Divorced Man refusing to pay alimony to his ex-wife (who cheated) gets a YTA from AITA

95  2019-05-07 by hegel69

110 comments

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Yeah he's a cunt. He ran away from a court order and his own kids to another country when he couldn't get his way.

he didnt make any mention of child support, and given his wife was stay at home mom for '20+ years', his kids are probably 18+

It's still abandoning your kids. He won't be allowed back in the US freely after his stunt.

fly them out

boom

bruh

Imagine being so poor you can't afford an international trip for two every once in awhile lmao

Imagine defending a foid.

Lol imagine following the law if you donโ€™t have to.

THIS

BUT

unironically

Cope

Thotty broke her end of the contract he can break his

"The stay-at-home ploy is a classic foid move. It's impressive in the sense that the wife makes the man work while she gets inseminated by her bull, and still convince her husband that he's the alpha of the relationship. If you're a man, I would advise you to sign prenups and out your foot down when she suggests because a so-called homemaker. If anything, she is likely a homewrecker."

  • Part of Pizzashill's testimony to the joint special committee on the rise of male virginity rates. While providing a strong case for foid re-distribution, it is believed that interferance from the Israel lobby prevented his recommendations from going forward.

Pizza posting is my favorite, especially when heโ€™s testifying to congress or credited as a professor

Thanks. I try my best.

I wanna have 10+ children though

10+ children

Are you (((Catholic)))? As long you can support them all okay, you're good to go. Just don't be one of those deadbeats who forces the state to step in.

I am actually Muslim, and yes, I will have the state give me welfare to fund them, so we can take over the west ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

Brother we talked about this before. Not in front of the kufr!

Fuck off larper. It's kuffar

Sorry brother I only use correct Arabic pronunciation not pseudo mushrik pronunciation.

inshallah

I'm Muslim too though. And it's kuffar

Brother, Mohammad just visited in my dream and told me it's kufr. He also told me I should behead you. However I can't over the internet so would you fulfill the wishes of the Prophet(PBUH)?

Cope

Anyone stupid enough to marry a minimum wage gold digger deserves the inevitable cuckoning

The people who put YTA are just proving the mgtow incel who made this stort up right. Its a sad world we love in.

It's 2019. You're either with the program or a breathing ATM, or a part of the problem and need to be cancelled.

It's 2019. You're either with the program as a breathing ATM

Putting the bar for wokeness in 2019 at analingus and coprophagia seems high, but reasonable. Obviously this bar is for moids.

I subbed to read the fucked up situations Redditors find themselves in and I can tell after only a month, based off the responses and judgments, that the only two commenting groups are 15-25 year old liberal women and bitter, childless 40 year old women. There's not really an in-between.

They call it the wall for a reason.

jesus fucning Christ mate you have made me cry tears of joy. Can I PM you? I genuinely thought I was going crazy. Iโ€™ve posted on r junior doctors as Iโ€™ll be a doctor soon and I was being berated for calling some of the women sluts.

I agree 100%, the main groups must be 15-25 year old liberal women trying to enforce their views and bitter older women. They drown men out and I feel sick. I love this sub.

calm down zoomer

I hope youโ€™re enjoying life in 3rd world India!

Yeah your mom drops by for the occasional gang rape, it isn't too bad.

the only two commenting groups are 15-25 year old liberal women and bitter, childless 40 year old women

You have merely witnessed the same timeline at two points

Yeah you're not even close. The largest group is larping teenagers with no personal experience with the subject they're giving advice on. If you can't see that you're probably a teen too tbh.

The largest group is larping teenagers with no personal experience with the subject they're giving advice on.

How could we describe such people?

Perhaps... " 15-25 year old liberal women"?

What do you think?

Except it's overwhelmingly male, like the rest of reddit, and I think even your average 22 year old would have slightly more mature life views but close enough. Close enough buddy.

Happy to change my mind if you can reference something more credible than my anecdotes.

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the only two commenting groups are 15-25 year old liberal women and bitter, childless 40 year old women

That's the same group of women, LOL. 15-25 year old liberal women become the bitter, childless 40 year old woman. The fifteen years between 25 and 40 are filled with self-destructive entitlement ruining their chances of having a meaningful relationship with a man, which is what makes them bitter.

Anyone stupid enough to marry a minimum wage gold digger deserves the inevitable cuckoning

Or they're actual functional adults who understand what a marriage is. That's literally the whole point of a marriage. Don't get fucking married if you're going to cry about splitting assets.

