I've lived in the pacific northwest all my life and white people don't say y'all in public. If you read /r/Seattle or /r/Portland threads you might think everyone says it but its 100% forced.
i just saw that and its like everyone in that thread is ignoring the realities of hook up culture. No modern, western woman is taking an uber in the middle of the night to a man's house to "platonic cuddle". What kindof fucking signals is that woman trying to send? Jesus christ man, its just straight retarded.
idk what is so wrong here. the mod is right. just cause a woman went there to cuddle does not mean she owes him sex. she can change her mind whenever.
it is highlighted in red that he said no sex just cuddle. clearly he had ulteriro motives here and not her. HE is the asshole. why do people here defend him? honestly do better.
IT IS supporting rape tho. think about it.. with the context i just said. you are saying the woman cannot stop the man from having sex with her if it seems like she "wanted it". a woman can stop sex whenvever she wants. if the man continues then IT IS rape.
Making the suggestion that OP should've had sex with him or led him on, or thought the guy who is the subject of the post should've deserved sex, or just victim blaming in general, is a bannable offense. What you're suggesting is rape.
I'm sure she's a hideous fat bitch, but I still can't comprehend how that retard with his pajeet texting actually persuaded her to spontaneously go to his place for a fucking cuddle session. What the fuck?
Well, tbh.. all you see are like a few messages from their text conversation (which she picked out). So i'd say it MIGHT not be as black and white as she makes it look.
All those niceguys and creepms posts are like that
i clicked your link and i refuse to believe this is not a troll
Yikes. Sad to see all this victim blaming/ rape apologia. I'm a guy and I've had friends that I cuddle with regularly and I've never assumed that to be an invitation for sex. Even with girls I've had sex with before. Y'all disappoint me
The replies are also worth it, toxic masculinity is thrown around, and everyone feels the need to tell us how much they regularly cuddle with their friends. Hugging your friends isn't weird but I bet /r/niceguys y'all posters do some weird shit like rubbing noses, stroking hair and making dumb sounds.
You guys know that you're waaaay more likely to get it in if you respect their boundaries, right? Making them feel safe and secure with you is what turns them on, making moves after explicitly being asked not to does not.
If you read that and thought "horseshit", that's why you're unsuccessful with women. Despite your failure, you're unwilling to accept that maybe there are aspects of dating you misunderstood. You refuse to acknowledge the thoughts or feelings of anyone around you, and then wonder why you can't get your dick sucked. It must be everyone else, right?
Like, if someone doesn't wanna fuck, leave it. You can be salty, you can be disappointed, but if you can learn to handle that gracefully, they will like you more. Now, I'm going to explicitly state, here: don't 'respect' someone's no with the intention of fucking them, anyway. That ain't gonna work. What does work is respecting established boundaries. Women like that shit, sometimes enough to change their mind.
People like OP, or you, the person to whom this may be directed at, are exactly why those boundaries are in place at all. Prove you're better than that. Make your dates feel safe, and you'll get another one.
I cant wait to go home tonight and respect my wifes boundaries and her get all hot and bothered.
One of the things that gets me from relationship advices on reddit is they think they know the universal truth that applies to everyone.
Wake up bitch, not everyone likes the same things you do. Sure, some people LOVE men that are incredibly respectful. Other don't.
I also see this when I occasionally browse /r/Tinder, and people tell OP how his humor is offensive, or how self deprecation doesn't work etc. Must be nice to have your head so far up your ass you think all people are the same and like the same things.
If you read that and thought "horseshit", that's why you're unsuccessful with women. Despite your failure, you're unwilling to accept that maybe there are aspects of dating you misunderstood. You refuse to acknowledge the thoughts or feelings of anyone around you, and then wonder why you can't get your dick sucked. It must be everyone else, right?
Fucking horseshit arm-chair psychology lmao. I always wondered what would happen to these guys brains if they ever found a guy that didnt follow their ridiculous rules and still were successful at dating
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1 MikeStoklasaBackup 2019-01-31
He actually did it.
1 flotus_scrotus 2019-01-31
White people from Oregon saying “y’all” is appropriating Black Southern culture.
Change My Mind
1 ImJustaBagofHammers 2019-01-31
That is literally the reason they do it.
1 trumps_yellow_pubes 2019-01-31
I've lived in the pacific northwest all my life and white people don't say y'all in public. If you read /r/Seattle or /r/Portland threads you might think everyone says it but its 100% forced.
