Partly. My field is hella social and requires a demanding presence and having a personable face. It's not very conducive to transitioning in other words, especially if I'm just starting out.
That and the community is exactly how they described. Super fetishy, super abusive, very catty and drama hungry. I've gotten to known maybe one or two trans girls in these communities who didnt turn out to be bona fide batshit.
I gotcha. That would be a fucking pain. Then again, I just had a waitress at a fairly pricey restaurant not too long ago that had full-blown meth-mouth. Is it just me, or is 2/3rds of the trans community MtF?
Well over 2/3rd. I know maybe like thee trans dudes altogether. There's more nonbinaries these days than mtf. I think in general it's not "in" to glorify masculine traits
I constantly forget about trans men, not in a mean way but in that you rarely, if ever, hear anything controversial about them nor is it easy to recognize them. I truly hope that didn't come off as insulting either, it's just that I hear overwhelmingly more about MtF than FtM. Seems like most FtM just wanna get through their days without an issue.
Just imagine someone with barely functioning Asperger's, probably an intense case of anxiety, a sprinkle of anarcho communism and general under achievement in life, the drama and mental stability that comes with polyamorous long distance relationships, a drug-like addiction to being validated at every turn, rampant insecurity, either an underage teenager or someone in their thirties who has done literally nothing with their life, multiply this by about 200, and then throw them all into a Discord.
co·mor·bid·i·ty
/ˌkōmôrˈbidədē/Submit
noun
the simultaneous presence of two chronic diseases or conditions in a patient.
Cluster B personality disorders. Cluster B personality disorders are characterized by dramatic, overly emotional or unpredictable thinking or behavior. They include antisocial personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, histrionic personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder.Sep 23, 2016
Thanks pal! You see, sometimes people like having some context added in by someone they see as an expert in something instead of mindlessly google searching. But I'm sure you know that and are only pretending to be a massive ass ;)
I don’t even care anymore. I’ll wait outside the gates until they reopen, a purge needs to happen. I need my irony posting back, not this ten tons of serious and nice posting
We're past being an ass. Now we're in post-ironic assholery and drama. Being an explicit asshole grew stale and now performative shitposting is the new in. Sorry sweaty it's art, your smooth brain wouldn't understand.
to add to this, of the cluster B conditions, it's really only BPD that is comorbid with trans women statistically.
BPD is a trauma based, female dominated disorder, with both cis women and trans women being diagnosed equally at 3-4x the rate of men, mainly because cis women and trans women are the largest demographics for sexual and physical abuse during childhood [along with queer people in general,] and also sexual assault / rape.
it's suspected it's misdiagnosed over those with CPTSD / PTSD, which are frequently diagnosed in lieu of sexual assault or rape, so it's very likely that a lot of women with BPD simply just have CPTSD / PTSD and apparently psychologists / therapists don't want to deal with 'difficult patients', aka women, with these disorders, so they just slap them with the BPD label.
inversely, trans men seem to have high rates of schizophrenia for whatever reason, and schizophrenia is statistically far more common in men than in women in general, too, until about ~40-50 years old, where women have a higher population of schizophrenia.
Too much to go into lol. But lots of pressure tactics against people questioning, lots of thinly veiled pedophilia, very rapey dynamics at times. It's surreal watching a bunch of grown adults goading a 15 year old questioning person on to share a bare thigh with long socks picture to totally not jerk off to.
They pretend to be very tolerant and very accepting of who you are until your beliefs fall slightly out of line, and then by then you become nothing less in their eyes than a fascist needing to be punched. On top of that they act like children with a very infantilizing attitude while also larping as communists at the same time.
I feel similar, i came out and stuff but outside of just isolating myself way more all i got were really fake ultra positive "nothing can ever go wrong" people acting all condescending and suddenly treating me like i was a 3 year old.
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I noped out when i started cringing at myself even worst than just feeling disphoric or wathever. Its a lose lose situation, and also i live in caribean shithole commie land, not in a pampered first world neighborhood.
I know, it's kinda surprising. I feel like I'm in the minority here when I say I'm pretty accepting of trangenderism as an actual thing that exists, even though I also think there are transtrenders and that nonbinaries are bullshit artists. That said, yeah everything I've seen of their online communities is absolutely fucking cancerous, except for /r/TraaButNoCommies who will of course be part of the neocon action plan to install democracy across the world by force by taking generically female recruits and transitioning them to hyper-testosterone filled male supersoldiers.
I can't help but feel that if we had the current social justice climate back in the 90s we'd see people being labeled as homophobic for criticizing bug-chasing.