Who hurt you?

Not a woman because I'm a functional adult who considers his actions and doesn't cry about the outcomes of personal decisions.

larping attention whore

You dont have to be a woman to get hurt I find your comment incredible sexist I suggest you delete it before you get blocked

by agreeing to get married you must accept the fact that your wife will cheat on you

The final blackpill

Why should they get half? Seems unfair if they didnโ€™t put in half the effort.

Anyway the fake as fuck story had the guy leaving the country, so the only one whoโ€™s crying is his ex wife presumably

Why should they get half?

Because that's what a fucking marriage is? Are you really not familiar with the concept? "Fair" doesn't come into this at all.

Imagine being so brainwashed you automatically dismiss the concept of fairness

Are you a literal child? I could go out and sign an employment contract for $5k under market rate tomorrow. Do you think it doesn't count because the company isn't being 'fair' to me by under paying?

I donโ€™t know man but your definition of marriage sounds like one where youโ€™re going to be very unhappy in it

Consideration can be of any amount however a contract without consideration is void.

This emotionally secure adult is definitely not sperging out hard.

splitting assets is fine, but paying 30% of your earning to your ex wife for 20 years is retarded and reason male suicide is so high

Is splitting even fine, though?

Over the years, I've heard a lot of foids in two-income households whine and compain and beg about wanting to quit and stay at home with their kids. Being able to parent full-time is a luxury, and they just can't afford it.

Everyone is making it out like stay at home momming is like this superpowered job that deserves a fat golden parachute and half the assets of their "employer." What other job on Earth gets that?

Just tabulate up the shitty market wage of a daycare worker, likely as not with no healthcare and no 401k, and send em packing with any unpaid wages, rather than base anything on a percentage of the cuck's assets or income.

y'all might not like it, but this is quite literally how alimony works. alimony is essentially giving unpaid but truly essential labor (staying home with the kids) a posthumous value after a divorce.

if you don't like it, don't marry some skank who is going to cheat on your, or just don't marry anyone period. every married man who lets his wife stay home and raise kids should know they're opening themselves up to this possibility

Yeah but "I cheated on my husband, got a divorce, and now he owes me part of his paycheck for the rest of his life" sounds like some clownworld shit.

He's legally an asshole, but I don't blame him.

"I cheated on my husband, got a divorce, and now he owes me part of his paycheck for the rest of his life"

it definitely does, but underneath that there's layers of nuance that make it more complicated.

I don't blame him

I don't either. blame the cucks who passed alimony law (spoiler alert it was a bunch of dudes)

it definitely does, but underneath that there's layers of nuance that make it more complicated.

Nah, breaking the marriage vows, which should be like breaking a contract, should negate a person having to pay to spousal to support a cheater.

It's one thing to end it because stuff isn't working anymore, it's another to get spit roasted and wanting to get paid a severance package for getting caught.

I don't either. blame the cucks who passed alimony law (spoiler alert it was a bunch of dudes)

Agreed.

bring back at-fault divorce

nuance like did she let him do anal or something? why is it so difficult to not cheat lmao.

no retard. nuance as in, "if she hadn't been rearin' little chitlins, she might have gone back to college and made something of herself"

in reality, would that have actually happened? nah. but that's the logic behind the law

Ah yes, the 25 year old minimum wage worker would have totally been making 30% of a quant's salary after 20+ years...

"if she hadn't been rearin' little chitlins, she might have gone back to college and made something of herself"

And if she wouldn't have turned into a cum depot for other dudes she may not have to worry about finances.

Oh wait, she still doesn't cause she gets to steal 30% of his lmao

This. Shouldn't have gotten married if you didn't want to pay alimony, cheating does not change shit.

For real though, cases like this can go many ways.

In some instances, man was working his ass off while the woman stayed and home, barely raising their children, and spent money on clothes and didn't even bother cooking or cleaning.

In other cases, the man pressured the woman to drop out of the work force, didn't properly allow her enough freedom to do anything, and basically made her his personal maid.

Shit sucks, after the divorce both are probably gonna be financially worse off, sometimes the alimony is justified, sometimes it isn't. The simple solution is to not get married.

this!!! so much this!!! xD

cope

This is like expecting unemployment checks after you fuck up and get fired for-cause from your job.

or just don't marry anyone period

Sounds like a plan.

