I’ve lived with my ex for over a year i’m already resigned to being the hermit crab equivalent of a man. I have nothing to lose cept this bitch i already hate which makes me incredibly dangerous 🦇
askmen mod: Sorry but if you think you know what subreddit is for, or what that your advice is correct at all, you have other thing coming, friend
Is this the equivalent of r/truelesbian not wanting manladies in their safespace? Because if so, I can sympathize. Why would you ask for advice from a dude, and think a foid has anything to offer from a moids perspective?
Also the mod circlejerk on that post about respect for wahmen is cringey as fuck
I can help you there, as I'm the OP - the intention was to ask women to stop trying to contradict the advice of men on /r/AskMen as if they know better. A lot of the responses in that thread that ran along the lines of "she's not the one for you if x, y, z" or directly attempting to counter a comment by a man if they perceived it as negative. AskMen is an excellent resource for those actually looking for the perspective of their fellow males on issues that pertain to the male experience. Despite the straw man set up by the mod that called me a cunt (breaking rule 1 of the sub, I might add), I wasn't suggesting women shouldn't post there at all.
Yeah, I am enjoying watching them publicly wank themselves off without seeing the irony of it, when all it would have taken was a private message. Instead they have turned the Streisand effect up to 11.
I've never asked a question there, but there are plenty of men who don't fit that description who have no other outlet than the internet. Yes, there are some hilariously inept questions there but it's a resource for blokes who are too afraid of ridicule or lack the skills to resolve this by taking any action in person. There is nothing to be gained by calling them a puff and laughing at them some more. For those that are that way inclined, the entertainment value is there to read. Men have a hard enough time with the current social paradigm as it is, without us all making it harder for each other for the sake of entertainment.
Absolutely not, which is why I attempted to (politely) ask the women of the sub to consider where they are when they respond, rather than ask for moderator intervention.
I mean that's pretty reasonable lmao. I guess if somebody wants an actual sub where you only get men's answers they're gonna need to make a /r/trueaskmen or something like that.
I feel ya. I unsubbed from /r/twoxchromosomes because it just seemed like men were lurking and looking for reasons to argue with women. The point is exactly what you said, to get thoughts and opinions from a specific subset of people. It's not about creating a 'safe space' or whatever else, yet people who perceive it that way feel the need to create some form of opposition. This is why we can't have nice things, unfortunately.
I don't know which mod banned me, but I was arguing the point that top-level replies should be from men and men only. Apparently people thought this meant that I thought no one but men should be allowed to comment and all the mods jumped down my throat claiming all sorts of bullshit that wasn't true, so I turned the comment that I originally made in to an effort-post calling out all the mods on their bullshit claims, eventually almost getting back in the positives for being a dick to the mods after they were such massive assholes.
It's not worth the fight at the end of the day, it's just a subreddit. They have done all the work for me in terms of any kind of rebuttal. It would just be nice for men seeking genuine advice from other men to actually get that, rather than some idealised outside view.
Even more gutless was locking the thread after they added what they had to say while labeling OP as a pretentious cunt. OP had a valid point and made it in a respectful way.
Mods, as they typically do, got their fucking feelings hurt and decided to attempt to silence the masses. I doubt they have enough guts to wander over here for some quality debate.
Honestly r/askmen is like the only “dude” sub that I can engage in. Even if you still have that phenomenon of the “right” answer being upvoted they also won’t hesitate to tell you that girl that won’t text back is gobbling mad dick so keep it moving.
All the other ones are self flagellating lefties or blood and soil roids.
OP says that he doesnt like women devaluating men answers and ask politely to no fo that. Is ask men not ask everybody.
Mods insult OP just because he giñave his opinion.
My opinion: r/askmen mods a fucking cucks who feel superior to control other opinions and always have a bias to women in the hope one day a women will love them. Internet janitors are subhuman. Mods you dont need to defend women because women can defend themselves. Op wasnt attacking women also. Mods I bet your real life is pretty pathetic and your self steem is so low that you need to censor random people in the internet.
To think that these brave heroes do it for free! I'm glad such valiant men exist to protect women from the incel scourge trying to besmirch their pure names. Shame on you, u/throwaway_swifty, get banned!
