Your mind is diseased. Pick a dandelion and hold it in your mouth until you feel the urge to urinate. Then, swallow the dandelion and urinate on the spot from which it was picked.
It is fair. Well at least it isn't unfair. It is just the way it is. There are lots of upsides to having a kid while there are obviously drawbacks as well. I find the same people that always go on about the sacrifices that you have to make to be a parent (usually on facebook) are the same ones who don't want to make any sacrifices.
Like seeing someone get hit in the balls, seeing a dog scare itself when it farts or reading a darqwolf effortpost about how he is a wall street tycoon now that he doubled his 20 dollar investment
Imagine believing that. If that person isn't independent yet they're going to have a really nasty surprise the first time they become solely responsible for keeping the lights on.
Sad but true. I've been downvoted all day for saying that people who drive Uber and Lyft don't need to work for them if they can't afford to work for them. Like seriously, if you made less than minimum wage at the end of the day, just work somewhere else.
I like how they pretend that the money is somehow earmarked for specific expenses, when that's not how it works at all. If she was spending 500 on daycare before and after recieving another 500 in child support spent 500 on daycare and 500 on parties, then it's not hard to see where the child support is going.
Lmao ghetto foids aren't buying their kids shit. I've known tons of them, and almost invariably child support goes to:
A) Their own clothes/shoes/whatever else.
B) They'll throw scraps at the kids.
A buddy of mine grew up and his mom got child support. He had to eat at my house every night because she wasn't feeding him, she'd just go get smashed every time she got the money.
The bottom line is, child support payments are almost invariably abused. There's no oversight, regulation, anything. Combine that with the fact ghetto trash is gonna ghetto trash, and you end up with a bunch of kids getting fucked over because the government is retarded.
What's crazy to me is even in cases where the father has the child for 50% of the time, the foid is still getting child support. Makes literally no fucking sense.
Maybe it's a hangover from the post WW2 era when women stayed in the kitchen (although even that was a novelty because people were much poorer hence the majority of couples worked).
Still they should've started fixing this in the mid 90s.
The same reason as how blue checkmarks get to decide what the most pressing social issues of the day are. They are fucking loud and the media are lazy idiots with no real convictions other than career advancement.
Earlier he was LARPing as someone who had a lot of black female friends and I was like "stfu no you don't" and he was like "I WISH it wasn't true"
As in he WISHES he wasn't surrounded by basketball foids, but all these brown goddesses just can't resist the lure of his wispy mustache and fetal alcohol syndrome eyes
I'm so confused by what you believe pizza. Half the time you spout Chapocel shit and the other half of the time you spit MDEfugee shit. Are you the true radical centrist?
My dad wasn't on court ordered support but gave my mom a few hundred bucks a month. She never spent a dime on us and used that like some fucking allowance for herself.
It is fair. Well at least it isn't unfair. It is just the way it is. There are lots of upsides to having a kid while there are obviously drawbacks as well. I find the same people that always go on about the sacrifices that you have to make to be a parent (usually on facebook) are the same ones who don't want to make any sacrifices.
I just don't get why someone would choose to have a child in a 1st world country if they can't take care of their family financially. How can you claim that you love a child when you're setting them up to fail and repeat the same mistakes you're making.
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1 SnapshillBot 2019-03-23
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1 Phantom_Engineer 2019-03-23
GOOD advice. I hope they take it.
1 xlhat 2019-03-23
I'm not one of those "bootstraps" type fellows but it is shocking how childish Reddit is.
Yes, you won't be able to live the way you want and yes it is not fair.
However you still must exercise impulse control.
1 iprobablyneedahobby 2019-03-23
It is fair. Well at least it isn't unfair. It is just the way it is. There are lots of upsides to having a kid while there are obviously drawbacks as well. I find the same people that always go on about the sacrifices that you have to make to be a parent (usually on facebook) are the same ones who don't want to make any sacrifices.
1 xlhat 2019-03-23
Forget having children, people all over the world even in other first world countries have hardships and make sacrifices. That's life.
Thankfully in our modern times one can cheaply entertain oneself.
1 iprobablyneedahobby 2019-03-23
acting like a retard on r/drama is free
1 xlhat 2019-03-23
It really is the little things that put a smile on one's face. 😀
1 iprobablyneedahobby 2019-03-23
Like seeing someone get hit in the balls, seeing a dog scare itself when it farts or reading a darqwolf effortpost about how he is a wall street tycoon now that he doubled his 20 dollar investment
1 xlhat 2019-03-23
I miss those.
The web if used wisely, isn't half bad. Just like ciggies.
1 TheLordHighExecu 2019-03-23
The opportunity cost is far, far too great
1 Psyman2 2019-03-23
Based and sugardaddypilled.
1 TrailerParkBride 2019-03-23
Imagine believing that. If that person isn't independent yet they're going to have a really nasty surprise the first time they become solely responsible for keeping the lights on.
1 Heyjoe1818 2019-03-23
Something you learn quick is personal responsibility is highly unpopular on Reddit.
1 leparsdon 2019-03-23
Sad but true. I've been downvoted all day for saying that people who drive Uber and Lyft don't need to work for them if they can't afford to work for them. Like seriously, if you made less than minimum wage at the end of the day, just work somewhere else.
1 Leakylocks 2019-03-23
I'd drink too if I had to raise a bunch of little bastards.
