24
Youâre never getting bussy at this rate
1 JustLions 2018-11-24
Rad wife?
1 CherryKirsche 2018-11-24
Lol Anglo women are funny. I've virtually never meet a girl in Germany that expected me to pay
1 I-hate-trump 2018-11-24
What a cunt
1 joeflux 2018-11-24
What on earth is "gender diverse"?
1 JustLions 2018-11-24
More women than men.
1 joeflux 2018-11-24
No, here's the context:
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> I have dated both men and women, and funnily enough, anytime I've dated a woman, or gender-diverse person we've ended up competing to pay the bill.
1 JustLions 2018-11-24
Context is a patriarchal concept.
1 joeflux 2018-11-24
*twitch*
1 michaelnoir 2018-11-24
Actually it's not, because that's against the law. It's underpaid only in the sense that everyone's labour is underpaid.
How do I directly benefit from you being underpaid? That's really not how it works. It's your boss who benefits. It's got nothing to do with me.
1 abacas_sq 2018-11-24
Jesus, this woman must be stopped.
1 JurijFedorov 2018-11-24
Even so the gender wage gap difference is not 100%. So why would you demand men to pay for the food? You should just demand them to pay 23% of your part as the gender wage gap is 77% - or however the math works. But then we should take hours worked taken into account or not? Because I we don't compare year by year but instead hour to hour the gender wage gap shrinks 50% as men in general work much more per week. So now men have to pay even less. But then there is also the factor or what jobs they work. Men typically work at more dangerous jobs that have high wages. So the gender wage gap suddenly shrinks down to nearly nothing if you take that into account too. But then there is also how long you have worked at the job. That's taken into account too?
1 trilateral1 2018-11-24
Men and women who work the same number of hours and years, in the same industry, with the same job description, get paid the same.
1 JurijFedorov 2018-11-24
But they often won't date each other as women want to date men with a higher wage than themselves. So they will still ask for the man to pay for the dinner.
1 trilateral1 2018-11-24
she can ask you to BETA BUX, just like you can ask her to EASY LAY.
but only an idiot would oblige.
Women know that giving it up on the first date is bad for women's collective bargaining power. That's why women invented slut shaming.
Men apparently don't know that paying her bill on the first date is bad for men's collective bargaining power.
Men need to start shaming pay piggies.
1 JurijFedorov 2018-11-24
No one invented this. It's culturally universal.
1 trilateral1 2018-11-24
Don't be a pay piggy. If her affection is conditional on you giving her money, she may respect you as an ATM but not as a person.
1 JurijFedorov 2018-11-24
That's like saying that if a man's affection for a woman is based on looks she should not be with him. It makes little sense. Affection is what it is.
1 trilateral1 2018-11-24
That's an incorrect comparison and it shows that you missed the point. Compare the following:
"Being pretty" vs "having sex with strangers on day one in the hope they will like you for it"
"Being successful/wealthy" vs "buying stuff for strangers on day one in the hope they will like you for it"
1 RecallRethuglicans 2018-11-24
That doesn't deny the existence of a gender gap.
1 trilateral1 2018-11-24
If you work less, you get paid less.
see:
How is this even possible?
tl;dr: women work fewer hours, fewer overtime, avoid shifts that are stressful, avoid inconvenient work times, avoid dangerous routes.
1 banananutbranmuffin 2018-11-24
This woman is a typical millennial "a la carte" feminist, she wants to be able to pick and choose which aspects of equality she wants while still being able to impose traditional gender roles and hierarchies. So essentially, rules for thee and not for me unless those specific rules benefit me, so be it.
1 double-happiness 2018-11-24
I bet her friends laugh at her behind her back, because her boyfriend's called 'Zac'.
1 Sniffposter30 2018-11-24
No surprise there.
1 eDgEIN708 2018-11-24
Imagine my shock.
1 north_cleveland 2018-11-24
For everyone worried about the "thot just trying to get free dinner and drinks" thing:
Don't go on a date with someone whose time is worth less than the cost of the dinner / drinks.
I.e., only date doctors, lawyers, bankers, scientists, consultants, etc. lmao@u if you're trying to date art hoes or "medical estheticians" whatever that is.
1 MeagerMistake23 2018-11-24
This is unironically good advice.
1 JayBaumanManhole 2018-11-24
That place deserves to be nuked to Oblivion. Day of the rake can't come soon enough.
1 deGeso88 2018-11-24
Man could pay, for being wealthier in most cases, just because of that, like for social equality, helping poorer person. But if female is roastie, she must pay for that