I don't mind seeing women post in askmen, but yes, I agree that it's about the male perspective. I don't comment on askwomen for that reason- im not the one being asked. you do see men occasionally comment and sometimes it make sense to, but those subs are called what they are for a reason
Imagine being such a fucking moron that anyone who dares to say that women shouldn't try and say men's own experiences are wrong is told that they're a "pretentious cunt."
The latest and potentially most egregious of these examples has been in the "As a guy, how do you approach your girlfriend if you need emotional support?" thread. This thread literally contains an example of a woman telling the OP to disregard advice from men, in an ask men thread.
Top comment on thread: make unintelligible whining and moaning until she asks what's wrong.
And other whiny shit
I had a hearty laugh. That sub is gay and any "man" taking it seriously enough to bitch about women in it probably had it coming.
It's also prolly the best thread to ask for a foid's advice on to be honest but he just had to bitch.
I saw that post, what a shitty response from those mods, they took your shit completely out of context.
I read the post (before it got deleted) and thought what you said was completely understandable.
Then they go and start calling you a cunt and shit for it, absolutely deplorable, response from them, at least the downvote bombing they got was something positive that came out of it.
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1 SnapshillBot 2019-05-05
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1 Starship_Litterbox_C 2019-05-05
u/throwaway_swifty did nothing wrong
1 throwaway_swifty 2019-05-05
It was all an elaborate rouse to finally achieve my lifetime goal of making it into /r/Drama.
1 Tzar-Romulus 2019-05-05
Welcome 🤗
1 oss_spy 2019-05-05
So you can post bussy right
1 Dramautist 2019-05-05
🤗🤗🤗
1 DeweaponizedAutism 2019-05-05
You're stunning and brave, never forget that.
1 byobombs 2019-05-05
Is this the equivalent of r/truelesbian not wanting manladies in their safespace? Because if so, I can sympathize. Why would you ask for advice from a dude, and think a foid has anything to offer from a moids perspective?
Also the mod circlejerk on that post about respect for wahmen is cringey as fuck
1 throwaway_swifty 2019-05-05
I can help you there, as I'm the OP - the intention was to ask women to stop trying to contradict the advice of men on /r/AskMen as if they know better. A lot of the responses in that thread that ran along the lines of "she's not the one for you if x, y, z" or directly attempting to counter a comment by a man if they perceived it as negative. AskMen is an excellent resource for those actually looking for the perspective of their fellow males on issues that pertain to the male experience. Despite the straw man set up by the mod that called me a cunt (breaking rule 1 of the sub, I might add), I wasn't suggesting women shouldn't post there at all.
1 byobombs 2019-05-05
Im with you my dude 100%. Its called r/askmen not r/askmenandwomenarguetheiranswers.
1 oss_spy 2019-05-05
Yeah, that's called Monday through Sunday in the real world
1 LucidHuckleberry 2019-05-05
Oh to be sure the post was decent and raised a very fair point.
But the mod four-way was hilarious.
1 throwaway_swifty 2019-05-05
Yeah, I said elsewhere I'm tempted to buy them all gold just because it made me laugh so much.
1 LucidHuckleberry 2019-05-05
Why give janitors a tip? They work for free.
1 throwaway_swifty 2019-05-05
It's a mod 5-way now. I'm hoping I'll make the full set by the end of the day.
1 byobombs 2019-05-05
except for you, apparently. God those jannies are fucking dense.
1 throwaway_swifty 2019-05-05
Yeah, I am enjoying watching them publicly wank themselves off without seeing the irony of it, when all it would have taken was a private message. Instead they have turned the Streisand effect up to 11.
1 ExplosiveMachine 2019-05-05
Take your hand off your dick for a second there buddy, you're not as smart as you think and we're not as dumb as you think.
1 BernieMadeoffSanders 2019-05-05
THEY DO IT FOR FREE
1 aWYgdSByZWFkIHUgZ2F5 2019-05-05
lmao wtf is this gay shit?
Do real life men with balls and testosterone ever speak like this?
1 throwaway_swifty 2019-05-05
I've never asked a question there, but there are plenty of men who don't fit that description who have no other outlet than the internet. Yes, there are some hilariously inept questions there but it's a resource for blokes who are too afraid of ridicule or lack the skills to resolve this by taking any action in person. There is nothing to be gained by calling them a puff and laughing at them some more. For those that are that way inclined, the entertainment value is there to read. Men have a hard enough time with the current social paradigm as it is, without us all making it harder for each other for the sake of entertainment.