1 shaneoffline 2019-03-23
I'm actually a better parent when I'm drunk
1 Phantom_Engineer 2019-03-23
I like how they pretend that the money is somehow earmarked for specific expenses, when that's not how it works at all. If she was spending 500 on daycare before and after recieving another 500 in child support spent 500 on daycare and 500 on parties, then it's not hard to see where the child support is going.
1 IDFSHILL 2019-03-23
Lmao ghetto foids aren't buying their kids shit. I've known tons of them, and almost invariably child support goes to:
A) Their own clothes/shoes/whatever else.
B) They'll throw scraps at the kids.
A buddy of mine grew up and his mom got child support. He had to eat at my house every night because she wasn't feeding him, she'd just go get smashed every time she got the money.
The bottom line is, child support payments are almost invariably abused. There's no oversight, regulation, anything. Combine that with the fact ghetto trash is gonna ghetto trash, and you end up with a bunch of kids getting fucked over because the government is retarded.
What's crazy to me is even in cases where the father has the child for 50% of the time, the foid is still getting child support. Makes literally no fucking sense.
1 xlhat 2019-03-23
How's that possible ? I can understand receiving maintenance (alimony) but child support is different right ?
1 IDFSHILL 2019-03-23
I guess fucking not. The courts are completely retarded.
1 xlhat 2019-03-23
Maybe it's a hangover from the post WW2 era when women stayed in the kitchen (although even that was a novelty because people were much poorer hence the majority of couples worked).
Still they should've started fixing this in the mid 90s.
1 IDFSHILL 2019-03-23
Literally every time a state tries to fix the archaic family court system feminist orgs march on them.
1 xlhat 2019-03-23
God, how 7% of women have this much influence ?
Omar should call this out too.
1 iprobablyneedahobby 2019-03-23
The same reason as how blue checkmarks get to decide what the most pressing social issues of the day are. They are fucking loud and the media are lazy idiots with no real convictions other than career advancement.
1 xlhat 2019-03-23
Problem is, people don't band together and tell them to fuck off.
1 WeenieHutJrSupreme 2019-03-23
Probably because no one really cares about them outside of when they fuck with something everyone likes.
1 Think_Once 2019-03-23
Because men want to fuck these 7%.
1 xlhat 2019-03-23
Bull shit they're not that attractive. Some I assume are good people.
1 Think_Once 2019-03-23
Even 99.999999% of all unattractive women get laid.
1 xlhat 2019-03-23
Silly me 😄😅. You're right.
Imagine, if men could somehow fight the thirst we really could solve so many things.
1 Think_Once 2019-03-23
Why imagine something that will never happen?
1 xlhat 2019-03-23
I'm a dreamer I guess sometimes.
Sounds silly, I know because usually I only care for facts and logic 😎.
1 iprobablyneedahobby 2019-03-23
Family courts are basically a relic of the 1960s and the nuclear family
1 leparsdon 2019-03-23
nope. You get joint custody and the man still pays 99% of the time
1 xlhat 2019-03-23
That's sexist and I mean it. Thank you for this information.
1 bussysmalls 2019-03-23
NIGGA NO YOU HAVEN'T, NO BLACK WOMAN HAS EVER BEEN FRIENDS WITH YOU, QUIT FUCKING LYIN
1 IDFSHILL 2019-03-23
I wish that were true.
1 bussysmalls 2019-03-23
Urghhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
1 CCAlkie 2019-03-23
Fuckin' sick of degenerates ruining this sub, too, pal.
1 d-amazo 2019-03-23
uh excuse me but pizzashill has traveled the world and met literally every demographic and knows perfectly how they all operate.
1 bussysmalls 2019-03-23
The closest pizza has come to traveling the world is when he went to his cousin's wedding two towns over and sat alone playing his Switch all night
1 d-amazo 2019-03-23
no way he's totally world weary and has done all sorts of stuff like that one time he bragged about knocking out a retarded kid during baseball
lol
1 bussysmalls 2019-03-23
Earlier he was LARPing as someone who had a lot of black female friends and I was like "stfu no you don't" and he was like "I WISH it wasn't true"
As in he WISHES he wasn't surrounded by basketball foids, but all these brown goddesses just can't resist the lure of his wispy mustache and fetal alcohol syndrome eyes
1 totally_not_ac3 2019-03-23
I'm so confused by what you believe pizza. Half the time you spout Chapocel shit and the other half of the time you spit MDEfugee shit. Are you the true radical centrist?
1 IDFSHILL 2019-03-23
I like the ambiguity.
1 totally_not_ac3 2019-03-23
Based
1 umar4812 2019-03-23
And pizzashilled.
1 leparsdon 2019-03-23
My dad wasn't on court ordered support but gave my mom a few hundred bucks a month. She never spent a dime on us and used that like some fucking allowance for herself.
1 iprobablyneedahobby 2019-03-23
It is fair. Well at least it isn't unfair. It is just the way it is. There are lots of upsides to having a kid while there are obviously drawbacks as well. I find the same people that always go on about the sacrifices that you have to make to be a parent (usually on facebook) are the same ones who don't want to make any sacrifices.
1 slaytina44 2019-03-23
How many of those people are actually black though?
1 Phantom_Engineer 2019-03-23
Realisticly? None.
1 Phrakturelol 2019-03-23
I just don't get why someone would choose to have a child in a 1st world country if they can't take care of their family financially. How can you claim that you love a child when you're setting them up to fail and repeat the same mistakes you're making.
1 kikorny 2019-03-23
Which one of you was this