1 subliiime4668 2019-01-31
Really? I live in Eugene and hear it all the fucking time
1 trumps_yellow_pubes 2019-01-31
Well there's your problem. It's like 60% Californians trying to sound cool.
1 Wordshark 2019-01-31
My super white cousins in Ohio say it constantly
1 SmugSocialistTears 2019-01-31
Because it's common usage in areas, even growing up
1 Wordshark 2019-01-31
Oh yeah, I didn’t mean to imply it was a hipster thing. The whole family has a southern drawl.
1 sicknick 2019-01-31
That's because Ohio is the Alabama of the midwest.
1 AntiLuke 2019-01-31
It gets said all the time east of the cascades.
1 sadderreborn 2019-01-31
Its “you guys” most of the time in my experience
1 The_Long_Connor 2019-01-31
"Get Out" was a documentary filmed about 45 minutes from Portland.
1 Tyestor 2019-01-31
america was a mistake
1 MikeStoklasaBackup 2019-01-31
Cope.
1 shitpersonality 2019-01-31
Rebrand alt-right to y'all right.
1 _Suprememe_ 2019-01-31
Y'all-Qaeda
1 diggity_md 2019-01-31
Do it again Cracker Wallace
1 Homer00025 2019-01-31
I'm just glad NiceGuysTM found a community here on reddit. Good for them.
1 cragfar 2019-01-31
No wonder OP has been raped, she couldn’t see this coming from this text exchange.
https://m.imgur.com/a/zFR1R9U
1 Corporal-Hicks 2019-01-31
i just saw that and its like everyone in that thread is ignoring the realities of hook up culture. No modern, western woman is taking an uber in the middle of the night to a man's house to "platonic cuddle". What kindof fucking signals is that woman trying to send? Jesus christ man, its just straight retarded.
1 RandolphCox 2019-01-31
idk what is so wrong here. the mod is right. just cause a woman went there to cuddle does not mean she owes him sex. she can change her mind whenever.
it is highlighted in red that he said no sex just cuddle. clearly he had ulteriro motives here and not her. HE is the asshole. why do people here defend him? honestly do better.
1 Corporal-Hicks 2019-01-31
Because the mod also said if you claim that the woman led that man on, thats supporting rape. And he will ban you.
Much different claim than the man was owed sex.
1 RandolphCox 2019-01-31
IT IS supporting rape tho. think about it.. with the context i just said. you are saying the woman cannot stop the man from having sex with her if it seems like she "wanted it". a woman can stop sex whenvever she wants. if the man continues then IT IS rape.
1 Corporal-Hicks 2019-01-31
Rape is rape. Saying a woman led a man on is not rape. To imply otherwise is retarded.
1 RandolphCox 2019-01-31
are you like the token alt right incel user here? what you just said is pathetic.
1 Corporal-Hicks 2019-01-31
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1 SNCommand 2019-01-31
Go spend a year in India you vagene
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1 siempreloco31 2019-01-31
Mod didn't claim saying a women leading a man on is literally rape you mong.
1 Corporal-Hicks 2019-01-31
Just click the link you mong, its right there.
1 siempreloco31 2019-01-31
Imagine my shock
1 ImAGayRetard 2019-01-31
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1 Aphil10 2019-01-31
People in this sub getting worked up over obvious bait I am surrounded by retards
1 uniqueguy263 2019-01-31
Tbh your old schtick was better
1 RandolphCox 2019-01-31
niggas want my old shit. buy my old albums //
niggas stuck on stupid, I gotta keep it movin //
niggas make the same shit. me i make the blueprint //
1 pvijay187 2019-01-31
Came in the game, hopped out the Lexus
1 RandolphCox 2019-01-31
i did not say those lines in order for some retarded reddit comment chain of lyrics. you are a faggot who will burn in hell for trying to start one.
1 pvijay187 2019-01-31
Traded in the gold for the Platinum rolexes.
Now a nigga wrist match the status of my records.
1 KingWayneX 2019-01-31
Your best comment ever.
1 sadderreborn 2019-01-31
Shut the fuck up marx
1 Femicide 2019-01-31
lmao who the fuck goes to a strangers house to "cuddle", what are you a fucking care bear?
1 EasySchmitty 2019-01-31
/r/niceguys and /r/creepypms would cease to exist if people actually used block features.