1 eextrathicc 2019-05-05
You explained it well, though I think they may have meant it as a joke (that fell rather flat)
1 TaysSecondGussy 2019-05-05
Fl*t is a gendered slur used to control whaman, please refrain.
1 Dildokin 2019-05-05
Theyre not mens, there's plenty to gain, it's enjoyable to laugh at the losers.
1 throwaway_swifty 2019-05-05
If that's what floats your boat man, all power to you.
1 Dildokin 2019-05-05
Same, hopefully one day you wont need a nerdy forum to accept you're an inapte feminine man, a twink bussy is the greatest thing to see.
1 throwaway_swifty 2019-05-05
Sounds like you've almost reached climax, having a quick read of my post history should help you finish.
1 xlhat 2019-05-05
Had he said "speaking their truth", he'd have completed the whole sissy bingo.
1 wiking85 2019-05-05
Makes sense, but do you want to have r/askmen turn into r/askwomen where there is straight up censorship in support of silly circlejerks?
1 throwaway_swifty 2019-05-05
Absolutely not, which is why I attempted to (politely) ask the women of the sub to consider where they are when they respond, rather than ask for moderator intervention.
1 wiking85 2019-05-05
Fair enough.
1 SideFumbling 2019-05-05
Women need to respect our lived experience.
1 dramasexual 2019-05-05
I mean that's pretty reasonable lmao. I guess if somebody wants an actual sub where you only get men's answers they're gonna need to make a /r/trueaskmen or something like that.
1 Osterion 2019-05-05
More like /r/asktruemen 😎
1 PurpleProboscis 2019-05-05
I feel ya. I unsubbed from /r/twoxchromosomes because it just seemed like men were lurking and looking for reasons to argue with women. The point is exactly what you said, to get thoughts and opinions from a specific subset of people. It's not about creating a 'safe space' or whatever else, yet people who perceive it that way feel the need to create some form of opposition. This is why we can't have nice things, unfortunately.
1 TSwizzlesNipples 2019-05-05
I don't know which mod banned me, but I was arguing the point that top-level replies should be from men and men only. Apparently people thought this meant that I thought no one but men should be allowed to comment and all the mods jumped down my throat claiming all sorts of bullshit that wasn't true, so I turned the comment that I originally made in to an effort-post calling out all the mods on their bullshit claims, eventually almost getting back in the positives for being a dick to the mods after they were such massive assholes.
1 throwaway_swifty 2019-05-05
It's not worth the fight at the end of the day, it's just a subreddit. They have done all the work for me in terms of any kind of rebuttal. It would just be nice for men seeking genuine advice from other men to actually get that, rather than some idealised outside view.
1 imasillyhoe 2019-05-05
r/askmen2
1 TSwizzlesNipples 2019-05-05
lol nice
1 alwaysalurker923 2019-05-05
what could the 'men' on askmen actually teach you? im sure u already know how to guzzle soy
1 wateronthebrain 2019-05-05
Fucking femsplaining smh
1 GreatDramaDragon 2019-05-05
They do it for free 🤣🤣🤣
1 yourgayXD 2019-05-05
gay af
1 MzCherryBlossom 2019-05-05
Apparently he’s a fucking bellend but not woke enough to be a cunt. Post gets tagged pretentious cunt. 🤔
1 throwaway_swifty 2019-05-05
Maybe I should start identifying as a wind type pansexual space womble and hope I gain enough woke points to qualify as a fully fledged cunt.
1 MzCherryBlossom 2019-05-05
Hang around Drama. We can help you reach your goals.
1 throwaway_swifty 2019-05-05
Subbed :D
1 BernieMadeoffSanders 2019-05-05
YIKES, REALLY?
1 I_FART_OUT_MY_BUTT69 2019-05-05
Uh wow sweaty, incel much?💄👏🏿💅🏿🤦🏿♀️
1 citoxe4321 2019-05-05
Lets unpack this
1 Rentokill_boy 2019-05-05
Internet janitors are subhuman
1 wellhellotherefellas 2019-05-05
Hahaha foid rekt
1 wiking85 2019-05-05
That's redundant
1 BernieMadeoffSanders 2019-05-05
imagine doing it for less than minimum wage
1 wellhellotherefellas 2019-05-05
GOOD point
1 MurkyCustard 2019-05-05
Uh, obviously not.
