I hope that this is the end. r/Drama has a unique way of bringing out the worst in people. It really does, I think. The dynamic here is just so fucking toxic and it turns people into the worst possible people they can be.
Drama is an addiction. It should be classified as something more like heroine or meth than a game.
The legacy of Drama has been written large in blood, quite literally. Several Drama posters have committed mayocide, and this place enabled their downward spirals. u/DarqWolff's insanity was made far worse by this place. I've come to the conclusion that the internet, as a social platform, was a mistake.
It radicalizes people by isolating them with other people just like them and so they spiral into the worst versions of themselves. Drama made me a worse person, and it's made most of you worse people. It's been the breeding ground of pedophile groomers, alt-right killers, and suicidal narcissists. This place is a total fucking shithole and I spent three years of my life that I'll never get back immersed in it. It was a total waste and I'm going to regret this period of my life for the rest of my existence as will most of you.
Even the most moral people have been made worse for being here. I think that the fundamental issue with Drama is that due to the way reputations work, betrayal, secret cabals, two-faced bs, and bad faith negotiation isn't just prioritized, it's the only effective way to operate. Being a huge piece of shit to everybody around you and tearing them down like crabs in a bucket isn't just a viable strategy, it's actually the only viable strategy once Drama reached a certain size. It's all just a bunch of assholes circlejerking over how bad all the other assholes are, because it's impossible to do anything else short of outright genociding anybody who poses any sort of threat to Drama's security and dominance.
That's one of the biggest problems in MGTOW. The Cognitive Dissidence.
If you believe that women will only go for douchebags so long as they are attractive, while nice guys™️ are left out, then ok.
But if you ALSO believe that men are whipped for women who are attractive, then that's clearly not a gendered issue, and all it means is that just about anyone can get whipped, men or women.
The issue is that most MGTOWs believe in both of those things at the same time, while claiming it's a gendered issue.
Basically:
*Women whipped by attractive men? Dumb broads who are shallow as hell.
*Men whipped by attractive women? Clearly good boys who are manipulated and don't know any better.
Yep yep. Good points. I always assumed MGTOWs were just the angry boomers that try to rant at you about women in bars, hard to believe younger dudes getting roped into that.
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I hope that this is the end. r/Drama has a unique way of bringing out the worst in people. It really does, I think. The dynamic here is just so fucking toxic and it turns people into the worst possible people they can be.
Drama is an addiction. It should be classified as something more like heroine or meth than a game.
The legacy of Drama has been written large in blood, quite literally. Several Drama posters have committed mayocide, and this place enabled their downward spirals. u/DarqWolff's insanity was made far worse by this place. I've come to the conclusion that the internet, as a social platform, was a mistake.
It radicalizes people by isolating them with other people just like them and so they spiral into the worst versions of themselves. Drama made me a worse person, and it's made most of you worse people. It's been the breeding ground of pedophile groomers, alt-right killers, and suicidal narcissists. This place is a total fucking shithole and I spent three years of my life that I'll never get back immersed in it. It was a total waste and I'm going to regret this period of my life for the rest of my existence as will most of you.
Even the most moral people have been made worse for being here. I think that the fundamental issue with Drama is that due to the way reputations work, betrayal, secret cabals, two-faced bs, and bad faith negotiation isn't just prioritized, it's the only effective way to operate. Being a huge piece of shit to everybody around you and tearing them down like crabs in a bucket isn't just a viable strategy, it's actually the only viable strategy once Drama reached a certain size. It's all just a bunch of assholes circlejerking over how bad all the other assholes are, because it's impossible to do anything else short of outright genociding anybody who poses any sort of threat to Drama's security and dominance.
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1 TaysSecondGussy 2019-05-29
Why do incels do this? Of course the foids will chat up the steaming hunk of man no matter what the shit says, are moids no different?
Maybe MGTOW is, but they are the biggest autists of the man o’ sphere.
1 AnarchoTaylorist 2019-05-29
Honestly yea.
That's one of the biggest problems in MGTOW. The Cognitive Dissidence.
If you believe that women will only go for douchebags so long as they are attractive, while nice guys™️ are left out, then ok.
But if you ALSO believe that men are whipped for women who are attractive, then that's clearly not a gendered issue, and all it means is that just about anyone can get whipped, men or women.
The issue is that most MGTOWs believe in both of those things at the same time, while claiming it's a gendered issue.
Basically: *Women whipped by attractive men? Dumb broads who are shallow as hell.
*Men whipped by attractive women? Clearly good boys who are manipulated and don't know any better.
It's dumb as hell.
1 FoidBlaster 2019-05-29
Incels are completely right about some things but the problem is they're so fucking pathetic and unlikable that you can't take them seriously.
1 AnarchoTaylorist 2019-05-29
Oh without a doubt. Although this example is where they are definitely wrong.
You can counter literally any incel-bate post like OP's by just going on r/relationship_advice and seeing men do the exact same shit.
1 TaysSecondGussy 2019-05-29
Yep yep. Good points. I always assumed MGTOWs were just the angry boomers that try to rant at you about women in bars, hard to believe younger dudes getting roped into that.
1 Seattle_Bussy_Lmao 2019-05-29
Dissonance* but you’re spot on