Tldr at the bottom. Also on mobile.

So back story is needed to understand what led up to these events.

I was going through a MAJOR hoe phase last summer. Like I'm talking I had 3 boyfriends and a sugar daddy, all of whom did know about each other and it was all fine. The ex from the story is one of the boyfriends (X). When we got together I even told him that I most likely was going to loose feelings as I was really just channelling PTSD issues and a recent year long relationship that had ended.

He introduces me to all of his friends (his friends consists of randomly regulars) as his girlfriend after us dating for maybe 3 days at this bar. One of these friends, is my now current boyfriend (K). I'd like to say before you judge that harshly, K says he only ever met X once and really didn't know the guy. When me and K first started screwing, I ended up pretty much just never leaving after that. Like some soul mate shit.

For a total of two months I keep K as my best friend and slowly start disconnecting and leaving my other relationships slowly and emotionally. I saw each boyfriend maybe 3 or 4 times in that last month? Not to mention the more I pulled away and asked for X to be a rock if he wanted to be a good boyfriend to me, the more he cried about my depression and PTSD issues.

Halfway through that month I'm informed I have to have a life saving surgery that could pententionally end in my death in three weeks. This causes me to cut everyone off besides K because I couldn't deal with the emotional labor of these relationships and having to get such an important surgery. I explain that as such to all and they're all pretty accepting and positive. Which was 100% true. K was just my rock during all of this that I happened to be sleeping with. Was some of it maybe underlying I want to be with K? Sure but besides the point.

K and I become on the downlow a closed relationship 2 days before surgery. I heal surprisingly fast and I leave my mothers house 6 weeks after to go be with him. At this point I make it Facebook public as I'm now living with him.

X goes off. Whatever. I can understand why he's upset butHe blocks me and we move on. K has seen him frequently at the bar we all met at when I havent been there and all X does in tell everybody that K got me hooked on drugs. Which as mentioned above I had a major surgery not too long ago and I had to quit even smoking weed because even weed could have potentially killed me after surgery. While I was healed after 6 weeks enough to do house hold chores, I'm not going to be fully healed for two years.

He also talks about he wants to violently stab and beat the shit out of K to anybody that'll listen to him speak. Has been made to leave multiple times because of this.

Now that you're up to date on all of this drama I can tell you what happened last night. Last nights drama starts with us ignoring him once he shows up after loudly talking right outside the smoking area about how he wants to beat up K. Walks past the tables to go into the bar and throws a LIT CIGARETTE at K without stopping. It misses we let it go.

I had went next door to pee (this bars bathroom is often missing a toilet seat) and when I come back X is in the doorway so I, like an adult, pass by him without doing or saying anything to piss him off. The fucker GRABS ME and goes "You're leaving now" and tries to make the move to pull me out of the sitting area of the bar.

In my four inch thigh high boots, body con dress, and loads of sparkles on the face I get nose to nose with him and go the fuck off. I do what I want, don't ever touch me again yada yada. Apparently I was pretty intimidating cause I had multiple people come up to me and K after just like "We all could tell you were going to knock him on his ass" and the like. Which I was going to but stopped myself as not trying to get the bar shut down.

K breaks it up because 1.) I'm still extremely fragile from surgery, I get one wrong blow to the face even on accident it could turn me into a vegetable. 2.) Nobody touches his girlfriend and gets away with it. X instigates more and pokes K. At this point a bunch of people come up and break it up as K has been an unofficial bouncer at this bar for over 5 years and they know this isn't going to end well.

People talk X into eventually going home. Not after K sent me home to prevent me from getting into a fight. So that was my night, what about yours?

Tldr; I end an open relationship because of an extremely major surgery, date an Acquaintance of one theirs after, starts unnecessary shit like putting his hands on me in a public space and telling people he wants to kill K.