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1 SnapshillBot 2019-03-19
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1 dat-assuka 2019-03-19
lol
1 FunkyFreshMeme 2019-03-19
actually nice write up a1+
1 dat-assuka 2019-03-19
remember to like, comment, and subscribe
1 FunkyFreshMeme 2019-03-19
you forgot upvote 😎
1 dat-assuka 2019-03-19
my massive 10/10 supermodel transbian polycule vote manipulates me regularly on reddit- i don't need upvotes.
1 Tzar-Romulus 2019-03-19
S E N T I E N T
1 MehmedIIDidNoWrong 2019-03-19
Surprisingly woke take on the traa community not downvoted to hell. Huh.
1 MinuteChemical 2019-03-19
Were/are you considering SRS? Because that's what'd turn me off to it.
1 MehmedIIDidNoWrong 2019-03-19
Partly. My field is hella social and requires a demanding presence and having a personable face. It's not very conducive to transitioning in other words, especially if I'm just starting out.
That and the community is exactly how they described. Super fetishy, super abusive, very catty and drama hungry. I've gotten to known maybe one or two trans girls in these communities who didnt turn out to be bona fide batshit.
1 MinuteChemical 2019-03-19
I gotcha. That would be a fucking pain. Then again, I just had a waitress at a fairly pricey restaurant not too long ago that had full-blown meth-mouth. Is it just me, or is 2/3rds of the trans community MtF?
1 MehmedIIDidNoWrong 2019-03-19
Well over 2/3rd. I know maybe like thee trans dudes altogether. There's more nonbinaries these days than mtf. I think in general it's not "in" to glorify masculine traits
1 DrZerglingMD 2019-03-19
I constantly forget about trans men, not in a mean way but in that you rarely, if ever, hear anything controversial about them nor is it easy to recognize them. I truly hope that didn't come off as insulting either, it's just that I hear overwhelmingly more about MtF than FtM. Seems like most FtM just wanna get through their days without an issue.
1 die_rattin 2019-03-19
Tbf, FTM is basically easy mode when it comes to passing
1 Tzar-Romulus 2019-03-19
Chicks having been passing off as dudes forever. See Joan d'Arc.
1 BlessThisBussy 2019-03-19
Also, Mulan
1 PM_ME_YA_TATTAS 2019-03-19
heh
1 BlessThisBussy 2019-03-19
🐈 🐱
1 CantWakeUpJPG 2019-03-19
Mind sharing a bit more about this? Kinda curious about the batshit side of the trans community.
1 MehmedIIDidNoWrong 2019-03-19
Just imagine someone with barely functioning Asperger's, probably an intense case of anxiety, a sprinkle of anarcho communism and general under achievement in life, the drama and mental stability that comes with polyamorous long distance relationships, a drug-like addiction to being validated at every turn, rampant insecurity, either an underage teenager or someone in their thirties who has done literally nothing with their life, multiply this by about 200, and then throw them all into a Discord.
Let your imagination do the work.
1 CantWakeUpJPG 2019-03-19
Sounds like the some good drama stuff. 👌
You should make a post about this here.
1 CirqueDuFuder 2019-03-19
You are describing the Drama discord.
1 DeathBahamutXXX 2019-03-19
Is that still active?
1 CirqueDuFuder 2019-03-19
Yes
1 totally_not_ac3 2019-03-19
Is there a link to it? It really sounds like the kind of Autism I need in my life.
1 error404brain 2019-03-19
Sound like your average discord, tbqfh.
1 WeenieHutJrSupreme 2019-03-19
Minus the pedos
1 TheMayorOfHounslow 2019-03-19
Trans are all pedos tho
1 WeenieHutJrSupreme 2019-03-19
Now that I think about it you might not be wrong
1 PUBLIQclopAccountant 2019-03-19
It's not the transphobia and discrimination that causes the sky-high suicide rates: it's the comorbid cluster-B disorders
1 MehmedIIDidNoWrong 2019-03-19
the what
1 nmx179 2019-03-19
co·mor·bid·i·ty /ˌkōmôrˈbidədē/Submit noun the simultaneous presence of two chronic diseases or conditions in a patient.
Cluster B personality disorders. Cluster B personality disorders are characterized by dramatic, overly emotional or unpredictable thinking or behavior. They include antisocial personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, histrionic personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder.Sep 23, 2016
There you go buddy, two google searches for free.
1 MehmedIIDidNoWrong 2019-03-19
Thanks pal! You see, sometimes people like having some context added in by someone they see as an expert in something instead of mindlessly google searching. But I'm sure you know that and are only pretending to be a massive ass ;)
1 nmx179 2019-03-19
I fucking hate neodrama
1 Wimzer 2019-03-19
I don’t even care anymore. I’ll wait outside the gates until they reopen, a purge needs to happen. I need my irony posting back, not this ten tons of serious and nice posting
1 nmx179 2019-03-19
You are the cancer killing r/drama
1 MehmedIIDidNoWrong 2019-03-19
> needing to wait outside the gated
> calling for a purge
😂😂😂
1 MehmedIIDidNoWrong 2019-03-19
We're past being an ass. Now we're in post-ironic assholery and drama. Being an explicit asshole grew stale and now performative shitposting is the new in. Sorry sweaty it's art, your smooth brain wouldn't understand.