1 MzCherryBlossom 2019-05-05
Exactly.
1 LucidHuckleberry 2019-05-05
Limitations and exceptions apply, void if /u/throwaway_swifty
1 ImJustaBagofHammers 2019-05-05
They literally locked the thread.
1 BernyLomax 2019-05-05
They are gutless pukes. That's typically what gutless pukes do.
1 aWYgdSByZWFkIHUgZ2F5 2019-05-05
BECAUSE Y'ALLS CAN'T BEHAVE
1 Methmo 2019-05-05
Is nobody going to mention the oiposting?
People larping as working class Brits online is even cringier than the yallposting.
1 aWYgdSByZWFkIHUgZ2F5 2019-05-05
That guy is stealing /u/cdace's schtick
1 lyridsreign 2019-05-05
Oi mate. You got yourself a license for that there y'all?
1 ImJustaBagofHammers 2019-05-05
Yikers, there’s a lot to unpack here.
1 LucidHuckleberry 2019-05-05
A slight Eau de Misogyny
1 Pinksister 2019-05-05
/u/nickachu_ you realize that your attempt to be woke actually comes across as super misogynistic, right?
1 Iskariotes 2019-05-05
Even a broken clock is right twice a day
1 imasillyhoe 2019-05-05
The trick is to know when you're right. Then you just become a gambler and place max bets at the exact times you are scheduled to be right.
1 -Kite-Man- 2019-05-05
whats wrong with cunts?!
1 Futhermucker 2019-05-05
can you imagine them sputtering out lines like these irl lol
1 oss_spy 2019-05-05
They'd have to ask their wife's boyfriend for permission first
1 LucidHuckleberry 2019-05-05
And he won’t give it because he just bought that new Switch
1 wiking85 2019-05-05
They're inferior bussy.
1 BernyLomax 2019-05-05
Even more gutless was locking the thread after they added what they had to say while labeling OP as a pretentious cunt. OP had a valid point and made it in a respectful way.
Mods, as they typically do, got their fucking feelings hurt and decided to attempt to silence the masses. I doubt they have enough guts to wander over here for some quality debate.
1 wiking85 2019-05-05
They're internet janitors who work for free. If they can't abuse their itty bitty bits of power they'd probably commit suicide.
1 LucidHuckleberry 2019-05-05
Well invite them and find out
1 giganonce 2019-05-05
Imagine accusing someone of wanting a safe space and then locking the thread for disagreement.
1 XhotwheelsloverX 2019-05-05
He's right though
1 Finlesscod 2019-05-05
im surprised they didn't ban him
1 throwaway_swifty 2019-05-05
So am I. Particularly given this thread's appearance as well.
1 gksrnrdjlearner 2019-05-05
Meanwhile if you tried to contradict women's responses on /r/askwomen as a man you'd be banned before you even hit the save button.
1 Bored_Schoolgirl 2019-05-05
There's a reason why r/askmen is more popular than r/askwomen
1 FlexualHealing 2019-05-05
Honestly r/askmen is like the only “dude” sub that I can engage in. Even if you still have that phenomenon of the “right” answer being upvoted they also won’t hesitate to tell you that girl that won’t text back is gobbling mad dick so keep it moving.
All the other ones are self flagellating lefties or blood and soil roids.
1 I_FART_OUT_MY_BUTT69 2019-05-05
It’s one of the few subs i hang in, r/relationship_advice got very slightly better once all the cucks migrated to r/AITA.
1 ardasyenden 2019-05-05
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/bkuhnd/i_think_i_crossed_the_line_in_my_wife_and_is_open/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app
still seems like garbage to me
Entertaining garbage, though.
1 I_FART_OUT_MY_BUTT69 2019-05-05
Thos guy is such a chad at the age of 50 that his dick turned a prostitute into a wife? Yep, he’d be flagellated in r/AITA
1 Cole-187 2019-05-05
tfw you see an use of "oi" regardless of whether ironical or unironical.
4 virgins grouped together to protect the name of women, hilarious shit, cant get more reddit than that.
1 closedshop 2019-05-05
Is there any "Ask" sub that isn't retarded?
1 8HcT 2019-05-05
Ask men, not ask anybody.
OP says that he doesnt like women devaluating men answers and ask politely to no fo that. Is ask men not ask everybody.
Mods insult OP just because he giñave his opinion.