If I ever got trapped by alimony I'd definitely blow my brains out. Having to live the rest of your life giving 40% of your income to Uncle Sam then 50% to your ex wife would drain my soul. Your middle class, full time job will suddenly start paying like a shitty fast food job.

Imagine getting married in current year lol

I'm getting Mexican Citizenship soon so I'd just run off to ole Mexico. Unless Mexico would extradite me, then I'd illegally immigrate to some Central American shithole.

You can just say Central America.

I'm getting Mexican Citizenship soon so I'd just run off to ole Mexico

Good luck getting your Social Security. TBH, still may be better to move, but I doubt hes gonna make much in Mexico.

Implying social security will exist when I'm older. It's over for gen Zcels ๐Ÿ˜”

It's over for gen Zcels ๐Ÿ˜”

I've seen your suicide rates, it's true.

Lmao what is it?

https://afsp.org/about-suicide/suicide-statistics/

Data is broken down in an infographic by age group.

Both boys and girls are raising, but boys are already like 4 times higher and raising faster.

boys are already like 4 times higher and raising faster

And foids attempt it more. More proof of the superioty of bussy.

Just move to the Philippines buy a wife and have her look at after your old wrinkly ass. As is tradition

No dejes que el puerto te pega en el culo on the way out dude

I'd definitely blow my brains out.

I believe you misspelled "her".

paying my ex wife forever

I don't understand how that would even work? What am I supposed to do, swim to the bottom of the lake every payday and lay piles of cash next to her? That doesn't even make sense

Your spouse actually pays tax on alimony. Not that it helps with giving them money the rest of your life

In california that is literally changing this or next year. The husband is going to have to give the money to the wife, after tax, and she gets it tax free.

That is brutal, youre getting hit for 50% more after judgement. Glad im too old to get involved in that game anymore. I wouldnt get married in cali ever

California is changing it this year so that the fucking 50% alimony you have to pay is AFTER tax. It used to be you gave it before tax, then your ex-wife had to pay the tax on it.

Also, California, after 7 years of marriage I believe it is, you are literally stuck paying alimony for fucking life.

I just don't understand the logic behind this shit. Ok, so they were accustomed to a life, that YOU worked your ass off to provide, while they stayed home and did something in return. So if you are going to pay them fucking 50% of your income for life, why aren't they fucking required to come clean your goddamn house and do the laundry still? The shit makes no fucking logical sense.

Be a man and kill her first.

all of the top comments are people saying he's not the asshole or that both of them are to blame. only like one of them are in support of the ex-wife and even that has people disagreeing.

your shitty agendapost doesn't even support your own agenda you dipshit.

your shitty agendapost doesn't even support your own agenda you dipshit.

oof the foid avengers are out in force today, v v sad

Imagine dating and marrying a foid.

Le relevant username ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿ˜‚

literally top 2 comments saying YTA and every NTA got some drama in it, whos agendaposting now dipshit.

Can't blame OP for knowing his audience. Boomers and KIAnimal types are too dumb to read. They'll believe anything you tell them as long as it fits into what they want to be true.

Imagine ever defending foids and foid defenders

I met my wife in my early 30s. She was in her mid 20s at the time. I was already well established and had made a significant amount of money working as a quant and investing my savings diligently. She on the other hand had never gone to college and was content working for basically minimum wage.

Op is a fucking retard.

I married a lazy deadbeat, and she kept being a lazy deadbeat!

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We need a cheaters registry so everyone knows to stay away from these "people".

Letโ€™s all just start go to church and slowly kick all the sluts out

Alimony is a retarded outdated concept. If women are equal then why do they need it ๐Ÿค”

/u/WanchaiWarrior better get a DNA test on those kids.

This sort of alimony is good though. This lady was accustomed to a certain lifestyle, and she's entitled to maintain it. Just like he was accustomed to sex with her, so he's entitled to get 2 blowjobs per week from her for 20 years.

Oh come on, this story was like perfectly constructed to pit two things against each other. Like keeping stay at home moms from being divorced and left destitute after they spent their entire life caring for the family was the entire point of alimony. On the other hand she fucking cheated. I call bs, story is too perfectly constructed.

Stealing your spouses side of a state ordered asset split and then calling it skipping out on "Alimony".

Yea he's a thief, a liar, and a MASSIVE prick. Sounds like the type of guy just hatable enough to cheat on.