1 dat-assuka 2019-03-19
to add to this, of the cluster B conditions, it's really only BPD that is comorbid with trans women statistically.
BPD is a trauma based, female dominated disorder, with both cis women and trans women being diagnosed equally at 3-4x the rate of men, mainly because cis women and trans women are the largest demographics for sexual and physical abuse during childhood [along with queer people in general,] and also sexual assault / rape.
it's suspected it's misdiagnosed over those with CPTSD / PTSD, which are frequently diagnosed in lieu of sexual assault or rape, so it's very likely that a lot of women with BPD simply just have CPTSD / PTSD and apparently psychologists / therapists don't want to deal with 'difficult patients', aka women, with these disorders, so they just slap them with the BPD label.
inversely, trans men seem to have high rates of schizophrenia for whatever reason, and schizophrenia is statistically far more common in men than in women in general, too, until about ~40-50 years old, where women have a higher population of schizophrenia.
1 JohannesClimaco 2019-03-19
Fetishy I understand. But what's abusive about the trans community? I need deets.
1 MehmedIIDidNoWrong 2019-03-19
Too much to go into lol. But lots of pressure tactics against people questioning, lots of thinly veiled pedophilia, very rapey dynamics at times. It's surreal watching a bunch of grown adults goading a 15 year old questioning person on to share a bare thigh with long socks picture to totally not jerk off to.
1 angrybluechair 2019-03-19
What do you mean by pressure tactics? Sounds pretty dodgy.
1 2Poop2Babiez 2019-03-19
They pretend to be very tolerant and very accepting of who you are until your beliefs fall slightly out of line, and then by then you become nothing less in their eyes than a fascist needing to be punched. On top of that they act like children with a very infantilizing attitude while also larping as communists at the same time.
1 trappysaruh 2019-03-19
based tranny not afraid of retard eggs
1 Veroneko 2019-03-19
I feel similar, i came out and stuff but outside of just isolating myself way more all i got were really fake ultra positive "nothing can ever go wrong" people acting all condescending and suddenly treating me like i was a 3 year old.
​
I noped out when i started cringing at myself even worst than just feeling disphoric or wathever. Its a lose lose situation, and also i live in caribean shithole commie land, not in a pampered first world neighborhood.
1 MehmedIIDidNoWrong 2019-03-19
Check out /r/TraaButNoCommies
1 2Poop2Babiez 2019-03-19
o7
1 Slump_o 2019-03-19
1 IHeartCommyMommy 2019-03-19
I know, it's kinda surprising. I feel like I'm in the minority here when I say I'm pretty accepting of trangenderism as an actual thing that exists, even though I also think there are transtrenders and that nonbinaries are bullshit artists. That said, yeah everything I've seen of their online communities is absolutely fucking cancerous, except for /r/TraaButNoCommies who will of course be part of the neocon action plan to install democracy across the world by force by taking generically female recruits and transitioning them to hyper-testosterone filled male supersoldiers.
1 2Poop2Babiez 2019-03-19
This but unironically
1 transgirltradwife 2019-03-19
It's r/socialism all over again
1 Lokamayadon 2019-03-19
The anti-anime / anime-loving far left pendulum will always swing back and forth.
1 hobocactus 2019-03-19
The anarcho-weebist tendency is clearly counterrevolutionary and must be rooted out.
1 ______________pewpew 2019-03-19
I can’t believe I upvoted you
1 911roofer 2019-03-19
This is why transphobia is a thing.
1 Slump_o 2019-03-19
Trans”phobia” exists as a tool of god to accelerate darwinism.
1 wh40k_Junkie 2019-03-19
phobia implies fear, more like
transdisdain
1 TheMayorOfHounslow 2019-03-19
Transgust
1 BenaGD 2019-03-19
I unironically hope people in CB2 get run over by a car and survive
1 whenweriiide 2019-03-19
Wholesome /r/drama 🤗
1 THOT-AUDITOR 2019-03-19
imagine being so triggered by reddit that /r/circlebroke wasn't sperging about redditors enough for you.
1 BenaGD 2019-03-19
Huh
1 mtg_liebestod 2019-03-19
I can't help but feel that if we had the current social justice climate back in the 90s we'd see people being labeled as homophobic for criticizing bug-chasing.
1 wh40k_Junkie 2019-03-19
pfff, who are you to stand in the way of getting aids ?