My opinion: r/askmen mods a fucking cucks who feel superior to control other opinions and always have a bias to women in the hope one day a women will love them. Internet janitors are subhuman. Mods you dont need to defend women because women can defend themselves. Op wasnt attacking women also. Mods I bet your real life is pretty pathetic and your self steem is so low that you need to censor random people in the internet.
Internet janitors are retarded.
1 yoinkyourtoink 2019-05-05
Surely report those shitty mods
1 darth_tiffany 2019-05-05
The exact same phenomenon has been noted in /r/AskWomen so I don't even know why there's drama.
1 giganonce 2019-05-05
Askwomen is usually good about shutting down the "but actually" maleoids. As they should.
1 Squirrelthing 2019-05-05
To think that these brave heroes do it for free! I'm glad such valiant men exist to protect women from the incel scourge trying to besmirch their pure names. Shame on you, u/throwaway_swifty, get banned!
1 throwaway_swifty 2019-05-05
I'm amazed I haven't been banned to be honest.
1 dubescurostep 2019-05-05
They just deleted the thread lololol butthurt mods out of touch with their sub
1 Florient 2019-05-05
I don't mind seeing women post in askmen, but yes, I agree that it's about the male perspective. I don't comment on askwomen for that reason- im not the one being asked. you do see men occasionally comment and sometimes it make sense to, but those subs are called what they are for a reason
1 ElectraUnderTheSea 2019-05-05
I like how they act so smug at finding out this has been posted here, like it's something that they are not automatically told about
1 Woolgun 2019-05-05
Keep your radicalism centered, and don't forget to also mock OP for caring who responds on an idiotic sub with 1mil+ subscribers.
/u/throwaway_swifty your thread is pathetic and you should feel bad, even if mods trumped you with their y'all can't behave.
1 throwaway_swifty 2019-05-05
Well if I should feel bad, I suppose I'd better get to work. Maybe I should talk to my spouse about my negative emotions as a result of this.
1 Woolgun 2019-05-05
Make sure you want a woman's opinion on this, not a man's, we don't want one gender talking over another!
1 aef823 2019-05-05
u/nickachu_ your name sounds familiar.
Oh right, the most downvoted r/Askmen mod.
Imagine not being able to trick incels and cat ladies into thinking you're a chad, lol.
1 nickachu_ 2019-05-05
Hi.
Big fan of your work.
Keep it up.
1 aef823 2019-05-05
And now you're a part of it, congratulations.
1 Wolkenfresser 2019-05-05
He's a janitor on the internet...
1 BernieMadeoffSanders 2019-05-05
How does it feel knowing a trans FtM who isn't taking any sort of testosterone supplement has higher T than you?
1 Corporal-Hicks 2019-05-05
I remember reading you moded a dude you were fucking.
1 GARBAGE_MACHINE 2019-05-05
Would you be able to confirm that you do it for free?
1 BonoboRises 2019-05-05
I legitimately look forward to reading your obituary when you die from obesity 😊
1 Ultrashitposter 2019-05-05
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qdC_Cu9X4wc
1 pugba 2019-05-05
Stop downvoting him retards
1 wellhellotherefellas 2019-05-05
No
1 wellhellotherefellas 2019-05-05
Imagine being such a fucking moron that anyone who dares to say that women shouldn't try and say men's own experiences are wrong is told that they're a "pretentious cunt."
1 lannister_stark 2019-05-05
We can do mean pings again??
1 BenaGD2 2019-05-05
Cucked
1 _6-12-18-24_ 2019-05-05
I had a hearty laugh. That sub is gay and any "man" taking it seriously enough to bitch about women in it probably had it coming.
It's also prolly the best thread to ask for a foid's advice on to be honest but he just had to bitch.
1 plz-dont-downvote 2019-05-05
I saw that post, what a shitty response from those mods, they took your shit completely out of context.
I read the post (before it got deleted) and thought what you said was completely understandable.
Then they go and start calling you a cunt and shit for it, absolutely deplorable, response from them, at least the downvote bombing they got was something positive that came out of it.
1 Burnnoticelover 2019-05-05
What are the odds this was written by an American?
1 -Steve_French- 2019-05-05
/u/nickachu_ why do you mod a sub called AskMen when men don't exist in Bongland?
1 HIVnotAdeathSentence 2019-05-05
I think they meant boyfriend