Birth control and antidepressants especially the ones that cause delayed orgasm or never reaching it at all, just mess you up. You won’t need BC or pills if you stay single.
Seek a committed relationship and ensure you have enough resources to handle a kid if you are blessed with one. Preferably through one income, so one of you can focus on the child (which, if you do it right, pays infinitely more than a job) but the world doesn't always allow for that so at least make time for the kid.
As for antidepressants, well it's not politically correct to say this but a ton of people taking them probably don't actually need them. What they really need is a better psychological approach to suffering. Our culture doesn't do a good job explaining the benefits of eustress. Sad because you're single? Go do something about it. Don't just take a pill and silence your built-in corrective systems before consistently doing all the things we know are good for us like a proper diet, sleeping enough, and exercising.
As much as I admire the notion of a traditional nuclear family model I wouldn’t recommend it. Equality goes out the window. The person working and providing holds all the power in the marriage. Feminism in all forms grew from this model alone imo.
Antidepressants are being pushed onto people because they naturally feel fucked up over serious life issues that they miraculously couldn’t get over in two weeks. Therapy before pills should be the first line of help and support.
Antidepressants are being pushed onto people because they naturally feel fucked up over serious life issues that they miraculously couldn’t get over in two weeks.
And, perhaps, the dissolution of the traditional family and its support structure.
As for the first bit, I don't think power factors in all that much in a loving and committed relationship. Besides, any good husband will respect a good wife because she is doing something every bit as important as him.
The price of walking away from traditional family values and structure, will be a big one in the future. There have been studies that showed women's happiness plummeting after the 60's, in Western society, even though great progress was made in equality and woman rights. There's also evidence that shows married women with children are much happier and satisfied than childless women and single mothers.
As it happens, it seems deconstructing the natural order and balance of men and women's relationships leads to societal whiplash. Taking away a framework that has been present for thousands of years in our society and deeply ingrained in our psyche, will, inevitably, lead to societal decay. We're seeing the results right now.
People with PCOS who are too fat to defend themselves or run away are fun to abuse. I like to take a spoon, heat it up until it's glowing hot, then place it on the skin while they're asleep. The reaction when they wake up after the 25th time of being burned by a redhot piece of metal is amazing. You can literally piecemeal their mental stability down to complete insanity, then leave them in their own homes helpless and alone. :DDDDDDDDDD
Life consists of sexytime and nonsexytime. When you live separately, when you see your sweetie you are getting together for sexytime. Both have similar expectation. When you are married you are in each others presence for sexytime and nonsexytime, desires and expectations dont always line up. Plus kids and stress.
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2 MzCherryBlossom 2019-05-12
Birth control and antidepressants especially the ones that cause delayed orgasm or never reaching it at all, just mess you up. You won’t need BC or pills if you stay single.
1 heretobefriends 2019-05-12
You also don't need either if you adopt personal responsibility and live a traditional lifestyle.
1 MzCherryBlossom 2019-05-12
Traditional lifestyle? Please do go on, I’m all ears,
1 heretobefriends 2019-05-12
Sure thing.
Seek a committed relationship and ensure you have enough resources to handle a kid if you are blessed with one. Preferably through one income, so one of you can focus on the child (which, if you do it right, pays infinitely more than a job) but the world doesn't always allow for that so at least make time for the kid.
As for antidepressants, well it's not politically correct to say this but a ton of people taking them probably don't actually need them. What they really need is a better psychological approach to suffering. Our culture doesn't do a good job explaining the benefits of eustress. Sad because you're single? Go do something about it. Don't just take a pill and silence your built-in corrective systems before consistently doing all the things we know are good for us like a proper diet, sleeping enough, and exercising.
In conclusion, dude bussy lmao.
1 MzCherryBlossom 2019-05-12
As much as I admire the notion of a traditional nuclear family model I wouldn’t recommend it. Equality goes out the window. The person working and providing holds all the power in the marriage. Feminism in all forms grew from this model alone imo.
Antidepressants are being pushed onto people because they naturally feel fucked up over serious life issues that they miraculously couldn’t get over in two weeks. Therapy before pills should be the first line of help and support.
1 heretobefriends 2019-05-12
And, perhaps, the dissolution of the traditional family and its support structure.
As for the first bit, I don't think power factors in all that much in a loving and committed relationship. Besides, any good husband will respect a good wife because she is doing something every bit as important as him.
1 MzCherryBlossom 2019-05-12
I’d respect my good husband for being a stay at home daddy.
1 heretobefriends 2019-05-12
Sure, whatever works. The important person is the kid.
1 MzCherryBlossom 2019-05-12
Tru
1 FoidBlaster 2019-05-12
The price of walking away from traditional family values and structure, will be a big one in the future. There have been studies that showed women's happiness plummeting after the 60's, in Western society, even though great progress was made in equality and woman rights. There's also evidence that shows married women with children are much happier and satisfied than childless women and single mothers.
As it happens, it seems deconstructing the natural order and balance of men and women's relationships leads to societal whiplash. Taking away a framework that has been present for thousands of years in our society and deeply ingrained in our psyche, will, inevitably, lead to societal decay. We're seeing the results right now.
1 SnapshillBot 2019-05-12
People with PCOS who are too fat to defend themselves or run away are fun to abuse. I like to take a spoon, heat it up until it's glowing hot, then place it on the skin while they're asleep. The reaction when they wake up after the 25th time of being burned by a redhot piece of metal is amazing. You can literally piecemeal their mental stability down to complete insanity, then leave them in their own homes helpless and alone. :DDDDDDDDDD
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1 janniesRfags 2019-05-12
God why do they do this
1 -Steve_French- 2019-05-12
/u/Blessedisthedog if you ever wondered why you're a permavirgin, this is why
Absolutely revolting
2 BernieMadeoffSanders 2019-05-12
People who use "sexy time" "adulting" or any of those other borderline mentally retarded terms should be the first up against the wall
1 -Steve_French- 2019-05-12
Just be happy knowing that they'll always be lonely failures
1 heretobefriends 2019-05-12
Apparently he was a precinct captain for Bill Clinton's first campaign. This is decades into adulthood.
1 seshfan2 2019-05-12
Marriagecucks absolutely BTFO. There's some serious cope in that thread.