1 DracoMagnusRufus 2019-01-31
They're mostly just /r/badfaketexts anyways. Nothing to run out of when you're making them up.
1 FlexualHealing 2019-01-31
r/tinder and r/creepypms are the same guy
1 Femicide 2019-01-31
OMG VICTIM BLAMING, RAPE CULTURE !!!
1 OnePercentOfMonster 2019-01-31
I'm sure she's a hideous fat bitch, but I still can't comprehend how that retard with his pajeet texting actually persuaded her to spontaneously go to his place for a fucking cuddle session. What the fuck?
1 blorblyblorv 2019-01-31
I mean OP clearly says they kept saying no while the nice guy kept trying to put it in.
Mods a retard for including the led on part but that's literally attempted rape lmao.
1 Corporal-Hicks 2019-01-31
thats the drama, mong
1 blorblyblorv 2019-01-31
Go back to lobsterland.
1 Corporal-Hicks 2019-01-31
drama in 2019 is fucking lame
1 blorblyblorv 2019-01-31
Sound like you're a manlet looking to go their own way.
1 pvijay187 2019-01-31
It takes like 15 seconds to find out if you are retarded, retard
1 EasySchmitty 2019-01-31
I’m not an expert in male feministing, but I’m questioning whether a social retard harassing someone via text constitutes as rape.
1 uniqueguy263 2019-01-31
That's rape. The other stuff isn't
1 EasySchmitty 2019-01-31
😓😓😓 I was a moron and didn’t read the linked post, just saw the text conversation in the other thread. You right fam
1 KingWayneX 2019-01-31
It isnt rape unless he succeeded. 2nd degree sexual assault tho.
1 TheBaltimoron 2019-01-31
What's the difference between attempted rape and attempted fucking?
1 dorantor 2019-01-31
🤢🤮🤮
1 XhotwheelsloverX 2019-01-31
All those niceguys and creepms posts are like that
1 Woolgun 2019-01-31
Matthew is a cunt who can't stop after being told no multiple times and he later tells OP her chance is up and she should get lost
OP uses words like Hella, is obsessed with makeup and legitimately wants to cuddle
The way they both write is making me puke from all the sugar and sweetness
Comments are full of M'lady guys like this
I hate everyone involved in this. Nice find OP.
1 Corporal-Hicks 2019-01-31
just doin the lords work
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1 Corporal-Hicks 2019-01-31
i clicked your link and i refuse to believe this is not a troll
1 Woolgun 2019-01-31
The replies are also worth it, toxic masculinity is thrown around, and everyone feels the need to tell us how much they regularly cuddle with their friends. Hugging your friends isn't weird but I bet /r/niceguys y'all posters do some weird shit like rubbing noses, stroking hair and making dumb sounds.
1 Corporal-Hicks 2019-01-31
1 Femicide 2019-01-31
it has to be a troll it's just too perfect.
1 Corporal-Hicks 2019-01-31
I cant wait to go home tonight and respect my wifes boundaries and her get all hot and bothered.
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1 Woolgun 2019-01-31
One of the things that gets me from relationship advices on reddit is they think they know the universal truth that applies to everyone.
Wake up bitch, not everyone likes the same things you do. Sure, some people LOVE men that are incredibly respectful. Other don't.
I also see this when I occasionally browse /r/Tinder, and people tell OP how his humor is offensive, or how self deprecation doesn't work etc. Must be nice to have your head so far up your ass you think all people are the same and like the same things.
1 Femicide 2019-01-31
no be fair, no one who submits posts to /r/tinder is getting laid.
1 Aphil10 2019-01-31
Fucking horseshit arm-chair psychology lmao. I always wondered what would happen to these guys brains if they ever found a guy that didnt follow their ridiculous rules and still were successful at dating
1 ThighwanEmbassy 2019-01-31
Yikes! Locking this thread since y’all can’t behave!
1 Corporal-Hicks 2019-01-31
its coming, just wait
1 JohnGalt316 2019-01-31
more proof that redditors who shame nice guys are actually incels themselves
1 SevenSix 2019-01-31
I read "I will RAPE Y'ALL" at first. Now I'm slightly disappointed.
1 Red_of_Head 2019-01-31
I refuse to believe either of those people in the post are over the age of 18.
1 TheBaltimoron 2019-01-31
Holy shit these people exist?
1 car_tire 2019-01-31
it’s basic FUCKING knowledge. FUCKERS.